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BHTllil ceMhH. Tansr rrOBTopHhIX 6paKOB. OTJIWIHTellhHble oc06eHHOCTH 11 rrp06JICMbI xaxaoro H3 THnOB. 3allatIH noaropnoro 6paKa. TIcHXOllorHtIeCKHe rrp0611eMbl nosropnoro 6paKa. Onpeneneane HOBhIX rpannu ceMeHHOH CHCTeMbl. C0311aHHe HOBOH pOJIeBOH crpyxrypsr. Pacnpenenenne pOJIeH. cI>opMHpoBaHHe HOBOro ceMeHHoro caMOC03HaHHH. OTHoweH11e neren K nOBTopHOMY 6paKY pOllHTeJIeH . OTHoweHHe neren K nOBTopHOMY 6paKY onpenenserca B03pacToM nerea, HX nOJIOM, HCTopHeH ceMbH, OTHOWeHH5IM11 C pOllHTeJIHMH, THrrOM ceMeHHoro socnaranaa H T. n. ITcHXOJIOrHtIeCKHe np06JIeMbI YCbIHOBJIeHllil rrpaexasrx nereii. MOTHBallH5I YCbIHOBJIeHl15I. IlponOJI)/(eHHe poaa, MOTHB CMhICJIa )/(H3HH. MOTHB npeononenas OllHHOtIeCTBa. AJIbTPYHCTIflJ:eCKa5I MOTHBaUH5I. MOTHB KOMrreHcaUHH YTpaTbI coficraeunoro peoenxa. MOTHB cTa6l1J1H3allHH cyrrpyxcecxax oTHoweHHH. FlparaaraxecKHH MOTHB YJIY'-!WeHllil MaTepHaJIbHoro rronoxeaaa. ITcHXOJIOrIflJ:eCKa5I roTOBHOCTb YChIHoBHTeJIeH K rrpHH5ITHIO peoemca B cevsro. MOTHBaUHoHHaH rOTOBHOCTb. IlCHXOJIOrO-nenaronrsecxaa KOMneTeHTHOCTh (vIHcPOpMHpoBaHHOCTb 0 B03pacTHO-nCHXOJIOrHtIeCKHX oc06eHHocT5IX nerea, MeTOnax BOCIlH raans) . Anexaarnocn, KorHHTHBHoro ofipaaa npnesororo peoenxa (HHcPOPM11pOBaHHOCTb 06 HCTOpHH pa3BHTIHI pefienxa, ero pOllHTeJIHX H POllHhIX, OCHOBHhIX )lGf3HeHHhIX cofisrrusx, KPYTe 06weHH5I) . 3MOUHOHaJIhHO-BOJIeBaH rOTOBHOCTb (HaCTOHtIHBOCTh B rrpeOnOJIeHHH rpynaocrea BocnHTaHHH, 3MOUHOHaJIbHaH CTa6HJIhHOCTb, TOJIepaHTHOCTh K rrpOHBJIeHHIO nesanarrraanoro nosenenna, pa3BHTaH 3MnaTHH). Anarrrauna pefienxa B rrpHeMHOH ceMhe. OCHOBHhIe sanas u rrporpaMMhI rrCHXOJIOrO- nenaronorecxon nonroroaKH pOnHTeJIeH K YChIHOBJIeHHIO. J1HcPOpMHpOBaHHe yCbIHoBHTeJIeti 06 oc06eHHocT5IX pa3BHTl15I nereji, BocrrHThIBaIOWHXC5I BHe ceMhH. OPMHPOBaHHe aneKBaTHOfO npellCTaBJIeHl15I 0 3aKoHoMepHocTHX rrCl1XHtIeCKOrO pasBHTl15I pe6eHKa H pOJIH HaCJIenCTBeHHOCTH, cperna, 06weHIDI H .ueHTeJIhHOCTH C uensto rrpeononenns ~1HcPa 0 «pOKOBOH ,UypHOH HaCJIellCTBeHHOCTH». J1HcPOpMHpoBaHHe YChIHoBHTeJIeH 0 llHHaMHKe H oc06eHHocTHX rrpouecca

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anarrraunn pefienxa K np11eMHOH CeMbC. Cl>OpM11pOBaH11e KOMneTCHTHOCT11

06111eHIDI C JleTbMI1 11 rrOJlpOCTKaMI1, BOCnI1TbIBaJOlllI1M\1CH 13 yCJIOB11IDC COUI1

aJIbHOH JlenpI1BaU1111. IIOMOlllb 13 OC03HaH1111 MOT11BOB 13 YCblHOBJIeH11I1. LI.I1

HaM11Ka nC11XOJIOr11qeCKOH a,uanTaU1111 yCMHOBJIeHHOrO pe6eHKa K HOBOH

ceso.e . LI11HaMI1Ka npouecca aaarrrauaa -

HOCTHaJI, Me)KJIWIHOCTHaJI. B03paCTHOH Kpl1311C 3peJlOCTI111 ero BJlI1HHl1e Ha ceMeHHYIO )I(113Hb. CTl1Jlh rrp0)l(I1BaHI1H )j(J13HI1. Cynpyxecxne nrpsr rro 3. Bepny. 113MeHeHI1e OTHOrneHI1H C lleTbMI1. l111eHTI1

Mble pebeaxy B trefinarononysuoa cesn,e . IIoJIo)l{}fTeJIbHbIe pOJIl1. Kysotp , ByHJI.ePKMH)l, coxponmue, nannsxa, TaJIHCMaH, repoa, 60JIe3HeHHbIM pe6eHOK. Orpnuarensasre, aerarueaue pOJIH. Y)[(aCHbIM pe6eHOK. 3a6HTbIH pe6eHOK. POJIb MaJIeHbKOrO xarpeua, 30JIyrnKa.

CeMbH C OTKPblTOH Q;>OPMOM He6JIaronOJIY'IIDI.

CeMbH C aJIKOrOJIbHOM 3aBHCVlMOCTbIO. TIpVl3HaKH. Crparernx ananrauan petienxa B cesrse aJIKOrOJIVIKOB. POJIVI «y)[(aCHOrO pefieaxa», «ncenaopomrre

JUI», «m yra ropoxosoro» , «tt eJIOBeKa - HeBVI:)lHMKM», «60JIbHOro,). C03aBHCH

MOCTb B aJIKOrOJIbHOM cesrse. Kpnrepaa pacn03HaBaHIDI C03aBVICHMOCTVI . ITcVlXOJIonrn peeenxa H3 aJIKOrOJIbHOM cesn.a. KOMnJIeKCbI rrcaxonormec

KYlX np06JIeM. TICVl:XOJIOrVitteCKHM noprper pefieaxa Vl3 aJIKOrOJIbHOM ceMbVl.

Oco6eHHOCTVI npouecca B3pOCJIeHIDI nerea Vl3 aJIKOrOJIbHOM ceMbVl.

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«aarryranaa a KJIy60K». KOHJIHKTbI H KOHQ;>JIHKTHble ceMbVl . EeCKOHJImcrYIOlllWX

ponarenen. Pc6eHOK - opyzme pa3pCWCHIDI CCMCtiHbIX cnopon, TIoCJIcnCTBIDI ceMetiHbIX KOHQ;>JH1KTOB )lJUI nCTeH.

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CTBO. 1130JUIllIDI.

THnbI sayrpeuae He6JIaronOJIY'IHbIX ceMeti. HenOBepl{HBaSI CCMbSI. JIer

KOMbICJICHHaSI ceMbSI. XHTPaSI ceMbSI. CeMbH, opHeHTHpOBaHHbIe aa ycnex

pefenxa. Ilccanosaansou.re H nceanospaaoieriaue ceMbH. CeMbH H3BeCTHbIX JIIO)leM. CeMbH COCTOSITCJIbHblX JIIOneH.

Ilorpaaa-raue ceMbW . CeMbSI C 60JIbHbIM pe6eHKOM. CeMbH C aeneecnocobauva lJJIeHaMH. Ce

MbVl C )leTbMH-HHBaJIH)laMH. Oco6eHHOCTH pe6CHKa, WMelOlllero B cevse

60JIbHbIX monen. Koauenuas «rpex yposaea BOBJIel{eHHSI». CeMbH C HapYIUeHIDIMH CTPYKTYPbI ceMeMHbIX pOJIeM. ITaTOJIOrH3HPYIO

unre ceMeMHble pOJIK CeMMI-KpenOCTb. CeMbSI C aHTHceKCYaJIbHOM VlneOJIO

meti. CeMbSI-TeaTP. CeMbSI-caHaTopHM.

OCHOBHble nOHJlTHJI: .llHCQ;>YHKUVlOHaJIbHaSI CeMMI. Herinarononysnas CCMbSI. .llHcrapMOHHqHaSI CeMh5I.

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HEnO.JIHMI CEMMI KAK (f>AKTOP .. nCJfXOJIOfliNECKOfO HEBJIAfOIIOJIyqJfH PEBEHKA

Henonnue CeMhH. THnOJIOrHSI HenOJIHhlX CeMeW. OC06eHHOCTH H OTJIHllID! HenOJIHOW CeMhH. OCHpOTeBilIa51 HenOJIHaSI CeMMI. )l(yr3Hb B HenOJlHOH paaseneaaon cesrse . Bneopa-maa CeMhSl. PaCnaBIlIaSlCSl CeMb51.

OC06eHHOCTl1 epOpMHpOBaHHSl JIHtiHOCTl1 pefienxa B HenOJIHOW cestse. lIeqll1UHT M)')KCKOrO BJIlliIHlliI . Hapyureaae nOJIOBOW HlleHTHllHOCTl1. B03 MO:lKHhle n ediop v aun a JIl1llHOCTH pefieaxa. }I HllHOCTb pefienxa B cease passenemrux ponurenea. 1l0CJIellCTBH51 pa3BOllOB. Ilcnxorrorauecxaa rpaaaa pefienxa npn passone. 06CT051TeJIhCTBa, BJIlliIIOiliHe na ycyrytineuae nepe)((J1BaHHW peoenxa npu paasone. THnhI OTHOIlIeHHH MaTepl1 K np06JIeMe pasBOlla. OTHoweHIDI MaTepH C lleThMH B uenonaoii cevse. C06JIa3HhI MaTepl1, OCTaBWeWC51 6e3 My)[(a. )l(yr3Hh 1IJUI peoeaxa. Bopsfia C 06pa30M MY?Ka. HaCJIellCTBeHHOCTh - nypnue rensr orua. 1l0nhITKa xymrrs mo60Bh peeeaxa. Hcnonsaoaanne petieaxa 1IJI5l paapeureiuor cyrrpyxecxnx KOHcPnHKTOB. Pa3nenes n e C pe6eHKOM OTBeTCTBeHHOCTH aa paason. Mammynapoaauae -ryaCTBaMH petienxa. TpYllHOCTH pa3B01l5lIIIHXCSl cynpyron. PeaKUH51 na Pa3BO,1l. MrHOBeHHa51 H orcpoxenaas. THnhI noseneaaa nIOlleH B nocrrpaanarnvecKOM crpecce . 3KcnpeCCHBHhIH run. KOHTpOnHPYIOlIlHW THn. IlIOKOBhIH THIT. COBeTbI pa3BelleHHhlM pOllHTeJ15lM.

Pe6eHOK B OCHpOTeBwew cevse. OTnl111l151 npofinevaoro pefienxa OT pe6eHKa C np06neMOW . .llBoHCTBeI-IHOe llyBCTBO nerea. «Bnanamre B lleTCTBO». Yelll1HeHl1e B rope. Tpeaoxaue CHMITTOMhI. Hcnonsaosaaae ofipasa yMepwero pOllHTeJ15l B ueJ15lX BOCITHTaHH51.

Olll1HOKa5I MaTb 11 ee pe6eHOK. Ilcaxononrsecxne rrp06neMhi sneripaxHbIX nerea. llPl111l1Hhl BHe6pallHOH poxnaevocra. BOCllpH51THe pe6eHKOM cPaKTa saeopa-moro pcxaenarr. Ilpofirreuu Y.1l0BJIeTBOpeHH51 nOTpe6HOCTeH peoeaxa.

OCHOBHblC nOH5lTHH: HellOJIHa5I CeMb51.

