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QUR'ANIC PARENTING PARADIGMA INTEGRASI-INTERKONEKSI
Oleh: Dr. H. Abdul Mustaqim, M. Ag Do sen Fakultas U shuludclin dan Pemikiran Islam
Jurusan Ilmu al-Qur'an dan Tafsir UIN Sunan Kalijaga Yogyakarta
A. PENDAHULUAN
Kajian mengenai anak dengan segala kompleksitasnya sangat menarik, terlebih kajian itu merupakan isu penting dewasa ini yang banyak diperbicangkan orang, tidak hanya oleh kalangan psikolog, sosiolog, pendidik tetapi juga oleh kalangan teolog (baca: kalangan agamawan, termasuk para ahli tafsir al-Qur'an).' Hal itu bisa dimengerti, sebab akhir-akhir ini banyak kasus di mana anak menjadi korban kekerasan, hak-hak anak mereka diabaikan oleh orangtuanya, bahkan oleh oknom guru yang selama ini dipercaya untuk mendidiknya.
Untuk itu, keterlibatan para ahli untuk mengemukakan gagasan inspiratif memang sangat diperlukan dalam rangka melakukan advokasi dan edukasi kepada orangtua dan masyarakat, agar mereka lebih memiliki kepedulian dan perhatian yang serius terhadap anak. Apalagi al-Qur'an sebagai kitab suci bagi umat Islam, secara normatif juga sangat konsern terhadap persoalan anak2• Namun ajaran normatif yang sedemikian mulia, belum sepenuhnya dipraktikkan masyarakat muslim, karena terbukti di Indonesia yang notabene mayoritas muslim masih banyak kasus-kasus pelecehan seksual terhadap anak, jual beli anak (traffickiniJ, dengan berba-
1 Dian tara kitab yang ditulis para ulama (tcolog) yang berbicara ten tang anak adalah Tarbiyatm /lw/ddkarya Imam al-Ghazali, Tarbfyatu!Awldd jil I.rldm karya Abdullah Nasih Ibn Ulwan, ai-Hat!J al;\-abawi ji Tarbiyab ai-Awlad fi Dla11' ai-Kitab wa ai-Smmah, karya Said Ibnu Ali Ibn Wahf al-Qahthani, Kitab Tarbiyat ai-Tbifl jil Islam, karya Ratib :\dnan Abu Rumuz dan lain sebagainya.
2 Indikatornya antara lain banyaknya ayat al-Qur'an yang mcmbicarakan tcntang hak-hak anak (Q.S, al-An'am: 151, al-Baqarah: 233, Luqman: 13-18, al-Shaffat: 102-103, al-Nisa': 11 dll). Pandangan al-Qur'an juga sangat positif tcrhadap anak. i\1isalnya, al-Qur'an mcmandang anak disamping scbagai amanah, anugcrah (Q.S. al-An'am: 84, al-Anbiya:72 )dan juga hiasan (Q.S.:\li Imran: 14) dalam kehidupan.
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