True Grit

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Volksrust Recorder - Column / Rubrieke 10 Recorder 12 June 2015 Change Your Story With Jacques de Villiers For further information: Jacques de Villiers [email protected] 082 906 3693 True Grit Wees oor niks besorg nie Fil. 4:6 Wees oor niks besorg nie, maar laat julle begeertes in alles deur gebed en smeking met danksegging bekend word by God. Ek weet nie van ’n mens wat hom/haar nie bekommer nie. Ons kyk soms na mense en dit wil voorkom asof hulle geen bekommernisse het nie maar diep in hulle gemoed dra hulle soms baie swaar laste. Wat help die mens se bekommernisse? Wat verander die mens se bekommernisse om die probleme op te los. Hoegenaamd niks! Die uitwerking van bekommernisse het gewoonlik tot gevolg dat mense se energie getap word en dit lei dikwels tot allerlei siektes. Medici beweer dat ’n baie groot persentasie van siektes stresverwant is. Luk. 12:24-26 Kyk na die kraaie, want hulle saai nie en hulle maai nie; hulle het geen voorraadkamer of skuur nie, en tog voed God hulle. Hoeveel meer is julle nie werd as die voëls nie! En wie onder julle kan, deur hom te kwel, een el by sy lengte voeg? As julle dan selfs nie die geringste kan doen nie, waarom kwel julle jul oor die ander dinge? Jou bekommernisse steel jou blydskap. Jou bekommernisse sê ook “God is nie in beheer nie en Hy sal nie vir jou sorg nie. Paulus het hierdie waarheid neergepen: Hand. 20:24 Maar ek bekommer my glad nie en ek ag ook my lewe vir myself nie dierbaar nie, sodat ek met blydskap my loopbaan kan volbring en die bediening wat ek van die Here Jesus ontvang het, om kragtig te getuig vir die evangelie van die genade van God. Hoe kan ons getuies wees wanneer ons bekommernisse so duidelik in ons lewens is? Hoe kan ons van God se getrouheid getuig wanneer ons in die grond gedruk word deur ons laste? Ons kan nie! Wanneer ’n top atleet aantree vir bv. die honderd meter resies dan het hy/sy die ligste van klere aan. Ek het nog nooit iemand met weermagstewels en ’n rugsak sien aantree vir ’n kort snel wedren nie. Hoekom? Hulle wil nie enige ekstra gewig of hindernis hê wat hulle spoed kan affekteer nie! Heb. 12:1, 2 Daarom dan, terwyl ons so ‘n groot wolk van getuies rondom ons het, laat ons ook elke las aflê en die sonde wat ons so maklik omring, en met volharding die wedloop loop wat voor ons lê, die oog gevestig op Jesus, die Leidsman en V oleinder van die geloof, wat vir die vreugde wat Hom voorgehou is, die kruis verdra het, die skande verag het en aan die regterkant van die troon van God gaan sit het. Bekommernis breek jou spoed en tap jou energie. Spr. 3:5 Vertrou op die HERE met jou hele hart en steun nie op jou eie insig nie. Ken Hom in al jou weë, dan sal Hy jou paaie gelykmaak. Wees nie wys in jou eie oë nie; vrees die HERE, en wyk af van die kwaad; dit sal genesing wees vir jou liggaam en verkwikking vir jou gebeente. Groete in Sy Naam. Ds. Jan Keyser Volksrust Seme Business Column Willem Hüsselmann - 082 415 7725 Freddie Kapp - 017 735 4444 Johan Botha - 082 335 7274 Ashraf Moola - 082 558 5515 Ahmed Chotia - 082 554 4886 Are your employees fully engaged at work? Chances are, they’re not. According to a study done by Dale Carnegie Training, three quarters of employees reported they don’t feel engaged at work. But one of the biggest factors that made people feel engaged was a positive relationship with their immediate supervisor. Managers have a huge influence on how well employees perform — and the results are not always based on whether you crack the whip or offer the best rewards. Often, it has much more to do with interpersonal relationships. So how can you cultivate more engagement and success from your team? Try doing these five things every single day: Lead by example. As a leader, you’re always being watched. You could view this negatively, or you could see it as an opportunity. Employees feel resentful when they are asked to do things they believe their superiors would not or could not do, so walk the talk. This goes not just for work tasks but also for attitude; if you’d like to cultivate a more cheerful attitude in the workplace, start by being more cheerful. Ask questions — and listen to the answers. Nothing will breed resentment and disengagement faster than the proverbial “suggestion box” that never gets opened. The best leaders regularly talk to their employees and ask what’s going well and what’s not. When you get feedback about something that isn’t working, really listen to it, take it to heart, and decide how you can respond. It may be that you can’t immediately make a change (for any number of reasons) but just letting an employee know that they’ve been heard and that you’re taking their concerns seriously — not simply paying them lip service — is important. Give constructive feedback. No