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Volksrust Recorder - Column / Rubrieke10 Recorder 12 June 2015
ChangeYourStory
With Jacques de Villiers
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True Grit
Wees oor niks
besorg nie
Fil. 4:6 Wees oor niks besorg nie, maar laatjulle begeertes in alles deur gebed ensmeking met danksegging bekend word byGod.Ek weet nie van ’n mens wat hom/haar niebekommer nie. Ons kyk soms na mense endit wil voorkom asof hulle geenbekommernisse het nie maar diep in hullegemoed dra hulle soms baie swaar laste. Wathelp die mens se bekommernisse? Watverander die mens se bekommernisse om dieprobleme op te los. Hoegenaamd niks! Dieuitwerking van bekommernisse het gewoonliktot gevolg dat mense se energie getap worden dit lei dikwels tot allerlei siektes. Medicibeweer dat ’n baie groot persentasie vansiektes stresverwant is.Luk. 12:24-26 Kyk na die kraaie, want hullesaai nie en hulle maai nie; hulle het geenvoorraadkamer of skuur nie, en tog voed Godhulle. Hoeveel meer is julle nie werd as dievoëls nie! En wie onder julle kan, deur homte kwel, een el by sy lengte voeg? As julledan selfs nie die geringste kan doen nie,waarom kwel julle jul oor die ander dinge?Jou bekommernisse steel jou blydskap. Jou
bekommernisse sê ook “God is nie in beheernie en Hy sal nie vir jou sorg nie.Paulus het hierdie waarheid neergepen: Hand.20:24 Maar ek bekommer my glad nie en ek agook my lewe vir myself nie dierbaar nie, sodatek met blydskap my loopbaan kan volbringen die bediening wat ek van die Here Jesusontvang het, om kragtig te getuig vir dieevangelie van die genade van God.Hoe kan ons getuies wees wanneer onsbekommernisse so duidelik in ons lewens is?Hoe kan ons van God se getrouheid getuigwanneer ons in die grond gedruk word deurons laste? Ons kan nie! Wanneer ’n topatleet aantree vir bv. die honderd meter resiesdan het hy/sy die ligste van klere aan. Ek hetnog nooit iemand met weermagstewels en ’nrugsak sien aantree vir ’n kort snel wedrennie. Hoekom? Hulle wil nie enige ekstra gewigof hindernis hê wat hulle spoed kan affekteernie!Heb. 12:1, 2 Daarom dan, terwyl ons so ‘ngroot wolk van getuies rondom ons het, laatons ook elke las aflê en die sonde wat ons somaklik omring, en met volharding die wedlooploop wat voor ons lê, die oog gevestig opJesus, die Leidsman en Voleinder van diegeloof, wat vir die vreugde wat Homvoorgehou is, die kruis verdra het, die skandeverag het en aan die regterkant van die troonvan God gaan sit het. Bekommernis breekjou spoed en tap jou energie.Spr. 3:5 Vertrou op die HERE met jou helehart en steun nie op jou eie insig nie. KenHom in al jou weë, dan sal Hy jou paaiegelykmaak. Wees nie wys in jou eie oë nie;vrees die HERE, en wyk af van die kwaad; ditsal genesing wees vir jou liggaam enverkwikking vir jou gebeente.Groete in Sy Naam.Ds. Jan Keyser
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Are your employees fully engaged at work?Chances are, they’re not. According to a studydone by Dale Carnegie Training, three quartersof employees reported they don’t feel engagedat work.But one of the biggest factors that made peoplefeel engaged was a positive relationship withtheir immediate supervisor. Managers have ahuge influence on how well employees perform— and the results are not always based onwhether you crack the whip or offer the bestrewards. Often, it has much more to do withinterpersonal relationships.So how can you cultivate more engagementand success from your team? Try doing thesefive things every single day:Lead by example.As a leader, you’re always being watched. Youcould view this negatively, or you could see itas an opportunity. Employees feel resentfulwhen they are asked to do things they believetheir superiors would not or could not do, sowalk the talk. This goes not just for work tasksbut also for attitude; if you’d like to cultivate amore cheerful attitude in the workplace, startby being more cheerful.Ask questions — and listen to the answers.Nothing will breed resentment anddisengagement faster than the proverbial“suggestion box” that never gets opened. Thebest leaders regularly talk to their employeesand ask what’s going well and what’s not.When you get feedback about something thatisn’t working, really listen to it, take it to heart,and decide how you can respond. It may bethat you can’t immediately make a change (forany number of reasons) but just letting anemployee know that they’ve been heard andthat you’re taking their concerns seriously —not simply paying them lip service — isimportant.Give constructive feedback.No one likes being told they’re doing somethingwrong. But people do like to know if there’s afaster/better/easier way to accomplish a task.Sandwiching constructive feedback with praiseis another good habit that will help employeesfeel both appreciated and supported.