CEMhH H PEBEHOK COUHMbHO-.1leMorpaqll111eCKl1e np06JIeMbI CeMbl1. Tunu BOCnp0113BO,1lCTBa

HaCeneHH51. DnH3Koe K npOCToMY. PaCIlIl1peHHoe.Cy)[(eHHbIW THn. IlocnenCTBH51 naaenaa poxnacaocra: 3KOHOMl111eCKHe, nex orpadnorecxae, MOpaJIbnsre, 3THllecKHe, COUHaJIbHO-rl1rHeHH'-leCKHe, renernsecxae. IIp06neMa aerHOCTH. YCTaHoBKH .1leTHOCTH- Penponyxrasnaa yCTaHOBKa. 1l03HTHBHaSi MOTHBaUH51. HeraTHBHaSI MOTl1BaUH51.

CeMb51 H COUHaJI113aUl1Sl nHllHOCTH. 1l0H5lTl1e COUHaJI113aUHIL CTMHH CoUl1aJIH3aUl1H: .1l0TpYlloBa51, rpyzrosaa, nocnerpynoaas. I1HCTHryTbI COUHaJIH3aUHH. CeMeHHa5I COUl1M113aUH51. aKTophI BJIH51HH5l ceMhH na COUl1aJI113aUl1IO JIHllHOCTl1: cocran, n03HUH51 peoexxa, OCHOBHble BOCnl1TaTeJIl1, CTMb BOCnl1TaHH51, nOTeHUHM ceMhH. Pons cH6nl1HrOB. Iloncxenae nepsenua B cesise. Cpe,llHHW pe6eHOK B ceMbe. TOllKI1 3peHHSl A1IJIepa H TOyMeHa. MnanIIlHH pe6eHOK B cexrse. Ilonoxenae eznnrcrseanoro pefienxa B cexrt,e. OJIH3HeUhI. BnH51Hl1e l1HTepBaJIOB Me)l(lly pcxneane« n er ea . POJIh COUHaJ1l13aTO

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pOB B pa3BMHUi nereti, Paaaasaioinae rpaxropsr. aKTopbI, npenarcrsyioume pa3BMTMlO nerea. TMnOJIOnUI nercxax xapaxrepos. TMnbI JIWlHOCTM

pefieaxa no II. . Jlecraqrry. TMnbI C lIeHTeJIbHO-nOBbIllleHHbIMH npOHBJIeHMHMM (mmeMepHbrJ1 , lJeCTOJII06HBbIti , 1I06poJlYllIHbIti) , C aneprno-yrnereir

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HMH npn aHaJIM3e pOlIMTeJIbCKoro OTHOllleHMH K lIeTHM:

Hapyurenae nOBe.neHYUI y neren. Tpynaoaocmrryevocrs. OTKJIOHeHIDI B noaenemra IDIl1 COUI-HlJIbHaH .ne3ManTaU¥UI. Herrocnyuranae: WClJIOCTVI, 030PCTBO, npocrynxa. lleTcKVli1 HeraTVlBVl3M: ynp5lMCTBO, xanpnasr, CBOCBOJIVle, HelU1CUHnJIVlHVlpOBaHHOCTb. lleBVlaHTHO-.neJIVlHKBeHTHble ¢OPMbI nonenenaa.

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nOHeHTbI mrrerpansnoii nCMXOJIOm'IeCKoi1 CTpyKTYPbl pOllHTeJIbCTBa: ceMei1

Hble UeHHOCTVI , pO.nHTeJIbCKVle yCTaHoBKM, pOllMTeJIbCKMe O)\(M.naHMSI,

pO.nMTeJIbCKOe OTHOWeHMe, pO.nMTeJIbCKMe '!YBCTBa, pOlll1TeJIbCKMe n03MUMH,

OTBCTCTBeHHOCTb pO.nMTeJI5l, CTHJIb cexretinoro BOCnHTaH¥UI. POllHTeJIbCKHe

n03MUHVI: CHM6M03, aBTOpHTapHOCTb, 3MOUMOHaJlbHOC OTBep)\(eHMe (AJI. Bapra). Ilonaepxxa, paspeurenae, npacnoconnenae K nOTpe6HOCTHM petienxa, ¢OpMaJIhHOe lfyBCTBO nonra rrpn OTCYTCTBMM nO,UJIMHHOrO nnrepeca K pe

6eHKy (B.H.llp~HHH).il03HllHI1-wa6JIOHbI, xanesaurae nercxo-pomrrcns

CKMe OTHOWCHlUI: 3aMCKVlBalOlllVlH MHpOTBopeu, 06BVlHVlTeJIb, pac-rernassra xosmstorep, C6V1Tbli1 C TOJIKy, OTBJIeKalOlllVli1. Po.nVlTeJIbCKOe BJI¥UIHVle a a

JIH'IHOCTb pefieaxa, ABToHoMHble ¢aKTOpbI: B03pacT, nOJI, oc06eHHOCTM Me)\(nOKOJIeHHoi1 KyJIbTYPbI, aM6V1BaJICHTHOCTb caMHX pOllMTeJIbCKHX xyacrn , KOM

neacaropasre MexaHM3MbI COUVlClJIM3aUMM . POllVlTeJlbCKaH n03HUIDI. OCHOBnsre xapaxrepacraxn pOllHTeJIbCKoi1 n03MUHH: a.ueKBaTHOCTb-Hea.ueKBaTHOCTb, llHHaMH'lHOCTb-pHrVlllHOCTb, npOrHOCTH'IHOCTb. OCHOBHble xapaxrepacrnKVI .nCTCKO-po.nVlTeJIbCKVlX OTHOWCHHi1 . Xapaxrep 3 MOUVlOH aJIbH 0 i1 CB5I3M. Po.nVlTeJIbCKaH JI1060Bb. Tpexnepnas MOlleJIb PO.nHTCJIbCKOH JII06BVI: CI1MrraTH5I/aHTHrraTlUI, yaaxenae/npeapeuae, 6JIH30CTb/.naJIbHOCTb. Tnnsr pomrTeJIbCKoi1 JII06BH no A.C. CnHBaKoBcKoi1. llci1cTBeHHaH JI1060Bb. OTCTpaHeHHa51 JI106oBb. llci1cTBeHHaH )J(ClJIOCTb. CHI1Cxo.nHTeJIbHOe OTCTpaHeHVle.

OTBCp)\(eHHe. Ilpespenae. I1peCJIe.nOBaHHe. OTKa3. POJIVI pefieaxa B CCMbe . KYMHp. K03eJI ornynienas. llcJIeraT. 06111He ¢aKTopbI llJl5I nernsrx cCMei1 : ueanocrnsut , napTHepCTBO, llpY')J(eJII06Hbli1 KOMnpOMHCC, CHHTe3 CB060.n.

aKTOpbI, onpenenaroume PO.nVlTCJIbCTBO B onnonernsrx CeMb5lX: nO)J,'{VlHeH

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penensroume pOllHTeJIbCTBO B zrayxacrnsrx CCMb5IX: BOCTIVlTaTeJIbHaH ueyse

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peHHOCTb, caaoyrsepxnenae aa ClJeT pefienxa, aBTOplITapH3M MaTepH, PO,llHTeJIbCKHM onsrr, ,llHCTaHUHPOBaHHe OT pefietrxa. JIHlJHOCTHaH 3peJIOCTb PO,llHTeJIeM KaK ¢aKTOp CeMeMHOrO BOCnI1TamUI. Ilapaverpsr BOCIIlITaTeJIbHoro npouecca: HHTeHCHDHOCTb 3MOUHOHaJIbHOrO KOHTaKTa no OTHOIlleHHIO K ne

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a¢¢eKTHBHbIX cwryaUHM, creneas TpeBO)l(HOCTH p0,llHTeJIH. CTHlIH ceMeMHO

ro BocnHTaHHH H COUHaJIbHO-nCHXOJIOrHlJeCKHM THII JIlilJHOCTH pefienxa.

YCJIOBHH Ii 06CTmiTeJIbCTBa, BJIIi5IIOIlll1e na ¢OpMHpOBaHHe THIIa JIHlJHOCTH:

OTHOIlleHHe p0,llHTeJIeM K ,lle5ITeJIbHOCTH, HCIIOJIb30BaHHe MeTO,llOB IIOOIllpe

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)I(aIOIllHM JIIOJl5IM , ¢OpMHpOBaHHe Y petieaxa HpaBCTBeHHbIX ueHHOCTeM, OT

nouren ae K MbICJIHTeJIbHOM ,lle5ITeJIbHOCTH pefieuxa. OIIHCaTeJIbHble

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MaTepeM: nneansaaa, XOJIO,llHa5l , aM6I1BaJIeHTHa5I , KaTaCTpO¢HlJ.eCKa5l. 3Ta

nst MaTepHHcKoM IIoTpe6HOCTHO-MoTHBaUHoHHoM crpepu IIOBe.ll,eHHH B OHroreneae: B3aMMO,lleHCTBH5I C c06cTBeHHoM MaTepbIO, IirpOBOM aran Ii B3aH

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KpeTH3aUHIi pa3BHTH5I MaTepHHCKOH crpepsr B peaJIbHOM B3aHMO.ll,eHCTBHM C pe6eHKOM, rrOCJIep0,llOBOH sran, Tnnu MaTepHHcKoro noaenenna. ,QeBHairruoe MaTepHHCTBO. HapYI1IeHHaH rOTOBHOCTh K MaTepHHcTBy. ¢aKTOphI

¢opMMpOBaHHH MaTepHHCTBa: raneponexa, yser Cy6beKTHBHOCTH peoenxa, .ll,eMOKpaTlflIHOCTh, IIpIDUITIle P0,llHTeJIbCKMX ¢ym

Ime 0 pO)U1TeJIhCTBe, 3MOUl10HaJlhHM HeycTOHlfI1BOCTh, rrepaaaeneaaas POImTeJIhCKM OTBeTCTBeHHOCTh, I1rHOpHpOBaHl1e pefienxa. MaTepl1HCKM PO

11l1TeJIhCKaSl n03HUlliI. OC06eHHOCTH MaTepHHCKOH JIl06BI1. Tnnu MaTepeH, JIH'IHOCTHhre -reprsr KOTOphIX He6JIarOnpIDITHO 0TP3)!{aIOTCJI ira B3aI1MOOTHOureanax C nersva: Ilapesna HeCMeSlHa, CI-re)KHM KOpOJIeBa, Cnnuraa Kpacaanua, YHTep Ilpmuaoeea, CyMaTowHM MaTh, Hacenxa, BelfHhlH pe6eHOK.

IIcl1xoJIorYU!: OTUOBCTBa. Pa3JIH'IHe OTUOBCTBa H MaTepHHCTBa. TP3llVlUI1

OHHM POJIh orua. CT3llHH pOllHTeJIhCTBa: ¢OpMHpOBaHIDI oopasa, BCKap~UlH

aannn, asropnrera, HHTepnpeTaUHI1, B3aHM03aBI1CHMOCTH. Conepxanae OTUOBCKOH POJII1. Ilpapona oruoacraa. COBpeMeHHoe OTUOBCTBO. Counansnsre H nCHXOJIonNeCKHe

HOCTH H HOBbIe B03MO)KHOCTH B3pOCJIelOmHX ,UeTeH. Yl.JeT nepexonnoro B03pacra pomrrenava. B03paCTHbIe oc06eHHOCTH socnpaarua rro,UpOCTKaMH pO,UHTCJIbCKOH rr03HUHH. IOHOllieCKHH B03paCT, MOJIO,UOCTb ,UeTeH. CTHMYJIHpOBaHHe H nonnepxxa B paapaoorxe )l{Jf3HCHHOro IlJIaHa. HepCfJIaMeHTHposaanoe ,UOBepHTeJIbHOe 06meHHC. B 3aHMo,UeHCTBHe Me)I(,Uy paBHbIMH. THnbI H BocrrHTaTeJIbHOC 3Hal.JeHHe BHyrpeHHCH rr03HUHH peoeaxa B ,UeTCKO-pO,UHTCJIbCKHX OTHOlliCHIDIX (no r.T. XOMeHTaYCKacy). (,51 H)')KeH H JII06HM, H 5I JII06JIIO sac ». «51 lfY)KeH 11 JII06HM, a BbI cyurecrsyere pana MeH5I». «51 HeJIIO6HM, HO BceH nynroii crpeMJIIOCb npH6JIH3HTbC5I K BaM». «51 He lfY)KeH H He JII06HM , OCTaBbTC MCH5I B noxoe».