one likes being told they’re doing something wrong. But people do like to know if there’s a faster/better/easier way to accomplish a task. Sandwiching constructive feedback with praise is another good habit that will help employees feel both appreciated and supported. Actively build your team. If you’re not thinking about how to build or grow your team when you’re not actively hiring for a position, you’re missing a key component of being a strong leader. Look for ways you can mentor, teach, and train your existing staff to grow beyond the skills sets for which they were originally hired. And when it is time to fill a position, fill it with care, seeking not just a warm body to fill a chair, but the right combination of personality and skills to be an asset to your team. Take care of yourself. As part of leading by example, take the time and the effort to take care of yourself. Exercise, take breaks, and make sure you get enough sleep. If your team members see that you prioritise self-care as a means to better productivity, they will do the same. If you doggedly work through lunch, work late, and cram in extra work on the weekends they may feel pressure to do the same — even when science shows that taking appropriate breaks will make everyone more focused and productive. These tips may seem simple, but if you actively build them into your days, you will find that you become a better leader — and by association, your employees become more engaged, more productive, and happier as well. What would you add to this list? Do you have a daily habit that has helped you become a better manager? Please share your experiences for the benefit of others in the comments below. You are more than welcome to respond to this article of Bernard Marr, that was published online. For more info please contact any of the Business Chamber Committee members at: 5 Things Great Managers Do Every Day To advertise in the Recorder please contact us 017 735 1532 I seldom have a pity party these days. You know, where you feel sorry for yourself and think the world owes you something. But, sometimes I do lapse and come up with the pathetic refrain, “Why me?” Of course, when I step back and have a look at my life I see that it is fine. In fact, I’ve been given more than my due. Goodness, I could have been born in the dark ages. If you lived beyond 30, it was a miracle. I’m 52 in July and rather spry for my age, even if I say so myself. On the rare occasion that I do feel sorry for myself, I look for people who have overcome bigger odds than I’ll ever have to. It helps put my lot into perspective. I doubt I’ll ever have to face what American bombardier, Louis Zamperini faced in World War 2. He survived 47 days stranded at sea by catching and killing hungry sharks and drinking the warm blood of albatrosses – only to be captured by the Japanese and horrifically tortured for years in their most brutal POW camps. Let’s consider 17-year-old Juliane Koepcke, who in 1971 was flying over the Peruvian rainforest with her mother when her plane was hit by lightning. She survived a 3,2 kilometre fall and survived more than 10 days alone in the jungle before she found help. Closer to home I look at Billy Selekane www .billyselekanespeaks.com, who eked out a living on the streets of Tembisa in his bare feet. Today, he is one of the top professional speakers in South Africa and a best-selling author, who has been inducted into the Southern African Speakers Hall of Fame and received the Distinguished Tembisan Award for achievement. Battling to study? Take a leaf out of Africa’s greatest explorer, Scot, David Livingstone’s (1813 – 1873) book. At the age of 10 he began working at a local cotton mill. He went to school each evening for two hours after a 12-hour shift at work. Thus, he learned Latin, Greek and mathematics and won a place at Glasgow University. Or take Jean-Dominique Bauby who when he was editor-in-chief of French Elle magazine suffered a massive stroke which left him with locked-in syndrome. He wrote his memoir The Diving Bell and The Butterfly by blinking his left eyelid. He wrote the entire book in 10 months (four hours a day). It went on to become a number one bestseller across Europe. Its total sales today are in the millions. On March 7, 1997, two days after the book was published, Bauby died of pneumonia. What makes these unique individuals different to those of us who moan and complain about our lot? Let’s unpack some of their traits. They don’t have a victim mentality. They don’t believe that this world or anyone in it has a custodial duty towards them. They take 100% responsibility for their actions. They make a firm decision and then act on it 100%. They don’t deviate off the path. They have a compelling vision that keeps them going. They have what is called, true grit.

