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How to Get Girls (Part I)

February 12, 2014 By Sonny 102 Comments

Here we go. The hot topic. “How o you get gir!s"# How o you pic$ up chic$s"# These are%uestions guys as$ themse!&es a!! the time. 'ost ues o not $now how to get gir!s. (r theyha&e an iea but they either on)t care *an wi!! +ust sett!e or anything- or they ha&e an iea

but +ust on)t want to accept it an wi!! o e&erything they can to a&oi truthi/ the prob!em.

s sai in my “bout 'e# section, this website is about DOIG THIGS TH! "IGHT

#$%& t)s about so!&ing prob!ems. This means that the there are certain uneniab!e truthsabout getting gir!s that anyboy with common sense shou! unerstan when they are honestwith themse!&es. earning how to get gir!s is a topic that p!an on co&ering e/tensi&e!y onmy site. 3hy" Because am an e/pert on the sub+ect an genuine!y want to he!p guys out inthis area. (ne o the most bruta! sights is when see a guy that is hope!ess. He is !ost an he

is !one!y. He has !imite *or ero- e/perience with women an he has no iea where to begin.He has no iea why he can)t get women an he has no iea how to get women. you happento be this guy, then this artic!e is especia!!y or you. you are not this guy, then sti!!encourage you to rea it. Because chances are i you ha&e oun my artic!e, then there is aeinite possibi!ity that you ha&e stuie pic$5up websites67 orums in orer to impro&eyour ating !ie. n many cases, this can o more harm than goo but )!! get to that !ater on.

This artic!e *an 6art - is &ery important because it wi!! ser&e as the ounation or a!!atinggame a&ice that wi!! e&er gi&e on this site. you are comp!ete!y new an ha&e noiea what wor$s, consier this %O'" O'D$TIO. Consier this an important chec$!istthat you constant!y reer to. re you o!!owing a!! the important ru!es an the main points thatcoincie with them" ha&e mae this guie as simp!e as possib!e because that)s how !earninghow to get women shou! be8 simp!e.

I you truly ollow the ad*i+e I ha*e to ,i*e here- you will sa*e a lot o time (and money)

and you will .e a.le to im/ro*e your datin, lie&

Beore get into that though, thin$ it is important or you to $now who is gi&ing the a&ice,so that you can ecie or yourse! on whether or not they are a !egitimate e/pert8 especia!!ywhen it comes to the pic$5up inustry.

The /i+u/ industry is notorious or rauds and wanna.ees& #anna.ee 2/i+u/

masters3 and wanna.ee 2/layers&3 I you o/en your eyes and really tae a loo at who

is ,i*in, the ad*i+e- you will see that the ma4ority o 2P'$ e5/erts3 are nothin, more

than nerds and internet mareters& 6ery ew are what I would +onsider to .e le,itimate

sour+es o nowled,e on how to ,et +hi+s& That’s reality&

That being sai. et me te!! you a !itt!e bit about where am coming rom as ar as$now!ege on atinggame is concerne. you ee! that am a creib!e source who bases

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their a&ice on $7T'$L LI! !8P!"I!7!, then continue reaing an hope thisartic!e he!ps you out.

Sonny’s oundation and Datin, Lie

be!ie&e that a guy)s upbringing has a prooun impact on his re!ations with other peop!e,

especia!!y when it comes to women. was &ery b!esse because ha an amaing upbringing.'y parents ha&e a!ways been together an they abso!ute!y put 1009 into raising me. a!wayse!t !o&e because both my parents were a!ways there or me an spent time with me.

:igging eeper, be!ie&e the ma!e in!uence a young man has in his !ie ma$es a!! theierence. gain, this is an area in which was &ery b!esse. was raise by a &ery strongather. )m prou to say that because that is a ying tren especia!!y with the continueeminiation o men *more on that at a !ater ate-. a!so ha strong ma!e in!uences rom my;oather *ather)s best rien-, an my unc!e *mother)s brother-. That was ami!y or me.'y mother taught me how to o some important stu !i$e rea, write, an anything e!seschoo! re!ate. But or the most part, I was raised .y men. <ea! o!5schoo! men who ha

rea!5!ie e/perience on how to sur&i&e in this wor! an $new what was important in !ie. s a$i, e&erything that was coo! or important or a man to $now, !earne rom them.

Here)s a samp!e !ist o the stu that they taught me to oacti&ities they encourage me to participate in=

p!ay sports, ishing, hunting, how to shoot a gun, use too!s, wor$ on cars, coo$, ri&e a car,ightstan up or myse!, o wor$ on a house, manua! !abor, HO# TO G!T GI"LS, theimportance o !oo$ing peop!e in the eye, the importance o $eeping your wor, the act thatit)s not o$ay to be a cowar, the importance o being in the company o goo peop!e, theimportance o rienship, the iea that ami!y comes beore e&erything8 the !ist goes on

>ou get the iea. 'y ounation was roc$ so!i. That was +ust a sma!! samp!ing o the stuthat !earne uring my !ie rom the o!er ma!e ami!y members in my !ie. This has a!waysgi&en me a !ot o conience an great sense o se!5awareness as a young man growing up.oo$, this is important what am about to say. %our identity is a+tually esta.lished at a

*ery youn, a,e& This is the ounation. For the most part, there are 3??@<S an thenthere is e&eryboy e!se. 'y parents raise me with the best intentions $ept in min. Theyemphasie what they e!t was best or me both short5term an !ong5term. was raise to be a

winner. et me repeat that.

I was raised to 9! $ #I!"&

This has trans!ate to how ha&e been ab!e to re!ate to my peers o&er the years. ha&e a!ways been ab!e to re!ate with others an ma$e new riens with ease. Peo/le ha*e and always will

.e my ,reatest stren,th& ;uys, gir!s, a!! ierent races8 my greatest strength is mymu!tiimensiona!ity an my abi!ity to re!ate with them a!!. 3hen was a $i peop!e a!wayswante to be aroun me because was a rien!yunny $i who was goo at a !ot o stu ancou! easi!y re!ate with others. was a!ways one o the best at schoo!, sports, best resse,

best !oo$ing *than$s to my parents-8 you name it. i$e sai, was raise to be a winner.

This has gi&en me a !ot o se!5conience throughout my !ie, which has a!ways trans!ate&ery we!! or me when it came to getting gir!s. ene up !osing my &irginity in mi!eschoo! which a!ways e!t ga&e me a big a&antage. osing one)s &irginity is a!ways at thetop o the !ist or $is in mi!e schoo! an high schoo!. chec$e that o at the beginning o

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Ath grae an it he!pe because in)t ha&e that aw$war time perio o rea!!y %uestioningmyse! an wa!$ing aroun an/iousesperate to get on the scoreboar. ha a ecentunerstaning o who was an +ust starte to bui! o that ounation at a young age.

Ha&ing a !ot o riens, being goo at sports, an being a goo !oo$ing $i was a!ways my basis or popu!arity throughout mi!e schoo!. t enab!e me to ha&e a ating !ie when most$is i not. (nce high schoo! came, pretty much o!!owe the same gamep!an8 my own.For a!! 4 years, pretty much a!ternate between ha&ing a gir!rien an p!aying the

ie!hoo$ing up with a coup!e ierent gir!s rom my schoo!, other nearby schoo!s, or +ustranom chic$s met at parties ranom hoo$ups happene more so unior an Senior >ear-. wou! say my options grew consierab!y once starte !iting weights serious!y my unioryear o high schoo!. n co!!ege, i the e/act same thing. in)t p!ay sports but was ab!eto ma$e a !ot o riens an become popu!ar main!y because stuc$ out !i$e a sore thumb*but, in a goo way-. a!so $new who to become riens with. There were times when wou! +ust ate one gir!. But or the most part, embrace the co!!ege !iesty!e sty!e going outa!! the time an hoo$ing up with a !ot o ierent chic$s.

n 'arch 2012, became aware o the pic$5up inustry an at irst it einite!y caught myinterest. was a!ways ascinate by that mo&ie Hitch an wonere how someone gets that

+ob. t one point, e&en strong!y consiere trying to wor$ or a company. Howe&er, ha&e!earne since then that it)s rea!!y not a!! it)s crac$e up to be. nstea, wou! rather +ust wor$ on my own !iesty!e business an incorporate my own ating a&ice as another e!ement intothat. ?o tric$s. ?o a!se promises. ust a&ice coming rom someone who igure this out anhas ha this aspect o their !ie han!e rom a &ery young age. n 67 terms, am a“natura!# someone has been ab!e to get women with ease without ha&ing to stuy pic$5upmateria!. be!ie&e that this ma$es me &ery %ua!iie to gi&e guys a&ice on how to impro&egame an ating !ie.

you are sti!! reaing then get reay because up ne/t are my top 10 pieces o a&ice orimpro&ing your ating !ie. These are what wou! consier to be 10 truths or 10 !aws thatyou must o!!ow an embrace. stan behin these !aws an attribute my obser&ance othem as a big reason or my success o&er the years. )!! say it again, this site is a!! about oingthings TH! "IGHT #$%. This means no shortcuts, no s$imming to ma$e it easier onyourse!8 these are the ru!es an you shou! o!!ow them a!! the way i you want to putyourse! on the path to oing things the right way rom a ating perspecti&e an gi&e yourse! the best chance o ating high5%ua!ity gir!s. Here is 6art . @n+oy

Law 1: aster /eo/le .eore your master women

This one shou! be air!y easy to unerstan an yet guys who get into pic$5up +ustcomp!ete!y ignore it. They get rope in by the mar$eting o 67 companies about how theycan become a master o seuction an become great with women immeiate!y. Howe&er,there)s one big prob!em8

The ty/i+al ,uy who studies /i+u/ on Internet orums is not ,ood with /eo/le& In a+t-

a lot o these ,uys are strai,ht u/ horri.le with /eo/le& In many +ases- a lot o them

ha*e se*ere an5iety issues& They are *ery mu+h SO7I$LL% '7OO"DI$T!D&

n aition, they a!so a!! into the new5schoo! minset o instant gratiication an the “ wantit now# game p!an. This prob!em ne&er occurs to them or they +ust on)t want to

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ac$now!ege it. They +ust want to get goo with gir!s as ast as possib!e, without estab!ishingthat necessary ounation o being goo with peop!e in genera!. )!! te!! you this anhopeu!!y it wi!! sa&e you a !ot o time an get ri o any conusion you may ha&e.

%ou +annot .e+ome ,ood with women without irst .e+omin, ,ood with /eo/le in

,eneral- that’s means ha*in, the a.ility to ha*e normal +on*ersations with .oth ,uys

and ,irls& It also means ha*in, a +ool /ersonality that /eo/le want to .e in the +om/anyo&

There is no such thing as s$imming on this important ounation o being genera!!y goowith peop!e8 being a peop!e person. you on)t ha&e a !ot o money or aren)t amous, thenyou cannot ignore the importance o estab!ishing this ounation. you want to get goowith women, you ha&e to become a peop!e person. peop!e person is someone who caneasi!y re!ate to peop!e an estab!ish a so!i connection with ease. That wor “connection# is&ery important8 it)s what chic$s ta!$ about a!! the time. They go on a ate, they either “ee!

a connection# or they on)t. 3e!!, how o you get goo at estab!ishing a so!i man to womanconnection" >ou irst ha&e to become natura!!y goo at estab!ishing a so!i person to personconnection.

The genera! !e&e! o socia! coorination *peop!e s$i!!s- amongst young men toay is &erywatere own compare to young men in the 1DA0s an 1DE0s. The nternet, te!e&ision,socia! meia, &ieo games, on!ine pornography8 a!! o these ha&e ha an o&era!! negati&eeect on guys) abi!ity to re!ate with other peop!e. Toay, it has gotten to the point where youcan ne&er !ea&e the house an sti!! ha&e a!! the entertainment you cou! e&er nee. Bac$ inthe ay it wasn)t !i$e that, you ha to get out o the house an spen time with peop!e i youwante to ha&e un.

ha an a&antage because ha a &ery o!5schoo! upbringing. was a!ways p!aying sportsan spening time with a!! my riens. 'y ather a!so strong!y iscourage me romspening too much time on the computerp!aying &ieo games because in his min that)swhat “ners# i. n act, the on!y time e&er rea!!y p!aye &ieo games was arounChristmas when wou! get those Tony Haw$ games an p!ay them or a ew wee$s. a!so

p!aye some o the 6o$mon games on ;ame Boy. (ther than that, was out the housea!ways p!aying sports an spening time with peop!e.

t)s &ery important especia!!y or you newer guys to rea!ie this. t is impossib!e to tru!y

become goo with women without ha&ing that ounation o being goo with a!! peop!e ingenera!. t +ust oes not wor$ !i$e that.

So when you are ,oin, on dierent we.sites and tryin, to i,ure out i the sour+e and

ad*i+e are le,itimate; that should .e somethin, you are o+usin, on when tryin, to

de+ide i the /erson is a le,itimate e5/ert&

s$ yourse!= s this guy coo! or oes he seem aw$war" Can rea!!y picture this guy easi!yinteracting with peop!e or oes something about him seem a !itt!e bit o" :oes he seem !i$esomeone who is naturally attractive to people? Can picture him being a ue that peop!egenuine!y !i$e spening time with" :oes he seem !i$e a ue that can easi!y get the respect o

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other men" (r is there something about him that is o5putting or e&en ownright repu!si&ethat rea!!y repe!s peop!e away"

Be honest with yourse!. it oes not seem !i$e the guy abies by this irst !aw, then he is nota peop!e person. s a resu!t, he cannot be an e/pert on getting goo with women.

To en this section, wou! !i$e to te!! a %uic$ story to i!!ustrate my point. ast summer too$ a trip to Gegas to &isit some riens an ene up ha&ing inner with them my irst night

in town. (ne o which was a pic$5up teacher who ha generate a !ot o bu on a 67orum ue to his own riicu!ous stories an his c!aim to ha&e turne a comp!ete newbie intoan a&ance guy. This suppose “newbie to a&ance# guy was a!so at the inner. wascurious to meet this guy because wante to see it i was true. Since am goo with peop!e, can pretty much sum an ini&iua! up pretty %uic$!y.

$new immeiate!y that these c!aims were a!se *or great!y e/aggerate-. He wasn)t the prouct o wor! c!ass teaching. He was a $i who was abso!ute!y horrib!e with peop!e. Heha ero peop!e s$i!!s. He ha ero conience an rea!!y got the sense that he ha no senseo se!. He was a!so socia!!y uncoorinate. n act, he ha se&ere an/iety an wou! betthat he ha some eep roote psycho!ogica! issues. cou! actua!!y see it uno!ing at the

inner tab!e. @&eryone e!se was +o$ing aroun an ta!$ing about sports or whate&er an this$i was strugg!ing to inter+ect. He was so in his own hea trying to come up with the perectthing to say at the right moment. He in)t say one wor the entire time. That was a bunch oues sitting at a tab!e. By eau!t, it was not possib!e or him to actua!!y be goo withwomen.

:i he get !ai" >eah, ha hear rom se&era! peop!e that he ha pu!!e an bange a ewchic$s since he mo&e to Gegas a ew months prior. :o you thin$ it re%uires any specia! s$i!!to approach chic$s a!! ay an night in as Gegas an get !ai" ;et outta here, o course not.'y point is this.

Goin, out to .ars and ni,ht+lu.s and ,ettin, a ew one ni,ht stands; that does not

mean you are ,ood with women&

t means that you p!ay the numbers game. That $i in Gegas went out a!! ay an a!! night8a!! he i was pic$5up 24A. ( course, he)s gonna ha&e some !uc$ an get some chic$s

because he)s boun to run into a ew that or whate&er reason were se/ua!!y a&ai!ab!e at the

time. The trap that a !ot o $is who rea!!y get into this pic$5up stu a!! into is that theye%uate pu!!ing run$ chic$s rom bars an c!ubs with actua!!y being goo with women. >ouon)t nee to be goo with women to pu!! chic$s rom barsnightc!ubs. >ou +ust nee to p!aythe numbers game, ha&e a c!oser menta!ity an e&entua!!y you)!! run into some chic$s that areown.

That)s why a !ot o $is strugg!e with pic$ing5up chic$s uring the ay. There)s no music b!asting, no a!coho!, an no istractions. >ou actua!!y nee to be goo at con&ersing with peop!e an in this case8 be goo at con&ersing with women.

;oing out an s/am a//roa+hin, chic$s at barsnightc!ubs or e&en ranom p!aces uring

the ay will do nothin, or your ,ame i you ha&e no ounation as a socia!!y coorinate person who can re!ate to other peop!e an be norma!.

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you are a new guy *meaning !ac$ing e/perience getting gir!s-, getting goo with peop!eshou! be o greater importance than getting goo with women. 'aster peop!e beore youmaster women.

How to ,et ,ood with /eo/le

3e!!, the one thing can assure you is that it wi!! be a process. >ou won)t become goo with peop!e o&er night or o&er the course o a wee$en. The iea! situation is what e/perience. was raise an encourage to a!ways be aroun peop!e an be rien!youtgoing towar them.That)s what you ha&e to o. >ou ha&e to !earn to become rien!y an outgoing towar

peop!e. >ou ha&e to put the e&o!utionary pressure on yourse! an conition yourse! torecognie the goo in peop!e an !earn to tru!y !o&e being in the company o other peop!e. :oe&erything you can to get out o the house an spen as !itt!e time in ront o a computeronthe nternet as you can.

Law <: $ stron, mas+uline man is (and always will .e) the GOLD! ST$D$"D

This is 100 9 true an you nee to rea!ie this. By nature, women are programme to beeminine an submissi&e. 'en are programme to be mascu!ine an ominant. @n o story.That)s nature. :ues want to whine an comp!ain about how the eminist mo&ement isma$ing !ie har or guys in the 21st century. ;et rea!. t best, the eminist mo&ement can becharacterie as a !itt!e annoying bug where eminists +ust want to $eep ta!$ing about how a!!men are e&i!. 3hate&er.

?o, the prob!em is that the %ua!ity o the a&erage ue has gone own signiicant!y o&er the past 0 years. The tru!y strong mascu!ine man, in genera!, is a ying bree. 'en are becoming more eminine. There are a !ot o reasons or this. )!! go o&er that in a utureartic!e. et me gi&e you an e/amp!e o an a&erage I0 year o! in the past &ersus the present.

'y ;reat 7nc!e *=0>0 years a,o-= He ha ought in 3or! 3ar an was bac$ in the 7S.He ha a &ery busy !ie. He ha a u!!5time +ob, too$ night c!asses at co!!ege, was raising aami!y, an put a !ot o wor$ into bui!ing his own house. He comp!ete supporte himse!an his ami!y. He cou! i/ anything an $new how to use too!s. He was a master o manythings because he ha rea! e/perience to bac$ it up. He was a rea!, har5wor$ing merican.He was in charge an was comp!ete!y responsib!e or himse! an his ami!y. He new how

to end or himsel& He in)t as$ his parents or any he!p or a&ice. He was hansome, ha

a eep mascu!ine &oice, an he $new how to ress. That)s a strong, mascu!ine man. Thatsouns amaing an $eep in min that was norma! or bac$ then.

I0 >ear5(! :ue Today= t is a &ery rea! possibi!ity that he sti!! re!ies on his parents orhe!p. JJJ There are some !egitimate e/ceptions where he might ee! ob!igate to remain athome to ta$e care o a ami!y member. There)s a &ery rea! chance he sti!! !i&es at home. Hete!!s himse! that he)s +ust !i&ing at home to sa&e money but he $nows eep own that he

preers the comorts o home because there is a certain security in $nowing that mommy anay are aroun. He)s got no bac$bone an e&en !ess wor$ ethic. He has !itt!e to no$now!ege on how to use too!s. He can)t coo$. He oes not $now to ress or e&en use aniron. He oesn)t ta$e care o himse!, has sot acia! eatures, an has a sot, a!most gir!y

&oice. He oesn)t ha&e e/tensi&e $now!ege on the basic stu a rea! man shou! $now. He browses nternet orums an thin$s that he gains $now!ege rom this but in rea!ity he is a

master o nothin,& 3hat he $nows is &ieo games, nternet porn, te!e&isionmo&ies, anFaceboo$. He is still *ery mu+h a id& He might wor$ a +ob an be ab!e to support himse!

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but he)s not e/periencing the wor! or himse!. He is sot. He has yet to tru!y !ea&e the nestan sur&i&e on his own. He is not strong. He is not mascu!ine.

'y point in that !itt!e comparison is that mascu!inity an strength are ying %ua!ities in mentoay. This is prob!ematic rom a ating perspecti&e because these are the 2 most important%ua!ities or a man=

$S7'LIIT% ? ST"!GTH

These are the 2 most important eatures to $eep in min. 3omen are most attracte tostrength an mascu!inity. 3hat o women want" 3e!!, rom a materia!istic stanpoint, that)seasy8 they want more o e&erything. But as ar as traits in a man, they want a man who isstrong an mascu!ine.

>ou can stuy e&ery 67 orum, theory on game, an pic$up tactic out there8 it won)t

ma$e a ierence.

I ST"!GTH $D $S7'LIIT% do not stand out in your *i.e- then you are at a

disad*anta,e&

ctua!!y, you are right aroun a&erage since most ues on)t gi&e this o in their &ibe.:epening on how weir the wor! o pic$5up ma$es you, you might actua!!y be at a se&ereisa&antage because then you)re pretty much this creepy id spam approaching chic$s whogi&es o a weir &ibe.

?ow a !ot o ues may want to argue an gi&e me a!! these e/amp!es o ues who on)t!oo$ strongmascu!ine an yet sti!! get a !ot o gir!s. 'y answer to them wou! be to go reamy bout 'e 6age. 'y way o oing things is simp!e. The on!y way to o things is the rightway. That means oing things 100 9. Strength an mascu!inity are the 2 most attracti&e%ua!ities in a man. So, i you are trying to get better resu!ts with women, wou!n)t you wantto ma/imie them" 6!ain o! common sense. This website is bui!t upon the ounation ostrength an mascu!inity. !! the a&ice gi&e here wi!! point you in that irection.

gain, you shou! a!so !oo$ or these 2 traits when you are trying to igure out i a source onatinggame is !egitimate. s$ yourse! these %uestions. :oes this guy gi&e o a &ibe ostrength an mascu!inity" :oes he appear physica!!y strong an mascu!ine" :oes he ta!$ an

pro+ect himse! !i$e a man" Can picture women !oo$ing at this guy an c!assiying him as“strong# an “mascu!ine"# (r is he an a&erage ue with a wea$ or e&en eminine &ibe +ustspewing nonsense"

>ou want to gi&e yourse! the best chance to win at this game" The way you o this is byconstant!y impro&ing yourse! an mo&ing towar strength an mascu!inity. That)s whatwomen respon to. For the a&erage, non5ce!ebrity guy, the stronger an more mascu!ine you

are, the more attracti&e you are to women. That)s the go!en stanar.

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This is a!so a matter o p!acing se!5impose e&o!utionary pressure upon yourse!. This isictate by the acti&ities you participate in an your habits. Here are some that come to minrom my own e/perience8 a “:o# !ist an an “&oi# !ist.

Do: it weights ays a wee$, ta$e co! showers, !isten to hea&y meta!roc$rap, get manua!!abor e/perience, !earn how to use too!s, !earn the basics o auto5repair, !earn how to coo$,ta$e u!! responsibi!ity or e&ery aspect o your !ie, eat stea$eggs an other man!y oos,ress !i$e a man, ha&e other coo! riens that you can re!ate to, get out o the house, ta$e a

huntingishing trip, regar women as +ust another part o !ie, $eep it simp!e, ientiy prob!ems an so!&e them.

$*oid: so!ation rom peop!e, a seentary !iesty!e, nternet pornography, gir!ie technopopmusic, &ieo games, hours watching te!e&ision, !oser riens, eating $i oos such as cerea!an macaroni, staying uner mommy an ay)s wing past the appropriate age, ressingeminine, browsing nternet orums, wasting time on socia! meia>ouTube, ma$ingwomen!earning game your K1 priority, comp!icating things, seeing prob!ems an then tryingto re!y upon theorye/treme !ogic to so!&e them&

Law A: %our Loos atter; $ Lot

3hich wou! you rather ri&e a Ferrari or a Che&y Ce!ebrity" 'ost o you wou! pic$ theFerrari. 3hy" Because the Ferrari !oo$s amaing an the Che&y Ce!ebrity !oo$s !i$e crap.'y iscussion on this !aw wi!! be &ery straightorwar, it may e&en oen a bunch o peop!e,especia!!y those who ha&e put a!! their aith into traitiona! 675ogma that “!oo$s on)tmatter.#

%our loos a.solutely matter; and they matter a lot&

6eop!e want to ta!$ about how “you shou!n)t +uge a boo$ by its co&er.# But that)s e/act!yhow the wor! wor$s. you are aroun peop!e, you are being +uge e&ery ay. ?o one caresabout you or your story. They want the C!i notes. They get that by seeing how you !oo$,getting a sense o your &ibe, an seeing how you interact with others.

How oes this re!ate to women" 3e!!, i you)re honest with yourse! you wi!! rea!ie that

women preer to ha&e se/ withate ues who they in physica!!y attracti&e. ust !i$e guys preer ha&ing se/ with physica!!y attracti&e women. 3omen preer ha&ing se/ with physica!!y attracti&e men. rea!!y can)t ma$e it much simp!er than that.

3hat you nee to a!so rea!ie is that peop!e, especia!!y women, can !oo$ at you an ha&e a pretty goo iea o who you are. They $now. They $now what your ea! is. They see a nery$i resse !i$e a teenager. He)s %uiet, wa!$s with uncertainty, an oesn)t ma$e strong eyecontact. They assume that he is timi, socia!!y aw$war, weir, an probab!y not on their!e&e!. There)s nothing se/ua! about the $i other than the act that he probab!y watches a !oto porn. n many cases, they wou! be right. Then they may see a big ath!etic ue resse!i$e a man. He wa!$s with conience, has a irm &oice, isp!ays strong eye contact an

peop!e seem to gra&itate towar him. 3omen thin$ he is hansome, sure o himse!, an probab!y has no prob!em getting a gir!rien. 'ost o the time, they wou! be right.

There is a !ot o conusion regaring !oo$s which thin$ einite!y ho!s ues bac$ whenthey are trying to !earn how to get chic$s. ;uys see pic$5up instructors on the nternet going

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on an on about how !oo$s are irre!e&ant an may e&en see a ew rea! !ie e/amp!es o ueswho on)t !oo$ goo an yet ha&e awesome ating !i&es. s a resu!t, they put it in their heasthat they)re not going to o anything to become more physica!!y appea!ing an +ust becomean “a&ance 67.#

wou! a&ise those ues to !oo$ at this site an recognie how things are one here8 theright way. That means you on)t s$im. >ou recognie the stu that wor$s an you o more o that. n this case, recognie that !oo$s are a signiicant a&antage an o e&erything you can

to ma/imie them. :on)t put the c!amp own on your ating !ie by oing nothing to impro&eyour !oo$s an reusing to ac$now!ege the importance o them.

That)s another inicator o someone who is a !egitimate e/pert on this sub+ect. a pic$5upinstructor teaches that !oo$s on)t matter or are not abso!ute!y important, then they are not a!egitimate e/pert. They are simp!y a mar$eter who is trying to emphasie the super importantsecrets o game that on!y they $now. !! you ha&e to o is $eep !istening an e&entua!!y buytheir pic$5up prouct or bootcamp8

isten, not e&eryone is natura!!y goo5!oo$ing. !ot o that is genetics. But e&eryboy canwor$ on this aspect o their !ie an in+rease their +han+es o looin, ,ood&

you impro&e your !oo$s you impro&e your chances o getting chic$s. shou!n)t ha&e tosay this, but wi!! continue to reiterate it or the purposes o this artic!e. 3hy wou! you s$imon what impro&es your resu!ts with women"

:o you thin$ that ressing better, getting +ac$e, an o&era!! !oo$ing coo!er wi!! he!p increaseyour success with women" ( course they wi!!. So o it. :ress your best, get in your bestshape, an !oo$ you coo!est. That wi!! o way more or you than stuying any pic$5upmateria!. gain, stic$ with the basics.

How to Im/ro*e %our Loos

>ou o e&erything you can to !oo$ better. it weights. @at hea!thy oo. ;et goo s!eep. ;ettan. Sty!e your hair. C!ean your teeth. 3ear coo! c!othes an accessories. :isp!ay conient

boy !anguage. 6retty much8 i you thin$ it)s going to he!p you !oo$ better an moreconient, o it. t)s rea!!y that simp!e.

Law B: Gettin, Girls is a 9'SI!SS

t)s that simp!e. ;etting gir!s is a business. The %uestion is what o you bring to the tab!e"Serious!y, what o you bring to the tab!e that wi!! ma$e a hot chic$ gi&e you the time o ay" beautiu! gir! has (T (F (6T(?S. 3hy shou! you be K1"

t)s important to be aware o this %uestion because this wi!! orce you to be honest withyourse!. <ecognie your strengths. High!ight those. <ecognie your wea$nesses. 3or$ onthose.

%ou should always stri*e to .e the .est /erson you +an .e&

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n a!! aspects o !ie, gi&e 1009 an o your best. That)s what wi!! he!p you out a !ot in your path to happiness. n that is what wi!! he!p you reach your u!! potentia! in your ating !ie.

won)t get too much into etai! here but +ust hear me out. you ha&e the e/perience anor pay attention to how peop!e interact you wi!! rea!ie that women care about these things=

Loos

Personality

inan+ial Situation

Status (or /er+ei*ed status)

These aren)t in any particu!ar orer. ctua!!y, it !oo$s coo! the way the wors pyrami own

though. But those are the Big 4 in my e/perience. you are hitting it out o the par$ withthose 4 things, then the wor! is yours pretty much. >ou cou! o whate&er you want withyour ating !ie. Con&erse!y, i you are se&ere!y !ac$ing in a!! 4 o those areas then or themost part, you are going to ha&e a &ery iicu!t time getting the gir!s you want *or any gir!sor that matter-.

?ow here is where rea!ity sets in. For the ma+ority o guys that stuy pic$5up an game, it)samaing how !itt!e time they spen on impro&ing themse!&es in those 4 areas. They spenhours upon hours watching pic$5up &ieos on >ouTube, browsing pic$5up orums *an !istento anonymous, ine/perience sources-, an reaing other pic$5up materia!. They waste a !oto time oing this.

ha&e persona!!y seen this story p!ay out many times when ha&e wor$e with guys wantingto impro&e their ating !i&es. )!! as$ them where they are in their ating !i&es an theyusua!!y te!! me a!! the sources they ha&e gotten their inormation rom, what &ieos or 67)sthey watch on >ouTube, an what proucts they got. The prob!em becomes c!ear once we goout an stuy how they pro+ect themse!&eshow women react to them.

t)s usua!!y not goo. !ot o times gir!s want &ery !itt!e to o with the guy. n it)s certain!ynot because they ha&en)t stuie enough game or app!ie it. They)&e spent hunres o hourso&er the years !earning game an maybe e&en approaching chic$s. Howe&er, in many cases,

they ma$e the mista$e o spening &ery !itt!e time aressing those 4 areas !iste abo&e. s aresu!t, when they approach chic$s, they)re rea!!y not bringing anything to the tab!e.

They on)t !oo$ goo. They on)t wear coo! c!othes. s a resu!t, they ha&e a !ac$ o percei&e status. n they pretty much +ust spam approach chic$s copying what they saw on>ouTube. s a resu!t, they gi&e o a creepy &ibe an gir!s percei&e them as weir. So whenit)s a!! sai in one, they bring nothing to the tab!e an are +ust another weir scrub. n thisis pro&en by their !ac$ o resu!ts with women. you are this type o ue, then my a&ice toyou wou! be to ta$e a step bac$ an tru!y asses where you are in those 4 $ey areas that mentione. you are not satisie with your ating !ie then )m sure it)s because you simp!yare not ma/imiing your potentia! in one o those areas.

@/amp!e= you are a )4# ue with !itt!e musc!e mass who oesn)t ress we!! an goes out by himse! spam approaching chic$s oing the creepy stu you saw some 67 oing on>ouTube8. ;ir!s wi!! not respon we!! to this. 'ost gir!s wi!! thin$ you are weir an wi!!

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want nothing to o with you because you bring nothing to the tab!e. you go out enough,there might be some e/treme out!ier that respons positi&e!y8 but again, that)s an out!ier.