COUHaJIbHbrH: xoirrpons: rpeeosanaa H sanpersr, cnocofi xoarpons HCnOnHeHH5I rpe60BaHHH H sanperoa, CHCTeMa caHKUHH (noourpennn H naxa3aHHH), p0,UHTeJIbCKHH MOHHTOpHHr. YHKUHH Tpe60BaHHH H aanperos. KOnHl.JeCTBO sanperon, OCHOBHbIC Hc06xo,UHMbIC sanperst KaCaIOTC5I 3,U0POBMI peoenxa, qJH3Hl.JeCKOH H JIWlHOCTHOH 6e30rraCHOCTH, coxpaaenaa ueaHOCTeH. CTporOCTb B BOCrrHTaHI1H. ITpaBHJIa npezrsasnemra rpe60BaHHH H aartperos. CTaHOBJIeHHe orpaHWlCHHH H sanperos B nrpe: aKTHBHOC 3MnaTHlJ:CCKOe CJIyllIaHHe, BBe,UCHHe orpanaxenaa-sanpera, npennoxenae ansTepHaTHBbI aanpeuteaaosry ,UeHCTBHIO. 3anpeT napyurea, ,UeHCTBlffi B3POCJIbIX: 6nOKHpOBaTb COUHaJIbHO aeanexsaruoe rroseneaae pefieaxa, ooecne-nrn, 3MOUHOHaJIbHOe pearaposauae, CJIOBeCHOC 06beKTHpOBaHHC lJ:yaCTB, )l(eJIaHHH H nOTpc6HOCTeH pefienxa,

UHaJIbHblti, COManIL£ecKHti ypOBHH. XapaKTepHCTHKa nCHXOJIOrHL£eCKHX THnOB pomrrenen . Iloprper pomrrena HeBpOTWIHoro THn a. Iloprper pOJlHTeJI5I aaropnrapuoro rnna. Iloprper poznrrena nCHXOCOMaTWIeCKoro rnrra, ITpHL£HHbI neanexsarasrx cPOPM pOllHTeJIbCKO-lleTCKHX B3aHMOOTHOIlIeHl1ti.

Ilpanunnsr KOHCyJIbTaTHBHOH pa60TbI C p01H1TemIMH , HMelOIlIHMH nerea C 3ITP. HanpaBJIeHH5I pa60TbI: HHcPOpMHpOBaHHe H 06YL£eHHe 3cPcPeKTHBHbIM cnocoeav B3aHMolleticTBH5I C lleTbMH H nepeuecenne CcPOpMHpOBaHHbIX YMeHHti H HaBbIKOB B peansasre CHCTeMbI ortroureuati. Oueaxa YPOBHJI nCHXOJIOrHL£eCKoro 3110POBb5I peoenxa. I1HcPOpMHpOBaHHe ponareneii 0 nCHXOJIOrWleCKHX oc06eHHOCT5IX pefiexxa, IToBbIIlIeHHe nCHXOJIOrH'-leCKOH rpaMOTHOCTH. M06HJIH3aUH5I CKpbITbIX nCHXOJIOrHL£eCKHX pecypcos pefiemca. Koppexnua uapyutennii aLIanTaUIDI H JIWIHOCTHbIX llHcrapMOHHH peoeaxa. KOHCYJIbTaTHBHble npaevsr 06YL£eHHSl cnocofiav B3am.WlleilcTBHH C pefiertKOM: penernuas nonenenaa, MOlleJIHpOBaHHe, aenonxpenneaae, nonoxorTeJIbHOe nonxperrnenne, KOHTpOJIb cTHMyJIa. Meronsr, aanpaaneaasre aa nOBbIIlIeHHe ypOBH5I caaoperynsnax COCTOSlHHti pOllHTeJIeH: l111eHTHcPHKaUH5I '-lyBCTB, HCnOJIb30BafIHe n03HTHBHbIX 06pa30B, apeveanaa npoexnna, TeXHHKH CH5ITHSl HanpIDKeHH5I. I1rpOBaSl repanas. KOMTfJIeKCHa5I CKa3KOTepanH5I. TeXHI1Ka «CMeHa pones», «CTPOHTeJIbCTBO», «PHCK OTBeTCTBeHHOCTH».

OCHOBHble nOHJlTHJI: Pe6eHOK C np06JIeMaMH B pa3BMTMH. 3aLIep)KKa nCHXH'-leCKOrO pa3BHTHH.

IICHXOJlOrO-nE,UAfOrlfllECKMI PADOTA C LJ:EThMH HanpaBJIeHH5I ncaxonoro-nenaroravecxoit pa60TbI C ceJ\.lbeti: naarnoc

THL£eCKoe, xoppexnaoaaoe, npoqmJIaKTHL£eCKOe, npocaerarenscxoe. Pa60Ta no aanpocy H no nOKa3aHIDlM. YCHJIH5I nCHXOJIOrOB M nenaroros nanpanJIeHbI aa nereii , ponureneri H ceMblO B UeJIOM KaK cncrevy. LIHarHOCTH'-leCKOe nanpaaneaae: KOHTPOJIb aa pa3BHTHeM pefienxa, BbI5IBJIeHHe np06JIeMHbIX 30H HOpMaJIbHOro pa3BHTH5I, BbI5IBJIeHHe naTOJIOrH'-leCKOrO pa3BHTIDl petieuxa , BbHIBJIeHHe np06JIeM, CB5I3aHHbIX C aHOMaJIbHbIM pa3BHTHeM pefieaxa. ITpOcPl1JIaKTWIeCKaSI paoora C pe6eHKOM. Koppexnaoaaue nCHXOJIOrHL£eCKHe B0311eticTBH5I na neren. ITCHXOJIoro-nellarOrH'-leCKaJ.I pafiora C poznrreJUIMH. KJIacCHcPHUHpOBaHHe )j(aJI06 poznrrenen. KoppeKUHOHHaJ.I pafiora, HanpaBJIeHHaSI na onTHMH3aUHID lleTCKo-pOllHTeJIhCKHX OTHOIlIeHfrn. Tlporpaxoaa 06pa30BaHH5I poznrrenen. TpeHHHr 3cPcPeKTHBHOCTH pOllHTeJIeH. Pa60Ta COUHaJIhHorO nenarora CceMheti . 06pa30BaTeJIhHOe aanpaanenae. ITCHXOJIOrH'-leCKOe aarrpannenae. Ilocpenmrsecxoe aanpanneune.

OCHOBHble nOHJlTHJI: I1cHXOllHarHOCTHKa. I1CHxoKoppeKUH5I. Ilcaxorepanna.

LJ:HArHOCTlflIECKHE TEXHHKH OIIPELJ:EJIEHIUI IIPOIillEMHOrO IIOJUI CEMhH

llHarHOCTHKa B3aHMOOTHoweHHH B llo6paLIHhIH nepnon. Hccnenonanae oueuxa MOJIOllhIMH JIlOllhMH cefis KaK 6YllYIIIHX cynpyros. llHarHOCTHKa, nanpaBJIeHHa5I aa OnTHMaJIbHbfti n01l60p nap llJUl 3HaKOMCTBa H nOTeHUHaJIb

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nero cynpyxecrsa. CXeMa aHaJU13a CeMbH KaK CHCTeMbI no KOMnOHeHTaM: CTepeOTHTIbI B3aHMO,LleHCTBIDI, CeMeH"Hble npaBI1JIa, CeMeH"Hble MH¢bI, rpa

HHUbI, cTa6J.1J1l13aTOpbI (06l.UHe nena, MeCTO npo:lKl1BaHIDI, ,LleTH), CeMeH"Hble

HCTOpl1l1. MeTO,LlbI ,Lll'tarHOCTHKM ceMeHHblX OTHOmeHl1H". ITpl1HUl1nbI CeMeH"

aoro ,LlHarHOCUHpOHaHIDI . ITpOeKTHBHbIH TeCT «CKyJIbnTYPa cevsa». UeJIb:

asysemre nayrpaceveaasrx OTHomeHHH. Ilpouenypa nOBe,LleHIDI . MeTO,Ll reaorpasorsr. UeJIb: nOJIyqHTb ,Lll1arpaMMy, OTp

TenecPOHY 1l0BepIDI . I1HlIHBI11IYaJIbHOe ncnxonormecxoe KOHcynbTHpOBaHHe. BOnpOCbI ncaxoxoacynsranra. ,ll06paQHOe H npenfipaxnoe xoacynsraposaHHe. Fpyrmosoe nCHXOnOmqeCKOe KOHcynbTHpOBaHHe. KOHCYJ1bTHpOBaHHe cyrtpyros no Me)I(JJIflHOCTHbIM np06J1eMaM. OCHOBHa5I CTPaTerIDI KOHCyJ1bTHpOBaHIDI npn napyureamr cynpyxecxax OTHoweHHH. Crtocofisr opramrsalJ,HI1 ceMeHHoro KOHCyJ1bTHpOBaHIDI. Pa60Ta C OllHI1M H3 cynpyros H C ceneaHOHnapoa. TpYllHOCTH pa60TbI C cynpyxecxoa napoa, OCHOBHble TPe60BaHIDI K pafiore C cynpyacecxott rtapoit ,

Koncynsrnpoaaaae no noBOllY CnO)/(}iOCTei1 B3aHMOOTHoweHHi1 C nersMH. 3anpOCbI p01II'lTeJ1eH B 3aBHCl1MOCTH OT B03paCTa neren. TPH nanpaaneHH5I: nossnuenae KOMneTeHTHOCTH pOllHTeJ1eH, nCHXOnOrHqeCKaH noxonn, p0.ll.I1TeJUIM H npyrua 'UIeHaM ceMbH, rtcnxorepaneanr-recxaa pafiora. TaKTHKH pa60TbI: YCHJ1eHl1e KOrHl1TI1BHOrO acnexra, pafiora no npenvyntecruy C 3MOUHOHaJlbHoi1 CTOpOHOi1 B3aHMOOTHoweHHH.

KOHcynbTl1pOBaHHe B CHTyaUHH paasona. OCHOBHbIe sanaxa: nocpenanxeCTBO, no np06J1eMe yCbIHOBJIeHIDI, oneKYHCTBa, yqaCTIDI pozurreneji B BOCnl1TaHHH, nonrorosxa nereti K pacrtany CeMbH , onTHMH3alJ,H5I ,UeTCKo-pOllHTeJ1bCKI1X OTHOllIeHI1H VI T.n. I1HcP0pMl1pyroillaH novoun; IlCVlXOTepaneBTHtleCKaH n01ILJ:ep)l(J(a. CeMeHHO-ueHTPHpOBaHHa5I npaxrnxa. AHMI13 cern B paaxax KOHCYJ1bTaTI1BHOH pa60TW. IlcHXonorHlIeCKMe peKOMeHlIaUI1H cyrrpyraM BO BpeM5I 11 nocne paasona.

OCHOBHbIe DOHHTIDI: Ilcaxoxorrcynsrapoaaane. CeMeJ1:HaH nCHXOTepanIDI.

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CIHICOK JIlITEPATYPhI

OCHOBHAJI JUITEPATYPA 1. IICIDWJIOrIDI ceveansrx ornourenaa C OCHOBaMH cejreiiaoro

xoncynsruponanaa: yqe6HOe rtocofine/ IIo,U pen, E.f. CHJUIeBOH, M., 2002. 2. UeJIYt\:Ko B.M. IICHXOJIOrIDI He6JIarorrOJIyqHoti ceMbH.-M., 2003 . 3. BHTeK K. IIpo6JIeMbI cyrrPJ?KeCKOrO 6JIarorro.n:yqIDI.-M., 1988. 4. Illnennep JI.n. IICI1XOJIOrIDI ceMetiHbIX oraomenaji. - M., 2000. 5. BaCHJIbeBa AK. CTpYKTYpa ceMbH.-M., 1988. 6. BJIa,UHH B., Kanycrnn Il. rapMoHIDI ceMetiHbIX OTHoureHHti.-M., 1987. 7. ,UPJ?KillIHH B.H. IICI1XOJIOrIDI ceMbH.-M., 1996. 8. KOBaJIeB C.B. IICI1XOJIOrIDI cospevennon ceMbH.-M., 1988. 9. CeMb51 rJIa3aMH ncaxonora.e-M; 1995. 10. Xapsea A.f. COBpeMeHHa51 CeMb51 H ee np06JIeMbI.-M., 1978. 11. KyrrPIDIHQHK JI . IIcl1XOJIOrIDI JIl06Bl1.-M., 1998. 12. Illarnrpo n.IO. OT 3HaKOMCTBa - K 6paKY.-M., 1989. 13. 3ti,UeMHJIJIep 3.r., IOCTl1UKMC B. IICl1XOJIOrIDI l1 rrCHXOTeparrIDI

CeMbl1.-CII6., 1999. 14. Hasaarac I'A. MJ?K, )I(eHa H ... nCl1XoJIor.-M., 1995. 15. Csrceaxo B.A CyrrPJ?KeCKHe KOH

36. AKHBMC zt.c. OrUOBCKM JIl060Bb. -M., 1989. 37. Bocrmraane neTew B HenOJIHOW ceMbe.-M., 1980. 38. CeMbH M

72. qepHHKoB A.B. BBeLleHHe B CeMellHYK> rrcHXoTeparrHlo.-M., 1998. 73. lIIYJIbra T.M., CJIOT B. MeToLlHKa pa60ThI C LleTbMH

«rpyrmsr pHCKa».- M ., 1999. 74. 51 H MOR: ceso.a/Cocr. 3. JIepKOBcKHll .-POCTOBH/LL 2003. 75. Menseneaa11.51., Illmuosa T.A. Pa3HOUBeTHbIe 6eJIbIe BOpOHbI.-M., 1996. 76. Becrepuapx 3. I1CTOPHH 6paKa.-M.,2001. 77. Jlanrxeaep l1:., Marejrsex 3. ITCl1XW:IeCKaH nenpasauaa B LleTCKOM

nospacre. r-Jlpara, 1984.