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Volksrust Recorder - Column / Rubrieke10 Recorder 12 June 2015

ChangeYourStory

With Jacques de Villiers

For further information:Jacques de [email protected] 906 3693

True Grit

Wees oor niks

besorg nie

Fil. 4:6 Wees oor niks besorg nie, maar laatjulle begeertes in alles deur gebed ensmeking met danksegging bekend word byGod.Ek weet nie van ’n mens wat hom/haar niebekommer nie. Ons kyk soms na mense endit wil voorkom asof hulle geenbekommernisse het nie maar diep in hullegemoed dra hulle soms baie swaar laste. Wathelp die mens se bekommernisse? Watverander die mens se bekommernisse om dieprobleme op te los. Hoegenaamd niks! Dieuitwerking van bekommernisse het gewoonliktot gevolg dat mense se energie getap worden dit lei dikwels tot allerlei siektes. Medicibeweer dat ’n baie groot persentasie vansiektes stresverwant is.Luk. 12:24-26 Kyk na die kraaie, want hullesaai nie en hulle maai nie; hulle het geenvoorraadkamer of skuur nie, en tog voed Godhulle. Hoeveel meer is julle nie werd as dievoëls nie! En wie onder julle kan, deur homte kwel, een el by sy lengte voeg? As julledan selfs nie die geringste kan doen nie,waarom kwel julle jul oor die ander dinge?Jou bekommernisse steel jou blydskap. Jou

bekommernisse sê ook “God is nie in beheernie en Hy sal nie vir jou sorg nie.Paulus het hierdie waarheid neergepen: Hand.20:24 Maar ek bekommer my glad nie en ek agook my lewe vir myself nie dierbaar nie, sodatek met blydskap my loopbaan kan volbringen die bediening wat ek van die Here Jesusontvang het, om kragtig te getuig vir dieevangelie van die genade van God.Hoe kan ons getuies wees wanneer onsbekommernisse so duidelik in ons lewens is?Hoe kan ons van God se getrouheid getuigwanneer ons in die grond gedruk word deurons laste? Ons kan nie! Wanneer ’n topatleet aantree vir bv. die honderd meter resiesdan het hy/sy die ligste van klere aan. Ek hetnog nooit iemand met weermagstewels en ’nrugsak sien aantree vir ’n kort snel wedrennie. Hoekom? Hulle wil nie enige ekstra gewigof hindernis hê wat hulle spoed kan affekteernie!Heb. 12:1, 2 Daarom dan, terwyl ons so ‘ngroot wolk van getuies rondom ons het, laatons ook elke las aflê en die sonde wat ons somaklik omring, en met volharding die wedlooploop wat voor ons lê, die oog gevestig opJesus, die Leidsman en Voleinder van diegeloof, wat vir die vreugde wat Homvoorgehou is, die kruis verdra het, die skandeverag het en aan die regterkant van die troonvan God gaan sit het. Bekommernis breekjou spoed en tap jou energie.Spr. 3:5 Vertrou op die HERE met jou helehart en steun nie op jou eie insig nie. KenHom in al jou weë, dan sal Hy jou paaiegelykmaak. Wees nie wys in jou eie oë nie;vrees die HERE, en wyk af van die kwaad; ditsal genesing wees vir jou liggaam enverkwikking vir jou gebeente.Groete in Sy Naam.Ds. Jan Keyser

Volksrust SemeBusiness Column

Willem Hüsselmann - 082 415 7725Freddie Kapp - 017 735 4444Johan Botha - 082 335 7274Ashraf Moola - 082 558 5515Ahmed Chotia - 082 554 4886

Are your employees fully engaged at work?Chances are, they’re not. According to a studydone by Dale Carnegie Training, three quartersof employees reported they don’t feel engagedat work.But one of the biggest factors that made peoplefeel engaged was a positive relationship withtheir immediate supervisor. Managers have ahuge influence on how well employees perform— and the results are not always based onwhether you crack the whip or offer the bestrewards. Often, it has much more to do withinterpersonal relationships.So how can you cultivate more engagementand success from your team? Try doing thesefive things every single day:Lead by example.As a leader, you’re always being watched. Youcould view this negatively, or you could see itas an opportunity. Employees feel resentfulwhen they are asked to do things they believetheir superiors would not or could not do, sowalk the talk. This goes not just for work tasksbut also for attitude; if you’d like to cultivate amore cheerful attitude in the workplace, startby being more cheerful.Ask questions — and listen to the answers.Nothing will breed resentment anddisengagement faster than the proverbial“suggestion box” that never gets opened. Thebest leaders regularly talk to their employeesand ask what’s going well and what’s not.When you get feedback about something thatisn’t working, really listen to it, take it to heart,and decide how you can respond. It may bethat you can’t immediately make a change (forany number of reasons) but just letting anemployee know that they’ve been heard andthat you’re taking their concerns seriously —not simply paying them lip service — isimportant.Give constructive feedback.No one likes being told they’re doing somethingwrong. But people do like to know if there’s afaster/better/easier way to accomplish a task.Sandwiching constructive feedback with praiseis another good habit that will help employeesfeel both appreciated and supported.

