研習會 研習會 22

研习会 2

这真是爱吗？7 种方法告知你

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未婚男女必需知道

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已婚夫妇也需知道已婚夫妇也需知道

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撒旦为爱爱造了仿制品：

情欲﹗情欲﹗

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「因为凡世界上的东西，好比肉体的情欲、眼目的情欲和今生的骄傲，都不是从父来的，而是

从世界来的。」约翰壹书 2:16

「因为凡世界上的东西，好比肉体的情欲、眼目的情欲和今生的骄傲，都不是从父来的，而是

从世界来的。」约翰壹书 2:16

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情欲是一种幻变的感受，爱是一种不变的原则。

对比 #1

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「爱是一种你想得到的感觉，而这种感觉是你从未有过的。」

这不是爱这不是爱 !!

「爱是一种你想得到的感觉，而这种感觉是你从未有过的。」

这不是爱这不是爱 !!

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爱是有感觉；爱是有感觉；但并不只是感觉而已但并不只是感觉而已﹗﹗

爱是一个原则爱是一个原则﹗﹗「爱是永不止息的」「爱是永不止息的」

林前林前 1313 ：： 88

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我们用心去爱；但更重要的是用理智去爱﹗我们用心去爱；但更重要的是用理智去爱﹗

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感情是盲目，爱却是理智和经过考虑

对比 #2

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盲目的休比特：罗马教的爱情之神！盲目的休比特：

罗马教的爱情之神！

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爱不是盲目﹗爱是带着眼睛﹗爱是理智和经过考虑﹗

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情欲是着迷于外表爱却是关注于内在

对比 #3

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外表包括外型时式性吸引

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内在包括个性习惯品格

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「人是看外貌，耶和华是看内

心。」撒上 16 ： 7

「人是看外貌，耶和华是看内

心。」撒上 16 ： 7

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激情是滥交爱情却是纯洁

对比 #4

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约瑟对波提乏太太说：「我怎能作这大恶，得罪上帝呢？」创 39 ： 9

约瑟对波提乏太太说：「我怎能作这大恶，得罪

上帝呢？」创 39 ： 9

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当有婚前性行为引诱时，真爱就会说：稍等，等我们结了婚才行

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当有婚外情危机时，真爱会说：「不﹗我已经结了婚﹗」

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当有先性后婚的引诱时，真爱会说：「不﹗我们要先结婚才行﹗」

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让我们一起结婚吧﹗

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情欲是以自我为中心；真爱是自我牺牲

对比 #5

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「爱是…不求自己的益处」林前 13 ：

4,5

「爱是…不求自己的益处」林前 13 ：

4,5

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情欲祇顾虑：我想要甚么﹗

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真爱会顾虑：你想要甚么﹗

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激情是靠碰运气而得；真爱是由上天精心设计

对比 #6

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引领以撒和利百加的上帝，也会引导

你和我。创 24 ： 10-15

引领以撒和利百加的上帝，也会引导

你和我。创 24 ： 10-15

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情欲是来自撒旦，真爱是来自上帝

對比 #7

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情欲情欲的的创始人创始人情欲情欲的的创始人创始人

真爱真爱的的创始人创始人真爱真爱的的创始人创始人

真爱不是出真爱不是出自荷里活自荷里活﹗﹗

真爱是来自天国﹗真爱是来自天国﹗

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「上帝就「上帝就是爱」是爱」

约壹约壹 44 ：：88

一切真爱是一切真爱是来自上帝来自上帝﹗﹗

「上帝就「上帝就是爱」是爱」

约壹约壹 44 ：：88

一切真爱是一切真爱是来自上帝来自上帝﹗﹗

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Is It Really Love? Seven Ways to TellIs It Really Love? Seven Ways to Tell

根据以上根据以上七点标准，七点标准，我的爱情我的爱情观有多少观有多少分？分？

根据以上根据以上七点标准，七点标准，我的爱情我的爱情观有多少观有多少分？分？

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我怎样改善我的我怎样改善我的爱情生活？爱情生活？

我怎样改善我的我怎样改善我的爱情生活？爱情生活？

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第　 1　步

体验主耶稣宝贵的大爱

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「人为朋友舍命，「人为朋友舍命，人的爱心没有人的爱心没有

比这个大的。」比这个大的。」约约 1515 ：： 1313

这是星期四晚上。

我们的救主在客西马尼

园跪下祷告﹗

这是星期四晚上。

我们的救主在客西马尼

园跪下祷告﹗

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Is It Really Love? Seven Ways to TellIs It Really Love? Seven Ways to Tell

「耶稣极其伤痛，祷告更加恳切，汗珠如大血点，滴在

地上。」路 22 ： 44

「耶稣极其伤痛，祷告更加恳切，汗珠如大血点，滴在

地上。」路 22 ： 44

撒旦细声说：．犹大出卖你﹗．彼得不认你﹗．所有人离弃你！．人向你吐唾沬！．返回天庭吧！祂大可以一走了之！祂跟这个决定搏斗汗水如大血点！但祂看到几世纪后祂看到你和我！祂说：「我决定走上髑髅

地！」

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祂死在髑髅地

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「到了一个地方，名叫髑髅地，就在那里把耶稣钉在十字架上。」路 23 ： 33

「到了一个地方，名叫髑髅地，就在那里把耶稣钉在十字架上。」路 23 ： 33

• 看祂两次受鞭打，看祂两次受鞭打，每次每次 3939 下，血下，血流满背！流满背！

• 感受铁钉钉破祂感受铁钉钉破祂的手和脚的肉！的手和脚的肉！

• 听祂呼喊：「我听祂呼喊：「我的上帝啊！为甚的上帝啊！为甚么离弃我？」么离弃我？」

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Is It Really Love? Seven Ways to TellIs It Really Love? Seven Ways to Tell

髑髅地「看见祂的忧伤和爱从头、手、脚夹杂流露出来；在哪儿有过爱和忧伤一起来的？又或者有过一个由荆棘织成的冠冕？」

祂理智和精神上的痛苦比肉体的痛苦更甚﹗

．男女老幼的罪．世上各国的罪．各世代的罪

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‧谋杀者恐怖手法．贼人的神出鬼没．犯奸淫者的罪！．抢掠者的愤怒！冲击着耶稣的思想！这种痛苦非言语可形容！

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Is It Really Love? Seven Ways to TellIs It Really Love? Seven Ways to Tell

之后耶稣觉得自己越漂越远﹗越漂越远﹗距离上帝很远，很远！

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因此祂大声呼喊：「我的上帝，我的上帝，为甚么离弃我？」

何等无比的大爱！

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降服在耶稣的爱

第　 2　步

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耶稣问彼得三次！

「你爱我么？」

约 21 ： 15-17

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今天晚上，

耶稣向你们

发同样的问

题：「你们

真的爱我

么？」

今天晚上，

耶稣向你们

发同样的问

题：「你们

真的爱我

么？」

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耶稣因爱我，把祂的生命给我。

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我因爱耶稣，把自己的生命交给祂。

「我将所有献给耶稣」「我将所有献给耶稣」「我将所有献给耶稣」「我将所有献给耶稣」

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爱我的配偶就像基督爱我。

第　 3　步

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「你们要彼此相爱，像我爱你们一样，这就是我

的命令。」约 15 ： 12

「你们要彼此相爱，像我爱你们一样，这就是我

的命令。」约 15 ： 12

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爱我的配偶爱我的配偶

好像基督好像基督

爱我。爱我。

爱我的配偶爱我的配偶

好像基督好像基督

爱我。爱我。

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「我的耶稣，我爱你，我知你属我。」