>ou on)t want to base your game p!an o o the hope o running into the out!ier case. That)sanother trap that pic$5up stuents a!! into. They see some guy or hear a story o some guywho)s got nothing going or him in !ie an is a!ways tagging hot chic$s. >ea that)s him8that)s not you. He oun out what wor$s or him. nstea o trying to s$im an aspiring to bethat one out!ier case, you wou! be much better o +ust ma/imiing a!! o the stu that

attracts women8 bring as much to the tab!e as possib!e.

How to Im/ro*e %our 9rand

you !oo$ at getting gir!s as a business, then the way you impro&e you ating !ie is byim/ro*in, your .usiness and the .rand that you oer& But that goes or !ie in genera!.That)s why se!5impro&ement is so important. >ou shou! a!ways be wor$ing on yourse! oryou. mpro&ing e&ery aspect o !ie or your own happiness. n e/tra incenti&e wou! be theact that you are ma$ing yourse! more attracti&e to women.

mpro&e your !oo$s by going to the gym, eating right, an getting goo s!eep. mpro&e your persona!ity by surrouning yourse! with riens an ami!y. ust a!ways o your best to be inthe company o other peop!e an a&oi iso!ationconinement in your house. 3or$ on yourcareer an get your money right. Status *or percei&e status- comes natura!!y by wor$ing onthose irst I things. ?o gir! rea!!y $nows what your status is in society. But i you bui!yourse! up to e&entua!!y being +ac$e, hansome, we!!5resse, an someone who peop!e!i$e to be aroun8 >ou wi!! be percei&e as someone who is strong an mascu!ine, which ishigh!y &a!ue amongst women.

Law =: $*aila.le (Down) *s& ot $*aila.le (ot Down)

This is an important !aw which is why am choosing it to en 6art o my irst game artic!e.This is a concept that is &ery much ignore in the pic$5up community8 this concept oa&ai!abi!ity. t)s !arge!y because traitiona! pic$5up a!most encourages guys to ha&e a &erynegati&e, spiteu! attitue towars women. The genera! &ibe get rom the community is thata !ot o guys are nery ues who in)t ha&e a !ot o success with women when they wereyounger. s a resu!t, there is a tenency to go on this mission to bang as many chic$s as

possib!e as a way to get bac$ at women or their ai!ures when they were younger an pro&e

to themse!&es that they are a pic$5up master. They went rom ero to hero an ha&e become“a&ance#8 masters at seucing women. ($, $now this isn)t most guys but ha&e seenthis story!ine p!ay out %uite a ew times so $now it e/ists.

But the point am getting at here is that because o this negati&e, spiteu! &iew towarswomen, it has actua!!y one more harm than goo. This is because a !ot o 67 instructorsseem to hint that a!! women are s!uts that want se/ a!! the time an that by becoming ana&ance guy in the game8 any guy can get any gir!.

This is a !ie an probab!y the biggest scam in the inustry. They isregar the concept o$6$IL$9ILIT%& n case you on)t unerstan it, wi!! $eep my e/p!anation o it as simp!e

as possib!e an e&en inc!ue some goo e/amp!es to emonstrate my point.

Gettin, laid is a num.ers ,ame. !ways has been. !ways wi!! be. The more chic$s you hiton the more !i$e!y you are to get !ai. That)s how it is. Here is my irst e/perience tru!yseeing the numbers game p!aye out.

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Fa!! 200E= t was the beginning o Freshman year o co!!ege. 'e an 2 o my riens wereinishing up some wor$ in the ibrary an were ta!$ing about a ate unction or one o theraternities !ater that night. 'e an my rien Le&in ha our ates a!reay. 'y rien 'i$eorgot an neee to get a ate !ast minute. So what i he o" He went aroun the !ibraryan hit on e&ery hot chic$ seeing i they wante to go to the ate unction. His opener e&erytime was, “Hey you)re pretty cute you want to go to the L ate unction with me"# @!e&engir!s sai no. Some o them were creepe out, some ha boyriens, an some a!reay ha aate. The point is they were una&ai!ab!e. The twe!th gir! he as$e sai yes. She was

a&ai!ab!e. She was own. They went to the ate unction, got hammere an he rai!e her outin the shower. That)s the numbers game.

The main point is that gir!s are either $6$IL$9L! or OT $6$IL$9L!. 'ost gir!s arenot a&ai!ab!e an there are an ininite number o reasons why that may be. She cou! !itera!!y

be una&ai!ab!e because she is in a re!ationship. She cou! be in a ba moo. She cou! ha&e +ust gone through a ba brea$5up. She cou! ha&e !ost her +ob8 3hate&er. Chic$s are &eryemotiona! an there are a ton o situationa! triggers that cou! put them in an emotiona! statethat ma$es them se/ua!!y una&ai!ab!e.

There are a!so an ininite number o reasons why a chic$ is a&ai!ab!e. She cou! be in party

moe. She cou! be on &acation. She cou! ha&e +ust bro$en up with her boyrien or gotteni&orce. >ou cou! meet her in Gegas. She cou! be in the moo. She cou! be in are!ationship but ins you so attracti&e she ecies to cheat. She cou! be sing!e8.

3hate&er the case is, when you are stuying how to get chic$s, you must $now an embracethis concept o a chic$ being either a&ai!ab!e *own- or una&ai!ab!e *not own-. This is why itis so important to ha&e Law 1 comp!ete!y han!e. >ou abso!ute!y nee that ounation o

being a peop!e person an $nowing how to interact with others. 'ost important!y, you toha&e that abi!ity to recognie what peop!e are ee!ing an how they are reacting to you, in thiscase women.

3hen you app!y this in your eorts to get !ai. That is ca!!e S7"!!IG.

S+reenin, is .asi+ally the initial *er.al and /hysi+al intera+tion you ha*e with a +hi+

where you are testin, the waters to see how down or a*aila.le this +hi+ is& %ou are

seein, what her deal is&

s this chic$ own right now or maybe at a !ater time" (r is her &agina on !oc$own". youare goo with peop!e, meaning socia!!y coorinate, an $now how to screen chic$s8 youwi!! $now soon enough.

ee! that)s a big ierence between the ating a&ice wi!! oer on my site as oppose towhat traitiona! 67)s ha&e to oer. emphasie the importance o ining out whether achic$ is a&ai!ab!e or not through screening.

7nortunate!y, a&ai!abi!ity an screening are bare!y ac$now!ege in traitiona! pic$5up because there)s sti!! an o&era!! i/ation with the antasy o being ab!e to get any gir!. >ou seethis in e/aggerate ie! reports where guys write no&e!s on how they were ab!e to o&ercomea!! these obstac!es, barriers, an ob+ections rom the gir! an ina!!y in the en they were ab!eto sea! the ea! at the en o the night an bang the chic$ ater hours o batt!ing '<,annoying riens8 whate&er. gain, this obsession with !i&ing out the ero to hero antasywhere they o&ercome a!! these obstac!es an emerge &ictorious in the en.

Furthermore, there is an o&eremphasis by many 67 instructors on the concept o p!owing.6!owing basica!!y reers to o&ercoming a chic$)s initia! re+ections when a guy approachesthem. thin$ it is a &ery !awe concept consiering the typica! ue who comes in trying to!earn how to get !ai.

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The prob!em with this concept is that there is no regar or that concept o a&ai!abi!ity.Typica! newbies go out. They are not goo with peop!e in genera! so they are a!reay at aisa&antage. But they watch &ieos te!!ing them to p!ow through e&en i the gir! is notintereste irst. They p!ow p!ow p!ow8 but nothing goo e&er comes rom it they +ust ma$ethemse!&es !oo$ creepy an sometimes open themse!&es up or a potentia! or a!tercation.Since they are not goo with peop!e an in some cases ha&e been brainwashe by 67, theyare uner the impression that i they p!ow enough maybe something goo wi!! happen ansomehow the chic$ wi!! change her min an suen!y become attracte. But that)s not how

it wor$s in rea!ity.

Here)s how things go own *potentia!!y- when $is are not aware o the situation *ue to !ac$ o socia! coorination- an insist on p!owing. They !earn about una&ai!abi!ity the har way.

Li in ?ew >or$ City= was once out with a ew $is in ?ew >or$ City. They were a!! into pic$5up an were anboys o one o the companies. watche as they spam approache theentire night. Creeping out gir!s an imitating a!! o the tacticspic$5up !ines they saw on>ouTube. (ne o the $is was so5ca!!e “a&ance.# He ha been “in the game# or A years.t in)t matter that he ha on!y bange one chic$. He was &ery a&ance. 3e!!, a situationcame up in the c!ub where he was repeate!y trying to mac$ some chic$. The prob!em was

that she was not intereste an she was una&ai!ab!e. Her boyrien was actua!!y right therete!!ing him to get !ost. She a!so to! him to get !ost. But he insiste on “staying in set# an

p!owing through because that)s what he !earne. t was a!! a game to him so he recite !ineater !ine an trie e&erything he cou! to pump the gir!)s emotiona! state. The game turnerea! though when he ecie to pic$ her up an spin her aroun *!i$e he !earne rom hisa&orite instructor-. t that point, the boyrien bro$e his +aw.

That)s an e/treme e/amp!e but that)s a einite possibi!ity i you try to mess with the wrong peop!e. Here)s a !ess e/treme one.

Li in os nge!es5 was out with this $i in . He !earne how to get !ai entire!y rom pic$5up an o&er the years he has !earne a !ot. Howe&er, he oes not unerstan the concepto a&ai!abi!ity. He goes out A nights a wee$ an tries to pic$ up chic$s. He can get !ai but it)son!y because he rea!!y p!ays the numbers game. (ne night we)re out an he hits up somechic$. He wants to !ea&e the c!ub with her an he ma$es his intentions $nown. She $nowswhat)s up. But there)s one prob!em. She)s not own. She)s +ust not in the moo to !ea&e thec!ub with some ue she +ust met. Howe&er, he +ust oesn)t see this because he oes notac$now!ege the concept o a&ai!abi!ity. He spens hours trying e&ery !itt!e tactic, tric$, anmo&e her a!! o&er the &enue. The en o the night comes an she !ea&es with her riens.She than$s him or the ree rin$s an bounces. He reuse to +ust !ea&e that chic$ a!one ango hit on another one. Because o a!! o his time spent watching the !atest pic$5up &ieos, he

be!ie&e that e+ecting rom a set where a chic$ oes not shows interest was the choe thing too. He ha to $eep p!owing through. That chic$ was rea!!y hot. But she was notown. 'aybe she wou! ha&e been own with a better !oo$ing guy or someone she ha a

better &ibe with8 But the point is she was not own or him. he wou! ha&e ha moresocia! coorination he wou! ha&e rea!ie that it wasn)t happening with this chic$ an thathe wou! ha&e mo&e on ater a ew minutes.

nyboy who has e&er seen me approach chic$s *especia!!y in bars an nightc!ubs- cannot be!ie&e that immeiate!y e+ect rom set i approach a chic$ an she oes not seem own. t bogg!es their min because they ha&e consume so much inormation that teaches them to p!ow through the interaction an b!ow the set out. This is abso!ute!y point!ess. But see that

their prob!em resorts bac$ to aw 18 they are not goo with peop!e. They +ust on)t get thatstaying in there an ma$ing the situation weirer is not going to accomp!ish anyhing.

?ow wi!! go o&er some o my own e/amp!es high!ighting situations isp!aying chic$s thatare a&ai!ab!e an not a&ai!ab!e an what i.

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!5am/les o 'na*aila.le (ot Down) *s& $*aila.le (Down)

$ Saturday mornin, S/rin, <01A5 was sti!! in schoo! an wo$e up ear!y to get some wor$ one. was in Starbuc$s an saw an abso!ute $noc$out. She was some sort o atina orsomething. went up an ta!$e to her or a bit. went to as$ or her number an she gigg!esaying that she wish she cou! but she can)t. Then she !et. JJ ew wee$s !ater oun out

why she acte so weir. She ha a boyrien. in)t o anything wrong, my game wasn)to. i e&erything right. was resse we!!. !oo$e goo. sme!!e goo. spo$e withc!arity. n ha goo eye contact. !so was man enough to te!! her that thought she wasattracti&e. 3as she attracte to me" bso!ute!y. )&e bui!t myse! up to the point where mostwomen are initia!!y. But8 that gir! was '$6$IL$9L!& She was a high5%ua!ity gir! thatha mora!s that +ust wasn)t going to gi&e her number out to a ue she +ust met when she hasa boyrien.

Fast orwar a coup!e hours !ater ater ha inishe a!! my wor$. )m on my way out o theibrary an ecie to rent a :G:. By chance, meet a cute !itt!e Freshman who is returning a

boo$. 3e start ta!$ing an she mentions how she)s seen me at the gym beore. suggest we

hang out !ater an she gi&es me her number. She as$s when we are going to hang out. to!her that wou! ta$e her out to inner !ater. +ust ha to get my haircut an get oo rom thegrocery store. ta$e her to inner. 3e ha&e goo chemistry an ha se/ with her !ater thatnight. ?o tric$s. ?o gimmic$s. was in the right p!ace at the right time. n met the rightchic$. 7n!i$e the irst gir! ta!$e to, this gir! was $6$IL$9L!. She was a Freshman thatwas sing!e an wante some e/citement. She a!so wante a brea$ rom the typica! preppyFreshman guys she ha to see e&ery ay.

$ i,ht at Haasan i,ht+lu. (Las 6e,as Summer <01A) C This was an interestingnight *an wee$- in Gegas because it was uring the time when one o the ma+or pic$5upcompanies was ha&ing the annua! conerence. 'e an one o my boys were in&ite to chi!! ata tab!e that one o his co5wor$ers ha gotten. 3e chi!!e or a !itt!e bit an then ecie to tryan get some chic$s. So we i our thing going aroun hitting up chic$s. By chance we raninto one o the instructors who was running a bootcamp. He came o&er an sai what)s up.He an his stuents then proceee to o!!ow me an my rien as we hit on chic$s. t wasannoying because some chic$s were own but they $ept !ea&ing because these pic$5up s%uiswou! swarm in an spam approach copying the creepy approaches they saw on >ouTube.@&entua!!y, my rien, one o the stuents, an !oc$e in on I gir!s. 3e were !irting withthem. The other 2 gir!s with the other 2 guys seeme sort o own. 'y gir! was abso!ute!y notown. There was no chemistry between us. She was in a ba moo. n she wasn)t gettingturne on when was spittin that smooth !ow usua!!y ish out. t wasn)t going to

happen with this one. She was '$6$IL$9L! or whate&er reason.

t one point, the ues were ancing with their gir!s whi!e +ust stoo there with mine. Theinstructor came o&er at one point an was trying his best to coach me on tactics shou! beoing. t that point, !et an as i, the instructor immeiate!y swarme in an pic$e upwhere !et o. e!t re!ie&e. $now i the right thing an probab!y on!y waste about20 minutes. Then went own to the main ance !oor an goone aroun or a !itt!e bit hittinup chic$s. Gery physica!8 screene or :TF gir!s. 'ost were in party moe an +ustwante to ance. Some were with riens. @&entua!!y, oun a busty chic$ that was 100 9own. She mae intense eye contact with me an put her hans a!! o&er my arms as weintrouce ourse!&es. 3ithin 20 secons were ma$ing out an she ha her han on my piece.

3ithin a minute we were out the oor going up to her room which was con&enient!y !ocatein the ';' ;ran. She was $6$IL$9L!& ctua!!y, she ha a boyrien bac$ home but shewas in Gegas an wante to hoo$ up with a hot guy, so or that moment she was a&ai!ab!e.

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JJJ Funny enough, none o those other I guys got !ai with those chic$s. That weir chic$that !et ear!ier in the night ruine it or e&eryone. She got run$ an was ranting about howno one !o&e her an how her ather abuse her as a $i. That chic$ was e/treme!yuna&ai!ab!e. e!t ba or my rien though because be!ie&e his chic$ probab!y was ownor him the other chic$ messe it up.

)!! wrap up this section with a concept that on)t thin$ has been touche on by anyone inthe 67 community. t)s &ery simp!e so it shou! ma$e a !ot o sense to you guys. n case

you are wonering this is how persona!!y screen when am trying to get !ai, especia!!y i am out at a nightc!ub or bar.

@&eryone $nows about how guys ran$ gir!s rom a sca!e o 1 to 10. 1 means you wou!n)t hitit with your worst enemies stic$. 10 means you might consier c!ippin some ue +ust to ha&ea chance. Those are e/aggerations but you get my point. That is the Loos S+ale&

3e!!, one thing i with my riens in co!!ege was a in another ran$ing. )m ta!$ingabout8

"anin, ,irls in terms o their le*el o downness (The Downness S+ale)

That is what ma$es going out to get !ai nights tru!y eicient. >ou go out an you ta!$ tochic$s. >ou test the waters by interacting with them an screening them. gain, this is whythat ounation o being goo with peop!e is so important because this is what wi!! gi&e youthe abi!ity to get a sense o how much the chic$ is igging you.

The ranin, ollows a similar 1 to 10 s+ale&

1 she wants nothin, to do with you@tells you to lea*e- she i,nores you

10 she is .asi+ally dra,,in, you out the ront door .y your 4ohnson

s ar as e&erything in between, you rea!!y ha&e to re!y on your own instinct an be honest

with what is e/act!y going on in the interaction. is the ha!5way point. :epening on thechic$, a ew rin$s an some ancing may bump you up a !itt!e bit in the ran$ing.

So this iers rom traitiona! pic$5up because traitiona! pic$up sort o +ust teaches guys tomass approach chic$s an i you get a hot chic$ it)s because your game is getting better anyou are that much c!oser to becoming a pic$5up master.

come rom a much ierent schoo! o thought. ($ay, base on my e/periences in highschoo! an co!!ege, can honest!y say that you can pretty much wing it in thoseen&ironments. @&eryone is young, umb, an in cray party moe. For most peop!e, that)s thetime to be cray an stupi. Howe&er, it changes once you enter the rea! wor!. >ou on)t

rea!!y ha&e access to those types o parties where that “nothing ba wi!! e&er happen to me#menta!ity is so pre&a!ent. you want to be smart an ma/imie your chances o getting !aiwhen you go out8. %O' !!D $ G$! PL$&

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>ou nee some sort o system to go by so that you are not wasting your nights on chic$s youha&e no chance with. This is the simp!est most straightorwar system cou! thin$ o thatwi!! $eep your night as eicient as possib!e.

Ideally- you want to run into a +hi+ that is hi,h u/ .oth in the loos s+ale and the

downness s+ale&

The +ac$pot is when you run into a chic$ with 10 !oo$s an 10 ownness. That)s money. t)s&ery rare though. ha&e been !uc$y enough to ha&e e/perience it a ew times an canhonest!y say it oes ee! !i$e you ha&e won the !otto. So i you get that chance einite!ytreasure those e/periences.

But the ma+ority o the time it)s not !i$e that. 'ost gir!s in a c!ub or bar setting are not ownor are &ery !ow on the ownness sca!e. 'ost o the gir!s that are own are a&erage or be!owa&erage in a typica! c!ub or bar setting. That)s why !augh when the “pic$5up e/perts brag

about such high !aycounts pu!!ing chic$s rom run5in5the5mi!! bars an c!ubs. 6eop!e thin$they are pu!!ing 10)s. But they are not. They get )s an M)s that happen to be rea!!y run$ anhigh up on the ownness sca!e. They +ust happen to p!ay the numbers game by going out a!!the time. ?ow oes that mean a hot chic$ won)t get mi/e in e&ery now an then" ( coursenot. you go out enough, e&e!op some socia! coorinationabi!ity to con&erse, an on)tshy away rom that c!oser menta!ity8. >ou)!! get !uc$y once in a whi!e a snag a hottie orwhate&er reason. n no it)s not because your game is impro&ing or was rea!!y on point. >ou

+ust !uc$e out by being in the right p!ace at the right time an happene to meet a chic$ thatwas high up on the ownness sca!e.

How to tell i a 7hi+ is $*aila.le or ot $*aila.le

The way you igure out a&ai!abi!ity is by paying attention an screening the chic$. 6ayattention to what she is saying, who she is there with an what her genera! moo is. Simp!y

put, you shou! be putting together a C!i notes &ersion o this chic$ in your hea an a!ways be paying attention to this %uestion8

2#hat is this +hi+’s dealE3

That %uestion is so important. That is what wi!! $eep your night eicient an pre&ent yourom wasting time on chic$s that you probab!y ha&e no chance at banging. s an e/amp!ehere is a samp!e o what was going through my hea uring my irst night out in ustin this

past wee$en. These are menta! notes ma$e in my hea that he!p me igure out immeiate!ywhat this chic$)s ea! is. 'y goa! was to get !ai that night.

irst hot +hi+ I hit on:

6retty aceN nice boy with +ust the right amount o thic$ness

(ut with ami!y an riens ce!ebrating brother coming home rom ghanistan

Te!!s me about how she !o&es spening time outsie an on the !a$e

3e ta!$ about ?> *where came rom- an she ta!$s about wanting to go

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ma$e a ew naughty comments, she gigg!es an te!!s me )m cute

#hat’s this +hi+’s dealE

She)s a sweet gir! that is out genuine!y ha&ing a goo time with her ami!y an riens. Shein)t come out tonight trying to get se/. She)s pretty coo! an wou!n)t min chi!!ing withher. cou! probab!y hit it i we hang out when it)s +ust us. But she)s not own tonight. She)s

not a&ai!ab!e right now. might want to hang out with her some other time so grab her

number an !ea&e.

Hot +hi+ that I .an, later in the ni,ht:

Gery attracti&eN amaing ass an !egs

(ut with riens ha&ing a gir!)s night out

She)s a !ight attenant an is !ea&ing town tomorrow night.

She +ust bro$e up with her boyrien.

te!! her she)s se/y an we ma$e out.

te!! her a!! the naughty stu want to o an she gets her $eys rom her rien

#hat’s this +hi+’s dealE

She)s goo to go.

!uc$e out by ining a chic$ this hot an this own.

She)s got a naughty tramp stamp so this ain)t her irst wa!$ in the par$.

)m in or a treat an wi!! einite!y en+oy hittin her rom the bac$.

She)!! probab!y !et me bust in her mouth.

This type o minset an this abi!ity to sum up what a chic$)s ea! is comes with e/perience.'ore speciica!!y, it comes rom tru!y embracing aw 18 being goo with peop!e. Thisminset a!so e&e!ops as you embrace the iea o ha&ing a game p!an with a einite goa! inmin. n this case, you want to actua!!y get !ai.

Since that)s the case then when you are out hitting on chic$s, you want to in the chic$s thatwi!! ma$e this easiest or you. n other wors, in chic$s that a!reay ha&e a ecent !e&e! oownness. But $eep in min, you shou! sti!! ha&e stanars an a!so try to in a chic$ thatis a!so high up on the !oo$s sca!e. guess the ew e/ceptions wou! be i you)re sti!! a &irginan +ust want to get on the scoreboar or i you +ust got out the pen. n those cases8. you owhat you gotta o. gain, it)s a!! about screening.

How to In+rease %our 7han+es o $*aila.ility

3hen you go out on any gi&en night you ha&e a certain percentage o chic$s that are ownthat night. :on)t as$ me what it is. ust $now that the percentage o own chic$s is ar !owerthan the percentage o not own chic$s. So what your goa! rea!!y shou! be is an this is what consier to be the highest !e&e! o success8 when you meet a sing!e, a&ai!ab!e chic$ you

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are ab!e to get her. That)s success. 6eop!e as$ me8 “Sonny, what)s your success rate whenyou hit up chic$s"# te!! them on)t $now but i a chic$ is sing!e an a&ai!ab!e8 )m sittingea re. )m rea!!y not going to miss an wou! bet money on me getting that chic$.

The reason or this is because ha&e put so much eort into ma$ing myse! better in so manyareas o&er the years. This gi&es me so much conience when approach a chic$. ha&e somuch to oer. bring a !ot to the tab!e. rea!!y &iew myse! as @T@ in e&ery way. So mya&ice wou! be to rea!!y wor$ on impro&ing yourse! in the aspects o !ie that touche on

in aw 4. 'a$e sure you are bringing a !ot to the tab!e. 3hen you o that, then you can rea!!yincrease your chances o getting most sing!e, a&ai!ab!e chic$s you come across. n youmight ha&e a ew seeming!y una&ai!ab!e chic$s change their mins an ecie to becomea&ai!ab!e or a night.

($ay that was a !ot to co&er an )m on!y ha! way one. gain, these !aws ha&e beencareu!!y pic$e base o o what has gi&en me success o&er the years. (bser&ance o these!aws are a!so responsib!e or my riens an ami!y members that wou! consier to be*ha&e been- most successu! when it comes to women. This artic!e *both 6art an 6art - is

&ery important to me an this site because it wi!! be the ounation o a!! ating a&ice wi!!e&er gi&e. t)s my &ery own an it has come rom years o e/perience. 'ost important!y, amoing my best to $eep it as simp!e as possib!e so that it can he!p the most ues. t)s &eryisheartening to see so many guys on the nternet o!!owing a&ice that simp!y oes not wor$ or oes not matter. !ot o a&ice on getting gir!s is poor to say the !east an am hoping to

pro&ie a ierent perspecti&e that is base o o actua! e/perience an c!ear insight. Thiswebsite is about oing things the right way an this especia!!y true or my sty!e o teachingguys how to impro&e their ating !i&es. (ther than that be on the !oo$out or 6art .

Sonny’s Guide on Game: The 10 Laws on

How to Get Girls (Part II)

February 24, 2014 By Sonny E Comments

Beore we get starte, +ust wante to ta$e the time to than$ you guys or a!! the positi&eeebac$ on 6art . o thin$ this area shou! be taught a certain way so that there is noconusion going orwar. ?o tric$s. ?o mar$eting scams where am constant!y changing the

princip!es that wor$s.

This is it. ust ten simp!e !aws that the Strength By Sonny community can reer bac$ to oryears to come. There wi!! be no contraictions. ny artic!e, program, or &ieo that wi!! e&ercreate on this topic wi!! irect!y re!ate bac$ to these ten !aws. tru!y be!ie&e that this is animportant topic or men o a!! ages. 'y o&era!! goa! is to he!p men create the best !iesty!e or themse!&es. n my opinion, the iea! !iesty!e or men in&o!&es attracti&e women.

you are a guy who !i&es a !ie without women, you are in the same boat as a prisoner. t)storture. t)s actua!!y not as rare as you might thin$. The popu!ation o guys who o not ha&ethe necessary ounation o socia! coorination an +ust genera! $now!ege on women is on!ygoing to increase o&er time. >ou can than$ an o&erabunance o techno!ogy an !ac$ o tru!ymascu!ine ro!e moe!s or the withering o raw instinct an pussiication o the moern man.

!ot o sing!e guys o not get !aiha&e any $in o ating !ie. That)s not a way to !i&e ani you ha&e oun my site then )m sure you rea!ie this.

This part wi!! o!!ow the same ormat as 6art . t wi!! co&er the ina! i&e !aws that be!ie&emust be unerstoo going orwar i you are going to create the ating !ie you want. s


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usua!, wi!! try to inc!ue se&era! persona! e/amp!es an stories with each !aw in orer to pro&e the &a!iity o my point an gi&e you an insight into my own e/periences seeing the!aw p!aye out. re you reay" ($, here we go. Here are the !ast i&e !aws that consierimportant in !earning how to get gir!s.

Law >: 7old $//roa+h is 7ool; 9ut it’s not FIG

)!! start my iscussion o by going o&er *in etai!- the goo an the ba o co! approach.Then )!! ta!$ about what is $ing. For the recor, thin$ co! approach pic$5up is one o thegreatest things a guy can at !east become aware o. <ea!!y o. Thin$ about norma! *b!ue pi!!-guys. Try to en&ision how they see the wor!. :o you $now how iicu!t it is to straight upgo up to a chic$ an approach her" t)s easy or me an )m you guys ee! the same way. Butrea!!y thin$ about your norma! e&eryay ue who pretty much be!ie&es a!! the crap thatsociety te!!s him. To him approaching a chic$ is abso!ute!y terriying. “3hat i getre+ecte"# “3hat i she rea$s out"# “ on)t wanna !oo$ stupi or creepy.# They ha&e a!!these negati&e thoughts that pre&ent them rom +ust going or it. >ou wanna $now somethingsa"

The ma+ority o men wi!! go their entire !i&es without approaching a chic$. There is noa&enture, no !eap o aith they +ust sett!e or what they can get. ie or them is essentia!!y aco!!ection misse opportunities an +ust !at out ne&er ta$ing the shot. How many times oyou see a hot chic$ wa!$ past a ue an that ue stops ea in trac$s to turn aroun an goho!!a at her" >ou rare!y see that. ?o, instea, what you see is the ue usua!!y can)t $eep eyecontact an !oo$s own as he wa!$s by. Then he turns aroun to chec$ her out rom behin.3a!$ aroun any city. >ou wi!! see this &ery oten.

#hy 7old $//roa+h is Good

3hat co! approach oes o is gi&e that guys the courage to actua!!y ta$e that shot an seewhat happens. 3hen one right, co! approach teaches you to ma$e the most o your ating!ie by being eicient with your time. can)t stan hearing guys ta!$ about how iicu!t it tomeet women toay an how they on)t $now where to !oo$. It’s not that they don’t now

where to loo it’s that they don’t o/en their eyes;& $ttra+ti*e women are e*erywhere&

'ost ues get out o the house on a ai!y basis, they)re +ust tota!!y ob!i&ious to a!! theseopportunities they are missing to hit on chic$s.

Star.u+s- the ,ym- the /ar- the ,ro+ery store- in trai+- the su.way- the mall- the.oostore;

'ost ues wi!! encounter hot chic$s at these p!aces an +ust !et these opportunities s!ip byon a ai!y basis. They go through !ie ne&er $nowing, +ust wonering what i. 3ho $nows"'aybe that hot chic$ shopping by herse! at 3ho!e Foos at E=00 6' on a Friay night is at a10 on the :ownness Sca!e an nees to tipri!!e S6. 'aybe not. The on!y way to in outis by going up, ta!$ing to her, an seeing what her ea! is through screening.

The bottom !ine is that co! approach ta$es BS. t rea!!y oes. t ta$es ba!!s to go up to ahot chic$ *who is a stranger by the way- an te!! her that you thin$ she)s rea!!y cute an you

wante to meet her. earning to o that an ha&ing that courage to go ater what you wanthe!ps set up an amaing ounation or success in many aspects o !ie. !! you can rea!!y ois ta$e the shot an hope or the best. 6eop!e a!ways ta!$ about !i&ing !ie to the u!!est. >ou$now what that rea!!y means" t means eiciency. 3hen someone !i&es !ie to the u!!est, it

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means that e&ery git8 e&ery opportunity that !ie gi&es them8 they ta$e it no %uestionsas$e. There is no waste opportunity.

Co! approach one the right way entai!s that same menta!ity. 'ost ues see a hot chic$ anthe irst thing that pops into their hea is the mi!!ion reasons why they shou!n)t approach.;rante there are some !egitimate reasons where you shou! !et it go or at !east wait or theright moment. But more oten than not, ues ha&e a winow o time where they ha&e thegreen !ight. 3hen co! approach is one the correct way, the irst thing that pops into you

hea won)t be the mi!!ion reasons why you might ai!. t wi!! be the opportunity you ha&e inront o you8 the opportunity that you might go up to a chic$ spit some o that !ow anget her. That)s how it)s one *menta!!y at !east-.

The /ossi.ility o su++ess ar outshines the /ossi.ility o ailure&

pproaching a chic$ with the intent to get !ai re%uires this minset. >ou can)t be thin$ingabout a!! the mi!!ion ways you might get re+ecte. >ou nee to be ocusing on the possibi!itythat you cou! be banging this chic$ in an hour. That)s the beauty o co! approach pic$up.

?ow !et)s get into the negati&e aspects o co! approach.

#hy 7old $//roa+h is not FIG

3e!!, irst an oremost, or co! approach to tru!y wor$, you must ha&e a strong grasp oaw 1. )&e sai it so many times, but it)s true. The prob!em !ies with the act that most uesthat come into pic$5up bran new are se&era!!y !ac$ing in socia! sa&&iness. This isunortunate because they get brainwashe by the awe an mystery o co! approach pic$5up.t)s !i$e this ne&er ening %uest. They must wor$ on their game an go through a!! thesetransormations o&er the years an then ina!!y ater years o grining it out an hitting up

barsc!ubs A nights a wee$8. They wi!! ina!!y reach the a&ance !e&e! an become C(:66<(CH 6CL576 'ST@<S. t souns stupi but that)s how a !ot o ues get

brainwashe into thin$ing.