TEMhI PEEPATOB 1. ITCHXOJIOfHSl MaTepHHCTBa. 2. ITcHXOJIOnrn OTUOBCTBa. 3. ITpapoLlHTeJIH B CHCTeMe ceMeHHbIX OTHOllIeHHll. 4. CeMbSl H pefienox C rrp06JIeMaMH B pa3BWfHH. 5. Onapenasin peeenox B ceMbe. 6. ,Uem 60raTbIX pomrrenea. 7. ,UeTCKasI JIO:iKh H nercxoe BOpOBCTBO. 8. HaCHJIHe B cevse. [ope B cease. Pe6eHoK B ocnporesuren ceuse. 9. Meronsr pa60TbI rrCHXOJIOra C ceMbell. 10. ,UeTcKasI JIO:iKh H nercxoe BOpOBCTBO. 11. HaCHJIHe B cease. 12. Tope B cease. 13. Pe6eHoK B ocnporeauren cexse. 14. Merona pa60ThI rrCHXOJIOra C ceMbell. 15. aKTOpbI ceveanoro 6JIarOrrO.n:ytIHH. 16. Pa3BOLl B cevse Hero BJIIDIHHe na pa3BHTHe pefienxa. 17. Ilcaxorepanas LleTCKI1X HeBp030B. 18. HerrOJIHaSl ceMbSl KaK rpaxrop rrCHXOJIOrHQeCKOrO nefinarononyxaa

pefienxa. 19. OCHOBbI ceMellHoro KOHCyJIbTHpOBaHHH. 20. ,U06pa'lHoe rrCHXOJIOrWleCKoe KOHcyJIbTHpOBaHHe. 21. KOHcyJIbmpOBaHHe ceMbH rro rrOBOLlY CJIO)I(HOCTell BO

B3aHMOOTHOllIeHHHX C LleTbMH. 22. KOHcyJIbTHpOBaHHe B CHTYaUHH passona. 23. OTKJIOHHIOllleeCR: rroseneaae pefieaxa KaK CJIeLlCTBHe HerrpaBHJIbHOrO

BOCIrnTaHHH. 24. KOHcPJIHKTbI B cesise. 25. ¢OpMllpOBaHHe cynpyxecxoa napsr.

IIPUMEPHhIE BOIIPOChI ,[(JIJI 3K3AMEHA IIO OCHOBAM IICUXOJIOrUM CEMhM U CEMEl1:HOrO KOHCYJlhTMPOBAHUH

1. Pa3BHTHe rrCHXOJIOrWIeCKOll HayKH 0 cesrse. 2. Meronsr H MeTOLl11KM LlHarnOCTHKH B ceMeHHoll rrCHXOJIOrHH. 3. Tnnsr ceMell 11 ceMeHHbIX B3aHMOOTHorneHHH. 4. YHKllHH ceMbH. CTpYKTYpa CeMbH.

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5. opMHpoBaHHe cynpyxecxori napsr. 6. Teopna Bbl60pa 6palIHoro rraprnepa. 7. Pa3BHTHc mo6BH KaK 'IYBCTBa. 8. :lK:H3HeHHbIH UHKJI ceMbH. 9. I1p06JTe~bl MOJIOllOH ceMbH. 10. CeMb5I C MaJIeHbKHM perienxov. 11 . 3peJIa5I CeMb5I. 12. CeMbSJ co B3POCJIbIMJiI nerssra . 13. CynP}')KCCTBO B CTapOCTH. 14. 06IlleHHe B cexu,e. 15. CeMbH C aapyureaaex 06IlleHH5I. 16. aKTopbI ccveaaoro 6JIaronO.rrytlH5I . 17. Peaaocrs H cynpyxecxne H3MeHbI. 18 . ,[IHC

49. OCHOBbI cesreaaoro KOHcynbTHpoBaHIDL 50. .u06pa':IHoe rtcaxonortraecxoe KOHcynbTHpOBaHHe. 51. KOHcyJIbTHpOBaHHe ceMbH no nosozry cxoaorocrea BO B3aHMOOTHOllIe

HIDlX C lleTbMH.

52. KOHCYJIbTHpOBaHHe B CHTYaUHH paasona.

B03MO)KJIbIE BOITPOCbI HA rOCY,UAPCTBEHHO'A AITECTAUHH

1. )!(H3HeHHbIH UHKJI ceMbH. 2. ITCHXOJIOrHJI MOJIOllOH ceMbH. 3. CeMbJI H petieaox, B03paCTHaJI JJ,HHaMHKa OTHOllIeHHH. 4. Ilcnxonoraa MaTepHHcTBa. 5. ITCHXOJIOrHJI OTUOBCTBa. 6. CTIDIb cexeaaoro BOCnHTaHHJI Hero BJIIDI:HHe aa pa3BHTHe perieaxa. 7. Tarnonrue 01lIH6KM pomrrenea B BocnHTaHHH nerea, 8. Me)K[JOKOJIeHHble OTHOllIeHMJI H np06JIeMbI spenoa ceMbH. 9. Cynpyxecxne KOHq,JIHKTbI H ax paspemenae . lO. Pe6eHoK B KOHq,JIHKTHOH cesrse. 11. Pa3BoJJ,. KOHCYJIbTHpOBaHHe B CHTyaUHH paasona. 12. HeIToJIHaJI ceMhH KaK rpaxrop nCHXOJIOIWIecKoro He6JIaroITOJI)"IIDI peoenxa, 13. THITOJIOrIDI: He6JIaroITOJIy'IHbIX ceMefi. 14. CeMbH C aJIKOrOJIbHOH 3aBMCHMOCTbIO. 15. Meronsr ceMeHHoro KOHcyJIbTHpoBaHlUI . 16. OpraHH3aUI1JI ceMeHHoro KOHCyJIbTIlpOBaHlUI . 17. ITyTH KoppeKUHH ITOBeJJ,eHlUI pomrrenen. 18. KOHCYJIbTHpOBaHHe no nosozry B3aHMOOTHOllIeHHH C lleTbMH. 19. THITWIHble npotineuasre CHTyaUHH B ceMeHHOM KOHCYJIbTHpOBaHHH. 20. OTKJIOllilIOIIIeecH nosenenae peoeaxa KaK CJICllCTBHe nenpasansnoro

BOCITHTaHIDl.

ITOJIOJKEHIIE 0 KOHTPOJIbHOti PAliOTE ITO ,ll,IICllJIIIJIIIHE «OCHOBbI rrCIIXOJIOrIIII CEMbII II CEMEHHOrO

KOHCYJIhTIIPOBAHHJ.l» ,UJHI 030 KOHTPOJIbHaH pa60Ta COCTOOT 03 llBYX qaCTeH:

TeOpeTOqeCKOH 0 npaKTOqeCKOH 1. Teoperu-recxaa sacrs KOHTPOJIbHOH pa60TbI COCTOHT H3 aHaJIM3a nCHXOJIOflf\IeCKOH rnrreparypsr ITO OJJ,HOH H3 ITpeMO)KeHHbIX TeM.

TeMbI KOHTPOJIbHbIX pa60T no IlOCU,HILJIlfHe «OCHOBbI nCHXOJIOfHO ceMbO 0 ceaeanoro KOllCYJIbTHpOBaHHH»

IlJIH CTYIleHTOB 030 1. Meroasr 11l1arHOCTm

4. flI060Bb KaK OCHOBa rrocrpoenas cynpyxecxnx oruouteamt. BH,I..lbI JII06BH. Pa3BHTHe JII06Bl1 KaK 'IyBCTBa.

5. OCHXOJIOrH5I MOJIO,I..lOH ceMbH . 6. CTa,I..l1111 cyrrpyxecxnx B3aHMOOTHoweHHH. 061lleHHe B cesn.e.

CeMbl1 C aapyureanexr 06111eH115L 7. aKTopbI ceMeHHoro 6JIarOrrOJIyqH5I. OPMbI rrpoasneaua CKpbITOro

ceMeIDioro He6JIarono.JIY'll15I. CelVfbH co CKpbITOH

38. KOHCYJIbHtpOBamte CeMb11 no nosony CJIO)KHOCTeH BO B3a11MOOTHOWeHYlliX C neTbM11.

39. KOHCYJIbT11pOBaH11e B C11ryaU1111 passona. 40. Meronsr cesieaaoro KOHcy.'lbT11pOBaH115I .

TeOpeTUqeCKaH qaCTb KOHTPOJIbHOH pa60TbI COCTOUT U3 • T11ryJIbHbIH JI11CT • conepxanne (nnaa) • 0630P 11 aHaJII13 HaY'-lHOH 11 HaY'lHo-MeTonWlecKoH JI11TeparypbI

no np06JIeMe ceMeHHoH nC11XOJIor11I1 • Cn11COK rurreparypsr (He MeHee 5 11CTOl.J.H11KOB)

Otpopaaenae: JIUCTbl A 4, KerJIb 12, UHTepBaJI 1,5; nOJIH: JIeBOe 3, OCTaJIb HbIe 2,5; B OTLleJIbHYJO nanxy,

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ITpaKTWleCKaH sacrs KOHTPOJIbHOH pa60TbI 04!0pMJUleTCH aa JIUCTax A 4 B OTLleJIbHOH nanxe, npOTOKOJIbI U PUCYHIill npUJIaraIOTCH. OCHOBHble MeTOn11KH 113)"1eH1151 CeMb11.

KMHECTETMqECKMH PMCYHOK CEMhM

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IIPH HHTepnpeTaU,HH KPC OCHOBHOe BHHMaHHe ofipauiaerca ua CJIe.ayIOUlHe ac

nexrsr; 1) AtHlJIH3 crpyxrypsr pHcYHKa ceMbH (cpaaaeaae COCTaBa peaJIbHOH: H HapHcOBaHHOH: ceMbH, pacnonoxenae H B3aHMOneH:CTBHe Y1IeHOB ceMbH na

pHCYHKe).

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aa PYKH HaXOll.lITC.II aa CrrJ1HOH:

XapaKTep B billOJIH5IJOT :r

TIPOEKTIIBHMl METO,I(IIKA PEHE JKII.JU[ «IIJIbM - TEeT»

UeJIb: I1cCJIe;XOBaTb COUHaJIbHYJO npacnocotineaaocn, pefieaxa, ocooeaHOCTH ero KOHKpeTHO-JIl1'lHOCTHWX OTHOWCHHH C OKpyiKaIOWHMH, HeKOTO

psre noaeneaxecxac xapaKTepHCTHKH H xeprsr JIWIHOCTH. TIpoeKTHBHlliI BH3YaJIbHO-Bep6aJIbHaJI MeTO;XHKa COCTOHT H3 42 3a;xaHHH,

rrpe;XCTaBJUllOLl.(HX C060H 25 xapranox C KpaTKHM TeKCTOM, noscamoura« H306paJKemrylO CUeHKY, CHTyaUHIO H BorrpOCOM , oopauienasnr K ncnsrryeMOMY , a TaIOKe 17 lIHCTO TeKCTOBbIX 3a.uaHHH.