Actively build your team.If you’re not thinking about how to buildor grow your team when you’re not activelyhiring for a position, you’re missing a keycomponent of being a strong leader. Lookfor ways you can mentor, teach, and trainyour existing staff to grow beyond the skillssets for which they were originally hired.And when it is time to fill a position, fill itwith care, seeking not just a warm body tofill a chair, but the right combination ofpersonality and skills to be an asset to yourteam.Take care of yourself.As part of leading by example, take the timeand the effort to take care of yourself.Exercise, take breaks, and make sure youget enough sleep. If your team members seethat you prioritise self-care as a means tobetter productivity, they will do the same.If you doggedly work through lunch, worklate, and cram in extra work on the weekendsthey may feel pressure to do the same —even when science shows that takingappropriate breaks will make everyone morefocused and productive.These tips may seem simple, but if youactively build them into your days, you willfind that you become a better leader — andby association, your employees becomemore engaged, more productive, andhappier as well.What would you add to this list? Do youhave a daily habit that has helped youbecome a better manager? Please share yourexperiences for the benefit of others in thecomments below.You are more than welcome to respond tothis article of Bernard Marr, that waspublished online.For more info please contact any of theBusiness Chamber Committee members at:
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I seldom have a pity party these days.You know, where you feel sorry foryourself and think the world owes yousomething.But, sometimes I do lapse and come upwith the pathetic refrain, “Why me?”Of course, when I step back and have alook at my life I see that it is fine. In fact,I’ve been given more than my due.Goodness, I could have been born in thedark ages. If you lived beyond 30, it wasa miracle. I’m 52 in July and rather spryfor my age, even if I say so myself.On the rare occasion that I do feel sorryfor myself, I look for people who haveovercome bigger odds than I’ll ever haveto. It helps put my lot into perspective.I doubt I’ll ever have to face whatAmerican bombardier, Louis Zamperini
faced in World War 2. He survived 47days stranded at sea by catching andkilling hungry sharks and drinking thewarm blood of albatrosses – only to becaptured by the Japanese and horrificallytortured for years in their most brutalPOW camps.Let’s consider 17-year-old JulianeKoepcke, who in 1971 was flying overthe Peruvian rainforest with her motherwhen her plane was hit by lightning. Shesurvived a 3,2 kilometre fall and survivedmore than 10 days alone in the junglebefore she found help.Closer to home I look at Billy Selekanewww.billyselekanespeaks.com, who ekedout a living on the streets of Tembisa inhis bare feet. Today, he is one of the topprofessional speakers in South Africa and
a best-selling author, who has been inductedinto the Southern African Speakers Hallof Fame and received the DistinguishedTembisan Award for achievement.Battling to study? Take a leaf out of Africa’sgreatest explorer, Scot, David Livingstone’s(1813 – 1873) book. At the age of 10 hebegan working at a local cotton mill. Hewent to school each evening for two hoursafter a 12-hour shift at work. Thus, helearned Latin, Greek and mathematics andwon a place at Glasgow University.Or take Jean-Dominique Bauby who whenhe was editor-in-chief of French Ellemagazine suffered a massive stroke whichleft him with locked-in syndrome. He wrotehis memoir The Diving Bell and TheButterfly by blinking his left eyelid. Hewrote the entire book in 10 months (fourhours a day). It went on to become anumber one bestseller across Europe. Itstotal sales today are in the millions. OnMarch 7, 1997, two days after the book waspublished, Bauby died of pneumonia.What makes these unique individuals
different to those of us who moan andcomplain about our lot?Let’s unpack some of their traits. Theydon’t have a victim mentality. Theydon’t believe that this world or anyonein it has a custodial duty towards them.They take 100% responsibility for theiractions. They make a firm decision andthen act on it 100%. They don’t deviateoff the path. They have a compellingvision that keeps them going. They havewhat is called, true grit.