?o. That)s +ust not how it is. Co! approach is coo!. But it)s not some re!igious octrine thatyou must eat s!eep an !i&e by 24A in orer to become some master. t best, co! approachcan be regare as a g!oriie hobby. n rea!ity, it)s actua!!y +ust something you o in themoment as part o an o&era!! !iesty!e. 'ore on that in a !ater !aw.

thin$ the biggest !aw see with co! approach pic$5up is the act that it is &ery aicting. trea!!y is. (nce you become conient in something you want to o more o it because it ee!s

goo. 3hen irst starte going to the gym, wante to go to the gym se&en ays a wee$. was aicte. sti!! ha a !ie outsie the gym. ?othing rea!!y change. sti!! spent a !ot otime with a!! the peop!e that mattere in my !ie. t was +ust an acti&ity that neee to o 152hours e&ery ay in the beginning. on)t see that as a ba aiction because no other aspectso my !ie suere.

The prob!em with co!5approach is that more times than not ues become aicte to it in a ba way, to the point where that)s a!! they ocus on. ie becomes nothing but pic$5up.Friens, ami!y, careers, an hobbies a!! get neg!ecte in a&or o the %uest to become ana&ance 67.

3hen you thin$ about it, the trap is easy to a!! into. The typica! pic$5up c!ient is usua!!y aguy who is not &ery socia! an has not ha much success with women. Some are &eryesperate an are !oo$ing or hope. Then comes a!ong these nternet gurus who spew a!! thisgarbage about !oo$s not mattering an that they $ey to getting gir!s is to become a&ance atgame. Since the &iewers are !oo$ing or answers they eat it up. :ays8 months8 years go

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by. They might spen thousans o o!!ars on prouctsbootcamps an eicate hunres ohours to practicing game. That)s how they a!! into it.

The reasons why ha&e ecie to inc!ue inormation on getting chic$s on my site are &erysimp!e. First, am einite!y an e/pert on it. )&e ha this part o my !ie han!e or a !ongtime. be!ie&e oer some goo insights as a resu!t o it. 'ore important!y, it pisses me oto see the current state o this inustry8. For the most part, guys are +ust not taught the rightstu an waste a !ot o time an eort. n many cases, they actua!!y neg!ect the stu that

rea!!y matters * co&ere these in the pre&ious !aws-.

n my e/perience, ha&e seen instances where co! approach pic$5up an the %uest to become a s!ayer ha&e tru!y ruine !i&es. ha&e seen abso!ute!y terrib!e things happen to guys because they ha&e become consume by the chase. The most common thing ha&e seen isues o!!owing the game p!an o trying to go through !ie as a !one wo! an +ust o pic$5upa!! the time. They ha&e no riens an +ust go about this without rea!!y ha&ing a c!ue. )&ewor$e with $is who messe themse!&es or the ne/t I years o schoo! *high schoo! anco!!ege- because their Freshman year they trie to spam approach gir!s at the schoo! an as aresu!t no one wants anything to o with them. )&e seen ues abanon a!! their riens

because they thought they were choes ue to the act that they in)t want to ho!!a at chic$s

24A. )&e seen guys get $noc$e out at c!ubs because they reuse to !ea&e an una&ai!ab!egir! a!one. $now ues who ha&e cut o a!! ties with their ami!y because they wante tochase the !ie. met a ue who spent o&er OI0,000 on 67. met a ue who comp!eteabanone his ami!y an !et his career behin +ust to mo&e to a party city an chase 67mastery. He b!ew a!! his money an was e&en home!ess or a brie perio o time. )&e a!soseen se&era! instances o ues going to +ai! because o accusations mae against them.

thin$ the main point wou! !i$e to en with here is to te!! you that ha&e ne&er seenanyone tru!y get their ating !ie han!e e/c!usi&e!y by pic$5up. 'ore important!y, ha&ene&er seen anyone tru!y happy when they eicate so much time to co! approaching chic$s.:o you $now why"

t)s because truth be to!, co! approach pic$5up is a pain in the ass. t is. >ou ea! with a !oto crap an it cou! ta$e a !ot o approaches to get !ai. t)s tota!!y ranom. 'ost gir!s are notown. @&en i they happen to be se/ua!!y a&ai!ab!e, a !ot o them are not own to hanging outwith some stranger they met on the street. ?o matter how smooth or goo !oo$ing you are,there wi!! a!ways be that e!ement o ranomness that some gir!s +ust won)t ee! comortab!ewith. That)s the truth. 3hen you re!y on co! approach a!one to get chic$s, it can rea!!y be a

pain in the ass. ;oing out a!! the time. The ris$s associate with bringing ranom gir!s homean s!eeping with them. The re+ections. The te/t games. !! the approaching. Those nightswhen you go home empty hane an pisse o. @&eryone has e/perience a ew o these.

!! o this garbage an most important!y !ac$ o resu!ts can abso!ute!y e&astate a ue i hehas ne&er ha success with women.

For that reason, co! approach shou! not be the ounation or getting !ai where you re!ye/c!usi&e!y on that. Co! approach simp!y is not $ing. So what is $ing"8

Pro5imity is FIG

This is not a new concept. n act, it)s pretty much common $now!ege. 6ro/imity a$a

S(C C<C@ is $ing. Being associate with the right peop!e is &ery poweru!. Seeing agir! an interacting with her on a regu!ar basis is &ery poweru!. This abso!ute!y nees to bementione though because most ues who stuy this topic +ust on)t get that they nee to

become a part o a coo! socia! circ!e to gi&e themse!&es the best chance to get top notch gir!s.They get aicte to chasing the ream o becoming a p!ayer instea o simp!y becoming

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associate with the peop!e that wou! aci!itate that goa!. n act, they actua!!y !oo$ own ongetting !ai through socia! circ!e. Harcore community ues a!most try to rationa!ie that “itoesn)t count# i you get a chic$ though socia! circ!e.

They +ust on)t get how it important it is to $now the right peop!e. Co! approach +ust oesnot compare to being a part o the in crow. This site about oing things the right way.

The way to a//roa+h ,ettin, laid is to do the thin,s that will ,i*e you the .est +han+e&

gain, this is something ha&e e/perience with because o&er the years ha&e been ortunateenough to ha&e a!ways been associate with the right peop!e. was a!ways a coo!, popu!arguy in schoo! an ha simi!ar riens. Base upon my years o e/perience, can honest!y saythat nothing can compare to being a part o the “in5crow# when it comes to getting !ai.

?othing compares to +ust seeing a chic$ on a regu!ar basis, e&e!oping that comort anattraction, an then e&entua!!y s!eeping with her. t +ust oesn)t get any easier than that.

lash.a+: Summer o 200M was an amaing time or me. t)s when irst starte !itingweights an a!so wor$e an awesome +ob. was a summer camp counse!or. !ot o hot gir!swor$ as camp counse!ors. For you younger guys *high schoo!5 ear!y 20)s-, that is one o the

best +obs you can get to bang hot gir!s. That summer hoo$e up with a ew rea!!y hot gir!sthat probab!y wou! ha&e ha no shot with i ha met them oing co! approach. was agoo !oo$ing $i *probab!y the best !oo$ing guy counse!or- with a great physi%ue but wason!y 1M. Some o the gir!s were 1E51D. That)s a big ea!. That an !iting weights ga&e me somuch conience. But8. in)t o anything specia! to get them. wou! run into them a!!the time an chat em up when we were on poo! uty or something. They wou! get &erycomortab!e with me. s got to $now them, we wou! begin to !irt more an more *!irteon ' as we!!- unti! e&entua!!y we wou! both get run$ at a party an then ha&e se/ insome ranom p!ace. That)s how it went own. wasn)t oing co! approach. in)t ha&e to.

want to te!! the story o 2 persona! e/amp!es where this !aw was c!ear!y o!!owe. These aree/amp!es o ues that were ab!e to rea!!y go abo&e an beyon what you wou! e/pect orguys that !oo$e !i$e them to e/perience or a ating !ie.

Ste/hen mentione how was riens with $is rom many ierent socia! circ!es in highschoo!, inc!uing ners. This $i was the biggest ner you can imagine. (ne !oo$ at him anyou wou! thin$ he wou! grow up to be the rea! !ie 40 year5o! &irgin or that you might oneay see him on :ate!ine ?BC. The $i was that creepy !oo$ing. 3e were both honorsstuents an he was in a !ot o my c!asses. s a resu!t, got to $now him an a!waysthought he was pretty coo!. He was a so!i ue. But i you !oo$e at him you wou! see himas a nery, creepy ue. He ha the mushroom haircut. He wore the b!ue5b!oc$er shaes. He

was hunche o&er an ha moobs. He a!so resse !i$e a 12 year o! an was into comic boo$s. But he was my rien an a!ways e!t a certain responsibi!ity to watch his bac$. treate him !i$e my younger brother a!most. Lis !i$e him ten to get pic$e on in schoo! anit wasn)t going to happen as !ong as was aroun.

The point is8 this $i ha no se/ appea!. ;ir!s on)t !oo$ at $is !i$e that an thin$ anythingse/ua!. t oesn)t happen. This $i cou! co! approach a mi!!ion gir!s an there)s a chance hewou! be shut out e&ery time. That)s how ba it was with him. Howe&er, !itt!e i Stephen$now was that he was tru!y !i&ing out aw M8 he beneitte rom pro/imity. He was rienswith the right peop!e. He was riens with me. he was not riens with me, his high schoo!e/perience wou! ha&e been a tota!!y ierent e/perience. He wou! ha&e gotten mae un o

an probab!y bu!!ie. He probab!y wou! not ha&e ha any riens or he wou! ha&e beenriens with $is that were !i$e him8. !! o them sitting at their own !itt!e ner tab!e uring!unch. He ne&er wou! ha&e ta!$e to a gir! *!et a!one bang one-. Best case scenario he wou!ha&e transerre schoo!s an at !east wou! ha&e bro$en up the misery between 2 schoo!s.

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But that in)t happen because he was riens with me an ha his bac$. was a popu!ar $iwho was a part o the in crow. a!ways mae sure to in&ite him anytime was going to a

party or hanging out with a bunch o peop!e. This $i was my brother. The on!y thing as$eor in return was that he sometimes ri&e i wante to rin$smo$e at a party. Because hewas associate with me, he a!so ha a !ot o riens in high schoo!. He tru!y went abo&e an

beyon what was gi&en to him an was ab!e to ha&e a true high schoo! e/perience. Friens8going to parties. The high!ight came uring the !ast month o schoo! when e&eryone was inu!! on party moe. He ene up getting run$ an !osing his &irginity to a hot chic$ at a

party. That)s right. t was some chic$ that was +ust in our group o riens that he was a!waysaroun. They were a!so in the same home room an were !oc$er neighbors. t +ust happene.<ight p!ace. <ight time. <ight riens. sti!! !augh about it to this ay. rea!!y ee! goo aboutthe high schoo! e/perience this ue was ab!e to ha&e. Because he was riens with the right

peop!e8 he in)t suer the same ate as most ners in schoo!. He e!t goo about himse!an was ab!e to rea!!y !i&e uring those years.

?ow )m not saying he went on to become a p!ayer. That wou! be a !ie. But his high schoo!e/perience an the high!ight o banging a hot chic$ ga&e him a !ot o conience that wasthen transerre into his co!!ege years. He in)t rea!!y party but was ab!e to ha&e the ating!ie he wante *ate 2 gir!s in co!!ege-.

y ather5 This is a &ery persona! e/amp!e. 3ithout my ather, wou! not be here. Byeau!t, there wou! be no Strength By Sonny. mentione how beneitte rom strong ma!ero!e moe!s that taught me how to operate. 3e!!, grew up !earning rom my athers) wisomwhen it comes to ating. His ating a&ice that he a!ways to! me=

Hit e*erythin, you +an while you’re youn,& Don’t e*en thin a.out marria,e until A0&

arry a ri+h ,irl rom a ,ood amily&

He i things the right way. He partie his ass o an messe aroun or a whi!e. n hemarrie my mom an ha me when he was I. (nce he got marrie an starte a ami!y, he)sremaine ocuse an the on!y thing he concerne himse! with was money an ami!y.That)s the o! schoo! way o getting it one.

But or the purposes o this iscussion want to ta!$ about my ather)s sing!e ays bac$ in the1DE0)s. wou! &iew my ather as another ini&iua! who rea!!y went abo&e an beyon whatwas gi&en to him to abso!ute!y hit it out the par$ with his ating !ie. He was a goo5!oo$ing

ue *more cute than hansome because he a!ways !oo$e so young-. n the pictures o himho!ing me as a baby, he)s I but !oo$s 1A. He resse we!! an was &ery socia!!ycoorinate. The on!y hinrance was height. He)s a !itt!e Fi!ipino ue that stans )4#. Formost women, that is too short. t)s einite!y not conuci&e to anyboy being &iewe as a

p!ayer. But my ather was an abso!ute cooe houn bac$ in the E0)s. He)s to! me. 'oreimportant!y, a!! o his o! riens rom bac$ than ha&e a!so conirme this. How was he ab!eto o this"8. through the power o pro/imity.

'y ather was c!ose riens with some ma+or p!ayers in ?ew >or$ City uring the 1DE0)s. Heactua!!y hung outpartie with a ew ce!ebrities. 'y ather an his associates abso!ute!y ru!ethe night!ie uring that era an !i&e the !ie. t was a cray time8 much craier than toay.

To start o, uring his sing!e ays, my ather wor$e in the nightc!ub inustry an ha hisown apartment owntown. So he ha the iea! emp!oyment situation an iea! !ocation ormeeting women an bringing them bac$ to his p!ace.

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'ost important!y, he was a part o the scene an part o an e!ite socia! circ!e. His 2 c!osestriens were the o!!owing= a b!ac$ ue who)s ather owne a nightc!ub an strip c!ub an a

ban$ presient. gain, it)s a!! about who you $now an my ather c!ear!y unerstoo this. Hewasn)t oing co! approach. Cou! he ha&e gotten gir!s o o co! approach" 6erhaps.@&erything was natura!!y ta$en care o. Hansome ace, &ery we!!5resse, a natura! peop!e

person that e&eryone !i$e8. The on!y $noc$ was the act that he was &ery short, but that can be a huge $noc$. He certain!y wou!n)t ha&e !i&e the cray !iesty!e he i i he re!iee/c!usi&e!y o o co! approach.

Because he unerstoo an !i&e out this !aw he was ab!e to tru!y !i&e out the p!ayer !iesty!ein ?ew >or$ City uring the 1DE0)s. nyboy who $nows anything about history an ishonest wi!! amit that it)s simp!y not possib!e to top the crainess o that era. t)s +ust no!onger possib!e. 'y ather was &ery much the basis or a !ot o my $now!ege on women. Hisin!uence is what has turne me into the man am toay. For this reason, tru!y be!ie&e oer a uni%ue perspecti&e on ating because o the act that who am is base on such astrong o!5schoo! source who i things the right way.

So #hat Do %ou DoE

3hat you nee to o is ta$e a step bac$ an rea!ie what wor$s8. 3hat wi!! ma$e this gameas easy as possib!e an o that. i!!ustrate abo&e that co! approach is coo!8 but it)s not$ing. 6ro/imity *or socia! circ!e- is $ing. That)s what wi!! gi&e you the best chance to getchic$s because in many instances that ami!iarity o $nowing simi!ar peop!e has a!reay setthat ounation o comort. That shou! be your priority8. ;etting coo! rienssetting up asocia! circ!e. Co! approach pic$5up shou! not be your primary means o socia! interaction.t best it is a supp!ement, an acti&ity you re!y on to meet new chic$s e&ery now an then.

Law : This Game is .oth SHO"T T!" and LOG T!"

(ne night stans are coo!. They)re un an e/citing. @&ery guy antasies about this romhigh schoo! on8 going out to the bar or c!ub. They meet some smo$ing hot chic$ ta$e her

bac$ to the crib an bang her brains out a!! night !ong. 3hat)s the number one thing e&eryue wants to e/perience in co!!ege" ;oing out on the wee$ens, getting ae an pu!!inghot chic$s bac$ to their orm room.

3hat o you thin$ Gegas is or" :ues go there because they want to !i&e out the one night

stan antasy. Chic$s go there because they a!so want to !i&e out that antasy. But that)se/act!y what it is8. antasy or the most part. There)s nothing specia! about it. ?othingepic rea!!y. >ou go out, hit on chic$s, an i you)re !uc$y you meet a hot chic$ who is rea!!yhotown an ta$e care o business.

Howe&er, or some reason, the 67 community seems to e%uate one)s abi!ity to get one nightstans re%uent!y with being goo with women. That)s a !ie. $now some guys that ha&e high!ay counts *a!most e/c!usi&e!y rom pu!!ing chic$s rom barsc!ubs- an they are terrib!e withwomen. They)re terrib!e because they can)t $eep them. n many cases, it rea!!y was +ust a baca!! on the chic$)s part an they abso!ute!y regret e&er meeting the ue.

The truth is you on)t rea!!y nee to be “goo# with women on a communication !e&e! to getone night stans *short game-. !! you rea!!y nee is to p!ay the numbers game, be in the right

p!ace at the right time *meet a chic$ who is own$in o run$-, ha&e goo !ogistics, anha&e a c!osing menta!ity. >ou ha&e that bare minimum going or you, gi&e o the &ibe o anorma! ue an you go out enough8. >ou)re going to get !ai. t wi!! happen.

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Howe&er, the truth o the matter is, that on!y aresses the short game. $now rome/perience8 &ery ew guys want to perpetua!!y go through !i&ing the p!ayer !iesty!e o +usthitting new chic$s ore&er. n act, ) say that eep own a !ot o guys o ha&e getting agir!rien as their true goa! in wanting to !earn this ating stu.

For the most part, 67 stu oes not teach this. t oes not answer the %uestion o “($ay, got the gir!8 now what"# t neg!ects authenticity an ne&er rea!!y puts much emphasis on$eeping the gir!. nstea, it teaches guys, “:o these techni%uestactics to game the chic$.

you can)t bang her, it)s because your game is not goo enough. you can, great. >our gameis getting better. Leep wor$ing on it an one ay you wi!! reach the pinnac!e where you ha&ea harem o 10)s.# gain, i you are rea!!y honest you wi!! see how u!! o it most teachers are.Because to most teachers, e&erything is %uic$8 e&erything own to the way they o

business. There)s no regar or rea!!y trying to he!p a ue out !ong term. The game p!an is toget the ue to ta$e a bootcamp as ast as possib!e. The teachings are a!so geare towars theshort term8. 'a$ing up some stories about becoming a p!ayer by getting a ew one nightstans.

ha&e persona!!y seen *an been contacte by- some e/amp!es where this situation p!ayeout.

ew.ie in 6e,as mansion5 ast summer, met a $i who b!ew thousans o o!!ars to go!i&e in a pic$5up mansion or a prominent company because he wante to get goo withwomen. He went out e&ery night an ha a ew one night stans. He went bac$ to schoo! inthe Fa!! an accoring to him when he contacte me, e&erything ha a!!en apart. He ca!!eme an c!aime that his “game# e!! o an he in)t $now why. He sti!! went out e&ery nightan ha on!y pu!!e an bange a ew chic$s. They a!! ignore his te/ts aterwars though.3hat happene"

3hat happene was that he was ne&er goo with women *or peop!e in genera!-, to beginwith. Furthermore, his program ne&er aresse any o the aspects that tru!y mattere when itcomes to getting women an more important!y, $eeping them. He got some one night stansin Gegas an thought that meant his game was “getting a&ance.# t wasn)t, he +ust went outa!! the time in Gegas an ha goo !ogistics. Gegas was +ust an opportunity to get gir!s shortterm because o the nature o the city. This $i)s unamenta! prob!ems were ne&eraresse8 ma$ing him coo!er, better !oo$ing, ressing better, more +ac$e, !earning how torecognie the right peop!e to associate with8. ?one o that was wor$e on. C!ear!y, therewas no eort put in to wor$ on this $i)s !ong term game. s a resu!t, he)s sort o stuc$ in thisrut where his entire socia! e/istence is going to co!!ege parties by himse! *with no riens-trying to pic$5up chic$s. That)s not conuci&e to rea! !ong5term success. remember the !ast%uestion he as$e me8 “So how o you get a gir!rien"# Bingo. There)s the agger. That)s

the 67 community in a nutshe!!. Spen a!! this time wor$ing on mastering %uic$ !ays anyet rea!!y aressing how to get a gir!rien.

et)s ig eeper an see why this is. The reason again is roote in antasy. guy wants to getgoo with women an ma$e up or his ear!y !ac$ o success so he goes on this ne&er ening%uest to become a p!ayer. The prob!em howe&er, it that he ne&er actua!!y ta$es the time toe&e!op himse! into a high %ua!ity prouct *conitioning himse! to be coo! through a coo!!iesty!e-. nstea, he re!ies upon !earning pic$5up with no set ounation. s a resu!t, he)s ashoy prouct an no amount o pic$5up $now!ege is going to mas$ his !ac$ ocoo!nesssocia! inte!!igence. He might bang some chic$s o&er the years. But he oesn)t rea!!yha&e a chance to $eep them because beneath a!! the pic$5up tactics, theory an game8. t)s

pretty much a$e it ti!! you ma$e it. But he)s sti!! the same se!5conscious ue with socia!an/iety who is +ust not coo!. @&entua!!y, the gir! igures this out an wants nothing to o withhim.

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Surprising!y, this represents a !ot o guys who consier themse!&es to be 67 'asters ore&en guys who ha&e “been in the game# or a whi!e. They ta!$ about going out a!! the timean constant!y bringing home new gir!s an what not8 but there)s one prob!em. 3hy othey $eep going out" they are tru!y goo with women, why $eep going out to nightc!ubswasting money on co&er chargesa!coho! an !osing s!eeping trying to scrap or gir!s unti!ear!y in the morning" n )m not buying that it)s that un an e/citing. t)s not8. ?otenough to spen years oing the same stu o&er an o&er.

?o, the reason why they continue oing the who!e pic$5up gir!s at bars c!ubs thing is thatthey must o it. Their entire game p!an or ating is base upon the short game. They are notab!e to $eep gir!s an o not ha&e !ong5term game. The ounation o socia! coorination anin many cases menta! hea!thiness is not there. @&erything is base upon the imp!ementationo some sort o theory, tactic or tric$ that they rea on a orum. They are unab!e to re!y pure!yon their own instinct an +ust be genuine. They a!most approach this in a robotic matter8

pushing whate&er buttons an using whate&er manipu!ation to try an bang the chic$. gain,there)s nothing necessary wrong with that i you are inee !oo$ing or that same night !ay.But what happens when it comes time when they o want to ma$e that chic$ more than a onenight stan" They +ust can)t o it a !ot o the time.

So #hat Do %ou DoE

3e!!, my a&ice is to actua!!y ma$e yourse! into that awesome ue who is natura!!yattracti&e &ersus re!ying on 67 as a means to s$im on true se!5impro&ement an essentia!!ya$e it to you ma$e it. 3omen are oo!e a!! the time by ues who say they are goo but inrea!ity are +er$s. They wi!! c!ing onto the hope that you are a goo ue e&en i you pro&eotherwise right in ront o their ace. They +ust won)t want to amit it. That)s not the casethough when it comes to how coo! or !e&e! heae you seem to be. Chic$s can sum you up

pretty ast. They can te!! i a ue is coo! or not. >ou can)t rea!!y a$e that. 'ore important!y,they can te!! ear!y on i you are going to be a neey +ust by the way you ca!! or te/t.

7!timate!y, you ha&e to ocus on the short term an the !ong term. >ou rea!!y shou!n)t re!yon 67 to +ust go through !ie trying to bring home a new chic$ e&ery night. >ou nee

ba!ance. >ou nee to become we!!5roune. Best case scenario is rea!!y going through yourating !ie in phases8. 6hases where you ha&e ierent goa!s. t some points, yes, it)s agoo iea to be in cooe houn moe where you are trying to hit e&erything. Howe&er, thereare a!so times where be!ie&e you shou! try to ate one chic$8 i anything +ust to ta$e a

brea$ rom it a!!. n orer to u!!y ha&e a grasp on what wor$s an what you are oing younee to get e/perience both in the short term an the !ong term. wou! actua!!y go ar as to

say the !ong term is more important because getting a chic$ in a committe re!ationshipactua!!y pro&es that you ha&e what it ta$es to $eep her8. (b&ious!y, something you i waswor$ing enough to $eep her aroun or a !ong perio o time. t wasn)t a !u$e. :o thatinstea o a!!ing into the trap o constant!y chasing the %uic$ i/ an on!y that or years at atime. :on)t be that guy that can on!y ha&e a actory5!i$e ating !ie where you hit a new chic$ an ha&e to get a new immeiate!y because the pre&ious one wants nothing to o with youan &iewe that night as a big mista$e.

Law : %ou 7annot #in #ith Lo,i+

unerstan where most guys are coming rom. o. get that most guys that get into this areusua!!y &ery inte!!igent !ogica!, ini&iua!s who typica!!y wor$ in some sort o computer orengineering ie!. n that)s great. They contribute a !ot o &a!ue to society. Howe&er, when

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that same re!iance on brains is app!ie towar getting goo with women, it ma$es things a !otmore iicu!t. n the reason is simp!e.

%ou +an’t lo,i+ your way into a +hi+’s /ants&

>ou rea!!y can)t. This game is a!! about &ibe. There is no step by step metho or !ist you canrun through on e&ery sing!e gir! an get 1009 success. t can)t happen an it won)t happen.

Because o the act that this game is about &ibe an a!! these chic$s are ierent, there wi!!a!ways be !itt!e a+ustments that you must be aware o in your interaction. guess that)sanother trap that guys a!! into when they irst isco&er the community.

They .e,in to thin o women as some sort o /ro.lem that +an .e sol*ed with the

im/lantation o a uni*ersal ormula (in the orm o theories- ta+ti+s- and methods)&

t)s not true. There is no ormu!a or metho that teaches eye contact, socia! coorination, or!irting *the stu that wi!! rea!!y ma$e or brea$ you in a con&ersation-. There)s none. >ou getthat stu by actua!!y becoming that coo!, attracti&e ue that women !i$e.

?othing goo comes rom !oo$ing at women !i$e robots where you can +ust osay the samestu an use the same tactics to get them. $eep repeating myse! but it is necessary or this!aw. >ou cannot thin$ o this sgame in terms o ormu!as an e%uations. t ma$es you thin$way too much.

#hen it +omes to anythin, in lie- thinin, too mu+h is usually *ery .ad or you&

For instance when use to p!ay baseba!!, anytime was in a s!ump, it was usua!!y when was thin$ing the mostin my own hea at the p!ate. wou! be so se!5conscious about so

much8. “s my timing right" m ho!ing my bat at the right ang!e" m bening my$nees too much" s my strie too ar when !oa up" gotta remember to !oa up. gotta$eep the ront e!bow own. gotta $eep my hans tight an insie the baseba!!.# Thin$ing toomuch oten messe me up an cause s!umps.

(n the other han, in)t thin$ about anything when was !aunching shots into the par$ing!ot. +ust went up there an i a!! the rights things ha been oing or years. wasn)t goingthrough this menta! chec$!ist in my hea about a!! the stu that wor$e an pressuringmyse! to o it. $new what wor$e or me an +ust i it.

The same app!ies to getting gir!s. see so many ues who stuy 67 an can te!! that they

are going through this menta! chec$!ist in their hea o what they ha&e to o. (pen a chic$.Spin her aroun. Touch at certain points in the interaction. The resu!t is that it oesn)t !oo$smooth. t !oo$s &ery routine an most important!y there)s nothing authentic about it. t !oo$schoppy an you can a!ways te!! the chic$ is wonering to herse! what is going on. The

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bottom !ine is it)s weir. n )&e seen it way too many times or it not to be consiere a prob!em that nees to be aresse.

The phrase “too smart or your own goo# gets thrown aroun a !ot but thin$ it)s einite!ytrue or a !ot o ues who get into pic$5up. They thin$ too much an are too smart or theirown goo. They sort o operate in e/treme !ogic moe o trying to hyper5ana!ye e&ery !itt!ething in an interaction an app!y some sort o ormu!a to so!&e the prob!em. This is a recipeor isaster.

So How Do you i5 ThisE

>ou ha&e to stop thin$ing so much. (b&ious!y, this is easier sai than one. But thin$ theirst step, a ue nees to o is tru!y unerstan that !ogic won)t win the game. ogic has its

p!ace in the proessiona! wor! but re!ying upon it in socia! interactions is not a goo game p!an. Truth be to!8 !ogica!, ry con&ersations are boring. ?oboy cares. 6eop!e wantentertaining con&ersations where they are tru!y en+oying the interaction. This is especia!!ytrue when it comes to women.

There)s a ierence between a ue who goes through a menta! chec$!ist with a chic$ wherehe)s sort o +ust running through e&erything in a step by step process &ersus the ue who +ustwings it an acts in the moment an &ibes with a chic$. The irst ues comes acrossaw$war meaning not coo!. n the chic$)s min there is something o about him, which iswhy she has to go in her riens or go to the bathroom. The secon ue comes acrosssmooth an +ust p!ain o! goo at ho!ing a con&ersation. There)s nothing weir about him. the chic$ is a&ai!ab!eown, this ue has a goo shot.

The o&era!! prob!em is iicu!t to i/ because it is &ery conitiona!. )m the comp!eteopposite because )m ne&er in my own hea. )m not thin$ing at a!! rea!!y when ta!$ to achic$. t +ust !ows. But that)s !arge!y the resu!t o my own !ie e/periences o&er the years8.6artying, !istening to a !ot o rap, an being in the company o other peop!e a!! throughout myhigh schoo! an co!!ege years.

o ha&e a ew ieas on how cou! he!p guys get out o the habit o being so !ogica! in howthey approach getting chic$s. )m thin$ing wi!! wor$ on these to create a uture program.

Law : Su++ess with #omen is OT a Sill; It is Part o a Liestyle

)m not sure why pic$e that picture8. 6robab!y +ust because :ere$ eter is so awesome.Superstar ath!ete taming superstar strange. nyway, yeah my ating a&ice a!so iers rommainstream pic$5up a&ice because here getting gir!s is not &iewe as a s$i!!. There arecertain sma!!er aspects that abso!ute!y re%uire s$i!!s8 such as genera! socia! s$i!!s.

But the bottom !ine is, this is a !iesty!e. ;etting goo with women an getting !ai is not as$i!!. s$i!! imp!ies something that gets better with repetition an gets worse i you stop.

That +ust oesn)t escribe how someone is when they are tru!y goo with women. Here)s my persona! e/amp!e. From ugust 201I unti! anuary 2014, ha one gir!rien. That was it.

wasn)t going out to barsc!ubs or approaching chic$s trying to get !ai. ha one chic$ that spent time with an s!ept with. Traitiona! 67 teaches that this is ba or your game. haone5itis an once was sing!e again wou! go through a perio o time o being rusty

because wasn)t wor$ing on my pic$5up s$i!!s. wou! ha&e to sharpen my pic$5up s$i!!san get use to going out again8. n actua!!y hear this rom a bunch o guys $now that

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are rea!!y into this. “?o, Sonny your game)s gonna suer. >ou ha&e to go out an wor$ onyour s$i!!s.# ($ coo! story bro. 3e!!, that)s not rea!ity an that)s not how it p!aye out.

@ar!ier this month we bro$e up an mo&e to a new city. t was my irst time going outregu!ar!y in a whi!e8 my irst time approaching chic$s in a whi!e. This was my test i mygame suer" ?o, it i not. was e/act!y the same person as ha&e a!ways been. First wee$in town hit chic$s an ha on!y went out I nights. ;oing out an oing that is nothingspecia! to me. n to be perect!y honest it)s not as en+oyab!e as ha&ing one high %ua!ity gir!

to spen time with. But the point is, )m someone who grew up &iewing this as part o ano&era!! !iesty!e.

The on!y s$i!! is peop!e s$i!!s. The instinct an c!oser menta!ity is something that has +ust been so!iiie o&er time. ;etting chic$s or pic$ing up chic$s was ne&er a s$i!! that re%uirespeciic repetition. The repetition aspect simp!y came about rom constant!y ta!$ing to peop!ean being in the company o peop!e because o my !o&e or interacting with others.