PHCYHKH ;XOCTaTOllHO cxeMaTWIHbI, necyurecrsenasre ;xeTaJIH H ;XeTaJIH JIHua OITyweHbI , -rro ofiner-raer HJI.eHTH

6 ornourenae K npyry 1,4,8 -19,25,30,33-35,40 20

7 OTHOllJeHl1e K yxaremo (aBTOpI1TeTHOMY

1,4,5 ,9,11 ,13,17 ,19 ,26 , 28-30,32,40

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12 Couaansuan 9,25,28,32-38 10 anexaarnocrs nOBeJleHl151 I

onpOCHMK ACB (AHATIM3 CEMEMHOrO BOCnMTAHMH) s.r. 3M.uEMMJIJIEP OnpOCHl1K npennasnaven JUUI aaannaa ceMetmOro aocnaraana l1 npn

'll1H era uapyurerma. NlaJII13l1PY51 npouecc BOCnl1TaHIDl' B ceMhe, sxcnepnMeHTaTOp .uOJDKeH orsernrs aa nsa aonpoca, Bo-nepasrx, KaK, KaKllMl1 cnoC06aMl1 poznrrenn BOCnl1ThIBaIOT pefienxa (run BOCnl1TaHll5l). B cnyxae eCJIl1 BbUlBJIeHHhlM rnn cnococcrnyer n051BJIeHl1IO l1 pa3BI1Tl1IO naTOJIOrH'ieCKllX xepr JIll'lHOCTll acm-rryevoro, neooxonavo oraenrrs l1 na BTOPOM sonpoc: rroaesry ponarena BOCnl1TbIBaIOT petienxa l1MeHHO TaKllM o6pa30M, r .e. KaKOBhl npll'illHbl, Bbl3blBaIOllllle .uaHHbIM rim BOCnl1TaHll51. OnpOCHl1K ACB n03BOJIsreT OTBeTllTb aa o6a srn sonpoca,

MaTepHaJI ACB pasnenen na nsa naparpadia: 1. Hapymenne npouecca BOCnl1TaHll5l B cexse. llaHHhIM paaaen COLIep)KllT CJIeJIYIOllllle urxansr: a) Vposexs nporexnan B npouecce BOClIl1TaHllSl - CKOJIbKO CI1JI, spexre

Hl1 y.ueJISIIOT pomrremr BOCmUaHl1IO petienxa: • Fanepnporexnan (xpeavepaaa) - urxana f +; • f~monpOTeKUIDI (senocraro-mas) - urxana f-;

b) Crenens y.uOBJIeTBOpeHllSl norpeouocren - B KaKOM Mepe nearensHOCTb pOLIllTeJIeM uaueneaa aa y.uOBJIeTBOpeHl1e norperiaocrea petieaxa, KaK MaTepl1aJIbHO-6bITOBbIX, TaK 11 JIYXOBHbIX: • OOTBOpCTBOBaHlle (crpesorenae pOLIl1TeJIelt K MaKCllMaJIhHOMY II

HeKpl1TIfl:leCKoMY yLIoBJIeTBopeHl1IO JII06hIX nOTpe6HOCTeM petieaxa) inxana Y+;

• I1rH0Pl1pOBaHl1e 1l0Tpe6HOCTeM pefienxa (HeLIoCTaTO'lHOe CTpeMJIeHl1e pOJll1TeJIeM K YJlOBJIeTBOpeHl1IO norpefiaocreit pefieuxa) uncana Y- ; c) KOJIWleCTBo l1 Ka'leCTBO Tpe6oBaHl1M K pefieaxy B cesn,e. OPMbl na

pymemra Tpe6oBaHl1M K perienxy paamorasr, n03ToMY nucxaausanas pOLIl1TeJIeM, orpaxarouore nx, npencraanensr B ueJIOM pane WKaJI :

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• lJpe3MepHOCTb Tpe60BaHHH-065.[3aHHOCTeH rrpencrasnaer pHCK

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- He1l0CTaTOlJH35I Bblpa:>KeHHOCTb; +- npn llaHHOM rune BOCIUlTaHIDI B03MO:>KHbl KaK lJpe3MepHOCTb llaH

HOM. xeprsr, TaK 11 He1l0CTaTOlJHOCTb llJUI rrpOCTO Bblpa:>KeHHOCTb.

11. IICI1XOJlOrWleCKlle rrplllJHHbI OTKJIOHeHllM. B CeMeM.IIOM BOCnI1TaHI111. IIPWlI1Hbl HerapMOHH'-IHOrO socnaranas aecsxra pa3J1WIHbI. Oc06ylO pO.TIb

urparor nse rpyrmsr npa-unt: 1) OTl(.I10HeI-ll1e JIH'-IHOCTI1 CaMI1X ponnreneii, AKueHTYaUI111 Jl l1'-IHOCTll 11

nCl1XonaTHH aepenxo npeaonpenenaror onpezrenennsre aapyiuemur B BOCmrraaan.

2) IICHXOJIOrl1tIeCKl1e (Jll1lJHOCTHble) np06JIeMbI pOll11TeJIeI1, peuraexu.re aa ClJeT peoenka. B 3TOM cJIY4ae B OCHOBe aerapaomonroro BOCrrl1TaHIDr JIe:>KllT KaKaH-TO JIl1'-IHOCTHaH npotineva, -taiue scero HOCHwa5I xapaxrep aeoC03HaBaeMOM. nporinewu, norperiaocru. IIlKKCKI1X KatIeCTB (WKaJIa TIMK).

COOTHECEHME HOMEPOB BOllPOCOB CO IIIKAJIAMM

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4, 24, 44, 64, 84

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8, 28, 48, 68, 88

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lJpe3MepHOCTb caJII

OnpOCHI1K AJUI PO)lI1TEJIEM )lETEM B B03PACTE 3-10 JIET 1. Bee, 'HO .Il nenaio, .Il nenaio pana Moero csnra (ztoxepa). 2. Y Mew sacro He XBaTaeT BpeMetrn noaaaroaarsca C ChIHOM (nosepsio),

n006maTbCH, nonrpars. 3. MHe npaxoznrrcs paspeurars MoeMY pe6eHKY raxae neurn, xoropue

He paapeuraior MHorne ztpyrue ponarena. 4. He JII06JIIO, xorna CbIH (no-n.) npl1XOlIHT KO MHe C nonpocasor. Jlysure,

lJr06hI norananca (norananacs) caM(a) . 5. Ham pefiexox liMeer 60JIhWe 06H3aHHocreH - yxon sa C060H,

n01I1Iep)l(aH11e nopaaxa - lJeM 60JIhW11HCrBo neren ero B03paCTa. 6. Moero pefienxa oxern, rpyznro sacraaart, cnenars lJTO-Hli6YJJ.h, lJTO OH

He JI106liT. 7. Bcerzta rrysure, eCJI11 nerx He JIYMalOT 0 TOM, npaBl1JIhHO JI11 rrocryrraior

ill( p011liTeJI11 . 8. MOM ChlH (noxs) JIerKO aapyuraer sanpersr. 9. ECJII1 xoseurs, lJT06hI rBoM(H) ChIH (110%) CTaJI(a) lJeJIOBeKOM,

He OCTaBJUlM 6e3HaKa3aHHhIM HH OJJ.Horo ero (ee) nnoxoro nocrynxa. 10. ECJII1 TOJIhKO B03MO)I(H0, 51 crapaiocs He HaKa3bIBaTb ChIHa (novs) . 11. Korna 51 B xopouress nacrpoeaaa, 51 nepenxo npoiuaro CBOeMY csnry

(no-tepa) TO, aa lJTO D npyroe BpeM.ll HaKa3aJIa 6hI. 12. 11106JIIO cnoero CbIHa (JJ.OlJh) 60JIbwe, lJeM JI106JI1O (JII06l1JIa) cynpyra. 13. Mnamnne nera MHe HpaB.IlTCH 60JIhme, lJeM crapurae. 14. ECJIl1 MOM CbIH (110%) nononry ynPHMliTC.Il l1JI11 3JI11TCH, Y MeH.ll 6hIBaeT

qyBCTBO, 'ITO 51 nocryruona) no OTHOWeffiUO K HeMY (Hei1:) HenpaBl1JIbHO. 15. Y Hac ztonro He 6bIJIO pefiexxa, XOT5I MbI ero O'leHb )I(lIaJIl1. 16. Ofiuteaxe C lleThMI1, B 06meM-To, yTOMI1TeJIhHOe JJ.eJIo. 17. Y Moero ChIHa (no-tepa) ecrs nexoropsre xaxecraa, KOTOphIe BhIBOllHT

MeH.ll 113 CC6H. 18. Bocnaraaae Moero ChIHa (no-tepa) illJIO 6bI ropasno ny-nrre, eCJIH 6hI

MOti ~ (MOH )I(eHa) He MeIlIaJI(a) 6hI MHe. 19. EOJIhllIl1HCTBO ~HH JIerKOMbICJIeHHee, lJCM )I(eHWHHhI. 20. EOJIhWI1HCTBO )I(eHml1H JIerKOMhICJIeHHee, lJeM ~HHhI. 21. MOM ChlH (110%) 1IJI.Il MeH.ll - casroe rnasaoe B )I(l13HI1. 22. Hacro 6hIBaeT, lJTO 51 He 3HalO, lJTO nenaer B llaHHbIn MOMeHT MOM

pefienox. 23. ECJIH nrpyurxa pe6eHKY HpaBI1TCH, 51 KYnJIlO ee, CKOJIhKO 6bI OHa HI1

CTOl1JIa. 24. MOll ChIH (110%) nenonarnasta). Jlerse caMOMY nna pasa cnenars,

'leM OJJ.HH pa3 06'hHCHI1Th eMy (en). 25. MoeMY csnry (nosepa) aepenxo rrpHXOlIHTCH (l1JIH npHX01Il1JIOCh

paasme) npacscarpnaars aa MJIanllIl1M 6paTOM (cecrpoa). 26. Hepenxo 6hIBaeT TaK: 51 HeCKOJIhKO paa HanOMI1HalO ChIHY (no-tepa) 0

He06xoLI.I1Mocrn cnenars lJTO-HI16y,llb, a nOTOM ITJIlOHY 11 cnenaio caxta). 27. POlIHTeJII1 HI1 B xoev crrysae He llOJDKHhI ztortycxars, 'lT06hI nera non

Me'laJIl1 I1X crrafiocrn li nenocrarxa.

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28. MOM CbIH (110%) caM(a) peuraer, C KeM eMY (en) nrpars. 29. llern 110IDKHbl He TOJIbKO JIIo6HTb CBOHX pOll.HTeJIeM, HO 11 60HTbCH IDC 30. 51 O'lCHb penxo pyraio CbIHa (110%). 31. B aauren CrpOroCTI1 K csnry (110'lepH) 6bIBalOT 60JIbWHe KOJIe6aHH5I.

Hnorna Mbl 04eHb crporn, a nnorna nee paapeuiaeu. 32. MbI C petieaxov nOHHMaeM npyr npyra ny-nne, 'leM Mbl C cynpyrosr. 33. MeH51 oropxaer TO, 'ITO MOM CblH (no-rs) 6blCrpO CTaHOBHTC5I

B3POCJIbIM(OM). 34. ECJIH pefieaox ynpH:MI1TCH, noroxry 'ITO nJIOXO ce6H: 4YBCTByCT,

TO rry-nue scero C11eJIaTb TaK, KaK OH xoxer. 35. MOM petieuox pacrer CJIa6bIM 11 60JIe3HeHHhIM. 36. ECJIH 6bI Y MeH51 He 6bUIO nereji, 51 6bl 1106MJIC5I (n06MJIaCb) B )KH3HH

ropaaao 60JIbWero. 37. Y Moero csnra (noxepn) ecrt, crrafiocrn, xoropue He HCnpaBJI5lIOTC5I,

XOTH: 51 ynopuo C HHMH 60pIOCb. 38. Hepenxo 6bIBaeT, -rro, xorna H: HaKa3blBaIO Moero csiaa (no-rs), MOM

M)')K (xeua) ryr »ce Ha'lI1HaeT yrrpexars MeH51 B 1l3JmWHeM cTpOrOCTH H yreutars ero (ee) .