Actively build your team.If you’re not thinking about how to buildor grow your team when you’re not activelyhiring for a position, you’re missing a keycomponent of being a strong leader. Lookfor ways you can mentor, teach, and trainyour existing staff to grow beyond the skillssets for which they were originally hired.And when it is time to fill a position, fill itwith care, seeking not just a warm body tofill a chair, but the right combination ofpersonality and skills to be an asset to yourteam.Take care of yourself.As part of leading by example, take the timeand the effort to take care of yourself.Exercise, take breaks, and make sure youget enough sleep. If your team members seethat you prioritise self-care as a means tobetter productivity, they will do the same.If you doggedly work through lunch, worklate, and cram in extra work on the weekendsthey may feel pressure to do the same —even when science shows that takingappropriate breaks will make everyone morefocused and productive.These tips may seem simple, but if youactively build them into your days, you willfind that you become a better leader — andby association, your employees becomemore engaged, more productive, andhappier as well.What would you add to this list? Do youhave a daily habit that has helped youbecome a better manager? Please share yourexperiences for the benefit of others in thecomments below.You are more than welcome to respond tothis article of Bernard Marr, that waspublished online.For more info please contact any of theBusiness Chamber Committee members at:

5 Things Great ManagersDo Every Day

To advertise in the

Recorder please

contact us

017 735 1532

I seldom have a pity party these days.You know, where you feel sorry foryourself and think the world owes yousomething.But, sometimes I do lapse and come upwith the pathetic refrain, “Why me?”Of course, when I step back and have alook at my life I see that it is fine. In fact,I’ve been given more than my due.Goodness, I could have been born in thedark ages. If you lived beyond 30, it wasa miracle. I’m 52 in July and rather spryfor my age, even if I say so myself.On the rare occasion that I do feel sorryfor myself, I look for people who haveovercome bigger odds than I’ll ever haveto. It helps put my lot into perspective.I doubt I’ll ever have to face whatAmerican bombardier, Louis Zamperini

faced in World War 2. He survived 47days stranded at sea by catching andkilling hungry sharks and drinking thewarm blood of albatrosses – only to becaptured by the Japanese and horrificallytortured for years in their most brutalPOW camps.Let’s consider 17-year-old JulianeKoepcke, who in 1971 was flying overthe Peruvian rainforest with her motherwhen her plane was hit by lightning. Shesurvived a 3,2 kilometre fall and survivedmore than 10 days alone in the junglebefore she found help.Closer to home I look at Billy Selekanewww.billyselekanespeaks.com, who ekedout a living on the streets of Tembisa inhis bare feet. Today, he is one of the topprofessional speakers in South Africa and

a best-selling author, who has been inductedinto the Southern African Speakers Hallof Fame and received the DistinguishedTembisan Award for achievement.Battling to study? Take a leaf out of Africa’sgreatest explorer, Scot, David Livingstone’s(1813 – 1873) book. At the age of 10 hebegan working at a local cotton mill. Hewent to school each evening for two hoursafter a 12-hour shift at work. Thus, helearned Latin, Greek and mathematics andwon a place at Glasgow University.Or take Jean-Dominique Bauby who whenhe was editor-in-chief of French Ellemagazine suffered a massive stroke whichleft him with locked-in syndrome. He wrotehis memoir The Diving Bell and TheButterfly by blinking his left eyelid. Hewrote the entire book in 10 months (fourhours a day). It went on to become anumber one bestseller across Europe. Itstotal sales today are in the millions. OnMarch 7, 1997, two days after the book waspublished, Bauby died of pneumonia.What makes these unique individuals

different to those of us who moan andcomplain about our lot?Let’s unpack some of their traits. Theydon’t have a victim mentality. Theydon’t believe that this world or anyonein it has a custodial duty towards them.They take 100% responsibility for theiractions. They make a firm decision andthen act on it 100%. They don’t deviateoff the path. They have a compellingvision that keeps them going. They havewhat is called, true grit.