7nortunate!y, traitiona! pic$5up oes not speciy this because they +ust emphasie gettingchic$s as a s$i!! that re%uires e/treme repetition8 going out A ays a wee$ an oinghunres maybe e&en thousans o approaches. This is not conuci&e to the creation o any

type o !iesty!e because there)s no ba!ance. So many guys spen an e/treme amount o timeon this. By eau!t, they actua!!y o put women on a peesta! because they put so much timean eort into “!earning this s$i!!.#

%ou’re not learnin, a sill& %ou’re main, yoursel .etter in numerous areas and

+reatin, a LI!ST%L!&

That)s what you nee to be thin$ing. :on)t get caught up in thin$ing this is some s$i!! thatyou nee to constant!y wor$ on or e!se something ba wi!! happen such as you “!osing yourgame.#

)&e seen ues a!! into that trap so many times. t)s actua!!y &ery common to rea about onorums as we!!. :ues “got out o the game# or a whi!e an want to “get bac$ in.# They seethemse!&es as ha&ing to start o&er. 3hy" t)s because they were not socia! to begin with.They weren)t goo with peop!e an by eau!t were not goo with women. ue who isunamenta!!y socia! an actua!!y goo with women wi!! a!ways be that way. He can actua!!yne&er go out to a bar or nightc!ub e&er again an sti!! ha&e a great ating !ie. He cou! ha&e

been marrie or ecaes, get i&orce an ecie to “get bac$ out there# an get a new chic$ immeiate!y. n ha&e actua!!y seen that, where a rien)s a got a i&orce an was with a2E year o! about a wee$ !ater. 3hy" Because he was a peop!e person who mae being ano&era!! attracti&e person to /eo/le a !iesty!e. (ne o the per$s o that is that so!i ounationo being goo with women.

So How Do %ou Do ThisE

3e!!, you pretty much nee to get out o the minset that this is some s$i!! you can master

with repetition an an e/treme amount o time eicate to it. t oesn)t wor$ !i$e that. nthe horror stories that see on orums o guys oing thousans o approaches an not gettingany resu!ts shou! c!ear!y inicate that. Furthermore, a!! the stories you rea about guys whowere so ca!!e “p!ayers# who !ost their s$i!!s because they ate one gir! or a whi!e shou!a!so be a re !ag8

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This is not a s$i!!. n it shou!n)t be han!e as such. t)s not !i$e baseba!! where hours otee wor$ wi!! actua!!y ma$e you a better hitter. Hours o approaching e&eryay rea!!y won)tma$e you better with women or more attracti&e. The on!y thing it wi!! o is increase yourchances in the numbers game. But e&en then i you ha&e g!aring !aws8 it)s pretty much awaste o time.

3hat you nee to o is a!ways $eep the big picture in min8 that you shou! be creating a!iesty!e. >ou shou! be impro&ing yourse! in se&era! $ey areas o !ie that wi!! +ust ma$e you

a better, more conient person. That)s what wi!! enab!e you to bui! the ating !ie you tru!ywant. That)s how you o things the right way. n that)s how you actua!!y become that guywho can get high %ua!ity gir!s *an $eep them- or the rest o your !ie &ersus the pretenerswho &iew this as a s$i!! that they can %uic$!y pic$5up on an master.

Law 10: 9e Honest and O# IT

t was iicu!t to narrow it own to a ina! !aw that e!t wou! tru!y ma$e my guiecomp!ete. But am content with this one. thin$ one o the most o&er!oo$e concepts when

it)s comes to !earning this ating stu is honesty. )m ta!$ing about honesty with one)s se!.

%ou need to .e honest with yoursel& #hat are your stren,thsE #hat are your

weanessesE #hat do you want out o all o thisE

:o you tru!y want to !i&e out the !ie o someone who goes through !ie +ust hitting as manychic$s as possib!e with no connection mae an +ust !i&e o o the one5night stan" That)snot me. n you $now something, that)s not the ma+ority o guys.

'ost guys rea!!y +ust want a gir!rien eep own an there)s nothing wrong with that. ustma$e sure you own it. 3hen you meet that one high %ua!ity chic$ that you rea!!y c!ic$ with,spen time with her an try to see where it goes. :on)t !ie to yourse!. :on)t thin$ you ha&eto !i&e up to some stanar or o!!ow some ner)s a&ice on the nternet +ust because youha&e to. >ou o what you gotta o. >ou o what ma$es you happy.

'ost important!y, you own it. Trust your instinct an o what wi!! ma$e yourse! a better manin the !ong run. 3hen was ating that one chic$, hear a !ot o ta!$ rom my “pic$5up#

riens. +ust in)t care. in)t. t was best or me at the time an it mae me happy. Coo!,they went out to c!ubsbars to try to get !ai sometimes. sent a te/t an ro&e 10 minutes toget !ai whene&er wante. But owne it. was honest with myse! an i what was bestor me. ha&e a!! the too!s to be a !ie!ong p!ayer8 but it)s not me, that won)t ma$e mehappy. )m someone who current!y nees to go through phases o seeing one chic$ an then

+umping bac$ into anima! moe. @&entua!!y, when )m much o!er o p!an on sett!ing own.That)s me.

The Juestion is who are you and how are you ,oin, to +onsistently ,et what you want

out o a datin, lieE

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wou! a!so argue that this app!ies to the actua! process o meeting chic$s an bangingthem8. Ha&ing an e!ement o honesty to it. Te!! her you in her attracti&e an go romthere. That)s a huge way to screen out a chic$. t basica!!y communicates to a chic$ what yousai. >ou oun her attracti&e an you)re intereste. @&eryone $nows what guys !i$e oingwith attracti&e chic$s8. So own it.

'ost important!y be honest with yourse! especia!!y with this area o se!5impro&ement. 'ostguys in society are not satisie with their ating !ie. 'ost guys go out or rin$s with their

boys on the wee$ens, get hammere, on)t ta!$ to any gir!s, an then cran$ own to porn beore their pass out. They ne&er o anything to impro&e their ating !ie. They +ust ro!! withthe punches an accept what they)&e been ea!t.

:on)t e&er sett!e or scraps. this an area that you want to impro&e then o something aboutit. 6!ain an simp!e.

7on+lusion

want to than$ e&eryone that has ta$en the time to rea my 10 aws on ;ame:ating. t)s a!ot o stu but it rea!!y +ust boi!s own to 10 simp!e concepts. i it this way because this isan area that want to he!p guys out it. hea!thy ating !ie is important to a man)s we!!5beingan cannot be ignore. wrote these 10 aws as the basis or anything wi!! e&er teach onthis site with regar to atinggame. ny pro+ect8 any program8 any &ieo b!og on thesub+ect wi!! a!! re!ate bac$ to this.

There is to be no conusion. ?o scam where am introucing new concepts or going bac$ onear!ier teachings. This is it. These wi!! be my 10 aws a year rom now8 years romnow8 10 years rom now. &a!ue these so much that i ha a son who +ust “in)t get it#8this is where wou! start with him.

How to 9e+ome Good #ith Peo/le: Part I

('se %our 7lisotes)

'arch I0, 2014 By Sonny 2D Comments

3e!come to 6art o my “How to ;et ;oo with 6eop!e# series. This is my introuctoryartic!e on the topic an it wi!! co&er my e/p!anation on “using C!i?otes# when you are

interacting with peop!e, especia!!y in the initia! interaction.

$eep emphasiing that guys must !earn how to become goo with peop!e. irst wrote aboutthis in 6art o my ;uie on ;ame. n act, aw speciica!!y mentions, “'aster peop!e

beore you master women.# There)s a reason or this. t)s because it)s important.

oo$ $now a !ot o you guys irst start turning to sites !i$e this because o your esire toatebang hot chic$s. $now this, which is why )m oing my best to put out the mostcomp!ete, unamenta! inormation as can. 'y site is an a!ways wi!! be about8 DOIG

THIGS TH! "IGHT #$%. That means ma$e the ounation an unerstaning o the basics as so!i as possib!e.


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%ou wouldn’t start .uildin, your dream house .y simmin, on the oundation& So why

would you start .uildin, %O'" ID!$L LI!ST%L! .y simmin, on this im/ortant

oundationE

'a$e no mista$e. 3ith anything you want in this !ie8. The ounation is P!OPL!& 3hoyou are an how you interact with others in your en&ironment is @G@<>TH?;.

Lnowing how to re!ate with others.

Lnowing who you shou!shou! not associate with.

Lnowing how to ictate con&ersations.

Lnowing how to ma$e a+ustments an conuct yourse!.

Lnowing how to +uge a boo$ by its co&er.

These are a!! things e&ery guy shou! ha&e a basic unerstaning o. 3hy" Because no one is perect. ?o one rea!!y goes through !ie a!ways being in the perect situation wheree&erything is hane to them. n act, there are many times in !ie when we are p!ace in !essthan iea! situations where success seems !i$e a shot in the ar$ whi!e ai!ure seemsine&itab!e.

'ore times than not, superior communications s$i!!s a$a “being goo with peop!e# is theierence ma$er. Some might point to !oo$ssie as my greatest strength. ?o. t)s peop!e. 'yabi!ity to re!ate with peop!e is an a!ways wi!! be my greatest strength. oo$s an sie aresimp!y crutches that ha&e been boosting my conience since 200M. sti!! !o&e !ie e&en

beore then, when it the bi!! as another “sma!! sian $i.# Being goo with peop!e is whatenab!e me to ha&e a great socia!ating !ie e&en when was a sma!! $i in mi!e schoo!an my irst two years o high schoo!.

you are reaing this you ha&e inee come to the right p!ace. Superior communications$i!!s *in aition to strength- is the ounation o Strength By Sonny. t)s who am. t)s how !i&e. t runs in my ami!y8

How oes a )4# Fi!ipino man get a beautiu! )D# <ussian *an remain marrie to her to this

ay-"8 !ot o actors came into p!ay but the ounation was strong communication s$i!!s.

How oes a Ha!5Fi!ipino Ha!5<ussian “guio ouchebag# rom ?> come to a wea!thy,Southern5pri&ate schoo! an ha&e an awesome o&era!! co!!ege e/perience without e&er rea!!y“itting in#"8 gain, a !ot o actors came into p!ay but you better be!ie&e peop!e s$i!!s wasat the oreront.

Bottom !ine, you nee to abso!ute!y wor$ on you communication s$i!!s. @&eryone oes. >oureorts to get chic$s are pretty much use!ess without the ounation o so!i peop!e s$i!!s. nact, ha&ing that ounation o strong communication s$i!!s is what wi!! enab!e you to ha&e ashot at ma/imiing your ating !ie. 'ore important!y, being ab!e to communicate with

others, no matter who those “others# might be, wi!! ma$e !ie more en+oyab!e an is what wi!!u!timate!y he!p you get what you want. So8

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A "easons to !m/hasiKe Peo/le Sills

1& Get #HO you want in your lie (riends- ,irls- other .enei+ial +onta+ts)&

<& Get #H$T you want in lie (networin, o/ens doors)

A& Possi.ly o*er+ome o.sta+les that +ould /re*ent you rom ,ettin, 1 or <&

can)t ma$e it any simp!er. This is important an you wou! rea!!y be shooting yourse! inthe oot i you are someone who !ac$s goo peop!e s$i!!s an oes nothing to aress it. 6oor

peop!e s$i!!s are a prob!em. But it can be wor$e on an e&entua!!y so!&e8

Beore get into my etai!e iscussion on using C!i?otes, !et)s ta!$ about the character use or my eature image. :o you $now who it is" t)s ;ene Hac$man p!aying thecharacter o <an$in Fitch in the mo&ie Runaway Jury. e!t that <an$in Fitch was the mostappropriate character to use as my moe! because out o any mo&ie ha&e e&er seen8 thatcharacter stic$s out to me the most as ar as abi!ity to !oo$ at a person an pretty much $now

who they were instant!y. He cou! !oo$ at someone an immeiate!y $now what their dealwas…

n the mo&ie, <an$in Fitch *;ene Hac$man- is a !egenary “consu!tant# who is hire by thegun inustry to use his superior peop!e s$i!!s to se!ect a +ury that wi!! yie! a a&orab!e&erict. He ha a reputation or being unbeatab!e because o his abi!ity to a!ways pic$ awinning +ury.

There are many scenes in the mo&ie where you see his proi!ing s$i!!s at wor$8 none othem come c!ose to his opening scene with the cab ri&er. n the scene, the cab ri&er ma$essma!! ta!$ by assuming that <an$in is rom out o town. <an$in !oo$s at the ri&er an !oo$sto the ront o the car. He)s sees a hospita! brace!et an rosary beas hanging on the mirror.<an$in !oo$s at these ob+ects an somehow $nows that the ri&er)s mother is sic$ an in thehospita!. that wasn)t enough, he ta$es it a step urther by saying that he $nows the ri&er)swie is upset because he is contemp!ating ha&ing her mo&e in &ersus putting her in a nursinghome. 'r. Fitch !ea&es him with some parting a&ice= “<econsier the nursing home8 better an unorgi&ing mother than an unhappy wie.# He then e/its the cab !ea&ing the ri&er inabso!ute shoc$ o&er how accurate!y he was proi!e. That)s proi!ing at the highest !e&e!8a!most supernatura!.

But that)s pretty much where )m coming rom when start to ta!$ about getting goo with

peop!e. >ou on)t necessari!y nee to stri&e to be another <an$in Fitch. But you shou! bestri&ing towar the ro!e o someone who has .asi+ /roilin, a.ilities8

To .e a 2/roiler3 or to /roile someone means that you rely u/on your instin+t and

.asi+ o.ser*ational sills to ,et a eel or who someone is& In other words- you are

always worin, towards answerin, the Juestion; 2#hat is this /erson’s dealE3

?ow how e/act!y o you o that" 3e!!, you o it by ignoring con&entiona! a&ice.Con&entiona! a&ice te!!s you to rea!!y ta$e the time to get to $now someone an it)s what)son the insie that counts. )m not a tota! assho!e but o ta$e a more rea!istic approach. useC!is?otes.

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'se 7lisotes to Get $head

For those o you who on)t $now what C!is?otes are, they are a !iesa&er. They sa&e a !ot o time an he!p you a&oi ha&ing to rea stu you on)t ha&e any interest in but nee to ha&e$now!ege on.

C!is?otes are basica!!y stuent stuy guies that are primari!y use by high schoo! stuentsin the 7nite States. They co&er a wie &ariety o topics but are most!y use or their

e/tensi&e summaries on !iterature. Teachers on)t !i$e them because they c!aim they !etstuents bypass reaing the assigne !iterature. The company c!aims to promote the reaingo the origina! wor$, an oes not &iew the stuy guies as a substitute or that reaing. abso!ute!y use them as a substitute or reaing the boring boo$s that were assigne to me inhigh schoo! an so i e&eryone e!se $new.

JJJ be!ie&e in reaing an abso!ute!y rea the boo$s oun interestingbeneicia!. But boo$s !i$e Wuthering Heights8 ha no interest in. Howe&er, $new wou! be teste onthe materia!. So use C!is?otes the night beore.

The main point want to ma$e about C!is?otes is that they he!p you cut through the

i!!er an unerstan +ust the basics o what you nee to $now. >ou on)t nee to $now e&erysing!e, meaning!ess etai!. >ou on)t nee to $now the “who!e story.#

That)s &ery simi!ar to how the wor! operates when it comes to person5to5person interaction.3hen peop!e interact with one another, especia!!y or the irst time, no one nees to $now thewho!e story. n act, no one rea!!y wants to anyway. ?o one rea!!y cares. There isn)t enoughtime to care. 6eop!e +ust on)t ha&e the time nowaays8 So what am rea!!y getting at"

ud,e a 9oo .y its 7o*er

That)s right. uge a boo$ by its co&er. 7se your common sense. it !oo$s !i$e a uc$, acts!i$e a uc$, an %uac$s !i$e a uc$8 it)s probab!y a uc$. That)s how the wor! operates.@&eryone +uges e&eryone. Sometimes this is a goo thing. Sometimes this is a ba thing,especia!!y when peop!e are unair!y +uge by their peers. The important thing to rea!ie isthat this is rea!ity.

?o one wants to ta$e the time to !earn e&eryone)s story own to the ine etai!s. ?o one has

the time an more important!y no one cares. 6eop!e, especia!!y those with goo “peop!es$i!!s#, abso!ute!y operate in 7lisotes ode. They can interact with a person, an baseupon how they !oo$conuct themse!&es, ha&e a genera! unerstaning o who that person isa$a what their ea! is. Base upon a ew $ey etai!s or characteristics that they obser&e, theycan pretty much summarie who a person is8 they $now what their ea! is.

perect e/amp!e o this is women. 3omen are &ery s$i!!e at operating in 7lisotes

ode. They on)t ha&e the patience to rea the entire boo$, meaning they on)t want to ta$ethe time to igure out a ue)s entire story. 'ost o them are too :: to o it anyway. ustthe main points wi!! o. Thin$ o any hypothetica! situation where a chic$ meets a ue out atthe c!ub an I0 minutes !ater she)s getting rai!e out by him bac$ at his p!ace *or in his car-8

:oes she rea!!y $now his story" ?o. She)s $nows the main points though a$a TH@CFFS?(T@S. That)s a!! that matters.

3omen can interact with a ue an $now what)s goo with him. They can te!! *with greataccuracy- what his ea! is. They $now i the guy has a !ot o conience. They $now i the

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guy is a p!ayer. They $now i the guy can easi!y ma$e riens. They a!so can te!! i the guy isa try har. They can te!! i he is “sae.# They can te!! i he is esperate. Basica!!y, women areamaing “screeners.# JJJ 3ay more to come on screening at a !ater time.

How %O' 7an Start 'sin, 7lisotes

So how can you become goo with peop!e" t starts with you !earning to +ust !oo$ or theC!is?otes. n other wors, when you come into contact an interact with someone or theirst time, +ust !oo$ or the main points when assessing what their ea! is. ud,e a .oo .y

its +o*er and use your instin+t& :on)t ee! ba an thin$ that you might be sha!!ow.@&eryone e!se is oing it. >ou might as we!! o it too. 'ost important!y, a!ways be aware othese I P7@ST(?S when you are interacting with someone or the irst time=

1- How o they !oo$"

2- How o they conuct themse!&es"

I- 3hat)s their ea!"

>ou shou! a!ways be as$ing yourse! that thir %uestion. 3hat is their ea!" The way youanswer this is by rea!!y obser&ing the other person an using your common sense. ?ow some

peop!e might be mora!!y oppose to +uging a boo$ by its co&er an say that it)s wrong. Tothem wou! say that i we are honest with ourse!&es, it)s ob&ious that e&eryone oes this.That)s +ust how the wor! wor$s. (thers might say that operating in C!i?otes moe iswrong because there are cases with some peop!e where “there)s more than meets the eye.# Tothem wou! say, that may be the case because sometimes there are “out!iers.# Howe&er, +ustocusing on the main points an using C!i?otes is accurate enough. n other wors, i you

+ust ocus on the main points when as$ing yourse! those %uestions, it)s &ery rare that you)regoing to be comp!ete!y wrong about someone. Chec$ out my &ieo where e/p!ain this=

?ow !et)s go through some e/amp!es starting with our rien <an$in Fitch=

1. How oes he !oo$"8 (!. 3ise. Focuse. There)s a ton o e/perience behin those eyes.

2. How oes he conuct himse!"8 He)s got a !ot o conience. He)s a natura! !eaer o peop!e. Because o his e/perience an trac$ recor he is intimiating an peop!e respect him.

I. 3hat)s his ea!"8 He)s an a!pha awg to the u!!est e/tent. @&en peop!e who ha&e no ieawho he is $now he is a poweru! guy. Howe&er, he is a !awe character because ater

ecaes o perection, he has grown arrogant *you)!! catch this in the mo&ie-. He)s thin$s he)sin&incib!e. The prob!em is that no man is8

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et)s go through a coup!e more e/amp!es. Then )!! rea!!y hammer it home why +uging a boo$ by its co&er a$a 7S?; CFF?(T@S is so important particu!ar!y when it comes tocon&ersations.

!5am/le 1: 7hie Fee ("a//er)

1. How oes he !oo$"8 He)s co&ere in tats an ice up. He !oo$s !i$e a thug. He !oo$s!i$e a ue that oesn)t o!!ow the ru!es an +ust oes what he wants. He !oo$s !i$e heoes rugs too. He)s einite!y a “ris$ ta$er#.

2. How oes he conuct himse!"8 He oes whate&er he wants an oesn)t o!!ow theru!es. He hangs out with ues +ust !i$e him. He a!ways posts pictures o himse!smo$ing wee on nstagram. He a!so gets arreste or stupiity an has spent time in

+ai!.

I. 3hat)s his ea!"8 He)s a rapper an oes a!! the norma! stu rappers o.

!5am/le <: "andom Polo Guy

1. How oes he !oo$"8 (!er goo !oo$ing ue. 6robab!y a proessiona! o some sort.He probab!y stays in !ine with the ru!es o society an oes what is e/pecte o him.

2. How oes he conuct himse!"8 He probab!y wears po!os an $ha$is as his casua!wear. He conucts himse! !i$e a sae guy. 6robab!y wor$s har uring the wee$ ango!s on the wee$ens. (nce in a b!ue moon, he an his other riens !i$e him mightget permission rom their wi&es to ha&e a guys) night out.

I. 3hat)s his ea!"8 He probab!y a guy who has o!!owe the ru!es his entire !ie. 3entto co!!ege. ;ot a +ob. 3or$e his way up the corporate !aer. ?ow he)s got a ancytit!e he can put on his in$ein. He probab!y marrie his co!!ege sweetheart. He

probab!y gets together with his o! co!!ege buies e&ery now an then to ta!$ aboutthe goo o! ays. He)s “stab!e# an “sae#.

?ow rea!!y on)t ha&e anything in common with either one o these guys. But cou!

abso!ute!y sit own with either one o these guys an ha&e the con&ersation !ow. t wou!n)t be aw$war. That)s what )m rea!!y ta!$ing about when mention peop!e s$i!!s8 oinge&erything you can to a&oi aw$warness in con&ersation *especia!!y at the beginning-. t)sabout $nowing who you are spea$ing with8 +uging a boo$ by its co&er an ma$ing menta!C!is?otes in your hea so that you can accurate!y assess the person you are spea$ing withan a+ust accoring!y.

For instance, wou!n)t bring up getting !ite *smo$ing wee- in a con&ersation with theranom po!o guy. 3ee is an i!!ega! rug. He might ee! uncomortab!e ta!$ing about that.Howe&er, cou! certain!y bring that up in con&ersation with Chie Lee.

nother e/amp!e might be go!. oubt Chie Lee go!s8 at !east not serious!y. So probab!y wou!n)t bring that up in a con&ersation with him. wante Chie Lee to comehang out !ater in the wee$, probab!y wou!n)t use go! as the acti&ity to entice him. That

probab!y wou! not be o interest o him. Howe&er, bet i as$e the other guy, there)s a

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goo chance he wou! be intereste. That guy probab!y go!s e&ery wee$en. wanteChie Lee to come hang out ) probab!y in&ite him to come smo$e some wee.

n genera! these wou! be the con&ersationa! topics wou! bring up i wante to ha&e aseparate chi!! con&ersation with each guy8

Chie Lee= smo$ing wee, rap music, sports *ootba!! an bas$etba!!-, partying

6o!o ;uy= in&estments, stoc$ porto!io, co!!ege, some sports, current e&ents

Basica!!y, the point )m trying to ma$e here is that you gotta be aware o who you arespea$ing with an a+ust accoring!y. <ea!!y get a ee! or who you are interacting with an

pay attention to the main ientiiab!e traits o that person. 3hat stic$s out" n a!ways besearching or answers to that a!! important %uestion8 #H$T IS TH!I" D!$LE

MMM IPO"T$T OT!: I #ILL OT mention 4ud,in, a .oo .y its +o*er- 2'SIG

7LISOT!S3- or women .e+ause that is what’s +alled S7"!!IG& That will .e

my ne5t series o arti+les ollowin, these ones on ,ettin, ,ood with /eo/le&

7losin, Thou,hts on 'sin, 7lisotes

uging a boo$ by its co&er an ma$ing menta! notes on the basics o an ini&iua! is theounation o goo peop!e s$i!!s. 3hether we want to amit it or not, those who ha&ee/ce!!ent peop!e s$i!!s are oten &ery s$i!!e at proi!ing peop!e. n other wors they canessentia!!y !oo$ at a person, pic$ up on their basic traitshow they conuct themse!&es, anha&e a pretty so!i unerstaning o who that person is. They can come up with an accurateanswer to that a!! important %uestion8

#hat is this /erson’s dealEEE

That)s what ma$ing an using your own C!is?otes with peop!e is a!! about. 6eop!e on)tha&e the time to rea!!y get to $now someone. n more important!y, they on)t care. ?eithershou! you. ust use the C!i?otes &ersion. 'ost o the time that wi!! o +ust ine.

The ma+or beneit o coming up with an using your own C!is?otes is that it ta$es a !ot othe guesswor$ out o your interactions. someone !oo$s an acts a certain way, you can probab!y interact with them in simi!ar manner to others !i$e them. >ou)re are getting to $nowthe person beore you e&en rea!!y interact with them on a persona! !e&e!.

>ou can ne&er rea!!y get too persona! with someone in an initia! interaction. But you canabso!ute!y get a genera! iea o who they are8 by +uging a boo$ by its co&er an coming upwith the C!i?otes &ersion o that person.

This is &ery simi!ar to ta$ing a mu!tip!e5choice test in schoo!. How o you gi&e yourse! the best chance o choosing the right answer" >ou o it by guessing what the answer may be

beore you !oo$ at the choices. your initia! guess happens to be one o the choices, thenthere)s a goo chance that)s the correct answer.

That)s essentia!!y what you are oing. >ou)re +uging a boo$ by its co&er an then ocusingon the main ientiiab!e characteristicstraits. <emember i it !oo$s !i$e a uc$, acts !i$e a

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uc$, an %uac$s !i$e a uc$8 it)s probab!y a uc$. n other wors, i someone !oo$s acertain way an actsconucts themse!&es in a certain way too8 you can probab!y say withconience that you $now what that person)s ea! is.

How to 9e+ome Good #ith Peo/le: Part II

(7on*ersations and Situational $wareness)

pri! A, 2014 By Sonny 1A Comments

6art !ai the ounation or my series on “How to Become ;oo 3ith 6eop!e.# <emember,it is imperati&e that you +uge a boo$ by its co&er an &isua!!y assess the person *or persons-you are spea$ing with. >ou cannot go into a con&ersation co! an +ust wing it without anythought as to who you are ta!$ing with. (n the !ipsie, you on)t ha&e time to try to e&a!uatee&ery sma!! etai! about a person a$a !earn their entire story. The so!ution"8 6ay attention tothe main points. Focus on what stic$s out in their appearance an beha&iora! traits.

9ottom line: 'se your 7lisotes&

Toay is about 6art though, con&ersations an situationa! awareness. 3hat oes that mean"t means we)re starting to get into the gra&y o how to get goo with peop!e. 3e)&e a!reaygone o&er how to proi!e someone an get a basic unerstaning o who we are ea!ingwithin an initia! interaction. ?ow it)s time to e!&e into the con&ersationa! aspect ointerpersona! communication. n other wors, how o we spea$ with peop!e an !ow incon&ersation" Better yet, how can we o our best to a&oi aw$war situations"

This oes not ha&e to be comp!icate at a!!. >ou on)t ha&e to rea count!ess boo$s on how to be socia!. >ou on)t ha&e to !isten to auio tapes. >ou on)t ha&e to atten specia! c!asses.)m cutting to the chase an te!!ing you how it is. ?o nee to o&er5!ogic !ie when you a!reayha&e the answer. Here are the main points want to co&er=

1) Peo/le want to tal a.out themsel*es (7omort and $++e/tan+e)

<) Small Tal (Get the 9all "ollin, and 7ommonality)

A) So+ial 7oordination (9e normal and a*oid awwardness)

1& Peo/le #ant to Tal $.out Themsel*es

@&eryboy !i$es to ta!$ about themse!&es. The sooner you rea!ie this the better. )m not being cynica! about it. )m not saying a!! peop!e are se!ish. 3e a!! !i$e to ta!$ about who weare, what we o, our e/periences8 nything that wi!! he!p others unerstan us better, wewant to ta!$ about it. 3e a!! ha&e a story an we !i$e to te!! this story to others8. 3hy"

t)s because eep own we a!! esire comort an acceptance. Some peop!e might c!aim thatthey +ust on)t !i$e socia!iing with others or worse, on)t !i$e peop!e. That may be the case

but the sa rea!ity is most o those peop!e are usua!!y +ust bitter because they are unab!e tosecure these things or themse!&es. They are not comortab!e with themse!&es or somereason *or reasons-. They are not accepte by their peers. on)t want this or you guys.


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you)&e oun my site an are tru!y into impro&ing yourse! *the right way-, then you eser&ethe best. you want it ba enough an actua!!y put the wor$ in8 you eser&e to get whatyou want. >ou eser&e that bomb ass !iesty!e that you antasie about.

But when you are ab!e to unerstan that peop!e want to ta!$ about themse!&es aneecti&e!y te!! their story, it rea!!y ta$es a !ot o the eort out o trying to ma$e a goocon&ersation. 3e)&e a!! been in situations where we “want it to wor$# so ba. 3e +ust wante&erything to be smooth an !ow.

This is ob&ious when it comes to ta!$ing to the women we !i$e or are &ery attracte to. 3e)&ea!! been uptight an in our own heas +ust praying that it wor$s out8 that we)re ab!e tostraight up Gersace si!$ that chic$ into the beroom *or get the K at !east-. 3e ha&e a!! trie too&erthin$ things an ha&e shot ourse!&es in the oot at !east once.

The same goes or regu!ar con&ersations where we want something rom the other person. 3eha&e a!! uge that up too at some point. :on)t worry. 6art wi!! co&er this8 an thensome.

3hen you +ust embrace the act that peop!e want to ta!$ about themse!&es, !ie gets a !ot

easier. Con&ersations ten to !ow better an peop!e wi!! !i$e you more. n when peop!e !i$eyou more8

$FIG "I!DS@$7N'$IT!7!S 9!7O!S !$S%&

So how o you integrate this into your e&eryay con&ersations" How can you ma$e this at theoreront o your con&ersationa! game p!an"

>ou o it by stra!ing that ine !ine between ,enuine +uriosity an .orin, inter*iew mode&

>ou on)t want to ta!$ with someone an the who!e con&ersation is you basica!!y p!aying 21%uestions with them. t the same time it is iicu!t to tru!y be intereste in some stranger)sstory.

So my suggestion *especia!!y or a irst interaction- is to=

$s Juestions .ut also +ontri.ute to the +on*ersation .y +ommentin, on the /erson’sanswers&

n genera!, you want to ha&e more comments *by both o you- in con&ersation than %uestions.(ne o my c!osest riens was ta!$ing about this with me a ew years ago. He e/p!aine thatyou when you ta!$ to someone a!! you ha&e to o is throw “!itt!e go! nuggets# out there.

3hat he meant by that was to +ust as$ !itt!e %uestions here an there. 3hen they) answer,you ma$e some comments an e&erything pretty much !ows rom there. 'aybe as$ somemore %uestions a!ong the way. They)!! probab!y as$ you some %uestions as we!!. That is theessence o sma!! ta!$.

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The purpose o sma!! ta!$ is to get the ba!! ro!!ing. This is how con&ersations start. >ou on)t$now them. They on)t $now you. But than$u!!y you rea the section beore this an $nowthat in genera!, peop!e want=

7omort and $++e/tan+e

The easiest way to get the ba!! ro!!ing on comort an acceptance is to estab!ish some sort ocommona!ity. 3hen you ha&e something in common, that becomes the meat an potatoes oyour initia! con&ersation. There)s no nee to try an bounce aroun rom topic to topic. >ouob&ious!y on)t want to get to the point where you are arai to branch o into other stu tota!$ about but einite!y mi!$ that common groun as much as you can.

Hopeu!!y, you rea 6art o this series because that)s the easiest way to get the ba!! ro!!ingan in that common groun. That)s right8 proi!e an +uge a boo$ by its co&er. 7se yourC!is?otes guys.

3hen you are ab!e to accurate!y sum up an ini&iua!, “$nowing what to say# is a wa!$ in the par$. !! you ha&e to o is pay attention to what stic$s out to you about that person. 3hatcatches your eye" 3hat o you thin$ is interesting about that person" n u!timate!y, howcan you re!ate to that person *base upon your obser&ations-" t that point, sma!! ta!$ is easy.n when sma!! ta!$ is easy, con&ersations !ow.

Here’s a /ersonal e5am/le:

Bac$ in summer 2011, was wor$ing with a !obbyist to he!p secure uning or a non5proitorganiation in 3ashington :C. Basica!!y, we wou! go on Capito! Hi!! e&ery ay an meetwith representati&es. (ur +ob was to essentia!!y ta!$ about how great our organiation wasan con&ince them to gi&e us money or some upcoming pro+ects. t was a !ot morecomp!icate than that but that was the situation in a nutshe!!.