39. M~mHbI 60JIee CKJIOHHbI K cynp)0KeCKOM 113MeHe, 'leM )!(eHIUHHbI. 40. )KeHIUl1Hbl 60JIee CKJIOHHbI K cyrrpyzcecxoa 113MeHe, 'leM M)')K'lHHbI. 41. 3a60Tbi 0 csnre (110'lepH) 3aHHMalOT 60;rhWYIO 'IaCTb Moero speveaa. 42. MHe l\1Horo paa npHIllJIOCb rrponycxars poznrrenscxae c06paHIDI. 43. 51 CTpeMJIIOCb K TOMY, '!T06bI MOM pe6eHOK 6hUl ofiecnexeu ny-nue,

'leM npyrne nern. 44. ECJIH n06hITb B oouiecrse Moero ChIHa (no-tepa), MO)KHO Cl1JIbHO ycrars. 45. MHe xacro npHXOillUIOCb nanars csnry (nosepn) TpY11Hble .!IJI5I ero (ee)

B03paCTa nopyxenas. 46. MOM petienox HHKOfna He y61lpaeT sa C060M nrpyunor. 47. [JIaBHOe, 'IeMy p011HTeJIH nOJI)!(HbI HaY'lllTh CBOl1X 11eTeM, - 3TO

cnyurarsca. 48 . MOM pe6eHOK caM peuraer, CKOJIbKO, xero H xorna eMY ecrs, 49. LJeM crpoxe ponnrena K pe6eHKY, TeM nysure 1I..TI51 Hero. 50. ITo xapaxrepy 51 - M5ITKHM lIeJIOBeK. 51. ECJIM MoeMy csnry (no-tepa) 'ITO-TO OT MeH51 H)0KHO, OH (OHa)

CTapaeTC5I Bbl6paTb MOMeHT, xorna 51 B xopoureu HaCTpOeHI1H. 52. Korna H: rryvaro 0 TOM, 'ITO Koma-HM6ynb MOM CbIH (no-n.) supacrer, Ii

H: 6yny evy (eM) He ffY)l(Ha, y MeH5I nOpTMTC5I nacrpoenne. 53. qeM crapure nern, TeM TpY11Hee llMeTh C HHMM neno. 54 . LJawe scero ynpHMCTBO pefieaxa 6bIBaeT BbI3BaHO TeM, 'ITO p011l1TeJll1

He YMeIOT K HeM)' nOll.OMTH. 55. 51 IIOCT05lHHO nepexasaio aa snopoase csma (no-tepa) . 56. ECJIH 6bl Y MeH51 He 6bIJIO neren, Moe anopoase 6hlJIO 6bl ropaano

ny-nue. 57. Hexoropsre O'IeHb BaJKHhIe He110CTaTKH Moero CbIHa (110'IepH) ynopno

He HC'Ie3aIOT, HeCMOTpH: na see MepbI.

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58. Mon ChIH (llOtIh) HCllom06JUIBacT Mocro M)')Ka (xeny). 59. Mysonma X)')KC nOHJ1MaCT Y:yBCTBa llPYTOrO Y:CJIOBCKa, Y:CM )I(CHllII1Ha. 60. )KeHIUJ1Ha X)')KC nOHJ1MaCT Y:YBCTBa llPYTOrO lJ:eJIOBeKa, Y:CM My')I(LII1Ha. 61. Pann Mocro CbIHa (IlOY:CPI1) MHC OT MHOroro B )I(J1 3HH npmurrocs H

npI1XOIlI1TC5I OTKa3blBaTbC5I.

62. POllIHCJIJ1, xoropue CJIJ111IKOM MHoro CYCT5ITC5I BOKpYT CBORX llCTCtI:, BhI3bIBaIOT y MClliI pa311pa)l(CHJ1C.

63. 51 rpasry na MOCro CbIHa (1l0Y:b) 3HaY:JITCJIbHO 60JIbllIe neaer, qeM na ce651. 64. He JII06JIIO, xorna CbIH (1l0Y:b) Y:TO-TO npOCI1T. 51 caM(a) nyxure 3HaIO,

qero CM)" (ctI:) HaLlO .

65. Y Mocro ChIHa (IlOY:CpJ1) llCTCTBO 60JICC TPYIlHOC, 'ICM Y 60JIhllll1HCTBa ero (ee) TOBapJ1mctI:.

66. lloMa MOtl: ChIH (nos») nenaer TOflhKO TO, Y:TO CMy (CH) xoxerca, a HC TO, qTO HaLlO.

67. llcrn 1l0fl)I(HhI YBa)I(aTb pomrrenen 60JIhllIC, lJ:CM BCCX npyrnx JIIOIlCH. 68. Ecnn MOtl: pC6CHOK He CnJ1T, xorna CMy nonoxeuo, 51 He HaCTaJ1BalO. 69. 51 CTP0)l(C OTHOlllYCb K caoevy CbIHY (nosepa), Y:CM npyrne POIlI1TCJII1

K CBOI1M .n:CT5IM .

70. OT HaKa3aHJ1t1: Mano npoxy. 71. 1IJIcHbI nauren CCMbJ1 HeO,llJ1HaKOBO crporn C CbIHOM (IlOlJ:CPbIO). OIlHI1

6anyIOT, npyrne, Ha060poT, oxeas crporn.

72. MHC 6bI XOTCJIOCh, qT06hl MOtl: ChIH (1l01lb) HC JII06J1JI(a) HJ1KOrO, KpOMC Mellil .

73. MHc HpaB5ITC5I ManCHbKl1e llCTI1, n03TOMY 51 He XOTCJI(a) 6bI, Y:T06hI OH(a) CJIi1llIKOM 6hlCTPO B3pOCfleJI(a).

74. Hacro 51 He 3HalO, KaK npaBJ1JlbHO nocryrurrs C MOHM CblHOM (nosepsro). 75. B CB5I3J1 C ruIOXYIM 3.n:0POBbCM CbIHa (no-tepa) HaM npJ1XOllJ1TC5I cMy

(ea) MHoroc n03BOJI5lTb.

76. BOCIlJ1TaHI1C neren - T5I)I(CflbltI: J1 netinarozrapnsra rpyn. 11M ornaeun, nee, a B3aMCH He nonysaeun, HJ1Y:ero.

77. C MOI1M CbIHOM (noxepsio) MaJIO rrouoraer nofipoe CflOBO . E,nI1HCTBCHHOe, qTO na nero (HCC) llCHCTByeT, - 3TO nOCT05lHHbIC

CTpOfJ1C HaKa3aHYlJI.

78. MOH M)')K ()I(CHa) CTapaeTC5I HaCTpOJ1Tb ChIHa (1l0Y:b) npOTHB MCWr. 79. M)')KlIi1HbI qaIUC, qCM )I(CHIUJ1HbI, llCHCTBYIOT fieapaccynao,

HC 06nyMaB nOCJICllCTBJill.

80. )J(eHllIJ1HbI saute, lJ:eM M)')KlII1HbI, llCHCTBYIOT fieapaccynxo, He 06LIYMaB nocJIe,llCTBJ1H.

81. 51 BCC BpCM5I nyMalO 0 MOCM CbIHC (LIOqCpi1) , 0 ero (cc) nenax, 3110POBbC J1 r .n.

82. TaK nosenocs, Y:TO 0 pefienxe 51 BCnOMJ1HalO, eCJII1 OH Y:TO-Hi16Yllb naraopnn J1fll1 C HJ1M qTO-HI16Yllb CJIYtII1JlOCb .

83. Moit CbIH (1l0'Ib) yxeer ,ll06i1TbC5I OT MClliI roro, sero XOY:CT. 84. MHe 60JIhiliC HpaB5ITC5I TJ1XJ1C J1 cnOKOHHbIC llCTJ1. 85. Craparocs KaK MO)I(HO pansure npny-nrrs petieaxa noxorars no 1l0M)".

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86. Y Moero CbIHa (no-repa) MaJIO 06H3aHHocTeH no 1I0My. 87. Ilaxe eC.J1H neru ysepeusr , 'ITO pOlIHTeJIH He npansr, OHH 1l0JDKHbI

nenars TaK, KaK rOBopHT pozurremr. 88. B namea cexse TaK npHHHTO, qTO pe6eHOK nenaer, qTO XOqeT. 89. DbIBaIOT CJIyqaM, xorna rrysuree HaKa3aHMe - pexreas. 90. Mnorne He1l0CTaTKM B rtosenenaa Moero pefienxa npOHlIYT caMM

C060H C B03paCTOM. 91. Korna naur CblH (nous) 'ITO-TO HaTBopHT, MbI 6epeMCJI aa Hero (nee).

ECJUr see rnxo, OIDlTb OCTaBJUleM ero (ee) B noxoe. 92. ECJIH fibl MOB CbIH He 6bIJI MOHM CbmOM, a H 6bl 6blJIa IIOMOJIO:IKe, TO

uaaepnaxa B.JII06UJIaCb 6bl 0 Hero. 93 . MHe mrrepecaee ronopars C MaJIeHbKHMH lIeTbMH, qeM C 60JIblllHMM . 94. B He1l0CTaTKax Mocro CbIHa (noxepa) BHHoBaT(a) 51 caM(a) , norosry

qTO He YMeJI(a) ero (ee) aocnrrruaars. 95. TOJIbKO 6JIarOlIapJI HalllHM orpOMHbIM YCHJIIDIM CbIH (no-rs) OCTaJICH

(nacs) ){(HTb. 96. Hepenxo 3aBHlIYIO TeM, KTO )l(HBeT 6e3 neren. 97. ECJIH npenocraann, MoeMY CblHY (nosepn) cB060ny, OH (oaa) HeMell

.J1eHHO MCnOJIb3yeT ee BO spen ce6e MJIH OKp~aIOmHM. 98 . Hepenxo 6bIBaeT, qTO eCJIH 51 rOBOpIO csoexy CbIHY (noxepu) 01lHO, TO

M~ (xena) cneuaansao rOBopHT Ha060poT. 99 . My){('IHHbI xame, qeM ){(eHlll.HHbI, llYMaIOT TOJIbKO 0 ce6e. 100. )l(eHwMHbI xaute , qeM My){('IHHhI, llYMaIOT TOJIbKO 0 ce6e. 101. 51 rpa-ty Ha CbIHa (noxs) 60JIbllle CHJI M BpeMeHH, qeM aa ce65.1. 102. .5I1l0BOJIbHO MaJIO 3HaIO 0 aenax ChIHa (noxepn) . 103. )l(enaHHe xroero ChIHa (noxepn) llJUI MeHSI - 3aKOH. 104. MOH CbIH ovens JII06l1T cnars co MHOH. 105. Y Moero CbIHa (no-repn) nJIOXOH ){(eny1l0K. 106. POllHTeJIH H)')KHbI pefeaxy, Jrnlllb noxa OH He asrpoc. ilOTOM OH nee

pexe BcnOMHHaeT 0 HHX. 107. Paaa Moero CbIHa (no-tepa) 5.1 rrouren 6bI (nOIlIJIa 6bI) na JII06YIO )!(epTBy. 108. MoeMy CbIHY (noxepn) H)')KHO ynenan, 3Ha'IHTeJIbHO 60JIbWe

BpeMeml, qeM SI MOry. 109. MOH CblH (1l0qb) yMeeT 6bITb nU

118. Macrae nera HcnbITbIBaIOT CJII1WKOM MaJIO 6JIaronapHocrn no OTHOweHHIO K ponarenssr.

119. MOH Cbili (noss) He MO)l(eT 06X01llITbC5I: 6e3 MoeH nocro51HHOH rrosroiua, 120. EOJIbrnyIO xacn, csoero caofionaoro BpeMeHH CbIH (noxs) nposomrr

BHe nox a - B 51: CJUlX, B neTCKOM cany, y ponCTBeHHHKOB. 121. Y Moero CbIHa (no-tepa) BnOJIHe XBaTaeT BpeMeHI1 aa nrpu 11

pa3BJIeqeHI151: .

122. Kpoxre Moero CbIHa, MHe 60JIbWe HI1KTO sa CBeTe He JIY)l(eH . 123. Y Moero csnra (no-tepa) rrpepsrancrsm H 6ecnoKoHHbIH COHo 124. Hepenxo llYMaIO, qTO 51: CJII1WKOM paao )I(eHHJIC5I: (asnuna 3a~). 125. Bcevy, tITO MOH CbIH (noxs) yMeIOT K HaCT05l:111eMY npexrena, OH (oaa)

Hayql1JIC5I:(JIacb) TOJIbK O 6JIaronap51: MoeH nOCT05l:HHOH novouia. 126. neJIaMl1 CbIHa (no-tepa) B OCHOBHOM 3aHI1MaeTC5I: MOH M)')l< (xeaa). 127. 51 He MOry BCnOMHl1Th, xorna B nOCJIenHl1H pas OTKa3aJI(a) csoevy

pefienxy B nOK)'TIKe KaKotl:-Hl16ynb neura (xropoacenoe, KOHqleThI, «nenCl1-KOJIa» l1 T. n.).