'y e/pectation was that was going to be horrib!e at this. in)t ha&e much e/perienceoing that an on!y $new the basics o the organiation an the upcoming pro+ects.Howe&er, was goo with peop!e. $new how to get the ba!! ro!!ing an estab!ish comort&ery ast. The way i this was by +uging a boo$ by its co&er a$a 7S?; CFFS?(T@S.

nstea o +ust wa!$ing into the oice an trying to p!ea my case, wou! ta$e the time to!oo$ aroun the oice an igure out what this person)s ea! was. wou! see how the oicewas ecorate an what story was to! in the pics. ) start by maybe ma$ing some commentsabout those an that)s how comort was estab!ishe.

(ne particu!ar e/amp!e that stic$s out in my hea was when saw one guy ha a picture ohim ho!ing up a ish. )&e been a isherman my entire !ie. So pretty much starte thecon&ersation by commenting on that. 3e ta!$e about ishing or a goo 10 minutes unti!

brought up why was there. t that point, the commona!ity was easi!y estab!ishe. He agreeto onate to my organiation that ay.

So the main !esson is that getting the ba!! ro!!ing with great sma!! ta!$ is the most irect pathto meaningu! con&ersations *e&en i you ha&e no c!ue on what)s going on-. 'oreimportant!y, it can he!p you get what you want. 6art wi!! co&er that in greater etai!.

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A& So+ial 7oordination

This is a bigger prob!em toay than it was I0540 years ago. Techno!ogy is great but a!so seeit has ha&ing ruine a generation. you are intereste, ha&e pre&ious!y iscusse the

prob!em here. ha&e a!so oere a possib!e so!ution here.

This is an e&en bigger prob!em amongst guys that re%uent re pi!! sites an 67 orums8where a !ot o guys want to !earn how to get !ai. They +ust on)t see that socia! aw$warnessis a B; 6<(B@' that nees to be aresse8 beore anything e!se. They on)t recognie*or on)t want to amit- that they are socia!!y aw$war.

)&e sai this time an time again. >our ounation must be one o goo genera! socia! s$i!!s.>ou ha&e to be goo with peop!e. There are e/ceptions but that)s genera!!y how it goes. >oucan)t s$ip that no matter what anyone says or tries to se!! you on. Ta$e a !oo$ at any 67

bootcamp or any i!me prouct where you can see the auience. The auience is usua!!yguys that a!! !oo$ &ery socia!!y aw$war an usua!!y <@ G@<> S(C> 3L3<:.They are years away rom resu!ts because they are years away rom being consiere “coo!#

or goo at ta!$ing to peop!e.

From a con&ersationa! stanpoint, you ob&ious!y want to a&oi aw$warness. w$warnessma$es e&eryone uncomortab!e an !i$e mentione in the pre&ious sections, C('F(<T is&ery important. n the way you o this is simp!e.

9e ormal

@asier sai than one or some peop!e. But that)s e/act!y what you o. The easiest way to benorma! in a con&ersation is to be aware o the situation a$a situationa! awareness.

Be aware o the situation. :on)t say or o stu that is not appropriate or that situation oren&ironment. That)s a sureire path to aw$warness. t)s aw$war or the recipient because itma$es them uncomortab!e. t)s aw$war or the person who sai it because they rea!ie theyou!e up an now there)s that air o aw$war si!ence.

>ou gotta be smart. n genera!, it)s better to p!ay it sae in con&ersation. >ou on)t want to

push it too ar. (nce something comes out o your mouth, it)s a!reay out there. >ou can)tta$e it bac$. Here)s some e/amp!es.

"iley 7oo/er (Philadel/hia !a,les #ide "e+ei*er)

There was an incient !ast summer when a &ieo came out that epicte <i!ey Cooper sayingsome not so nice things about b!ac$ peop!e. That &ieo became pub!ic or the entire wor! tosee. That)s not goo news especia!!y or a guy who p!ays in the ?F. The ma+ority o p!ayersare b!ac$.

He was suspene rom the team but then %uic$!y “orgi&en.# Howe&er, there)s no going bac$ rom that. He might p!ay a!ongsie b!ac$ teammates an get a!ong ine with them, butthat aw$warness o what was sai wi!! a!ways be there unti! his p!aying ays are o&er. His

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teammates wi!! a!ways !oo$ to him as that guy who mae those racia! comments at a LennyChesney concert.

That)s an e/amp!e o poor situationa! awareness on his part. 6oor remar$s regar!ess but heshou! ha&e $nown better than to say it on tape. (nce something goes out on the nternet, it)sthere or the who!e wor! to see ore&er.

e (#hen I irst started my 4o.)

+ust starte wor$ here in ustin about 2 months ago. ?ow wou! einite!y consiermyse! to be “re5pi!!e#. a!so $now that one o the ownsies o this is that cannot rea!!yta!$ about my be!iese/periences regaring a !ot o stu in the white co!!ar wor!. t can)thappen. o that, wou! ma$e peop!e ee! uncomortab!e.

3hen irst starte, there was that perio o time where my co5wor$ers wante to get to$now me8 ee! me out an see what my ea! was.

For instance, some o the entry5!e&e! women were curious about my ating !ie. :i ha&e agir!rien bac$ home" 3as a!reay ating someone here" ?ow there)s 2 ways to answerthis. cou! te!! the truth or sugarcoat it.

Truth= (h we!! +ust bro$e up with my gir!rien in ?ew >or$. Since )&e been in ustin,)&e been bac$ in cooe houn moe8 partying my ass o an pretty much tagging a newchic$ any night go out.

Su,ar+oat= (h we!! +ust bro$e up with my gir!rien in ?ew >or$. )m pretty much oingmy own thing now.

Both communicate the same thing. Howe&er, the secon answer sti!! enab!es my co5wor$ersto be comortab!e with me. Ha sai the irst answer an bragge about being a p!ayer, wou! ha&e been thought o as creepy an perhaps e&en try har.

The easiest way to a&oi aw$warness in con&ersation is to p!ay it sae, especia!!y in theinitia! interaction*s-. Better to a!! short o the !ine than to o&erstep it. you o&erstep it, you

can rare!y go bac$. usua!!y on)t !i$e the iea o “p!aying it sae# but when it comes tota!$ing to someone or the irst time, it)s the smart thing to o. n genera!=

Don’t ,et too /ersonal (Juestions or answers)

Su,ar+oat the truth when ne+essary

9e aware o the situation

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This artic!e was a !itt!e bit more iicu!t or me to write because it)s common sense. t)s stu ha&e a!so one automatica!!y an ha&e a!ways been aware o. )!! amit that it too$ me awhi!e to rea!!y thin$ about this stu an come up with important points to $eep in min.Howe&er, it)s not about me. t)s about >(7.

6art was or the guys who rea!!y strugg!e socia!!y. t)s or the guys who are not ab!e to ho!norma! con&ersations. t)s or the guys who ee! aw$war or creepy.

'y goa! was to at !east introuce some important points an oer some e/p!anation abouthow stu typica!!y wor$s. thin$ those I main points are the most appropriate ones to a!ways

be aware o=

Peo/le want to tal a.out themsel*es

The im/ortan+e o small tal

So+ial 7oordination and Situational $wareness

you are someone who is socia!!y aw$war an in it har to re!ate with other peop!e, thoseI main points wi!! ma$e things easier or you. They high!ight what is important. hering tothem wi!! enab!e you to ha&e better !owing, !ess aw$war con&ersations. )&e sai my

piece8 say yours in the comment section be!ow.

How to 9e+ome Good #ith Peo/le: Part III

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($ e!!as hopeu!!y by now you see the importance o bui!ing a strong ounation8 a strongounation o peop!e s$i!!s an socia! awareness. Because this is where that ounation rea!!ycomes into p!ay.

6art ta!$e about using C!is?otes to proi!e peop!e so that you can ha&e iea o what tota!$ about. 6art ocuse on using that initia! unerstaning o a person*s- to !ow in

con&ersation an e/hibit socia! awareness a$a be norma! an not be socia!!y aw$war. 6art is important because it ocuses on a genera! goa! that @G@<>(?@ has in their !ie8

G!TTIG #H$T %O' #$T

t)s that simp!e. 3e a!! want something8 anything an e&erything. The iea! situation is to +ust wor$ har an ta$e it. C!aim what you be!ie&e is yours. >ou want something, go get it.

3hen you ha&e 1009 contro! o&er your situation in !ie, you can abso!ute!y go out into thewor! an +ust ta$e it. Howe&er, it is &ery rare that we ha&e comp!ete contro! o&er ouren&ironment.


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'ost o the time, we must ea! with others. They are either staning in our way or simp!ynee to be con&ince to gi&e in to our re%uests. This artic!e wi!! co&er the topic o con&incingothers to gi&e in to our re%uests8 a$a how to get what you want rom peop!e. That)s 6art o our “How to Become ;oo with 6eop!e# series in a nutshe!!.

?ow in most instances, you can)t +ust straight up as$ someone or something. Contrary towhat many peop!e say, most on)t !i$e straight to the point ia!ogue, especia!!y in the o&er!yeminie society o toay. “Te!! it !i$e it is# +ust oesn)t cut it in a !ot o cases. t turns a !ot

o peop!e o. That)s why it)s important to $now the essentia!s o 2G"!$SIG TH!#H!!LS3&

GREASING THE WHEELS DEINED

;reasing the whee!s aresses the issue o peop!e not !i$ing to be ea!t with in a irectmanner, especia!!y when it comes to a&ors or re%uests. There)s a!ways that sense oaw$warness when someone irect!y as$s or something.

n a!! honesty, to grease the whee!s means to BS someone into oing what you want or themgi&ing you what you want. t means te!!ing that person e/act!y what they want to hear as away o !ubricating the situation to get the whee!s ro!!ing in your a&or. So you rea!!y aregreasing the whee!s.

To !itera!!y grease the whee!s, means to ma$e them run smooth!y. That)s what we are oinghere8 ma$ing things run smooth!y *in con&ersation-. 3e are a&oiing that aw$warness bynot irect!y as$ing or what we want. nstea, we ma$e things run smooth by !uing themup *te!!ing them what we $now they want to hear- an then ropping it on them *as$ing whatwe want-.

How DO %O' Grease the #heelsE

The way you grease the whee!s is by o!!owing the basics out!ine in 6art an 6art . 6art8 uge a boo$ by its co&er an +ust use the C!is?otes. 3hen you are ab!e to sum a

person up an proi!e them with reasonab!e accuracy that ma$es con&ersations easier. >ouha&e a pretty so!i ounation or a goo con&ersation.

n 6art , mentione8

1) Peo/le want to tal a.out themsel*es&

<) 'sin, small tal to ,et the .all rollin,&

A) 9e so+ially +oordinated and aware o your en*ironment&

6utting it a!! together, $now as much about someone by summing them up an !etting themre&ea! their story. et them pro&ie the answer to the %uestion, “3hat is this person)s ea!")

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s ar as getting what you want, it)s a matter o a+usting to the ini&iua! you are ea!ingwith. t)s &ery rare that you can +ust !at out as$ them or what you want. The reason or thisis that you ha&e not pro&ie anything in the interaction. ;otta gi&e something to getsomething. So what shou! you gi&e" 3hat can you pro&ie that wi!! ma$e that person ee!comortab!e enough to gi&e you what you want"

'D!"ST$DIG

By not cutting to the chase an aw$war!y as$ing or what you want right away you areshowing that you unerstan what)s going on. 'ost important!y, you show that youunerstan how stu genera!!y wor$s. >ou unerstan that there is oten a process that mustta$e p!ace. >ou unerstan that you ha&e to chat an ini&iua! up irst. >ou ha&e to BS tosome e/tent. That)s greasing the whee!s. That)s how it)s one.

Contrary to a !ot o stu out there on re pi!! sites that suggests that you shou! “not care#

an “+ust o what you want#, you rea!!y can)t +ust barge in an orce your wi!! on peop!e too what you want. That)s sort o the myth behin the who!e “be an a!pha ma!e# an +ust owhat you want garbage !oating aroun. Some peop!e ta$e this to !itera!!y mean +ust go aterwhat wi!! get you resu!ts the %uic$est. That)s not rea!ity.

<ea!ity is i you want to become goo with peop!e an u!timate!y goo at getting what youwant, there is a inesse to ea!ing with peop!e that must become a part o you arsena!. >ouha&e to be ab!e to smooth tal peop!e when the situation ca!!s or it.

SOOTH T$LFIG G"!$SIG TH! #H!!LS

et)s go through a ew e/amp!es so you can see that )m not u!! o it an that this stu rea!!yis common sense. But common sense abso!ute!y nees to be hammere into the heas oreaers that ha&e waste a !ot o time browsing pic$5up sites an other nternet orums.

gain, )m getting this common senseget goo with peop!e materia! out o the way now sothat when get to more interesting topics !i$e how to screen chic$s an get !ai, e&erything

wi!! ma$e sense. >ou wi!! see +ust how important a strong ounation roote in goo basic peop!e s$i!!s is. That)s my goa!. I a! "uildin# so!ethin# here and there$s a reason why I

cover certain topics at certain ti!es%

!5am/le: Gettin, a re/resentati*e to /ro*ide undin, to a non/roit or,aniKation

1& Strai,ht to the /oint (Low /otential): Tim comes into the oice an !ays it a!! out on thetab!e. He is meeting with him hoping to get uning or his organiation. Tim gi&es him the

boring etai!s o the organiation an prays that he)s ee!ing generous at the en o his pitch.

<& Greasin, the wheels (Hi,her /otential): 'i$e comes into the oice an !oo$s aroun. Hegets an unerstaning o what this guy)s ea! is. He notices a picture o him ho!ing up a ish.He ma$es a comment on that an ta!$s about how he !o&es ishing too. Bui!s o o that anBS with him or a ew minutes. ust !ets him ta!$ about himse! an his e/periences. Then

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gets to the reason why he)s there. 'i$e te!!s him that he $nows he)s &ery busy an that hewou! be he!ping a great cause to he!p inance his organiation)s uture pro+ects. !somentions that it wou! !oo$ great on his recor as we!!.

Boom8 Tim wou!n)t stan a chance. He wou! show no unerstaning8. ?ounerstaning that this ue is busy an no unerstaning that with what !itt!e ree time heha, he wou!n)t want to !isten to a noboy basica!!y come in an beg or money without

bringing anything to the tab!e.

3ith the secon p!an o attac$, 'i$e wou! ha&e a much better chance. He wou! abso!ute!y be greasing the whee!s. He wou!n)t be coming in an spewing boring stu right away. He) be ta!$ing about something coo!8 something they perhaps ha in common. He wou! be bui!ing comort. 'ost important!y, he wou! be !etting him ta!$ about himse!. 'i$e wou!show that he has an 7?:@<ST?:?;& His time is precious. He might as we!! !et himwaste it ta!$ing about something he probab!y en+oys8 himse!. (nce he greases the whee!s!i$e that, as$ing or what he wants an potentia!!y getting it becomes much easier.

!5am/le: Gettin, a /romotion at wor

1& Strai,ht to the /oint (Low /otential): Ste&e wor$s his ass o an oes a!! the rightthings8 or so he thin$s. He comes into wor$ ear!y. He stays !ate. He $eeps his hea own!i$e a goo !itt!e wor$er bee an oes what he)s to!. He e&en comes in on the wee$ens toget ahea an ta$e care o things or the boss. His strategy is to +ust o his +ob so there)s noway they can stop him rom c!imbing up the corporate !aer. He treats his boss !i$e his bossan that)s pretty much the e/tent o the re!ationship. 3hen there)s an opening, he wi!! go intothe oice an +ust !ay it a!! out there8. Hoping or the best.

<& Greasin, the wheels (Hi,her /otential): Tra&is wor$s har8 or at !east oes the bareminimum to gi&e o the i!!usion o wor$ing har. He comes into wor$ on time *might be aew minutes !ate-. He !ea&es at e/act!y =00 6' *probab!y a ew minutes ear!y-. his bossas$s him to o something, he oes it. He has a goo re!ationship with the boss. He)s met hisami!y. (nce in a whi!e they get a rin$ ater wor$. Tra&is $nows he)s !oo$ing to bumpsomeone up to manager soon. So he ta$es the boss out with his boys an buys him a !apance at the strip c!ub.

Ste&e is +ust another wor$er bee. 3hen he goes to as$ or a promotion, he)!! probab!y ha&e toremin the boss o what his name is. The boss wi!! probab!y go with someone he ee!s is a

better it or the company. That someone wi!! probab!y be Tra&is. Tra&is $nows how to p!ay

the game an wi!! probab!y win. He probab!y comes in an starts greasing the whee!s romay 1. He $nows that this is &ery much !ong term whee! greasing. He !aughs at his +er$5o boss) stupi +o$es an smooth ta!$s him on a regu!ar basis. (&er time he e&e!ops a goore!ationship with the boss. He BS)s him enough so that the boss !ets his guar own a !itt!e

bit. The boss becomes so comortab!e with Tra&is that he consiers him a!most as muchrienami!y member as emp!oyee. s !ong Tra&is oesn)t mess it up, the promotion is his.

!5am/le: In*itin, a +hi+ to your dorm room or se5

1& Strai,ht to the /oint (Low /otential): an is a co!!ege reshman. He in)t come intoco!!ege with much e/perience with chic$s. The summer beore co!!ege he spent most o histime reaing pic$5up orums. He trie to soa$ up as much inormation as possib!e aboutgetting “goo at game.# He e&en too$ a bootcamp with a pic$5up company. He use hismoney that he got rom grauating high schoo!.

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(n his bootcamp, the gurus te!! him that he has to p!ow. They te!! him that a!! chic$s arenymphos that want se/. They te!! him that he can get any gir!8 he +ust has to p!ow.

(ne night, an goes out by himse! to a rat party. He ha to wait a whi!e because he in)tha&e any connections with that rat. (nce he gets there, he oes his !itt!e warm5up approachesan e&eryone sees him as a weiro. By chance, he meets a rea!!y run$ chic$ in the $itchenupstairs. He spews some BS about going to an ater party. She oesn)t ha&e a!! o her senses

but or some reason an ecies to “pu!! her# rom the party bac$ to his orm room. (nce

they are bac$ there, she rea$s out because there is no ater party8 +ust her in a orm roomwith some creepy stranger. an tries to ma$e out with her conirming that he +ust !ie to gether bac$ to his room or se/. She immeiate!y !ea&es.

<& Greasin, the wheels (Hi,her /otential): 'ar$ is a co!!ege reshman. He ha a !ot oriens in high schoo! an has e/perience with chic$s. He grauate high schoo! with a hotgir!rien an chi!!e with her in the summer. He brea$s it o right beore they go away totheir respecti&e schoo!s. He oesn)t want to ea! with the BS with constant!y being monitorean he oesn)t want to ee! paranoi thin$ing his chic$ might cheat on him. He comes toco!!ege a ree man.

(ne night 'ar$, ro!!s out to a rat party with his boys rom the ha!! an a ew chic$s rom thegir!s) wing. 3hi!e out he meets a chic$ that)s riens with one o the gir!s. They hit it o an'ar$ einite!y wants to hit it. He rea!!y oesn)t o much +ust. He +ust !ets the chic$ ta!$about herse! an rops a naughty comment here an there. s they ta!$ an rin$, 'ar$ getsincreasing!y physica! with the chic$8. ;i&es her a p!ayu! push here an there, graes herhips, an e&entua!!y ma$ing outgrabbing her ass. He suggests they get out o there but thechic$ is a chic$ so she comes up with some e/cuse about her riens. 'ar$ gaes into thechic$)s eyes an $nows she)s own but probab!y oesn)t want to ee! scana!ous in ront oher riens. So he suggests they bounce or a !itt!e bit to go get some oo an “hang out.#She ee!s comortab!e with 'ar$ an comortab!e that he $new how to not ma$e her ee!uncomortab!e in ront o her riens. She !ea&es with 'ar$ $nowing u!! we!! what)s gonnago own.

an probab!y isn)t getting !uc$y an i he $eeps trying to pu!! chic$s bac$ to his p!ace byusing a!se pretenses without attraction, it)s on!y a matter o time beore one o them rea$sout enough to contact the po!ice. The prob!em with him *an other aspiring 67)s that wor$!i$e thisis that there)s was no comort an no unerstaning. There was no greasing o thewhee!s to aci!itate “se/# being an acceptab!e option or the chic$. There was no e&ience othe chic$ being attracte to him an einite!y no e&ience that she wou! be own or se/.

'ar$ has a !ot going or him in this situation, but he sti!! gets it. He $nows the chic$ !i$es

him an was open to se/. They !irte an mae out. He ha to grease the whee!s by te!!ingher they were going to !ea&e to eat an “hang out.# s a resu!t, 'ar$ is probab!y going to pass out with a u!! stomach an an empty sac$.

JJJ gain, the who!e banging chic$s thing wi!! be co&ere in great etai! once the Getting

Good with People series is comp!ete8. This is the correct orer to teach it in my opinion.

9ein, a Smooth O/erator

The main reason or emphasiing “being goo with peop!e# ear!y in the !ie o Stren,th 9ySonny is &ery simp!e8. >ou are going to ha&e to ea! with peop!e throughout your entire!ie. you want a !ie choc$ u!! o awesome e/periences an getting what you want, other

peop!e wi!! p!ay a part in that.

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>ou are going to want a !ot throughout your !ie. >ou wi!! want money. >ou wi!! want riens.>ou wi!! want women. >ou wi!! a!ways want more. Howe&er, because o the unspo$en ru!eso society, you cannot +ust b!atant!y as$ or these things.

>ou can)t +ust rop the bomb on your boss that you want a promotion. >ou can)t +ust ho!!a ata chic$ as$ing her to si!$ right away. n you can)t +ust as$ someone or money. s$ing orsomething straight up is usua!!y a turn o or peop!e. The way you get aroun this is by=

GREASING THE WHEELS

n other wors, be a smooth operator. Smooth ta!$ peop!e by te!!ing them what they want tohear. 'a$e them ee! comortab!e with that act that you $now how to han!e them. They$now you want something. ust recognie those situations where it)s best to ho! o on goingater what you want. Bui! that comort by !etting them ta!$ about themse!&es.

oo$, peop!e abso!ute!y hate being !ie to but they !o&e to be BS). They usua!!y $now whenit)s happening an +ust a!! into p!ace. That)s rea!ity. t)s too easy. Thin$ about it rom therecipient)s 6(G, such as the boss.

magine i you were the boss. t wou! be &ery easy to ha&e an emp!oyee that pretty muchtreate you !i$e another one o his coo! riens. There wou!n)t rea!!y be that aw$war boss5emp!oyee re!ationship. 3hen promotion time came, it wou! on!y be natura! to ma$e thatue *that smooth operator- your ne/t manager or whate&er.

t)s rea!!y that easy. >ou can guie the interaction in the irection o your choosing i that)swhat you want8 no matter how ear!y in the interaction you may be. >ou +ust ha&e to $nowenough about the person*s- you are ea!ing with an a+ust accoring!y. >ou simp!y ha&e tore!y on the concepts hammere in 6art an 6art . 3hen you are ab!e to o that on aconsistent basis, greasing the whee!s an getting what you want wi!! become secon nature.)&e sai my piece8 say yours in the comment section be!ow. !so be on the !oo$out or=

How to 9e+ome Good #ith Peo/le: Part I6

(The 'ltimate Goal; ulti

dimensionality)pri! 21, 2014 By Sonny E Comments

3hy am emphasiing getting goo with peop!e irst" 3hy in)t +ust get into the thic$ oit by who!e5hearte!y ocusing on the ating a&ice or e&en my own persona! boybui!inga&ice" t)s because prie myse! on oing things the right way an tru!y wanting to he!p

peop!e. That)s why ha&e ecie to ma$e a i&e part series on “How to Become ;oo 3ith6eop!e.#

'y goa! isn)t to ma$e a big sp!ash right away an go or the %uic$ buc$. that were the case

wou! ha&e thrown together some generic e5boo$ about some non5sense an ca!!e it myown. Strength By Sonny is not about that. This community is about oing things the rightway an the right way is epenent upon a so!i ounation.

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This is a se!5impro&ement website that wi!! o&er time pro&e to be un!i$e any other. amconient that SBS wi!! someay become a wie!y recognie community because am theri&ing orce behin it. >ou guys *an e&eryone e!se who is serious about B@C('?;B@TT@<- are my moti&ation. chec$ my e5mai! in the morning with the same e/citementthat a $i chec$s uner the tree or Christmas. t means a !ot when see that someone ins&a!ue in what wrote.

ta$e se!5impro&ement serious!y an e&ery mo&e ma$e is with your guys) best interests

$ept in min. 6@(6@ is the one constant that matters.

There is no su+h thin, as an awesome liestyle without /eo/le in your lie&

you o not recognie the importance o ha&ing the right peop!e in your !ie *or you)re +ust astubborn pric$- you wi!! s!ow!y ecay in iso!ation. man shou! not spen much time a!oneto his thoughts. >ou $now why"8 Because it)s ar easier to sway towars negati&ity than

positi&ity. Thin$ about it. t)s so common or peop!e to say “!oo$ at the bright sie o things.#That)s because we are constant!y thin$ing about how ba we ha&e it8 constant!y thin$ingabout what we on)t ha&e &ersus what we o ha&e.

The best way to a&oi those pita!!s is to surroun yourse! with peop!e. Spening time withcoo! riens an the right ac%uaintances enab!es you to protect yourse! rom your ownnegati&ity.

spent en o SummerFa!! o 201I !i&ing bac$ at home. oo$ing bac$ on it now an the !ie ha&e now8. t suc$e. was bac$ in my o! room, !i&ing uner my parents) roo, strugg!ingto in a “proessiona! +ob.# Ha been a!one probab!y wou! ha&e sat a!! a!one in my roomthin$ing about how ba ha it. @&entua!!y my &o!canic temper wou! ha&e consume mean there)s no oubt in my min wou! ha&e mae some poor ecisions.

But8 ha a team. was ab!e to reac%uaint with my o! buies rom high schoo!. n met a coo! chic$ that mae my gir!rien whi!e was bac$ home. That team rea!!y he!peme get through that perio whi!e sa&e up money an !oo$e or emp!oyment e!sewhere.@&en though was bac$ home, my team was there or me an he!pe me $eep my sanity.

9ottom Line: Do !*erythin, %ou 7an to $6OID ISOL$TIO; es/e+ially when youare ,oin, throu,h some tou,h times&

So what)s the goa! in a!! this" How o you eine success when it comes to this getting goowith peop!e materia!" The answer is 'LTIDI!SIO$LIT%& >our goa! shou! be toconstant!y be wor$ing on yourse! to become a mu!ti5imensiona! man. Thin$ o yourse! asinching towars mu!ti5imensiona!ity. Beore continue !et)s iscuss what mu!ti5imensiona!ity actua!!y is.

9e+omin, a ultiDimensional an

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There)s probab!y some coo$ie cutter einition o what it means to become a mu!ti5imensiona! man. ust so we are on the same page, wi!! gi&e you a!! my own einition sothat there is no conusion mo&ing orwar.

$ multidimensional man is one who is a.le relate with indi*iduals o many dierent

a,es- .a+,rounds- and +ultures& Peo/le sills are at his +ore& He has !8P!"I!7!

and that !8P!"I!7! ,i*es him le*era,e when +on*ersin, with others& Instan+eswhere he is una.le to ind some sort o way o relatin, with another /erson and main,

them +omorta.le are rare& 0B@1@1B

That)s my einition o a “mu!ti5imensiona! man# as o pri! 1A, 2014. Fee! ree to ho! meto it. i$e my introuction artic!es on game, that einition wi!! remain the same or years tocome. 7!timate!y, mu!ti5imensiona!ity is a ne&er ening %uest. >ou)!! ne&er reach a pointwhere you “get there.# 'u!ti5imensiona!ity is base upon @Q6@<@?C@ anL?(3@:;@8 you)!! $eep getting more o both unti! the ay you ie.

#hy 2ultiDimensionality3 is the ,oal;

'u!ti5imensiona!ity is the goa! because this is the essence o being goo with peop!e.!5/erien+e an nowled,e are what wi!! ma$e you goo with peop!e. They are twins8.

Bad little girls that wi!! ma$e you more comortab!e with yourse! an more conient whenyou are interacting with others.

3hen you ha&e !oas o e/perience an practica! $now!ege on many ierent sub+ects, thechances o you being ab!e to re!ate with others increases ramatica!!y. Furthermore, e&en iyou ha&e nothing in common with the other person, ue to @Q6@<@?C@, you can usua!!yin a way to re!ate with them an ma$e them ee! comortab!e by 8. ;<@S?; TH@3H@@S *6art -. ($ so we $now what mu!ti5imensiona!ity is an we $now why it isimportant8 now !et)s iscuss how >(7 can become mu!ti5imensiona!.

How to 9e+ome ultiDimensional (<01B and .eyond)

This a&ice is most!y app!icab!e to the younger guys *1E52- gi&e or ta$e a ew years. Thereason or this is because when you are young8 the s$y)s the !imit. >ou)re pretty much at the pea$ o your reeom. s you get o!er, the !i$e!ihoo o running into reeom roab!oc$s*marriage, $is, ebt, i!!ness, staying in an u!i!!ing +ob- increases. you are o!er an ha&eenough reeom, you might in this useu! too.

($ so these are the genera! areas you want to ocus i you want to become mu!ti5imensiona!.

o.ility

3hen you are young an sti!! got your youthu! energy8. >ou einite!y want to ha&ee/perience !i&ing in ierent p!aces an a&oi stagnation *!i&ing in one p!ace-. 3hen you areyoung, a change o en&ironment is not on!y un an e/citing8 but necessary *i you want to!i&e a u!! !ie-. 3hen you are young, your u!timate game p!an shou! re&o!&e aroun setting

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up a so!i ounation. n the S9S 7ommunity, we want our ounation to be bui!t uponST"!GTH an P!OPL! SFILLS.

The easiest way to become e/perience at interacting with a wie &ariety o peop!e is toactua!!y interact with a wie &ariety o peop!e. n the best way to o that is to mo&earoun8 +ump rom p!ace to p!ace whi!e you are sti!! young.

For e/amp!e, the irst thing that e&eryone a!ways comments on when they irst meet me is

“3ow, you)&e been a!! o&er.# on)t rea!!y thin$ o myse! in that way but compare to mostues my age8 you might be ab!e to say that. )m rom ?ew >or$ an !i&e there u!!5timeunti! was 1E.

spent the past ew years most!y !i&ing in ?orth Caro!ina an partying at other schoo!s in theSoutheastern 7S. Co!!ege was &a!uab!e or me because o the act that got to meet an !i&eamongst peop!e rom a!! o&er the country. !earne the importance o $nowing who wasta!$ing with an !earne how to ma$e a+ustments. ne&er wou! ha&e rea!!y e/periencethat ha remaine on ong s!an. !ong the way ha&e spent time in 3ashington :C, asGegas, :a!!as, an now !i&e in ustin, TQ. That as up to a !ot o peop!e rom manyierent bac$grouns that ha&e gotten to $now. 'y peop!e s$i!!s, whi!e a!ways goo, were

nothing compare to what they are now. That comes rom si/ years o e/perience sort ohopping a!! aroun the 7S !i&ing in &ery ierent citiese/periencing the ierent cu!tures*or scenes- associate with each city.

So when you are young, einite!y o your best to get e/perience !i&ing in ierent cities. s!ong as you get out o the house, you wi!! meet a ton o peop!e rom many ierent

bac$grouns. !so o e&erything you can to get out rom uner your parents) wings as soonas possib!e8 3hen you stic$ aroun in one p!ace !i$e that, you miss out on the opportunityto interact with a wie &ariety o peop!e. t)s most!y the peop!e in your hometownpeop!e youwent to high schoo! with. ie is a !ot better when you are away rom home an ha&e yourown p!ace.

JJJ The best e/amp!e o this is my ather. He grew up in the 6hi!ippines. He was out o thehouse at 1M an bounce a!! aroun the sian 6aciicustra!ia beore coming to the 7S *age2"-. He starte o in an e&entua!!y mae his way to ?>C. He)s got an increib!e storychoc$ u!! o e/perience8 one ay )!! !et him te!! it to you guys.

Fnowled,e o Po/ 7ulture (9asi+ understandin, o what’s 2hot3)

This again is or the younger guys. >ou gotta ha&e at !east a basic unerstaning o what)s hotan who)s hot. 3hat is going on in the wor! o pop cu!ture" 3hat)s coo! rom a ashionsense" 3hat)s the coo! music e&eryone is !istening to" 3hat are the unny mo&ies ante!e&ision shows that crac$ e&eryone up" >ou ha&e to ha&e a basic unerstaning o thesethings because that stu p!ays a big part in re!ating with other young peop!e your *our- age.'ost ues who “get it# a$a are coo! ha&e a basic unerstaning o this. To be sae wou!abso!ute!y ma$e e&ery eort to become ami!iar with HIPHOP 7'LT'"!& Hip5hopcu!ture is &ery in!uentia! in the 7S8 it in!uences the way we spea$ an the way we ress.This has been stuie at the uni&ersity !e&e!. !! you guys in @urope, !et me $now i this isthe case as we!!.

n the 7S, most coo! peop!e *guys an gir!s- !isten to at !east some rap an $eep up to atewith who the hot *popu!ar- artists are. 'ost important!y, the ues that are abso!ute!y $noc$ino puss on the reg are usua!!y &ery much in!uence by hip5hop cu!ture. They roc$ chains,wear itte hats, might ha&e some tats, an b!ast hoorat music in their cars when they areri&ing. There)s e/ceptions but in my e/perience, those are the ues that ten to $i!! it. )!!

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ta!$ a !ot more about rap an how it he!ps when it comes to chic$s when get into that area o se!5impro&ement.

JJ was &ery much in!uence by !istening to a !ot o rap music growing up an that cu!tureis &ery much a part o my swag. hope to ma$e that more an more e&ient as e&e!op thissite.

3hen you ha&e an unerstaning o what)s going on in the wor! o pop cu!ture8 when you

$now who onah Hi!! is8 you)&e seen Superbad… you get reerences to 3or$aho!ics8 youare ami!iar with songs by i! 3ayne, :ra$e, Lenric$ amar8 t ma$es the tas$ o re!atingwith peop!e *young- in toay)s ay an age a !ot easier.

thin$ this is especia!!y beneicia! when it comes to being ab!e to re!ate with chic$s. 3henyou ha&e a basic unerstaning o the pop cu!ture stu that has been coo!re!e&ant within the

past ecae8 it)s +ust i!!ustrates that >(7 ;@T T. t shows that you)re a norma! ue whohasn)t been iso!ate!i&ing uner a roc$. This is another instance where 67 stuents$iswho re%uent pic$5up orums a!! short8 they +ust “on)t get it# a$a they are not coo! an arenot up to ate on what)s hot. 3hen you come across as a ue who “oesn)t get it#, ma$ingriens can be a iicu!t tas$. By eau!t, getting chic$s a!so becomes a iicu!t tas$. JJ The

on!y e/ception being i you want to ocus on some weir niche !i$e hipster or ;oth chic$s.

JJJ wou! a!so encourage you to ha&e an unerstaning o what 7S@: T( B@ H(T8 !i$e bac$ in your parents) ays. There)s nothing !i$e the o!5schoo! an it shou! ne&er beorgotten. )m saying to go aroun roc$in be!! bottoms or whate&er. But it)s coo! to ha&esome ami!iarity with artists such as @arth 3in an Fire, Coo! , ?otorious B;, :eeppar, 6in$ F!oy, e Reppe!in, an (tis <eing. 3hat a ranom !ist haha.

!5/erien+e #orin, Dierent o.s

+ob is when you o something an get pai or it. thin$ it)s important or e&ery youngman to ha&e e/perience wor$ing a +ob. >ou !earn the &a!ue o money wor$ing a +ob. )&e haa !ot o +obs since was a teenager. Here)s a short !ist o the stu ha&e one to ma$e moneyo&er the years8

Camp counse!or, igging itches, pumping cesspoo!s, mate on a ishing boat, stoc$ingshe!&es at a grocery store, stoc$ing she!&es at Toys <) 7s, Baseba!! nstructor, Tutor, bui!inghouses, &arious construction gigs, wor$ing in an auto shop, bussing tab!es, co! ca!! sa!es,

par$ maintenance, wor$ing at a harware store, wor$ing at a !ibrary, se!!ing te/tboo$s,

!obbying on Capito! Hi!!, writing artic!es or a news!etter, custoia! wor$ at a !aboratory,oorman at a bar, wor$ing at a e!i, an now wor$ as a consu!tant or a mining company.

3ow, that)s a !ot. )m a!! o&er the p!ace but there)s no enying that )&e got e/perience in a bunch o ierent areas. This has einite!y he!pe me out because )&e ha to ea! with a !oto ierent peop!e o&er the years at my +obs. a!so ha&e accumu!ate some basic $now!egehere an there that cou! use to re!ate with other peop!e. gain, we see our two naughtygir!s L?(3@:;@ an @Q6@<@?C@ coming bac$ into the picture.

$now a !ot o these re pi!! sites an orums ta!$ about how +obs are e&i! an whate&er but8they are sti!! ways or you to get e/perience wor$ing an interacting with other peop!e. 3hen

you ha&e actua! wor$ e/perience, that)s when you can get a irst5han !oo$ into how thewor! unctions. >ou !earn how to interact with others an o&er time recognie the patterns inhow peop!e beha&e8 this ma$es it much easier to re!ate with others.

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%our Path to 9e+omin, ultiDimensional

can)t te!! you e/act!y what you nee to o to become as goo as possib!e with peop!e.7!timate!y, you are going to ha&e to igure out your own ormu!a or that. That)s goes or anyaspect o se!5impro&ement. can on!y gi&e you guie!ines base upon what ha&e seen wor$ with myse! an others who are c!ose to me.

be!ie&e mu!ti5imensiona!ity shou! be that !ight at the en o the tunne! that you ne&er

%uite reach. >ou shou! a!ways be chasing ater it by gaining as much e/perience an$now!ege as possib!e. That)s what wi!! ramp up your peop!e s$i!!s. That is what wi!! boostyour conience8 $nowing that in any socia! situation you can ha&e an iea o what)s goingon an re!ate with others.

can honest!y say that when you are we!! a!ong the path to becoming mu!ti5imensiona!, aninteresting thing tens to happen8

How to 9e+ome Good #ith Peo/le: Part 6

(So+ial reedom)pri! 21, 2014 By Sonny 2E Comments

So we ha&e come to the ina! part o our “How to Become ;oo 3ith 6eop!e# series. )&eha a !ot o un writing these up an hope that you wi!! in them he!pu! i you arecurrent!y strugg!ing in the socia! aspect o your !ie. @&en i you aren)t, maybe these artic!eswi!! ser&e as a reminer o what is wor$ing or you.

n 6art G, we ta!$e about the importance o becoming a mu!ti5imensiona! man an whatyou can o to put yourse! on that path to being ab!e to easi!y re!ate with others8 ;et asmuch FO#L!DG! an !8P!"I!7! whi!e you are young.

ene 6art G with a c!ihanger or sorts because sai an interesting thing tens to happenas you e/pan yourse! an become more mu!ti5imensiona!8 that)s what 6art G is about. n6art G, we wi!! iscuss So+ial reedom.

So+ial reedom

There)s a !ot o ta!$ about the concept o socia! reeom. There)s a reason or that8 it)simportant. thin$ that this concept is oten misunerstoo because o the act that most ueswho are aware o it oten try to attain it without ha&ing that so!i ounation o goo peop!es$i!!s. That)s a sureire way to being !oo$e at as weir or socia!!y aw$war8 i you try to

become a socia!!y ree ini&iua! without a base o so!i communication s$i!!s you can become a socia! outcast pretty %uic$!y i you o something stupi.

This reason or this is because there seems to be some conusion o&er what socia! reeomactua!!y is8 socia! reeom :(@S ?(T mere!y mean ha&ing the abi!ity to o an say

whate&er you want. t oesn)t mean app!ying an “ on)t care# attitue towar e&erything youo. t +ust oesn)t. )&e seen it a!! too oten an rea about it count!ess times when use tocontribute to a 67 orum8 scores o socia!!y aw$war $is spam approaching e&ery chic$they see an going “beast moe# burning it to the groun. That)s not socia! reeom. That)s


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stupiity. That)s !ac$ o common sense. n rea!ity, that)s socia! ignorance because they on)t$now any better.

a $i is socia!!y aw$war an ecies to operate in “ on)t care# moe8 that)s not rea!!yan iea! so!ution. He might get ri o some an/iety an recognie that it)s o$ay to ta!$ tostrangers. Howe&er, he is not socia!!y ree. He +ust oesn)t $now any better. 'oreimportant!y, he oesn)t ha&e any rea! contro! o&er the situation. t)s pretty much the !uc$ othe raw. t)s ranom. t)s entire!y epenent upon the other person. The reason or this is

because i the $i oes not ha&e that so!i ounation o goo peop!e s$i!!s, he has no chanceo being smooth in con&ersation an potentia!!y greasing the whee!s to get what he wants. Heoesn)t e&en $now what how to go about oing those things.

'ost $is who get harcore into pic$5up an go through the trenches o co! approachingchic$s a!! the time <@ ?(T S(C> F<@@. ?o matter how much they say they on)tcare, the truth o the matter is they o. )&e wor$e with 67 guys beore an ha&e seen thestu that goes on in those types o orums. They say stu !i$e go har8 pimp it8 beastmoe8 p!ow8 an burn it to the groun. 3hat happens when none o that wor$s" 3hat)shappens on those nights when the !itt!e tric$s an tactics o not wor$"8. They are !et a!!a!one to their thoughts ma$ing that !ong, !one!y bac$ to where&er8 witnessing how e&eryone

e!se is ha&ing a b!ast, partying it up with their riens. (r they en up with other guys +ust!i$e them at a iner at 4 ' spam approaching run$ chic$s that come in an ta!$ing pic$5uptheory in their spare time.

!ot o guys who are into pic$5up are not socia!!y ree an are nowhere e&en c!ose becausethey put so much timeeort into 67 that they neg!ect their abi!ity to re!ate with others anthey neg!ect bui!ing so!i socia! circ!es. They are &ery much one5imensiona! because somuch time is tie into approaching an the %uest or pussy. That)s why some guys e&en resentwhen others get !ai rom socia! circ!e an try to rationa!ie to themse!&es that “it oesn)tcount i it wasn)t a co! approach.#

7!timate!y, they are not ree because they put so much time an eort into one a&enue oe/posure to peop!e8. pproaching chic$s an meeting up with other 67 $is +ust !i$ethem.

t)s &ery common in 67 communitiesorums actua!!y. !ot o $is *especia!!y the youngerones- thin$ that ha&ing the abi!ity to co! approach means so much. t)s coo! an einite!y

puts you ahea o the cur&e but it can on!y get you so ar. t oesn)t gi&e you much in termso true socia! reeom because when the ma+ority o your time is put into approaching you arenot in contro!8. t)s pretty much you pushing the !imit an hopeu!!y noboy o&erreactstriesto get the po!ice in&o!&e. JJJ ha&e seen ues get $noc$e out an some e&en go to +ai! or

co! approach stupiity, so $now that worst case scenario is a einite possibi!ity.

But bottom !ine, co! approach#not caring# oes not e%uate to actua! socia! reeom becauseo the act that you are re!ying on !uc$ o the raw pretty much. >ou on)t actua!!y ha&econtro!. >ou)re not ictating the &arious aspects o your socia! e/istence8 it)s ream chasingat best.

But we)re not about that here at SBS8 we)re about oing things the right way. 3e)re aboutsetting up a so!i ounation o goo peop!e s$i!!s by way o becoming a mu!ti5imensiona!man. on)t want you guys to be !i$e those $is wanering aroun aim!ess!y in the c!ub a!!night !ong8 begging or scrapsgetting own on yourse! that “your game is o# whi!e you

see e&eryone e!se has a sense o be!onging within their group. >ou shou!n)t want that either because that)s a %uic$ way to ee! ba. >ou shou! be stri&ing or happiness8. >ou want to be the guy who is $issing his gir!rien on ?ew >ear)s when the c!oc$ stri$es minight,surroune by your coo! riens an +ust $nowing that you are on the right path ane&erything)s gonna be a!right. That sense o security, that empowerment8 simp!e stu !i$e

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that can an wi!! ma$e the ierence. ($ so !et me introuce to you the Strength By Sonnyeinition o SO7I$L "!!DO.

So+ial reedom $++ordin, to Stren,th 9y Sonny

This is what socia! reeom actua!!y is8

SO7I$L "!!DO is the abi!ity to set up your esire socia! situation at any gi&en time perio in your !ie. t means ha&ing the abi!ity to get the riens you want in your !ie an setup the ating !ie you want. From a genera! “socia!# stanpoint, it means you ha&e the abi!ityto o what you want. you want “coo! riens#, you can put yourse! out there an ha&e thesocia! sa&&iness to see$ outberien the right peop!e. t a!so means you can recognie the

peop!e to stay away rom. (n the !ip sie, it means you a!so ha&e the abi!ity to operate in!one wo! moe i that is neee or brie perios o time *such as being bran new to a city-.

From a ating aspect, it means that you can purpose!y set up the ating !ie that you want.

1. you want to be a p!ayer, you can go out uring the aynight hitting on chic$s an get!ai.

2. >ou can get !ai eicient!y8. 'eaning not ha&ing to go out to barsc!ubs with the intent toget !ai. >ou can get simp!y go about your norma! ai!y routine an hit on the hot chic$s thathappen to come a!ong your way.

JJJ 'ore on getting !ai efficiently at a !ater time.

I. >ou can re!y e/c!usi&e!y on your a!reay estab!ishe socia! circ!e to get !aiget agir!rien.

4. >ou can “get# a gir! in a committe re!ationship when you want instea o re!ying onchance.

That)s what true socia! reeom is8 ha&ing the abi!ity to set up the socia! !ie that you want*whene&er you want- an ha&ing the abi!ity to set up the ating !ie you want *whene&er youwant-.

mean that shou! ma$e sense right" >our socia! !ie can be thought o as being comprise o your regu!ar riens an riens you bang *chic$s- haha. Freeom *itse!- can be thought o

ha&inggetting what you want, whene&er you want. 6ut them together an you got socia!reeom.

s you can imagine, getting true socia! reeom is much easier sai than. t is a!mostimpossib!e i you !ac$ superb peop!e s$i!!ssocia! sa&&iness. That is what ha&e trie to getyou guys in the habit o bui!ing rom this i&e part series. et)s conc!ue by re&iewing theseries an tying this a!! together.

7on+ludin, Thou,hts on How to 9e+ome Good #ith Peo/le

This series was important or me an it is certain!y important or you. i$e my two partintrouction on game, this is series on peop!e s$i!!s is part o an o&era!! ounation we aresetting up here.

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6eop!e is the one constant that matters. >ou want happiness" >ou want that awesome !iesty!ewhere you ha&e security an a sense o be!onging" ts starts with ha&ing goo genera! peop!es$i!!s. t starts with ha&ing an iea o who you are interacting with an +uging a boo$ by itsco&er to e&e!op your own C!is?otes to achie&e basic unerstaning a$a answering the%uestion “3hat is their ea!"# *6art -. 3hen you ha&e an iea o who you are ta!$ing with, itenab!es you to !ow in con&ersation an ha&e situationa! unerstaning. ust remember to !etthe other person ta!$ about themse!&es, bui! o o sma!! ta!$, an a&oi aw$warness *6art-.

>ou)re going to want a !ot o things in !ie. t)s pretty rare that you can +ust go out an get itor yourse!. >ou wi!! ha&e to ea! with peop!e most o the time. >ou ha&e to ha&e a basicunerstaning o who you are ea!ing with an bui! rapport with them so that you cangrease the whee!s *6art -. 'u!ti5imensiona!ity is the most important e!ement in a!! this8not on!y or your abi!ity to re!ate with others but a!so or your own we!!5being. ;et as mucho&era!! L?(3@:;@ an @Q6@<@?C@ as you can8 it ma$es you mu!ti5imensiona!which gi&es you that abi!ity to re!ate with others air!y easi!y *more chances or estab!ishingcommona!ity-.

(&era!!, becoming a mu!ti5imensiona! man wi!! ma$e you more conient in your

interactions *6art G-. n ina!!y, mu!ti5imensiona!ity is what wi!! gi&e you the best chanceat getting true socia! reeom. ;etting what you want socia!!y *riensgir!s- when you wantis not an easy tas$. >ou can either get it by e/treme !uc$ or superior peop!e s$i!!s. you wantcontro!, you nee those peop!e s$i!!s. Being a mu!ti5imensiona! ini&iua! *someone with a!ot o e/perience an $now!ege- gi&es you the best chance because again the constant is

peop!e. 3hen you ha&e e/perience an $now!ege, you $now who to associate withwho toa&oi an you $now *rom e/perience- how to ea! with certain peop!e8.

That)s the name o the game e!!as. rea!!y !aye it out there an i my best to e/p!ain peop!e s$i!!s in a i&e part series8 thin$ we can put this topic to rest or a !itt!e bit anocus on some more e/citing things. Be sure to chec$ out our >ouTube Channe! an Twitteror constant upates. 3e)re +ust getting starte gent!emen much more to come

Sonny’s Guide to S+reenin,: Part I (The

Only Nuestion That atters)

pri! 2A, 2014 By Sonny 2E Comments

to! you we were +ust getting starte8 3e!come to 6art o Sonny)s ;uie to Screening.

3ith the series we are &ery much getting bac$ into the atinggame section o ourcommunity. )m thin$ing this might be a si/ part series *maybe more-. This is big. t)s big because not many guys who get into the who!e “how to get gir!s# stu $now what screeningis an most certain!y o not $now how to actua!!y screen chic$s. This is a prob!em.

JJ creit ; with irst coining the term “screening# an being the irst to teach it bac$when he irst starte his site. )&e un$nowing!y “screene# probab!y since high schoo! anha&e $nowing!y an wi!!ing!y one it since ugust 2010.

This is a ma+or prob!em that traitiona! 67 sources simp!y neg!ect. Traitiona! 67“gurus# promote the iea *unrea!istic antasy- that a!! gir!s are :TF at any gi&en time an

with the right amount o “game#, you can get any gir! into the beroom. They teach a &eryunrea!istic game p!an. That game p!an is to basica!!y approach e&ery gir! you see *regar!esso the socia! situation-8 you on)t get her, it)s because your “game was o# or “were notin state.# you o get her, it)s because your “game was on# or “were in state.# oo$, cou!

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scams in&o!&e. on)t want to because there wou! be a !ot o negati&ity in&o!&e an +ustwant to $eep it as positi&e as possib!e. JJJ t is &ery tempting though, a !ot o so!i pointswou! be touche upon. Howe&er, or now, the main thing want you guys to rea!ie is thattraitiona! pic$5up is !awe or the o!!owing main reasons8

1- t is ineicient.

2- t is unrea!istic *the ine/perience auience member buys into antasy-.

I- !ot o “e/perts# on)t ha&e the ating !ie they portray.

4- !ot o “e/perts# ha&e some sort or emotiona!psycho!ogica! issue that was ne&eraresse. :eicating their !i&es to pic$5up was their way o sweeping those issues to thesie.

- 'ost sources ignore he!ping guys impro&e the things that tru!y matter8 a$a he!ping guys bring more to the tab!e.

JJJ cou! ha&e !iste o&er a hunre things8 these were the irst that came to min.

gain, be!ie&e who you want to be!ie&e. 7!timate!y, it)s up to you to ecie who the!egitimate sources are. put my pictures up. put up &ieos on >ouTube. 3hen get the time, wi!! want to ma$e my own “inie!# &ieos8 you can ecie whether or not am a creib!esource to be gi&ing atinggame a&ice. >ou can ecie whether or not am a ue whospea$s rom actua! e/perience. n you can ecie whether or not )m spittin the truth here.@ither way wou! strong!y encourage you to rea 6art an 6art o my origina! guie ongame8 <ea!!y ta$e a !oo$ at those 10 aws.

($ enough ranting8 enough ac$now!eging the au!ts in the 67 community. This aboutus8 our team8 Team SBS. 3e are about oing things the right way an $eeping thingssimp!e. 3e are about becoming inorme on the stu that matters an u!timate!y getting whatwe want. Become strong8 become inorme8 get what you want. That)s our game p!angent!eman.

The 10 Laws "e*isited and Sim/liied

There)s a reason why wrote that two part guie to game artic!e irst8 That)s our ounationor becoming as attracti&emascu!ine as possib!e an getting !ai. t)s our ounation o truthor the who!e “how to get gir!s# materia!. 'ost important!y, it)s about he!ping us ocus on thestu that rea!!y matters.

It’s a.out /layin, the ,ame with the odds in your a*or&

'ost communitiescompanies ta$e a shoot as much as you can and hopefully you hit

something approach. t SBS, we ta$e a ar ierent approach to hunting chic$s *i you want

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to ca!! it that-. 3e are about becoming as attracti&e as possib!e an going ater rea!isticoptions. 3e are about being sharp an precise.

3e are not about the antasy o o&ercoming insurmountab!e os, p!owing, o&ercoming anti5s!ut eense an then triumphing with the !ay ater se&era! hoursayswee$smonths o“wor$ing on a chic$#. That)s the type o ineiciency you see anonymous ners writing aboutin their !ay reports a$a story writing on 67 orums.

3e want resu!ts an we on)t want to waste time. 3e want to p!ay the game on “easy moe.#'ost communities teach this game stu in a way that ma$es getting !ai comparab!e tohitting DD mph astba!! that)s tai!ing in on your hans. C!ose your eyes an swing har8maybe you)!! get !uc$y. t)s not that iicu!t nor shou! it be portraye in such a manner. )mteaching it in a way so that it)s more !i$e hitting a beach ba!! o o a tee8 @S> '(:@.

It’s a.out indin, those o//ortunities when the odds are in your a*or and e5e+utin,&

That)s my game p!anminset. That)s how p!an on teaching this. The 10 aws are ore&er

ingraine in me. was ortunate enough to emphasie my peop!e s$i!!sabi!ity to re!ate withothers as a young man growing up. p!ay to win an !i$e to p!ay when the os are in mya&or8 when go out trying to co! approach chic$s an get !ai. Socia! circ!e is $ing but )!!e&entua!!y get to that as we!!. Here)s a brie insight into my approach *when go out-=

on)t approach “mi/e sets# or e&en gir!s in big groups8 go ater chic$s that are bythemse!&es or with 152 gir!riens.

on)t waste hours ta!$ing to chic$s that are c!ear!y una&ai!ab!enot intereste by p!owing8 a chic$ is not a&ai!ab!e or not intereste on)t care, immeiate!y !ea&e an try to inone who is.

on)t spam approach e&erything on site8 use my genera! obser&ation s$i!!ssocia!coorination to assume possib!e :TF chic$s an ocus on them.

on)t see gir!s o a!! races as being the same8 @/perience te!!s me that white gir!s are themost :TF. So ocus a!most entire!y on hitting on white chic$s.

on)t see a!! gir!s as being the same8 !oo$ or “+hi+ ed,e#, physica!attributescharacteristics that inicate a wi!!ingness to ha&e some una wi! sie.

on)t o!!ow a “pic$5up chec$!ist# to “game# gir!s or try to orce them to !i$e me8 spitthat smooth, se/y !ow when )m ta!$ing to them an physica!!y touch them *graing their waist, strong eye contact, whispering naughty ta!$ in their ear, an maybe e&en snea$ing in anibb!e here an there-. they on)t ob+ect probab!y ha&e a chance.

on)t try to pu!! gir!s bac$ to my p!ace without ha&ing some sort o inication o“ownness# an then try to ma$e se/ happen by p!owing through anti5s!ut eense8 pu!!chic$s that are high up on the :ownness Sca!e. They are not chic$s that wi!! re%uire me towor$. For the most part, they are chic$s that L?(3 se/ is going to happen an wi!! betopping me o within minutes o getting bac$ to the crib.

on)t approach in aw$war situations8 wait or the right momentcircumstances to ma$emy mo&e.

on)t as$ or chic$s) numbers when they are c!ear!y una&ai!ab!e or my intent to e&entua!!yha&e se/ with them is not mae abunant!y c!ear *through &erba!physica! !irting-. on)t

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“wor$ on chic$s# by engaging in !ong “gamey# te/t threas that !ea to nowhere8 getchic$s) numbers that are :TF *or at !east inicate that they are attracte- but simp!y can)t!ea&e with me right then an there. sen a ew !irty te/tspics, get them on the phone, anma$e it happen when we both ha&e ree time.

on)t put on a a$e persona an try to be something am not. on)t !ie to chic$s preteningto be their rien an e&entua!!y try to “game# them into my be8 am myse!. )m nice but)m sti!! Sonny r&ao8 a big ouchebag rom ?>. There)s no conusion as to who am an

what want. ?o chic$ has e&er saithought ) ma$e a great boyrien who wi!! become herrien irst an then ta$e her out on some ates to ancy restaurants beore we irst $iss. t)smae &ery c!ear rom the get5go i am se/ua!!y attracte to a chic$. They $now what theyare getting themse!&es into. They are either ? or (7T or the most part8 sometimes cangrease the whee!s with the ones who are on the ence.

on)t become emotiona!!y attache or e&en consier trying to e/c!usi&e!y ate hustlers

*chic$s who proit rom their !oo$s in some way-8 am &ery se!ecti&e as to who ma$e anactua! gir!rien. Chic$s who are constant!y being gi&en &a!iationmoney or their !oo$s arenot gir!rien materia!. !i$e $in, beautiu! gir!s that come rom goo ami!iesha&e mora!s.

on)t go out to barsc!ubs with the intent to ha&e a one night stan an hopeu!!y $eepherma$e her my gir!rien *a chic$ that wou! ate e/c!usi&e!y-8 want a high %ua!itygir! in my !ie, chances are )m not going to meet her out getting wrec$e at the c!ub an then

bang her. Chic$s !i$e that are usua!!y “sie piece# materia! at best, chic$s that you hit upwhen you wanna get your +oint coppe on a 3enesay.

That)s pretty much a samp!ing o my minsetgenera! p!an o attac$ when it comes to thewho!e ating game. wi!! e/p!ain a!! that stu in greater etai! in the upcoming parts. But ornow, !et)s eine what S7"!!IG actua!!y is.

!so be sure to rea the o!!owing artic!es beore tota!!y getting into what ha&e to say onscreening. This series on screening is pretty much use!ess i you on)t ha&e an iea o whatactua!!y matters *in terms o your attracti&eness an what you can o to ma/imie it- anon)t ha&e a basic ounation o goo genera! peop!e s$i!!s=

The Only Nuestion That atters;

n 6art o our “How to Become ;oo 3ith 6eop!e# series, we ta!$e about usingC!is?otes to proi!e a person. This is what screening is8 e/cept ocusing on chic$s. %ou

are /roilin, +hi+s8 >ou are as$ing yourse! an trying to answer the on!y %uestion thatmatters=

#hat is this +hi+’s dealE

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That is your %uestion. That is what you are trying to igure out8 3hat is this chic$)s ea!"The way you answer that is by re!ying upon your genera! obser&ation s$i!!s an socia!coorination to proi!e the chic$.

%our ultimate ,oal in all this is to ind out as mu+h inormation a.out the +hi+ as ast

as /ossi.le (/uttin, to,ether 7lisotes) so that you +an mae a reasona.le assum/tion

a.out her le*el o downness (I you want to ,et laid)&

On+e you ha*e an idea o what her deal is and a de+ent understandin, o her le*el o

downness- you now how mu+h eort you will need to /ut in to tryin, to .an, her (or i

you e*en ha*e a +han+e at all)&

MMM Ideally- it won’t tae mu+h eort&

This is a big reason why got the peop!e s$i!!s series out o the way irst. t is rea!!y not possib!e to screen without a ounation o so!i peop!e s$i!!s an socia! sa&&iness. t)s +ustnot8 >ou nee to ha&e the basic abi!ity to rea peop!e so that you can accurate!y reawomen an $now what to o.

Screening is an important component to the who!e go out an get !ai thing8 3ithout it,getting !ai is pretty much numbers game an !uc$. 3hen you o imp!ement screening intoyour arsena!, going out to get !ai becomes a much more eicient process. >ou cou! e&en goso ar as to say that it becomes !ess about the numbers game.

Since we are ocusing on ining out what a chic$)s ea! is, !et)s brie!y get into :@B<@L@<S *os are not in your a&or- an :@ 'L@<S *os are in your a&or-. )!!a!so i!!ustrate the minset that the typica! aspiring 67 wou! ha&e &ersus what a sharpscreener wou! ha&e.

JJJ !so, one thing that einite!y nees to be c!ariie is the act that OST 7HI7FS $"!

OT DO#. 'ost chic$s are not se/ua!!y a&ai!ab!e to the e/tent that they are goo to goright then an then. That)s +ust not how the wor! wor$s. Traitiona! 67)s ne&er got this an

)m not sure i they e&er wi!!. But usua!!y it)s one thing or another with chic$s so :@B<@L@<S are usua!!y mae apparent ear!y on.

Deal 9reaers

3hat is a ea! brea$er" t)s usua!!y ba news8 t)s a piece o inormation that inicates*usua!!y c!ear!y- that se/ is not going to happen soon *i at a!!-. >ou want to in these outear!y on when you are proi!ing a chic$. So when you go to as$ yourse!, “3hat is thischic$)s ea!"#8. i something on this !ist happens to come up, you shou! probab!y c!assiy

the chic$ as not :TF an mo&e on *or grab the K an hit her up8. :epens on your goa! anhow own she rea!!y is-. JJJ ny sign o these usua!!y shits the os (7T (F >(7<FG(<=

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She c!ear!y inicates she is not intereste.

She is in a committe re!ationship.

Her bianchusban is with her.

She is with a !arge group o riens.

She is with a group o riens that is run by the “mom# o the group.

She +ust got out o a re!ationship an is in “ hate men# moe.

She is comp!ete!y sober.

She is &ery re!igious.

She is atina or B!ac$.

She is weire out by any &erba!physica! !irting.

She has $isis a sing!e mother.

She is there with her ami!y.

She has to get up ear!y in the morning to o something.

She comes across as shytimi.

She !egitimate!y is “not that $in o gir!.#

She herse! is unab!e to !ow in con&ersation *socia!!y aw$war-8

n the !ist goes on. There)s rea!!y a who!e bunch o reasons why a chic$ wou! not be ownor a&ai!ab!e. Those were a ew that came to min. The point is there)s nothing you can rea!!yo. !coho! might he!p you grease the whee!s a !itt!e bit but wou!n)t try to re!y on it toomuch. 3hen a !egitimate inicator o !ac$ o ownness comes up, it)s in your best interest torecognie it an mo&e on.

Ty/i+al P'$= The aspiring 67 who spens hours watching >ouTube &is an writing postson pic$5up orums typica!!y oes not unerstan this. one o those things on that !ist *or

any other !egitimate ea! brea$er- comes up, he oes what he has been brainwashe into be!ie&ing. He)!! o e&erything in his power to p!ow an “p!ay to win.# He might thin$ thathe)s oing an awesome +ob o “o&ercoming shit tests# by staying in set no matter what. But inrea!ity he is +ust wasting time an energy. He)s most !i$e!y annoying peop!e an +ust ma$inghimse! seem more creepyweir. 7!timate!y, he is a time waster8 he wastes a !ot o timeta!$ing totrying to pu!! chic$s that it)s +ust not going to happen with. :epening on thesituation an how much o a pest he rea!!y is, a conrontation o some sort is &ery possib!e.

JJJ ;etting $noc$e out, getting $ic$e out o the c!ub, getting arrestespening time in +ai!8. 3hi!e those are a!! e/treme possibi!ities, ha&e persona!!y seen them p!aye out*within the !ast year- so you can)t te!! me that nothing ba can happen. Something ba can

an probab!y wi!! happen i you on)t use common sense an push it too ar.

S+reener= The screener *guy who goes out an screens chic$s- ta$es a ierent approach. one o the things in the !ist comes up *or something simi!ar- he uses common sense. Hea!reay has a ounation o goo peop!e s$i!!s. He can te!! i the chic$ is !ying. that)s the

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case, he might try to grease the whee!s a !itt!e bit to see what happens. there is a !egitimateea! brea$er at p!ay, meaning the chances o her being :TF are s!im, he wi!! a+ustaccoring!y. she is not :TF right then an there *but there)s a chance she might bee&entua!!y-, he)!! grab the number an try to te/tca!! to e&entua!!y hang out. she)s not :TF*an can te!! that she ne&er wi!! be- the con&ersation ens right there. He immeiate!y !ea&esan tries to in a chic$ that shows potentia! signs o being :TF or high up on the ownnesssca!e. He)s on the !oo$out or :ea! 'a$ers8 So when he goes to as$ himse! the %uestion“3hat is this chic$)s ea!"#8 He)s searching or chic$s where the answer wi!! be “this chic$

is out to get some# or “ got a ecent shot at getting this chic$.#

Deal aers

ea! ma$er is any ob&ious inicator that se/ can be a possibi!ity. They usua!!y inicate thata chic$ is :TF or at !east open to the iea i the right guy comes a!ong. 9y ollowin, the

selim/ro*ement ad*i+e on this site (and other le,itimate sour+es lie S9S)- you +an

in+rease your +han+es (odds) o .ein, that ri,ht ,uy& 3hen you go out to c!ubsbars that iswhat you are !oo$ing or. s a screener, you want to run into these situationcircumstances.