128. Moil CbIH roBOpHJI MHe: «Bsrpacry, )I(eHlOCb xa retie , MaMa». 129. MOH CbIH (nous) qaCTO 60JIeeT. 130. CeMb51: He rrouoraer MHe, a OCJIO)l(H5[er MOIO )I(l13Hb.

OIIPOCHlIK AJUI PO,UlITEJIEM IIO,UPOCTKOB B B03PACTE OT u no 21 rOM

MHCTPYKUl1H )J,JIH pOnl1TeJIeH nonpOCTKOB aaanoraxna l1HCTPYKUl1H .nJI5I. pOnl1TeJIetl: MaJIeHbKHX neTetl:.

Ha yrnepxnenaa, nosrepa KOTOpbIX ssmeneau B onpOCHHKe, OTUbI MOryT He OTBetIaTh.

1. Bee, qTO 51: nenaro, 51 neJIaIO pann Moero CbIHa (noxepa) . 2. Y MeH51. qaCTO He XBaTaeT BpeMeHH n03aHl1MaThCH C CbIHOM (nosepsio)

qeM-HH6ynb l1HTepeCHbIM, K)'na-HH6ynb nOHrn BMeCTe , nOrOBOpl1Tb

nOnOJIbWe 0 qeM-HH6ynb HHTepeCHOM.

3. MHe npnxonarca paapeurars MoeMy pe6eHKY TaKMe scunr, KOTOpbIX He paspeuraior MHorHe npyrne p01J,l1TeJIH.

4. He JII05JIIO, xorna CbIH (no-rs) npnxozurr KO MHe C sorrpocava. Jlysnre, qT06bI noranancs (norananacs) caM (cajta).

5. Haw CbIH (nOtIL) HMeeT noxa 60JIbWe 0651:3aHHocTetl:, tIeM 60JIbWI1HCTBO ero (ee) TOBapl1111eH (rronpyr).

6. Moero CbIHa (noxs) ovens 'rpyznro 3aCTaBl1Tb tITO-Hl16ynb aenars no nOM)'.

7. Bcerna nysure, eCJIH nera He llYMaIOT Han TeM, npaBHJIbHbI JIl1 B3rJUlnbI ax p0lI.HTeJIeH.

8. Moa CbIH (nOtlb) B03BpalllaeTC5I: sesepov rorna, xorna XOtIeT. 9. ECJIl1 xoxeurs, tIro6bl TBOH CbIH (no-is) CTaJI(a) qeJIOBeKOM,He

OCTaBJUlH 6e3HaKa3aHHbIM Hl1 oznroro ero (ee) nnoxoro nOCryTIKa.

10. ECJIH TOJIbKO B03MO)I(H0, CTapaIOCb He HaKa3bIBaTb csnra (noxs).

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11. Korna 51: B xopourera aacrpoenna, aepenxo rrpouiaio csoexry CblHy (no-tepa) TO, aa lJTO B npyroe BpeMSI HaKa3aJIa 6bI.

12. 51 JIl06JIIO csoero ChIHa (,lI,Ollb) 60JIbllIe, lleM JII06JIlo (JII06IiJIa) cyrrpyra. 13. MaJIeHbKMe JIeTIi MHe HpaB5ITC5I 60JIbllie, lJeM 60JIbllIIie. 14. ECJIIi MOM. CbIH (no-rs) rrOJIOJIry ynP5IMIiTC5I IDIIi 3JII1TC5I, Y MeH5I 6bIBaeT

LIyBCTBO, lJTO SI nOCTyrrID1(a) HenpaBIiJIbHO no OTHOllieHMIO K HeMY (K Hew). 15. Y Hac JIOJIr o He 6blJIO perieuxa, XOT5I Mbl ero oxem, xnana. 16. 06llIeHIie C JIeTbMl1, B 06rneM-To, oseas yrovnrensnoe )J,eJIO. 17. Y Moero csma (zto-repa) ecrs aexoropue xaxecrna, xoropsre BbIBOJISIT

MeH5I Ii3 ce651:. 18. BOCnl1TaHIie Moero csma (nosepa) lliJIO 6bI rOpa3JIO JIyqIIIe, eCJIIi 6bI

MOM. My)!{ (M051: )KeHa) He MeIllaJI(a) 6bI MHe. 19. DOJIbIllHHCTBO 1I-f)')K'IHH JIerKOMbICJIeHHee, lleM )KeHllil1HbI. 20. bOJIbIllIiHCTBO )KeHlllIiH JIerKOMbICJIeHHee, lleM ~f)')K'IHHhl. 21. MoM. CbIH (no-n.) nJI51 MeIDl - caxoe rnasnoe B )l(l13HH. 22. Hacro 6bIBaeT, LITO 51 He 3HalO, me nponaaaer MOM. ChIlI (noxs). 23. Crapaiocs KYITHTb CBoeMY CbIHy (nosepn) TaKYlO onexny, KaKYlO OH

(ona) caM(a) xo-rer, naxe eCJIH OHa JIOporM. 24. MoM. CbIH (no-rs) HenOH5ITJIl1B(a). Jlerxe caMOMY nna pasa cnenars,

lleM onna pas 06'b5lCHl1Tb eMy (en). 25. MoeMY csnry (no-tepa) nepenxo rrpnxomrrcs (HJIH npHXO,lJ,HJIOCb paasure)

npncvarpaaars sa MJIaJIllIHM 6paToM (cecrpori). 26. Hepenxo 6bIBaeT TaK: HanOMHHalO-HanOMHHalO CblHY (no-tepa) 0

ueooxonavocnr cnenars lJTO-JIM60, a nOTOM IIJIlOHy M CneJIaIO casta (cav).

27. POnl1TeJIl1 lIl1 B KoeM cnyxae He nOJI)KHbI norrycxars, LIT06bI new nOnMellaJIl1 MX CJIa60CTM H HenOCTaTKM.

28. MoM. CbIH (no-rs) caM(a) peuraer, C KeM eMY npysorn., 29. new JIOJDKHbI He TOJIbKO JII06HTb CBOllX pOnIiTeJIeM., HO M 605l:TbC5I MX. 30. 51 osens penxo pyraio ChIHa (noxs). 31. B naureii crporocrn K CbIRY (nosepa) 6bIBaIOT fionsurae KOJIe6aHM5I .

Haorna ML1 oxens crporu, a naorna see paapeiuaev. 32. MbI C CblHOM nOHMMaeM npyr npyra ny-une, lleM CblH C My)!{eM. 33. MeH5I oropxaer TO, lJTO MOM. CbIH (JIOY:b) 6blCTpO CTaHOBMTC5I

B3POCJIb1M(OM.). 34. ECJIIi pefieaox yrrp5IMMTCSI, nOTOMY lITO TIJIOXO ce6SI qyBCTHyeT, TO

JIyqllIe acero cnenars TaK, KaK OH xoser. 35. MoM. pefiexox pOC CJIa6h1M 11 60JIe3HeHHblM. 36. ECJIM 6h1 Y MelISI He 6bIJIO nerea, 51 6b1 n06IDIC5I (n06I1JIaCb) B )Kl13HIi

ropaano fionsurero. 37. Y Moero CbIHa (no-tepa) ecrs CJIa60CTI1, xoropsre He npOXOJISIT, XOT5I 51

ynopao C HI1MH 60pIOCb. 38. Hepenxo 6bIBaeT, lITO, xorna 51 HaKa3bIBaIO Moero cuxa (no-n.), MOM.

My)!{ (xena) ryr )Ke Halll1HaeT ynpexars MeHSI B H3JIIiIIIHeM. CTporOCTH H yreiuars ero (ee).

39. My)KlJHHb1 60JIee CK.!'10HHb1 K cynpyxecxoa H3MeHe, lJeM )KeHIllI1HbI.

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40. )l(eHlIlHHbI 60JIee CKJIOHHbI K cynpyxecxott H3MeHe, tIeM Mj')KqHHbI. 41. 3a6OThI 0 CbIHe (zrosepn) 3aHHMaJOT naafionsuryro qaCTb Moero BpeMeHH. 42. MHe MHoro paa rrpmmrocs rrporrycxars pOllHTeJIbCKHe co6paH.IDI.. 43. CTapaIOCb KYIIHIb eMY (eii) BCe TO, 'lIO OH (OHa) XOtIeT, naxe eCJIH 3TO

CroHT noporo. 44. ECJIH nonro 6bITb B 06IlleCTBe Moero CbIHa (nosepa), MO)I(HO CJUIbHO

ycrars, 45. MHe MHoro paa npaxonanocs rropy-rars MOeMY CbIHy (no-tepa)

Ba)I(Hble 11 'rpynnste nena, 46. 3a rvroero CbIHa (IIOlJ:b) HeJIb351 nopysarscs B cepsesaov nene, 47. fJIaBHOe, 'leMy pOlll1TeJIH llOJDKHbI nay-nrrs CBOHX nerea,

3TO CJIYllIaTbCH. 48. MOH CbIH (noxs) caM(a) peuraer, KYpl1Th eMY (en) I1m1 Her. 49. qeM crpoxe p01ll'lTeJIH K pe6eHKY, TeM nysure lI)Ul Hero. 50. ITo xapaxrepy .H - M.HfKHH tIeJIOBeK. 51. ECJIH MoeMy CbIHy (nosepn) xero-ro OT MeH.H Hy)l(HO, OH (oaa)

crapaercs BbI6paTb MOMeHT, xorna .H B xopourev nacrpoeaaa, 52. Korna a nyMaIO 0 TOM, tITO Koma-HI16Yllb MOH Cbili (nos») nsrpacrer, H

51 6yllY eMY (eH) He Hy)I(Ha, y MeH.H rrOpTlHC5I nacrpoenae. 53. qeM crapure IIeTH, TeM rpymree HMeTb C HHMH neno. 54. Haure scero yrrP5IMCTBO petieirxa 6bIBaeT BbI3BaHO TeM, 'lIO pOllHTeJIH

He YMeIOT rrpaBHJIbHO K HeMY nonoara, 55. 51 nOCT05lHHO nepexnaaio sa anoposse CbIHa (no-tepa) . 56. Ecmt 6bI Y MeH.H He 6bIJIO llereH, Moe 3IIopOBbe 6bIJIO 6bI rOpa3110

nyxure. 57. Hexoropsre OtIeHb B~bIe HellOCTaTKH xoero CbIHa (noxepa) ynopno

He I1CtIe3aIOT, HeCMOrp.H xa see MepbI. 58. MOH csnr (llOllb) HeIIOJII06nHBaeT Moero Mj')Ka ()j(eHy). 59. MYJKtIHHa xyxe rrOHHMaeT qyBCTBa npyroro tIeJIOBeKa, tIeM )I(eHIlIHHa. 60. )l(eHlIlI1Ha xyxe rrOHHMaeT xyncraa npyroro 'leJIOBeKa, 'leM M~HHa. 61. PMl1 Moero CbIHa (nosepa) MHe OT MHororo B )l(H3HH npl1IIIJIOCb

OTKa3aTbC5I. 62. EbIBaJIO, 'ITO 51 He ysaaaama) 0 3aMe'laHHH HJIH IIBOHKe B lI.HeBHMKe

nOTOMY, -rro He nocvorpema) B .uHeBHHK. 63. 51 rpaxy ira csoero CbIHa (.uOtIb) ana-nrrensno 60JIbIlle nener, 'leM na

ce6.H. 64. He JII06JIIO, xorna CbIH (ztoxs) 'lTO-TO rtpocnr. 51 caxa JIY'IIlle 3HaIO,

'ITO eMY (eti) Hy)I(HO. 65. Y Moero CbIHa (nosepn) 60JIee rpyznroe lleTCTBO, tIeM y 60JlbIllHHCTBa

ero (ee) ronapmueii. 66. )J:oMa MOH CbIH (llOtIb) zterraer TOJIbKO TO, eMY (ea) XO'leTCH, a He TO,

-rro aano. 67. )J:eTH llOJDKHbI yaaxars pomrrenen 60JIbIlle, 'leM scex npyrax JIIOneH. 68. MOH CbIH (noss) ca.\f(a) peuiaer, ira 'ITO eMY (en) rparnrs CBOH nensra. 69. 51 crpoxe OTHOIIIYCb K CBOeMY CbIHY (novep«), 'leM llPyrne POJl,lITeJll1 K CBOI1M.