Bottom !ine, un!i$e the ma+ority o chic$s who are out, these chic$s on)t necessari!y ha&e a pa!oc$ on their &agina. Chic$s in these situationscircumstances might be open to the iea o se/. @ither way they are worth paying at !east a !itt!e bit more attention to an ma$ing sure1009 that you $now what the ea! is beore you !ea&e. you are a coo!, norma! ue, who!oo$s goo, an has some !a&or to him8 these chic$s can be money time or you. something on this !ist comes up, the o shit more ? >(7< FG(<. Here we go8

She c!ear!y inicates that she S ?T@<@ST@: *&erba! an physica!-.

She as$s “3hat are you up to !ater"#

She co! approaches >(7.

She)s ha a ew rin$s an is &ery !irty.

She is there by herse! *or with 1 gir!rien-.

She)s rom out o town *&isiting or the wee$en-.

She is sing!e.

She is in a re!ationship but seems !i$e the type o chic$ who wi!! cheat.

She +ust got out o a re!ationship an is in “ nee to get !ai# moe.

She has a tongue ring.

She)s a white gir! in co!!ege party moe.

She)s a hot white gir! with some asstits an a bit o a ratchet &ibe.

She oesn)t ob+ect to you getting a !itt!e physica!.

She “accienta!!y# grabs your ass or touches your piece.

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She as$s i you ha&e any rugs.

She says you are hansome, se/y, hot, or “her type.#

She says you remin her o an e/.

She as$s where you !i&e.

She shows genuine curiosity by as$ing you %uestions.

She c!ear!y inicates that she oesn)t ha&e anything to o the ne/t ay.

gain, those are +ust a ew that came to min rom my own e/periences o&er the years. Fee!ree to a your own in the comments. But as harcore screeners on the SBS Team, we !i&eor that. 3e on)t want to try an hit on chic$s that went out with a pac$ o D riens *guysan gir!s- an waste precious time trying to “game# her, p!ow, an pray that we can ma$esomething happen. 3e want to use our ounation o goo peop!e s$i!!s to !oo$ or potentia!s!am un$s. 3e want to run into the hot chic$ with a naughty tongue ring waiting or a rin$

by herse! at the bar. 3e want to run into the chic$ that +ust bro$e up with a neey, paranoi

boyrien. 3e want to run into the chic$ by herse! at the ma!! an hour beore c!osing whooesn)t ha&e any p!ans an is open to getting a rin$ somewhere right then an there. 3ewant to run into 2 sing!e chic$s that are out ha&ing a “gir!s) night out.# That)s money time

baby. Focusing on chic$s !i$e that is ca!!e p!aying with the os in your a&or.

That’s what we are a.out (our a//roa+h toward im/ro*in, lie in ,eneral);& Doin,

e*erythin, we +an to /lay with the odds in our a*or& #e don’t want to lea*e e*erythin,

u/ to +han+e (i we +an hel/ it)& #e want +ontrol& #e want to di+tate the out+ome&

Ty/i+al P'$: coup!e things cou! happen with the aspiring 67. he acts !i$e a ancingmon$ey, there)s a &ery rea! chance that he can turn o those chic$s that were :TF. He canmiss a !ot o s!am un$s because o his reusa! to ocus on the stu that matters an +ust be anorma! ue who can !ow in con&ersation. (n the other en, he cou! &ery we!! get thatchic$. n that case, he attributes it to his super5uper “game# when in rea!ity, there rea!!ywasn)t any s$i!! in&o!&e. He +ust happene to ta!$ to the right chic$ at the right time. Thechic$ was :TF an he was ab!e to not mess it up. That)s why !augh when see or reaabout ues an how their “game was on# when they pu!!e some run$ chic$ home ater

hammering it out or hours. :espite what they may c!aim, nothing specia! happene. n mostcases, they simp!y spam approache 4050 chic$s an met one who was run$own enough.

S+reener: The screener oesn)t spam approach. n act, you might say that he bare!yapproaches because he approaches s!am un$s *or percei&e s!am un$s-. He)s ta$es a !itt!e

bit e/tra time to see what)s rea!!y going. He sees a chic$ ta!$ing with some goo !oo$ingue. He waits a !itt!e bit !onger beore he approaches. @&entua!!y, he igures out *usingcommon sense- that they are a coup!e, so he oesn)t approach. He mo&es on. He oesn)twaste his time because he $nows she is una&ai!ab!e. 3hereas the 67 +ust goes in right awayan creates an aw$war situationpotentia! con!ict. He sees a white chic$ with a phat assta$ing a shot with her gir!rien. He sees that it)s +ust them. He goes in an ta!$s to that chic$

to see what her ea! is. She is &ery !irty an touchy. She a!so $eeps whispering to her g8.3hat is this chic$)s ea!" Common sense te!!s him he has a ecent shot at tappin that.

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#hy Should %ou 9e+ome a S+reenerE

1- Time is precious8 >ou o not ha&e the time to waste trying to hit on chic$s that you on)tha&e a chance with. (&er time, you wi!! actua!!y !earn to hit on !ess chic$s an become moreabout eiciency.

2- >ou nee a game p!an8 especia!!y when it comes to trying to bang chic$s.

I- Screening wi!! ma$e you a se!ector &ersus some guy going up to chic$s begging or scraps.

4- There is natura!!y !ess pressure when you rea!ie that not a!! chic$s are a&ai!ab!e.

- Trying to get !ai shou!n)t ta$e “a !ot o wor$.# That wor$ shou! be put into yourse!8ma$ing yourse! the most attracti&ebest &ersion o yourse! possib!e. That)s where the rea!wor$ !ies. Through screening, getting !ai becomes a much more ocuse acti&ity. t)s

becomes something you o when you are borehorny, not something you eicate yourentire !ie to out o esperation.

M- (&er time, you wi!! rea!ie that becoming better *impro&ing the stu that matters- is the

on!y answer. Bui! the best boy. oo$ your best. 3ear coo! c!othes. :e&e!op a coo! persona!!ygi&e o the &ibe o a ue who “get)s it.# ust get your !ie together.

JJJ The way to get the os in your a&or is to become the best possib!e &ersion o yourse!.ea!!y, those chic$s that are high up on the ownness sca!e8 you want to get to the pointwhere you)re sitting ea re. n other wors, you come across a chic$ who is abso!ute!ysing!e:TF, you)re not gonna mess it up. >ou)re gonna $noc$ it out the par$. Those chic$sthat are on the ence, you wi!! be ab!e to sway in your a&or by greasing the whee!s.:epening on how much you actua!!y bring to the tab!e, you might e&en ha&e a chance atgetting some chic$s who are not a&ai!ab!e. gain, it a!! comes own to what you are bringingto the tab!e. The more attracti&ecoo! you are percei&e to be8 the greater you ating

potentia! becomes.

How Do %ou 9e+ome a S+reenerE

The irst thing wou! suggest is that you rea!!y ha&e to get out o the 67 minset o +ustgoing or e&ery chic$ you see thin$ing that there)s a chance at “gaming# any chic$ into the

beroom. t can)t happen. t won)t happen. !so, wou! abso!ute!y ma$e it a priority tocontinua!!y wor$ on your ounation o goo genera! peop!e s$i!!s. 3or$ on becoming an

obser&er8 someone who can accurate!y !oo$ at an ini&iua! or socia! situation an ha&e aniea o what is going on. Ta$e a secon to obser&e an igure out “3hat)s the ea!"#

t)s important to be ab!e to o that, to ha&e that basic unerstaning, so that you canaccurate!y answer the on!y %uestion that matters when it comes to getting !ai8

#hat is this +hi+’s dealE

Hopeu!!y, it)s becoming &ery c!ear why those goo peop!e s$i!!s that $eep ta!$ing about areso important8 Can)t rea!!y become a s$i!!e screener o women without irst becoming agenera! proi!er o 6@(6@ irst. n you can)t p!ay this game eicient!y without

SC<@@??;.

s ar as where the series wi!! go rom here, the ne/t 2 parts wi!! ocus a !ot more on how toactua!!y screen chic$s. )m thin$ing those parts wi!! ocus on &erba!con&ersationa! screeningan physica! screening.

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($ e!!as that)s it or now. Sonny)s ;uie to Screening is we!! uner way8 Be sure to chec$out the >ouTube Channe! an Twitter. Sprea the wor on SBS8 Time or peop!e to startro!!in) with the winners.

Sonny’s Guide to S+reenin,: Part II (6er.al

and 7on*ersational S+reenin,)

'ay , 2014 By Sonny IA Comments

s we mentione in 6art , screening is u!timate!y about proi!ing a chic$ so that you cancome up with the best *most accurateanswer to the on!y %uestion that matters8 “3hat isthis chic$)s ea!"#

6art is about answering that %uestion through &erba! communication8 goo o! ashionecon&ersations where you are ee!ing the chic$ out. @&erything is on the tab!e as ar asinormation is concerne8. @G@<>TH?;. nything that comes up in con&ersation,whether it)s an answer to one o your %uestions or +ust something she wi!!ing!y brings up, it

a!! cou! potentia!!y he!p you in your unerstaning o what her ea! is. JJJ See :ea! 'a$ersan :ea! Brea$ers in 6art .

ha&e to amit that this is a iicu!t topic to write on8 at !east it seems that way initia!!y. tgoes against my eep5seee be!ie that you cannot rea!!y boi! this own to a uni&ersa!ormu!a that wi!! wor$ e&ery time. >ou +ust can)t. Chic$s aren)t robots an you can)t treatthem as such by trying to so!&e them !i$e they are some sort o prob!em.

thin$ that)s a big reason why &ery inte!!igent guys who are into T an @ngineering typica!!yha&e the most iicu!ty when it comes to this getting goo with chic$s stu. Their minsten to unction in a &ery ana!ytica! matter. They are so use to re!ying upon their greateststrength *!ogic- to so!&e prob!ems that it is oten the case that they want to a!so approach!earning “game# an app!ying it to women in the same manner8 essentia!!y trying to a!most“!ogic# their way into a chic$)s pants by o&erthin$ing an o&erana!ying e&erything.

n the SBS Community, we $now that this is not the iea! approach. Howe&er, it might be best to come up with some important themes to $eep in min when you are con&ersing with achic$ an ining out what her ea! is8 )m pretty much winging this thing as go e!!as.Hopeu!!y, it ens up ma$ing sense.

So here are the themes that wou! consier to be most important. gain, these aren)t

abso!ute an you shou!n)t be thin$ing o them in terms o a chec$!ist. 3hen in acon&ersation with a chic$ you might not get past the opener because she te!!s you to!ea&eignores you. >ou might get in a situation where you are e/paning into a ew o thesethemes. >ou might touch upon a!! o them. The point is +ust be aware that these are the ma+orthemes to ocus on. n other wors, pretty much e&ery comment%uestion that comes out oyour mouth shou! re!ate somehow to one o these categories.

:on)t worry about physica!ity or now. That)s or 6art . Leep in min that these are prettymuch stanar proceure *what you can e/pect to norma!!y ea! with-. !so, +ust be aware othe act that it rea!!y can be anything goes i you are in a high octane &enue atmosphere suchas any o the nightc!ubspoo! parties in as Gegas8 These are simp!y categories o

inormation that more oten than not shou! come up in a con&ersation. They are=

(pener *:irect &s. nirect-

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Basic 7nerstaning *@stab!ishing Fami!iarity- JJJ 3here !irting *ropping hints- comesinto p!ay

Turnin) it 7p(b&ious ogistics *Se/ua! nterest is a!reay estab!ishe8 How)s it goingown"-

O/ener (Dire+t *s& Indire+t)

@&eryone $nows what an opener is. t)s the irst thing you say to a chic$. There)s irectopeners an inirect openers8 i you stuie any 67re pi!! sites, this is nothing new. Theon!y thing that might be new is my e/p!anation o eachrationa!e behin my suggestions. Butother than that, pretty much e&erything say here has been sai beore no nee to rea!!y beatit into the groun. ierentiate irect &ersus inirect in the o!!owing way=

Dire+t o/eners are when you ,o u/ to the +hi+ and mae your intentions nown& %ou

.latantly hit on the +hi+ and show no shame& These are ,ood;

Indire+t o/eners aren’t really a//roa+hes; They /retty mu+h stem rom a normal

+on*ersation& !*entually- as the +on*ersation /ro,resses- you dro/ enou,h

se5ual@lirtatious@teasin, hints that mae your intentions nown@mae it nown what

2ty/e3 o ,uy you are& These are ,ood too;

et)s ig a !itt!e eeper an rea!!y get an unerstaning o irect &s. inirect.

Dire+t

i$e sai, irect openers are goo because they entai! you going up to a chic$ an ma$eyour intentions $nown. They cut to the chase. >ou)&e a!reay shown that you are intereste

by going up to her an te!!ing her so. >ou)&e pretty much cut to the chase. Some peop!egurusc!aim you shou! ne&er comp!iment a chic$ on her !oo$s8 thin$ that)s poor a&ice. Thereasons are simp!e=

1- t ta$es the guesswor$ out o the interaction. 3hen you approach a chic$ an comp!imenther !oo$s right o the bat, she $nows what)s up8 especia!!y i she)s rea!!y hot. Hot chic$s

$now the ea!. They $now that e&ery ue wants a shot at banging them. 'a$es sense right"8 >ou comp!iment a chic$ on her physica! attracti&eness. 3hat o guys want to o with physica!!y attracti&e women"8 @/act!y. >ou $now it. $now it. 'ore important!y, they$now. So when you ho!!a at them !i$e that it)s no secret what)s up. They are either in *or at!east initia!!y recepti&e- or out *not recepti&e-.

2- Chic$s are &a!iation +un$ies. !! peop!e are rea!!y. 3e a!! !o&e to get &a!iate. can ha&ea at chic$ co! approach me8. won)t be own or her. But when she comp!iments my!oo$s, )!! sti!! smi!esay than$ you *an e&entua!!y !ea&e-. Comp!iments&a!iation areabso!ute!y a orm o greasing the whee!s an smoothing out an interaction. 3hen youcomp!iment a chic$ on her !oo$s, they eat that up. t !east it opens the oor or you where

you might ha&e a chance or at !east she)!! be a !itt!e more recepti&e in the beginning. That)s a!ot better than the 67 who goes in trying to +ust grab chic$s right away.

The o!!owing are e/amp!es o irect openers a$a cutting to the chase. >ou pretty muchapproach saying that you wante to meet her because you thought she was=

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Pretty

7ute

$dora.le

$ttra+ti*e

9eautiul

Gor,eous

Se5y

Hot

)m tappe out8 that)s about a!! cou! come up with. gain, it)s not that comp!icate. >ourop any o those right o the bat then it)s ob&ious why you are ta!$ing to her. >ou wanther. These ays ten to stic$ with saying a chic$ is “rea!!y pretty# or “rea!!y se/y#.

Indire+t

nirect is a !itt!e “tric$ier# because it einite!y re%uires goo socia! s$i!!s *socia!competence- on your part. i$e sai, these aren)t e&en rea!!y approaches in my opinion

because you)re not going up to the chic$ ma$ing your intentions $nown. n act, most o thetime these can be %uite ranom because it)s pretty much a situationa! occurrence. >ou +usten up in a con&ersation with a chic$ or whate&er ranom reason. JJ This is ierent romthe 67 &ersion o “going inirect# by going up as$ing or a ema!e opinion.

The genera! game p!an is &ery simp!e. 3hen you ta!$ing with a chic$ in norma! con&ersation,meaning you ha&en)t shown intent by gi&ing her comp!iments right o the bat, you)re prettymuch in cruise contro!. n other wors, you pretty much continue to ta!$ *ta!$ing aboutwhate&er you guys are gonna ta!$ about- an start to ee! her out.

@&entua!!y, when the con&ersation hits a high note *it)s ob&ious that you)re both ha&ingunen+oying socia!iing with one another-, then you can ma$es your intentions c!ear.6ossib!e e/amp!es o what to say inc!ue=

2I’m ,lad I met you& %ou’re really +ool&3

This irst option is more o a p!aying it sae option. 6erhaps, you are not at the point yetwhere you can conient!y “pu!! the trigger# or show your intent. (r it might be the case thatyou can te!! she is into you but +ust not own to !ea&e with you an si!$. that)s the case,then ropping something !i$e this is einite!y appropriate. >ou can $in o gauge the chic$)sreaction going orwar. she) a !itt!e uptight *ue to sobriety- consier gi&inggetting her arin$. JJ Be rea!istic though, you shou! on!y consier buying her a rin$ i you thin$ that itgi&es a !egitimate chance at greasing the whee!s an bumping her up on the :ownnessSca!e8 Buying rin$s is einite!y a misunerstoo topic chec$ out this %uic$ &i or a!egitimate out!oo$=

2I’m ,lad I met you& %ou’re really (+ute@se5y)&3

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This secon option is pretty much getting to the point where you wou! be right rom thestart i it was a irect approach. The ierence is that since you were presumab!y ta!$ing withher in norma! con&ersation, you ha&e some sort o comort bui!t up. gain, once you ropthis on her, the tab!e)s pretty much set. t shou! be abunant!y c!ear what the situationiswhat your intent is. She)s either intereste *recepti&e- or not.

9asi+ Lo,isti+s (onse5ual)

Basic !ogistics reers to the initia! inormation you are ining out about the chic$ when youare irst meeting her an trying to answer the on!y %uestion that matters8 “3hat is thischic$)s ea!"# 3hen you are con&ersing with a chic$ iguring out basic !ogistics you aretrying to pic$ up on=

O.*ious Deal 9reaers and Deal aers

MM "emem.er those lists rom Part I MM

That)s so important. 3e are trying to be as eicient as possib!e here. 3e on)t want to wastetime ta!$ing to chic$s where the os are not in our a&or. 3e)re hoping to in chic$s whereit won)t ta$e much eort to get them to !ea&e with us.

3e want to igure out what this chic$)s ea! is as ast as possib!e. 3e o that by screening or basic !ogistics an ocusing on what matters *C!is?otes- to accurate!y proi!e the chic$. Soit)s important to ha&e a basic unerstaning o the o!!owing8

#hat is she u/ toE

#hat .rin,s her out toni,htE

#ho is she here with (+ome here with)E

s she sing!ea&ai!ab!e"

3hat type o chic$ is she"

:oes she seem une/citing"

s she outgoingrien!y"

:oes she seem !i$e she “gets own"#

s she shytimi"

s she a prue"

she is rom out o town8

3here is she staying *rienshote!-"

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3hen is she !ea&ing"

JJJ Leep your eyes open or the “out5o5towners#. The os can einite!y be in your a&or i they are a!so sing!e an out ha&ing un.

This is +ust a samp!ing. But this is stu that you shou! be trying to igure out either throughirect %uestion, re!ying upon basic obser&ationa! s$i!!s *+uging a boo$ by its co&er-, orsimp!y paying attention to her answersstu she wi!!ing!y brings up. gain, use common

sense. >ou on)t wanna o something stupi !i$e as$ing the chic$ !at out what type o chic$she is8

wou! say that those top I bo!e %uestions are $ey. 3hen you are ab!e to get a chic$ into acon&ersation, you shou! be getting answers to those within the irst 2 minutes o ta!$ing.>ou)!! in out a !ot +ust rom answering those %uestions *in aition to genera! proi!ing-.

@/. be!ie&e ga&e a ew e/amp!es o this in those irst 2 game artic!es8 mentione achic$ who 3S ?(T :(3?. $new this pretty %uic$!y because o the act that gotanswers to those I %uestions.

3hat was she up to" 3hat brought her out"

She was out ce!ebrating her brother coming home rom ghanistan.

3ho was she out with"

Her entire ami!y.

Base o o that inomy genera! proi!ing s$i!!s8 3hat was her ea!"

She was out ha&ing a ami!y night. She wasn)t getting hurricane run$ with her gir!riens.She wasn)t that run$ an genuine!y in)t come o as “that type o gir!.# 3e !irte a !itt!e

so got her number.

JJJ 7pate5 ne&er o!!owe up with her *Forgot-.

That)s sort o how you want to unction8 bui!ing up your peop!e s$i!!sabi!ity to proi!e peop!e to the e/tent that you can say with conience that you $now what their ea! is. >ouabso!ute!y shou! want this abi!ity when you go out trying to get !ai8. (therwise, thiswho!e pic$in up chic$s thing rea!!y becomes a shot in the ar$. 3e on)t want that becausewe want to p!ay the game on easy moe. 3e want contro!. The c!osest thing to getting this

contro! is p!aying the game with the os in our a&or.

9asi+ 'nderstandin, (!sta.lishin, amiliarity)

Basic unerstaning usua!!y ta$es p!ace within the irst ew minutes o opening. >ou an thechic$ are estab!ishing ami!iarity8 ee!ing each other out. This goes han in han with basic!ogistics *non5se/ua!-. guess you cou! ca!! this a potentia!!y boring part because “inter&iewmoe# %uestions are usua!!y most appropriate. But it is a!so potentia!!y e/citing because thisis when LI"TIG comes into p!ay. Typica! boring %uestions that ten to come up *on both

the guy)s an gir!)s part- are=

3hat o you o or a !i&ing"

3here are you rom"

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3hat part o town o you !i&e in"

Te!! me about yourse!.

3hat o you o or un *hobbies-"

The ne/t set o %uestions ha&e a !itt!e more spice to them because they are not boringinter&iew type %uestions. nytime these come up it usua!!y inicates interest in the other

party. gain, either the guy or gir! cou! as$ thesema$e these comments8 Fe!!as, i a chic$as$s you ?> o thesema$es any o these comments, the os are einite!y in your a&or.!so, $eep in min that i any o these are roppe in con&ersation, it pretty much ma$es itob&ious that you)re not ta!$ing to be rien!y=

>ou sme!! *rea!!y- goo.

:o you wor$ out"

3hat is your ethnicity" * get this one a !ot-

!i$e your shirtpantsshoes. *Chic$ wou! probab!y say this-

!i$e the way your pants it. *:ue can say this-

How ta!! are you" *Chic$ wou! as$ this-

she as$s aboutcomments on your accessories8

@/. ?ec$!ace, brace!et, watch, tattoos *i you ha&e any-

:o you ha&e a gir!rien"

gain, there)s a bunch more8 those were the irst ones that came to min. But want toe/pan on that by ta!$ing about LI"TIG. ?ow what is !irting" 3e!!, my unerstaningo !irting is that it)s the +om.ination o usin, your *er.al and /hysi+al +ommuni+ations

sills to indi+ate attra+tion@interest& t in&o!&es both &erba! *this 6art- an physica! *6art-.

Since you are trying to get !ai, !irting shou! be the basis o your screening. >ou shou!a!ways be !irting in one way or another. That wi!! become ob&ious in our ne/t artic!e on

physica! screening. But or now we want to ocus on !irting rom a &erba! stanpoint.

There)s no set ormu!a or when to !irt8 There)s so many ierent potentia! situations an itepens on the chic$ you are ea!ing with. 'y best a&ice is to again re!y on your instinctan basic socia! coorination to b!atant!y !irt when it is appropriate.

S9S Ideal Theme or lirtin,

3hen you are !irting with a chic$, you shou! be aiming or [email protected]

ina//ro/riate; That)s money time or us in the SBS Community. 3e)re not being rue or

se/ua!!y e/p!icit *initia!!y-. 3e operate smooth here8 we !i$e si!$in) broas with that smooth !ow8 te!!in) them what)s up without b!atant!y saying it *greasing the whee!s-.

ea!!y, we are being p!ayu!naughty because we are ta$ing anything a chic$ says an putting a se/ua! innuenotwist on it *see e/amp!es be!ow-.

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wi!! amit that o&er the years, there are certain !ines *$ey wors- that ten to wor$8 Theyusua!!y get a positi&e response *i the chic$ is responsi&e- an they set the tone that you)re aue who isn)t arai o hitting on chic$s. These are what wou! consier to be $ey wors

that shou! be roppe anytime you are !irting with a hot chic$ that you !i$e=

au,hty

9ad

Se/y

Hot

nima!Beast *when being coc$yreerencing yourse!-

Those are the Big in my e/perience. :ropping any o those in con&ersation can be &ery poweru!8 Boring, nice guys that wear $ha$is an boat shoes on)t ta!$ !i$e that gir!s. Butthen again, we)re not rea!!y going or the boring nice guy story!ine here. thin$ most o youwou! agree. >ou probab!y $now this otherwise you wou!n)t ha&e &isite my site. :on)t get

it twiste8 what you say :(@S 'TT@<. 6er.al lirtin, is a ey +om/onent to ,ettin,laid&

t)s how norma! e&eryay p!ayers can get !ai base o o numbers they get uring the ay&ersus ha&ing to go out to barsc!ubs approaching e&ery chic$ on site *an maybe getting!uc$y-.

$ ,uy who lirts and .rin,s a de+ent amount o !DGI!SS to the words he dro/s in

+on*ersation is deinitely /layin, with the odds in his a*or&

@/amp!e= Say a chic$ te!!s you that she wor$s as a nurse.

The possibi!ities are en!ess8

>ou cou! rop something !i$e how hot you thin$ that is an you can imagine her as a“nau,hty nurse#

That)s money right there. t cuts right to the chase8 >ou wou! both $now what that imp!ies*ma$ing reerence to the naughtys!utty nurse antasy that guys ha&ewatch on the nternet-. she p!ays a!ong with it *or ta$es it a step urther-, it at !east shows she)s a goo sport wi!!ingto p!ay a!ong8 but in rea!ity there might be some interest on her part. not, then she)s

probab!y not intereste or +ust a chic$ that ta$es a whi!e to warm up to someone.

@/amp!e= Say a chic$ te!!s you she)s a teacher.

gain, you can o a !ot with that !itt!e piece o inormation that she ga&e you. >ou cou!

potentia!!y rop something about how hot that is an that you wish you ha ha a teacher !i$eher8 going on about how you cou! tota!!y picture her roc$in the nery g!asses an thatyou) be her “worst# stuent an how she wou! ha&e to gi&e you etention e&ery ay.gain, it wou! be &ery ob&ious that you)re !irting an the se/ua! imp!ications hinte atwou! be ob&ious as we!! *teacher stuent re!ations urr-. 6otentia!!y creepy" 6erhaps. But

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the point is you)re not wasting time. >ou wou! be screening pretty har an pretty ast there.Chic$s on)t get ta!$e to !i$e that on a regu!ar basis8 that cou! be a goo thing or you.

JJJ :on)t ha&e any &ieo e/amp!es *inie! ootage- at the moment but here)s some te/te/amp!es o lirtin,. They are unnyborer!ine inappropriate *t)s ob&ious what my

intentions are once we hang out-.

Hmm8 woner what she thin$s “>ou can rob my cra!e N-# means.

oubt she thin$s a ue who te/ts her that is going to wineine her or a whi!e. This was achic$ metbange whi!e was out o town a whi!e bac$8

gain, it)s pretty ob&ious what )m getting at here8 she $nows what)s up. ny response is agoo inicator. The tab!e is set so that once we hang out8 there)s no %uestion as to what)sgoing to go own. Ha&ing a ew rin$sp!aying a game o poo! with this chic$ was mere!y

orep!ay beore we went bac$ to my hote!.

JJJ t shou! a!so be note that ta!$e with her the night beore we chi!!e or a goo 20min8 my way o so!iiying what)s goo *more !irting an spittin) that naughtyse/y

stu that chic$s !i$e to hear-

'ore !irting o&er te/t8 cutting to the chase pretty %uic$ though especia!!y when reerencemy “morning shar$# *morning woo-. gain, pretty ob&ious8 any response especia!!y going

a!ong with it is a goo sign. This chic$ was hote ha a goo sense o humor.

Te!! her )m at wor$ an she respons +o$ing!y “'a$e me that money#8 ;et outta here. !o&e women but some o them einite!y ha&e a e!usiona! sense o entit!ement *no matter

how hot they are-. The name “Tyson# appears because this was a Tiner chic$8 ne&er usemy rea! name on there.

gain, intent *on my part- shou! be ob&ious here.

JJJ !so note being ca!!e a “ouchebag# is usua!!y goo8 ny chic$ si!$, usua!!y getca!!e that rom time to time *been that way since high schoo!-.

norma!!y on)t !i$e te/ting but sometimes it)s necessary8 such as scheu!es not a!igningright away *irst chic$- or ha&ing to spen time greasing the whee!s because it)s an app suchas Tiner *secon chic$-

Turnin, it '/@O.*ious Lo,isti+s (Se5ual Interest $lready !sta.lished)

This can sort o be !oo$e at as a continuation o !irting8 This is where the magic happens.>ou)re one goa! becomes ob&ious8 %O' $"! T"%IG TO 7LOS!& By this point, it)sa!reay crysta! c!ear what)s going on. There)s no %uestion. She abso!ute!y $nows what)s up.This rea!!y becomes apparent when you are physica!8 but again, we)!! get to that in the ne/t

part.

This is what you o when you want to sea! the ea!8 a$a ta$e her somewhere to ha&e se/.gain, there)s certain phrases you can rop in con&ersation so that she gets the hint8 shegets that you want to get her out o there. Here)s a !ist c!osing terms8 >ou)&e probab!y hearsome o these=

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JJJ gain, use your common sense. >ou on)t wanna rop these ear!y onopen with these. tusua!!y ta$es some sort o estab!ishe trust or you to get a chic$ into iso!ation *main goa!-.gain, you shou! a!reay ha&e ha some !irting between the two o you=

et)s get out o here.

et)s go somewhere e!se.

et)s get a rin$ at *whate&er !ocation-.

et)s go chi!! at my houseapartment *p!ace-.

Come p!ay with me at my houseapartment *p!ace-.

et)s go somewhere an ha&e some un.

:itch your riens an come chi!! with me instea.

ea&e your riens. t)s o$ay to be a ba gir!.

want to ha&e some un with you babe.

Those are O96IO'S LOGISTI7 SOL'TIOS; Saying anything a!ong those !ines ma$esit ob&ious to the chic$ what you want. >ou ob&ious!y want to get her in isolation. she isn)ta comp!ete retar she $nows what that means8 she)s a typica! hot gir!, she)s got a ton oe/perience ha&ing ues trying to get her in iso!ation *as$ing her to “come chi!!#8 “watch amo&ie#8 or whate&er s!ic$ ta!$ us guys thin$ o-.

(ten times, the chic$ might as$ “3hat are we going to o"# or “3hy are we going to go to*p!ace you suggeste-" n my opinion *an e/perience-, +ust be upront8 t cuts to the chase

an i they tru!y are own, they wi!! he!p so!&e !ogistics or you *te!! their riens to !ea&e youguys a!ong, itch their riens, turn her phone o8 etc.-

There)s a bunch o reasons why you shou! *nee- to be upront with what you want=

1- <ea! men are unapo!ogetic with what they want *some chic$s appreciatestraightorwarness-.

2- you are upront an actua!!y get the chic$ bac$ to your p!ace, it)s pretty much a oneea!.

JJJ !ot o 67)s ha&e to put up with '<8 Lnow why" t)s because this is a!! a game tothem. They)re not rea!8 they)re game p!an is about $eeping the string o !iesemotiona! state pumping going or as !ong as possib!e. So when a guy “!ies# to a chic$ saying that they aregoing to an “ater party# an he +ust brings her bac$ to a ar$ empty house8 she)s probab!y

going to rea$ out.

I- Some chic$s rea!!y are that umb8 you te!! a chic$ you want to go bac$ to your p!ace“to chi!!#, some wi!! rea!!y thin$ that)s a!! you wante to o.

That)s why it)s usua!!y in your best interest to be upront. ea!!y, you shou! ?@G@< be pu!!ing chic$s bac$ to your p!ace *with the intent to ha&e se/- an not hitting it. >ou on)twanna be !i$e a!! these 67)s typing up in their ie! reports an whining about how they

pu!!e some “stunner# but cou!n)t c!ose because o '<. The on!y rea! e/cuse you shou!

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ha&e is i both you guys pass out because you were too ae an in that case you cou! probab!y hit it in the morning.

t)s in your best interest to e/press O96IO'S S!8'$L IT!T; >ou)re spe!!ing it outor her. n case she is too umb to rea!ie that you want her, you are !etting her $now. There)sno %uestion now8 it)s a!! out on the tab!e now. she !ea&es with you, you guys might chi!!

but she $nows 1009 that you wi!! e&entua!!y hit it. >ou can reer to what you want to o heror be se!ish an ta!$ about how you)re ee!ing *horny-. To ma$e her ee! more comortab!e,you cou! a!so inc!ue “i!!er# wors to smooth this out such as ca!!ing her “baby or “babe#=

rea!!y wanna uc$ you.

wanna hit it so har.

et)s ha&e some un.

)m rea!!y in the moo.

!o&e your boy.

>our boy is ri&ing me nuts babe.

I wanna /ut a dent it that (,ra. her ass)&

)m roc$ har right now.

I’m in ro+et mode ri,ht now&

>our boy)s got me in roc$et moe babe.

wanna hit it in my shower.

wanna hit it rom the bac$.

promise you)!! get a coup!e goo ones out o me.

%ou now I’ll hit it so ,ood .a.e&

3e wou! !oo$ so hot together.

Those are +ust a ew e/amp!es *bo! ones are my usua! go to ones-8 There)s a ton more that)&e probab!y roppe an there)s a bunch that )&e probab!y ne&er hear o. thin$ e&eryguy has their own sty!e o “pu!!ing the trigger.# Those are +ust some o my own. Fee! ree tocopy some o my swag. o thin$ it)s a goo iea to $eep a chic$)s boy in min ancomment on it oten.

JJJ These SH(7: ?(T be sai in norma! con&ersation8 it)s einite!y necessary to be

“getting physica!# once you reach this point. So iea!!y your hans shou! be a!! o&er eachother.

@/. 3hen you are trying to get a chic$ to !ea&e with you an say “>ou $now )!! hit it sogoo babe#8 >ou wou! probab!y want to ha&e your hans aroun her waist an be

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whispering it into her ear. >ou might e&en snea$ in some naughty $issing on her nec$!ight!y bite her ear JJJ gain, that)s more 6art .

ore Te5t !5am/les (#hen it’s O.*ious):

Both e/amp!es are pretty se!5e/p!anatory8 3e both $now what)s gonna happen when we

hang out.

7losin, Thou,hts on 6er.al@7on*ersational S+reenin,

3hat you say abso!ute!y matters8 t a!ways has an it a!ways wi!!. t matters !ess epeningon how the own the chic$ is in the irst p!ace. But e&en then it matters, as mae e&ient by67)s who ten to !ac$ the basics in being percei&e as a coo! ini&iua!. They oten timescome across potentia! s!am un$s an sti!! manage to mess up. gain, genera! peop!e s$i!!sare re%uire to get chic$s. This is how screening is one rom a &erba! stanpoint8 9ein, a

smooth taler is *ery real and it’s deinitely a trait that will /ut the odds in your a*or& >ou shou! a!ways be screening an a!ways be paying attention to what)s going on. 3hat is

this chic$)s ea!"8 @G@<>TH?; is in p!ay an cou! potentia!!y mean something.

3hat is this chic$)s ea!" How much eort is re%uire on my part" How are my os!oo$ing"8 These are a!! %uestions that you must be ab!e to answer. F!irting or imp!icit!yshowing your se/ua! interest is huge. ;otta be ab!e to o that.

gain, when it comes to !irting, we)re money when we are hitting [email protected]

ina//ro/riate. nother way to thin$ o !irting is to be p!ayu!naughty8 we)re not beingrue or se/ua!!y e/p!icit right o the bat. Howe&er, we can stay in the range o se/ua!!ysuggesti&e by ta$ing anything that comes up in con&ersation an putting our own se/ua!innuenotwist on it *ropping ob&ious hints-. JJJ oo$ at the e/amp!es.

The moment o truth comes when it)s c!osing time, when you are ob&ious!y trying to get thechic$ home *or whate&er se/ !ocation you ha&e in min-. The way you c!ose is &ery simp!e8you +ust go or it. Be unapo!ogetic. Be proacti&e. Be a !eaer. t)s ne&er going to be the casewhere the chic$ oes a!! the wor$ an pu!!s >(7 out o the bar an so!&es !ogistics or >(7*might be more common with o!er chic$s with more coniencee/perience or i a chic$ is

+ust that own-. But a!ways assume it)s your responsibi!ity8. ga&e you guys some stu youcan potentia!!y say to !et them $now what)s up. !so i she)s ob&ious!y into you, on)t ho!

bac$ the se/ua!ity, embrace it. :on)t be arai to whisper that naughty si!$ you want to o tothem in their ear when it)s ob&ious you both want it.

Bottom ine= ;uys who ee+ti*ely +ommuni+ate to chic$s what they want an who aren)tarai to +ust go or the c!ose win this game8 Communicating our esires is our tas$, not thechic$)s. ;uys who ha&e the menta!ity o wanting chic$s to o a!! the !egwor$ an b!atant!yte!! them what)s up usua!!y ta$e a ta/i home by themse!&es at three in the morning on aSaturay8. 6art *6hysica! Screening- is up ne/t. Ho!!a at ya boy in the comments.

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Physi+al S+reenin,)

'ay 12, 2014 By Sonny E Comments

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This is the important stu, especia!!y when it comes to ining out how own a chic$ potentia!!y is. This series on screening is going to be a !itt!e bit !onger *ha&e more parts- because “physica! screening# shou! be bro$en up into more than +ust one big section.

rea!ie that not a!! guys are comortab!e getting physica! with a gir! as a way o ining outwhat their ea! is. So that)s why )m brea$ing up physica!ity into a ew parts. This irst parton physica!ity is the basic stu. nyone can o this right now. Here)s why=

This is the stu that you +an do early in the intera+tion (o/enin,@.asi+ lo,isti+s)&

This is all *ery low ris& There’s nothin, too awward or 2+ree/y3 a.out it&

It shows ri,ht away that you’re not araid to .e in the /resen+e o a woman&

Sin+e this is su+h 2low ris- i the +hi+ o.4e+ts; she’s /ro.a.ly not down&

These indi+ate ST"OG inter/ersonal sills&

!ye +onta+t is '!"O 'O&

The eyes are the winow to the sou!. )m not sure where that %uote comes rom but it)s &erytrue. ;uys, eye contact is so poweru!. 3hen say that chic$s can pretty much te!! what yourea! is, mean it. The way you !oo$8 the way you carry yourse!8 @ye contact is right upthere.

>our eye contact or the way you !oo$ at a chic$, can te!! them e&erything they nee to $nowabout you. 3hen it comes to that stu, chic$s are &ery percepti&e. They pic$ up one&erything. @G@<>TH?; is on the tab!e an open to interpretation. 3hen you irst meet ase/ua!!y attracti&e chic$, o you=

aintain eye +onta+t when you irst meetE

Loo into her eyes when you s/eaE

Loo into her eyes and mentally undress herE

Loo into her eyes and ,i*e her your undi*ided attentionE

you o, great. not, then that)s something you shou! wor$ on. thin$ a goo “ro!emoe!# or !earning about the power o eye contact is Bi!! C!inton.

9ill 7linton deinitely .rou,ht swa, into the #hite House&

Chec$ out these !in$s ta!$ing speciica!!y about Bi!! C!inton an how he has tru!y mastere poweru! eye contact. The irst !in$ ta!$s about the “ Shoc$ing Things 'onica ewins$yTo! T'@ bout the C!inton air in 1DDD.# ?umber 4 is about his eye contact. The secon

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!in$ ta!$s about C!inton)s “<ea!ity :istortion Fie!# Charisma an how to get eye contact +ustright.

'onica ewins$y on Bi!! C!inton)s @ye Contact *here-

Tim Ferris on C!inton)s “<ea!ity :istortion Fie!# Charisma *here-

Gi*e her a hand&

3hen you meet a chic$, it)s pretty stanar proceure to sha$e her han. ust sha$e it a !itt!esoter than you wou! a ue)s. That shou! ma$e sense. 3hen you are !irting with the chic$

you shou! iea!!y be ho!ing her han when you)re comp!imenting her. >ou shou! a!so bema$ing eye contact when you ho! her han * to! you it was important-.

gain, you can o this ear!y on in the interaction. There rea!!y isn)t anything creepy aboutsha$ing a chic$)s han an e&entua!!y trying to ho! it. The meia, through their portraya! othe “nice, ner&ous guy out on a ate# stereotype ma$es a ue going or the han ho! a bigea!. t)s not. t)s nothing “specia!.# 3hen there)s something in the wor$s, ues ho! chic$)shans.

This is why it is im/ortant to ,et +omorta.le holdin, a +hi+’s hand:

It shows you are not araid to tou+h a +hi+&

It shows you are willin, to L!$D /hysi+ally&

It shows that you understand the ,uy@,irl dynami+&

It shows that you ha*e a romanti+ or se5ual side&

mention “se/ua!# here because han ho!ing becomes more se/ua! when you an the chic$get into rubbing each other)s hans. gain, use your instinct to etermine how much thechic$ is into you to ecie i that)s appropriate.

onse5ual li,ht tou+hin, is O!%&

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?e/t to eye contact, non5se/ua! !ight touching is an important e!ement that many guys simp!yon)t rea!ie the importance o. t)s a big ea!. t)s what as epth an &ibrancy when youare ta!$ing with a chic$. t)s what separates you rom the a&erage s%uare who han ho&ers or

proi!e pictures8

:on)t be that guy who “han ho&ers#

ight!y touching a chic$ accomp!ishes a !ot things. First o, it)s &ery eicient when it comesto SC<@@??;. So i you)re ta!$ing with a chic$ +o$ing aroun an you gi&e her a !ighttouch on the upper arm8 she has a prob!em with that or seems uncomortab!e, o yourea!!y thin$ she wi!! be own" ?o. n chances are she either has some issues or is simp!ynot coo!. @ither way, it)s best to mo&e on.

!5am/les o Li,ht Tou+hin, in 7on*ersation ($nd what they a++om/lish)&

Li,htly tou+h the hand or arm (ee/s their attention on you)

Li,htly tou+h u//er arm@shoulder (,ets +om/lian+e and .uilds +omort)

Li,ht nud,e@/ush when 4oin, around (shows you +an /hysi+ally e5/ress humor)

3hy are these so poweru!" 3hy are these money Because they are !ow ris$. nyboy cano !ight touching. nyboy. This isn)t e&en !imite to +ust chic$s ta!$ing. 'en rop thesee/amp!es o !ight touching in con&ersation a!! the time. t)s non5se/ua! enough or that.

>ou e&er ta!$ with your a where he is ictating the con&ersation an te!!ing you about theacts o !ie" 6ay attention to the ne/t time you ha&e one o those with him *or another mentor that you trust-. >ou)!! see this p!ay out. The one ictating the interaction is usua!!y oingsome sort o !ight touching to $eep the other party attenti&e an ma$e them ee! comort.

That)s e/act!y what you want to be oing by !ight!y touching a chic$. >ou are ictating theinteraction. >ou are !eaing. >ou are ma$ing sure that they are paying attention an you areoering them comort.

#hy you 'ST Li,htly Tou+h 7hi+s in 7on*ersation

t shows you are engage in the interaction.

t shows you can communicate /hysi+ally&

t shows you can !ea an interaction, pro&ie comort, an are in contro!.

That)s it or now. 'y goa! is to ma$e my posts shorter an more concise rom now on. Same

goes or the &ieos. )m a!so wor$ing on the esign o the site so that it on)t !oo$ so hoorat.Ta!$ to ya soon.

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Sonny’s Guide to S+reenin,: Part I6

(Playul Physi+al S+reenin,)

'ay 14, 2014 By Sonny 11 Comments

Physi+al S+reenin, should .e PL$%'L&

t shou! not be mechanica!. >ou shou! not be going through some sort o chec$!ist in yourhea. <emember, !ogic oes not carry much &a!ue at the tab!e o attraction anyway *insert!aw !in$-. 6!ayu!ness oes though. 3hen you touch chic$s in a p!ayu!un way, it shows thatyou are a !irt. That)s a goo thing.

This p!ayu! type o screening is basic stu that most guys who “get it# right away ten tonatura!!y o in their high schoo! years. This is stanar proceure. ;uys who natura!!y “getit# a$a natura!s o this when they ta!$ to attracti&e women. Howe&er, !i$e basic physica!screening, p!ayu! physica! screening is not !imite to some e/c!usi&e c!ub.

nyboy can o these as we!!. t +ust re%uires more socia! competence so that you canetermine when it)s appropriate to touch a chic$ in a certain way. For instance, i a chic$won)t e&en !et you touch her in a non5se/ua! manner, she probab!y wou!n)t be too recepti&eto being e&en more p!ayu! with your touch.

#hy you 'ST play&ully tou+h a +hi+ when you lirt with her&

It shows that you ha*e !8P!"I!7! aa 2you ,et it&3

It shows you ha*e a un side and i she’s re+e/ti*e- it shows she has a un side too&

Sin+e its hi,her ris- it weeds out the not DT +hi+s /retty ee+ti*ely&

Guys are su//osed to lead and .e 2hands on3; it’s only natural&

Playul hittin,@sho*in, is hi,h s+hool stu; it’s always ,ood&

This is 6!ayu! Se/ua! F!irting 101. Bac$ in high schoo!, this is how you $new i a chic$ wasinto you. you guys +o$e an aroun an she p!ayu!!y hit or sho&e you, that)s what maeit (BG(7S.

;uess what" ?ot much changes ater high schoo!. ;uys an gir!s sti!! communicate interesttowar one another in the same way. (ne o the irst ones to come up is playful physica!ityusua!!y in the orm o playfully hitting or sho&ing the other person.

#hen is it most a//ro/riate to /layully hit@sho*e a +hi+E

$ter you mae a 4oe teasin, her&

That’s why what you say a.solutely matters&


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#hat is the most a//ro/riate /art to /layully hit@sho*eE

Her shoulder or u//er arm&

Go or the .ody;

This is especia!!y true or chic$s that you are attracte to an want to ha&e se/ with. 3henyou are !irting with them, you shou! be touching their boy uring the interaction. gain,it)s a!! about being p!ayu!.

This goes han in han with teasing them an +o$ing aroun. >ou)re the ue so you are theone who is in contro!. gain, what is the magic wor e!!as" PL$%'L& This is sti!! +o$ingaroun but there)s no chance o you oing this to the chic$ an her thin$ing “+ust a rien.#

?o. you p!ayu!!y touch a chic$)s boy when you guys are +o$ing aroun, she $nowswhat)s up.

These are the usual e5am/les o /layully ,oin, or the .ody&

Li,htly /in+hin,@ru..in, her le,&

Gra..in, her le,@arm@ass&

Puttin, your hand [email protected], her lower .a+&

Holdin, her waist&

$ss Gra. !5am/le: %ou mi,ht as her i she wors out& Tell her to turn around and

.latantly +he+ her out& Gra. her ass and smile& I she’s lau,hs and sees it as O 9IG

D!$L; you mi,ht ha*e a winner&

This re%uires some basic instinct on your part. >ou !i$e the chic$)s boy so why wou!n)t you be touching it at some point" :on)t be scurre8 she might ig it. L@@6 ? '?: you

usua!!y ha&e to ha&e the chic$ engage in con&ersation an at !east somewhat into you. So:( ?(T (6@? with these.

The time you o this is when you an the chic$ ha&e some sort o &ibe!ow estab!ishe. tcou! be immeiate!y. t cou! ta$e time. t epens on a !ot o things. But that)s how thisgoes. There wi!! ne&er be a uni&ersa! metho that anyone cou! o!!ow. >our best bet is to

become goo with peop!e an re!y on instinct.

Fissin, is Fool; 9ut it’s not FIG&

)m going to !et you in on a !itt!e secret. n it has to o with the reason why $issing isinc!ue in this section on playful physica! screening an not the ne/t one. >ou reay"

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t simp!y oesn)t. t oesn)t e&en guarantee that the chic$ is own. Lissing is un. t)s p!ayu!.t)s simp!e. >ou !oc$ eyes with the chic$ an then +ust go or it. So you shou! go or it whenyou wantthin$ is the right time.

t oesn)t ta$e much or a chic$ to $iss or ma$e out with a ue at a bar or c!ub. 7sua!!y +ustsome a!coho!. Howe&er, +ust because a chic$ $isses some ue at a bar, oesn)t mean she)sgoing to !et him stic$ her.

To me that)s mainstream crap that society is brainwashe by, simi!ar to the genera!&iewpoints when it comes to approaching women an re+ection. ?o, $issing a chic$ oes notguarantee that you are going to bang her. The on!y thing that $issing a chic$ accomp!ishes isthat it shows that8

The odds mi,ht .e in your a*or&

That)s the on!y thing that $issing a chic$ means. t means that she)s !et your !ips touch hers,so you might ha&e a shot. gain, we)re not e&en ta$ing a&ai!abi!ity or any o that other stu

into consieration here. The truth is she cou! +ust be rea!!y run$ an not ha&e any ieawhat)s going on *a !ot o aspiring 67)s come across these chic$s an +ust thin$ that theirsuper5uper game is “on#-.

That’s the +old hard truth when it +omes to issin, a +hi+&

Fissin, is not a .i, deal&

;uys oten get “stuc$# ater $issing a chic$ because they a!! or that story!ine. They thin$ it)s +ust !i$e the mo&ies where they $issma$e out with a chic$ an that)s who they)re going homewith at night an banging.

They $iss the chic$ an woner “($ay, now what" 3hen is she going to ta$e me out o hereto go bac$ to her p!ace"# But it)s not the en o the roa. 7!timate!y, you ha&e to be a c!oseran show the chic$ that you are going to ta$e care o business8 a guy who)s not arai tota$e the !ea, a guy who wants se/ an who is actua!!y going to pu!! the trigger when the timecomes.

That has to be you. There shou! be no %uestions as to what your intentions are.

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<ace p!ays a big ro!e in the ating rea!m. chic$)s racia! bac$groun can hea&i!y impact theamount o time it wi!! ta$e or you to bang her. >(7< race a!so p!ays a big actor on whether

or not you e&en ha&e a chance. brea$ it a!! own in this artic!e on white gir!s.

am a irm be!ie&er in stereotyping. Stereotyping sa&es time. 3hether we want to amit it ornot, we a!! o it to some e/tent. ?o one wants to ta$e the time to u!!y unerstan someonee!se)s story. 3e are a wor! that unctions in C!is?otes 'oe.


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The same !ogic app!ies to going out to get !ai. There are some chic$s that are natura!!y moreown than others. This is not a ba thing.

you bang a chic$ ater $nowing her or on!y a ew hours, she is probab!y not re!ationshipmateria!. it ta$es some time an eort, she)s probab!y better in the !ong term.

Base upon years o e/perience partying an regu!ating e&ery shae o the chic$ rainbow, am 1009 conient in this iea o screening chic$s base on race when you are out trying to

get !ai. t)s not bu!!etproo but it is accurate within reason.

re there e/ceptions" ( course. ?othing is abso!ute. But this is about sa&ing time an beingreasonab!y accurate8

It’s a.out /layin, the ,ame with the odds in %O'" $6O"

brea$ it own into I !e&e!s. n genera!, the top !e&e! is where your os are most in youra&or *greatest probabi!ity o c!osing ast-. s you progress ownwar, your os ecrease*ta$e more timeeort on your part-.

There are e/ceptionsactors that might bump them upown. Those circumstances wi!! bee/p!aine. Here you go=

#hite

$sian Latina

9la+ iddle !astern@Persian@Indian

#hite +hi+s are /o//in&

!o&e white gir!s. n act, pure!y guessing, wou! say that D9 o a!! my se/ua! e/periencehas been with white gir!s.

3hite gir!s are awesome because it is with them where the os are most !i$e!y in your a&oro getting !uc$y ast.

There are underlyin, reasons or this&

typica! white gir! oesn)t ha&e to grow up e/periencing a !ot o the prob!ems or harshrea!ities that chic$s o other races oten come across. Society caters to them an puts them ona peesta!. they mess up, there)s usua!!y someone there to pic$ up the pieces or +ust ea!with the prob!em or them.

They are the most uni*ersally desired +hi+s. The eman wi!! a!ways be high or anattracti&e white gir!. They are a status raiser& minority man who is ab!e to ate!oc$ owna white gir! raises his status signiicant!y.

7!timate!y, the wor! is &ery much sunshine an rainbows or young, attracti&e white gir!s.

There)s no rea! conse%uences that they ha&e to ea! with. n as resu!t, they are oten thewi!est, craiest chic$s out partyingengaging in ris$y beha&ior.

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The ear or e*en hesitation to en,a,e in risy .eha*ior (drinin,@doin, dru,s@multi/le

se5ual /artners) is 4ust not as e*ident with white +hi+s .e+ause o the ,eneral la+ o

+onseJuen+es they ha*e to deal with&

ust te!!ing it !i$e it is *usua!!y goes-. So in rea!ity, the ma+ority o chic$s you hit on any gi&ennight shou! genera!!y be white because o this stereotype o !ess hesitation to o something

ris$y.

Howe&er, the os are abso!ute!y impacte by %O'" "$7!. @&eryone sees co!or,especia!!y chic$s. ( course they stereotype8 ater a!!, they are &ery s$i!!e SC<@@?@<Sthemse!&es.

gain, these are not abso!ute. a ue is goo !oo$ingmascu!ineresses we!!is percei&eto be coo!8 his ethnicity wi!! not hiner him. He has a chance at getting a white gir!. !so itepens on the chic$. Some white chic$s are abso!ute!y obsesse with ating men o a

particu!ar race *thin$ Lim Larashian-.

#hite Guys are the 2sae +hoi+e&3

The os are usua!!y in the a&or o white guys. They are the most uni&ersa!!y sought ater*e&ient with atinas an sians-. But this is a!so what white chic$s most!y grew up arounan probab!y ha&e the most e/perience ating.

t)s natura! to stic$ with your own race. t)s the “saest# race because the os osuccesspower in this wor! is hea&i!y in the white man)s a&or. High schoo! history c!assshou! ha&e taught you this.

white guy is a!ways percei&e to be at !east on a white chic$)s !e&e! *or abo&e it-. The on!ye/ception is i there is a signiicant socio5economic or !oo$s gap between the two.

!though we ha&e come a !ong way, down,raded interra+ial datin, *white gir! with a ma!eo co!or- wi!! ne&er %uite u!!y be accepte. t wi!! a!ways be !oo$e own upon or seen as“not natura!# by some.

she comes rom an u!tra5conser&ati&e bac$groun that might be the case. 7!tra5conser&ati&e chic$s who come rom (: '(?@> are e/pecte to ate white guys romsimi!ar bac$grouns.

There)s no rea! negati&e stereotypes or white guys e/cept or when they are compare to b!ac$ guys *more on that be!ow-.

3hite guys can increase their os by +ust impro&ing a!! the stu that matters. ta!$ about ita!! in my &ery irst two ating artic!es, 6art an 6art .

i5ed "a+e (Outliers) are the #ild 7ards&

you are some sort o mi/e minority, the os cou! einite!y be in your a&or. 3hite

chic$s !i$e anything percei&e as e/otic or ierent. !so there)s no rea! stereotype or mi/eraces.

anything, being mi/e race garners a bit more interest because the mystery o whatethnicity you are wi!! nee to be answere.



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3hite chic$s a!! want to try something a !itt!e ierent *at !east once-. @&en the u!tra5conser&ati&e ones might !et you stic$ them *epening on what you bring to the tab!e-.

Bac$ in co!!ege, hoo$e up with a ew &ery conser&ati&e white chic$s that einite!y camerom (: '(?@> an generations o Conser&ati&e &iews. They wou! ne&er consier“ating me# an wou! certain!y ?@G@< @G@< introuce me to their parents8 not beingwhite an i!thy rich wou! be !oo$e own upon or “beneath them.#

But wou! be the guy that they secret!y te/te at 2 ' when they neee their meicine.

(n the !ip sie, being mi/e can sometimes be a status raiser or chic$8 such as herriens a!! ating white guys but she)s the one ating a ha! Q ha! Q guy.

(ut!iers'i/e <ace cou! a!most be !oo$e at as simi!ar to the curiosity o ating a b!ac$ue *want to see what it)s !i$e- but without ha&ing to ea! with the negati&e stereotypes.

9la+ Guys are the 2dan,erous +hoi+e3&

The os are sti!! not in your a&or ue to societa! constraints. That taboo o a white gir! witha b!ac$ man is sti!! present in our society toay. t)s gotten a !itt!e more wie!y accepterecent!y though.

B!ac$ guys ha&e a !ot o negati&e stereotypes but the one positi&e one trumps them a!!8 thestereotype o b!ac$ ues being strappe. @&eryone $nows this one. The other ones inc!ue

being better ath!etes an +ust being “coo!ersmoother# in genera!.

( course chic$s $now about it an they woner8 “3hat)s it !i$e"#

@&ery white chic$ woners what it wou! be !i$e get with a b!ac$ ue. Some ne&er act onthis curiosity8 but some o *especia!!y in their co!!ege years-.

The easiest way or a b!ac$ ue to increase his os is to bui! the best boy possib!e an +ust !oo$ your best. +ac$e b!ac$ ue can abso!ute!y wrec$ white chic$s +ust base o othe who!e aura o ominanceintimiation.

s ar as sty!e is concerne, you want to be= +lean +ut@resh *ae, maybe some tatsearrings, button own6o!o- &ersus .roe ass niMMa *QQQ throwbac$ +erseys, Tim)s, a$e +ewe!ry-

JJJ Some o my best riensguys )&e winge with o&er the years ha&e been b!ac$. !i$ewinging with b!ac$ ues because o 2/er+ei*ed +ontrast38 a &ery important concept*more on that when write a series on 3ingman-.

Summer <011 (#ashin,ton D7) 'y 2 best riens were these b!ac$ ues romTennessee. 3e a!ways went out an got white chic$s. They are the rea! o! schoo! sou! brothatypes that ress we!!.

% TOP #IG (Las 6e,as) 'y buy in Gegas is a M)I# +ac$e b!ac$ ue who !oo$s!i$e a young :eion Saners *roc$s a ae though-. nytime we go out8 a!! can say is thatit)s game o&er.

!so e&e!oping the abi!ity to a+ust rom the .la+ world *s& the white world8 There aretwo ierent wor!s an ha&ing the abi!ity to socia!!y e/ist in both puts the os in youra&or. That re&erts bac$ to o&era!! mu!ti5imensiona!ity.

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'a/imiing your incomeproessiona! career a!so puts the os in your a&or because yournetwor$ wi!! put you in greater contact with white chic$s *o high c!ass-.

MMM O" 7OLD $PP"O$7H: I would also say o+us on .runette +hi+s o

editerranean des+ent su+h as Gree@Italian +hi+s- those are the white +hi+s

that seem to .e most down or datin,@hooin, u/ with .la+ dudes&

MMM Same ,oes or +hi+s with /er+ei*ed 2daddy issues3 or an a,enda to mae their

ather an,ry; more a//li+a.le or lon, term&

$ little s/i+e (Latin) ne*er hurt anyone&

There aren)t any rea! cripp!ing stereotypes or you guys. Sometimes peop!e get in the bahabit o thin$ing o anyboy o Spanishatin escent an re!ating them to the image o atypica! 'e/ican ay !aborer or +ust someone who is irty.

7!timate!y, ues o Spanishatino escent can be !oo$e own as not being on a white

chic$)s !e&e!. t epens on how conser&ati&e the white chic$ is.

But !i$e the b!ac$ ue, white chic$s a!so might woner what it wou! be !i$e. 3hite chic$scan be intrigue by the e/oticspice e!ement to ating a ue o Spanishatin escent.

JJJ !so, you guys are oten seen as being a !itt!e more ominantaggressi&e so that caneinite!y be a positi&e.

>ou guys can increase your os with white chic$s by ta$ing care o what uni&ersa!!y matters*10 aws-. Being Spanishatino einite!y brings the e/otic e!ement into the mi/ that caneinite!y be uti!ie. you)re smooth an can ance, you signiicant!y put the os in youra&or.

$sians: Don’t Gi*e '/

)m sorry to say it but being percei&e as “u!!y sian# ma$es the game &ery iicu!t whentrying to get white chic$s. There)s a !ot o negati&e stereotypes or sian men that prettymuch cripp!e their chances at getting white chic$s *being nery, sma!!timi, ha&ing sma!!ic$s, etc.-

These stereotypes e/ist. et)s be c!ear o that right now. t)s not too common that a hot whitechic$)s irst choice is to ate an sian ue. t)s +ust not.

The os are not in your a&or with white chic$s. ;oing out spam approaching chic$s oesnot put the os in your a&or. >our main ocus shou! be to ;@T TH@ (::S ? >(7<FG(<

JJJ H?T= Stuying game oes not put the os in your a&or because the 67 concept o;'@ is o !itt!e &a!ue in rea! !ie.

a!! you o is stuy ;'@ an on)t wor$ on anything e!se, your best bet at getting a whitegir! is i you run into one who has an sian etish, one who is &ery run$, or a ibera! HippieChic$.

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you are a harcore sian $i who wants hot white chic$s, you put the os in your a&or byoing the o!!owing8

Litin, #ei,hts

Dressin, 9etter (white .oy swa,)

9e+omin, 7ool

Gettin, a 7ool So+ial 7ir+le (made u/ o mostly #hite ids)

$*oidin, han,in, out with a 2/a+ o $sians3 at all times

MMM 7ool [email protected] you are nown or

MMM Ha*in, an $meri+an a++ent hel/s (don’t worry i you don’t)

MMM 9ein, tall

MMM Li*in, in ew %or 7ity or Southern 7aliornia

ha&e $nown se&era! “harcore sians# o&er the years that were ab!e to get white chic$sconsistent!y. Here)s the brea$own=

9est riend in 9usiness S+hool= Chinese )11# +ac$e *!ite weights-N sty!e was Ca!i Swag*a!ways wore tan$s an itte hats-N best e!ectric guitar p!ayer e&er8 ates white gir!s

riend in Hi,h S+hool= )#" s$innyN sty!e was a !itt!e hoo *wore @c$oSouth 6o!e, haearrings-N best brea$ ancer arounN coo! $i who ha coo! white riens8 ate hot whitegir!s

ather= )I# pretty +ac$e, impeccab!e warrobe bac$ in the ay *resse preppy an a!soroc$e suits-N @T@ S(C C<C@ *in ?>C in 1DE0s-N coo! uestreet guy that gota!ong with peop!e easi!y8. :ate hot white gir!s

ysel (early years): starte o high schoo! sma!!N I sport ath!eteN rea!!y goo at baseba!!*mo&e up to Garsity Freshman year-N ha a !ot o o!er riens *ha status rom beingaccepte among o!ercoo! $is-N sty!e was hoo *@c$oSouth 6o!ethrowbac$ +erseys whenthey were coo!-8. :ate hot white gir!s

Indians (and e*ery.ody else) need to no+ it out the /ar&

thin$ nian ues ha&e it the harest when it comes to white chic$s. persona!!y ha&ene&er seen an nian ue ating a white chic$ un!ess he was rea!!y bringing something to thetab!e. These inc!ue=

Being Fi!thy <ich

Being Gery Hansome

Being in an @!ite Socia! Circ!e

There)s a !ot o negati&e stereotypes that society has about nian peop!e8 beingirtysme!!y, being creepysocia!!y aw$war, being nery.

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t)s unortunate because $now that this emographic ma$es up a signiicant chun$ o thec!iente!eauience o 67 sites. But !i$e sai, 67 a&ice oes not increase your osrea!!y. The on!y thing that might he!p is the getting out o the housesocia! aspect i the guy isa harcore intro&ert.

Bottom ine= Harcore nian ues nee to abso!ute!y o e&erything they can to $noc$ itout the par$ with the stu that matters.

a5imiKe your loos .y litin, wei,hts and dress well- ,et in with a +ool so+ial +ir+le(made u/ o mostly white /eo/le)- ,et money&

!so it)s in your best interest to consier mo&ing somewhere !i$e ?ew >or$ City orsomewhere in Southern Ca!iornia.

'i!e @astern6ersian guys might ha&e it a !itt!e bit easier ue to genera!!y ha&ing !ightereatures than nians. But they a!so nee to $noc$ it out the par$ as we!!.

That)s it or now. thin$ basica!!y sai what was necessary or white gir!s. This artic!e wasnot meant to oen anyone. t)s rea!ity.

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