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70. OT HaKa3aH}[H Mana rrpoxy, 71. llJIeHhI nanrea ceMbH HeO.lUIHaKOBO crpora C CbIHOM (.I101lepbIO). O./lHI1

6arryIOT, npyrne, Ha060poT, - OlleHb crporu, 72. MHe 6bI XOTeJIOCb, lfT06bI Mall CbIH (nons) He JII06I1JI(a) HHKOro,

KpOMe MeIDl. 73. Kama Mall ChIH (ao-n.) 6bIJI(a) ManeHbKHll(OH), OH(a) MHe HpaBllJIC5J

(HpaBI1JIaCb) 60JIhllle, lfeM reneps, 74. Hacro 51 He 3HaIO, KaK rrpamorsao nocryrnrrs C MOHM ChIHOM (no-repsro). 75. B CB5J311 C nJIOXMM 3.110pOBbeM CbIHa (no-reps) HaM npaxonanocs B

.I1eTCrBC ~lH oro e n03BOJUITb evy (ell) . 76. Bocrurraane nerea - rillKeJIbIM 11 netinaronapasnt TPY.lI. MM ornaeun,

ace, a B3aMeH He nonyaaeurs HH'-Iero. 77. MoeMY CbIHY (no-tepa) Mana novoraer nofipoe CJIOBO. ErUfHCTBeHHoe,

-rro na Hero nejicrsyer - 3TO rrOCT05JHHble crporne HaKa3aHIDI. 78. Mall MYJK (xeaa) CTapaeTC5J HaCTPOI1Tb ChIHa (noxs) npornn MeH5J. 79. My)I('-II1HhI -rauie, lIeM )I(eHIllI1HbI, ./leMCTBYIOT 6e3paCCY.llHO, He

06./lYMaB nOCJIe.llCTBHM. 80. )KeHlllHHbI saute, lfeM MPK'IHHbI, ./lellcTBYIOT 6e3paCCY./lHO,

He 06.l1)'MaB nocnencrsaa. 81. 51 see BpeM5I .lI)'MaIO 0 MoeM CbIHe (ztoxepa), 0 era (ee) nenax,

3.l10pOBhe 11 T.n, 82. Hepenxo npHXO.lll1TC5J (npaxozranocs) noanxcstsan, .lIHeBHI1K aa

HeCKOJIbKO uenens cpasy. 83. Mall ChIH (no-n.) )'MeeT ./l06I1TbC5I or MeIDl roro, lfero xo-rer, 84. MHe 60Jlblile HpaB5ITC5I TI1XMe H cnoxonasrc ./leTI1. 85. MOM CbIH (no-rs) MHoro novoraer MHe (nova I1JIH aa pafiore). 86. Y Moero ChIHa (no-tepa) Mana 065J3aHHOCTeH no novy. 87. D,3.)I(e eCJlI1 .lIeTI1 yaepensr, qTO p0.l1HTeJII1 He npaasr, OHH nOJDKHbI

nenars TaK, KaK rOBOp5JT ponarenn. 88. BbIXO.lI5I 113 noMY, Mati Cbill (ztoxs) penxo roBOpI1T, KY.lIa nner. 89. EbIBaIOT cnysaa, xorna ny-nuee HaKa3aHHe - 3TO peneas. 90. Macrae HenOCTarKH B nOBe.l1eHHI1 CbIHa (no-tepa) npoutnn caMI1

c060ll C B03paCTOM. 91. Koraa Ham ChIH (no-is) liTO-TO HaTBOpI1T, MhI 6epeMC5J aa Hero (nee),

ECJlH see THXO, OlUITh OCTaBJUIeM ero (ee) B noxoe, 92. ECJlH 6hI MOM ChIH He 6bIJI MOI1M CbIHOM, a 51 6hIJIa 6bI MOJIO)I(e, 51

HaBepIDIKa B Hero BJlI06llJIaCb 6hI . 93. MHe mrrepecaee rOBOpHTh C ManeHhKl1MH .lIeThMH, 'ieM C 60JlhllIHMH. 94. B nenocrarxax Moero ChIHa (zto-repa) BI1HOBaT(a) 51 caM(a) , norosry

-rro He )'MeJI(a) era (ee) BOCrrHTbIBaTb. 95. TOJIbKO finaronaps HamHM OrpOMHbIM YCllJI.I15IM, Cbili (.lI0llb)

OCTanC5J(JIacb) )I(llB(a). 96. Hepeztxo 3aBH.lIYIO TeM, KIa )I(llBeT 6e3 nerea. 97. ECJIH npenocrasars MoeMy ChIHY (zrosepn) CB060.llY, OH (ona)

HeMe.lIJleHHO HCnOJIh3yer 3TO BO spen ce6e llJIH OKpy)I(aJOIIIHM.

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98. Hepeznco 6hIBaeT, -rro eCJII1 51 rOBOplO caoeuy ChIHY (no-tepa) OLlHO, TO My)\( ()\(eHa) CneUl1aJIhHO rOBopHT Ha060poT.

99. My)K'II1HhI saure, lIeM )I{eHllII1HhI, LlYMalOT TOJIhKO 0 ce6e . 100. )KeHrnl1HhI xaure, lJ.eM MY)l{lJ.I1HhI, LlYMalOT TOJIbKO 0 ce6e. 101. 5l 'rpaxy aa CbIHa (no-rs) 60JIbWe CI1JI 11 BpeMeHI1, lJ.eM aa cefis . 102. 5l LlOBOJIhHO MaJIO 3HalO 0 LleJIaX Moero CbIHa (no-repu). 103. )KeJIaHl1e Moero csnra (noxepa) LlJIH MeHH - 3aKOH. 104. Korna MOll CbIH 6bIJI MaJIeHhKl1ll, OH oxens JII0611JI cnars CO MHOI1. 105. Y Moero CbIHa (no-repn) IDIOXOll )I{eJIYLlOK. 106. POLll1TeJIl1 H)')I{HbI peoenxy, JIl1Wb noxa OH He BbIpOC. IloTOM OH ace

pexe BCnOMI1HaeT 0 HI1X. 107. Paaa Moero ChIHa (no-tepa) H nomen 6hI (nouina 6hI) aa JII06Y1O »cepray, 108. Moexty CbIHY (no-tepa) nano YLleAATb 3HalJ.I1TeJIhHO 60JIbWe apevena,

lJ.eM 51 MOry . 109. MOll ChIH (noxs) yMeeT 6hITh TaKI1M(oll) MI1JlhIM(Oll), lJ.TO H eMy (ell)

see npomaio. 110. MHe Obi XOTeJIOCb, lfJOObl csm lKeHUJICSI nOn03IKe - nOCJIe 30 JIeT. III. PYKM 11 Hom Moero CbIHa (no-tepa) '-IaCTO 6bIBalOT O'-leHb XOJIOLlHbIMl1. 112. DOJIbWl1HCTBO neren - MaJIeHbKl1e 3ro11CTbI. OHl1 COBceM He zryvaior

o anopoase 11 qYBCTBaX CBOI1X ponarenen. 113. ECJIl1 He ornasars MoeMy CbIHY (110l.J.epl1) nee BpeMH l1 Cl1JIbI, TO nee

MO)l{eT TIJIOXO KOH'-Il1TbCH. 114. Korna Bce 6JIarOnOJI)"IHO, H MeHbwe l1HTepecyrocb LleJIaMl1 CbIHa

(zto-repa). 115. MHe O'-leHb TPYLlHO cxaaars cnoexry pe6eHKY: «H eT». 116. MeHH oropxaer, '-ITO MOll CbIH (noxs) see srenee Hy)I{1laeTCH BO MHe. 117. 3LlopoBbe Moero CbIHa (no-tepa) xyxe, lIeM an opo ase 60JIbWl1HCTBa

nOLlpOCTKOB. 118. Macrae zrera l1CnbITbIBaIOT CJIl1IllKOM MaJIO 6JIarOLlapHOCTl1 no

OTHOWeHl11O K pOLll1TeJIHM. 119. MOll CbIH (no-n.) He MO)l{eT 06XOLll1TbCH 6e3 nOCToHHHoll nOMOWl1. 120. DOJIbWYIO '-IaCTb csoero cB060LlHoro apeveaa CbIH (LlOlJ.b) npOBOLlI1T

BHe LlOMa. 121. Y Moero CbIHa (noxepn) oxem, MaJIO BpeMeHl1 aa pa3BJIelJ.eHl1H. 122. Kpove sroero CbIHa (no-tepa) , MHe fionsure Hl1KTO aa CBeTe He Hy)I{eH. 123. Y Moero CbIHa (nonepn) npepusacrun l1 6ecnOKollHwll COHo 124. Hepezuco LlYMalO, -rro 51 CJII1IlIKOM paao )I{eHI1JIC5I (BbIIlIJIa savyx) . 125. Bee, xero 110611JICH MOll CbIH (1I0lJ.b) K HaCT05l1lleMY MOMeHTy (B Yl.J.e6e,

aa paoore l1JI11 npyroa), OH (OHa) Ll06l1JICH(JIaCb) TOJIbKO 6JIarOLlap51 Moell nocroannoa nOMOIllI1 .

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TeM, qTO esry (ell) HpaBI1TcH. 128. Korna 51 BI1~ I1JII1 rrpenCTaBJUIIO CWHa C nesyurxoa, y MeH51 nopnrrca

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TIpHMeT.:laHl-UII r+ 71 21 41 61 81 r- 8 I622 22 42 82 y+ 83 23 43 63 83 y- 44 24 44 64 84 T+ 4455 25 65 85 T- 466 866 26 46

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10 C- 430 50 70 90 11 31 51 71 H 591

ppq 6 I12 32 52 72 92 13 7333 53 93 nUK 4 14 5434 74 94 BH 5

35 55 75 Y 695I 15 HPq 716 36 56 76 96

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TI)J(K 419 39 7959 99 4020 80 100 TIMK 460 107 119 125 r+1 101 113

114 120 r 102 108 126 I y+121103 109 115 127

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TEKCT OrrpOCHMKA 1. 51 scerna CO'-[yBCTBYfO caoexy petienxy. 2. 51 C'-[IiTaIO CBOIiM llOJIraM 3HaTh BCe, '-[TO llYMaeT MOM peoeaox. 3. 51 ysaxaro csoero pefienxa. 4. MHe KaJKeTC~, '-[TO noaenenne Moero pefieaxa 3Ha'-[I1TeJIbHO

OTKJIOIDIeTC~ OT HOPMbL 5. H)')KHo nononsme nepxars peoenxa B CTopOHe OT peansnstx

)I{li3HeHHbIX np06JIeM, eCJII1 OHI1 ero TpaBMHpYfOT. 6. 51 I1CnbITbIBaIO K pe6eHKY qyBCTBO pacnOJIO)l(eHI1H. 7. Xopoume pOllIiTeJII1 orpaxnator pefienxa OT TPYllHocTeM )I(J13HI1. 8. MOM pefienox '-[aCTO nenpasrea MHe. 9. 51 acerna CTapaIOCh rrOMO'-[h CBoeMY pe6eHKY. 10. Bsmaror cnysan , xorna 11311eBaTeJIbCKOe OTHOWeHl1e K pe6eHKY

rrpl1HOCI1T eM)' 60JIbIIIYfO rrOJIb3Y. 11. 51 ncnsrrsraaio nocany no OTHoweHHIO K csoesry pe6eHKY. 12. Moa peoenox Hlf'-[ero He llo6beTC~ B )I{li3HH. 13. MHe KaJKeTCH, '-[TO nera nOTewaIOTCH Han MOHM peoenxo« . 14. Moa pe6eHOK '-[aCTO cosepuraer raxae nocrynxa, xoropsre, KpOMe

npespenna, Hlfl.[erO He CTOHT. 15. LlmI csoero so apacra MOM pe6eHOK HeMHO)I(KO He3peJIbIM. 16. MOM peoeaox sener cefix MOXO CneUl1aJIbHO, -rrofisr nocamrn, MHe. 17. MOM petieaox amrrsiaaer B cefis see nypaoe, KaK rytixa. 18. Moera peoeaxa TpYllHO HayqIfTb XOpOWHM MaHepaM npa BceM CTapaHI1I1. 19. Pe6eHKa cnezryer ztepxan, B )I{eCTKl1X pavxax, Toma H3 Hero supacrcr

nOp5I1l0'-[HbIM '-[eJIOBeK. 20. 51 JIro6JIro, xorna llPY3bH Moero pefieuxa npl1XOMT K HaM B 110M. 21. 51 npIiHIiMaro ysacrne B CBoeM pefieaxe. 22. K MoeMy pe6eHKY

32. 51 CTapaIOCh BhIIlOJIIDlTb BCe npocsfisr MoerO pefienxa. 33. TIP11 rrp11H5IT