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Determinants & Consequences

of Parent-Adolescent Conflict

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Problem statement

• Conflict between parents and

aspect of their relationship, but for u y   

Quality of conflict becomes

distressing, and is linked to

externalising problems.

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• Paucity of research in the context of 

Kenyan families regarding the types

conflict between adolescents ande r paren s, s requency an

intensit variation across familiesand strategies for coping.

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Study Objectives

 

-adolescent conflict.

• To examine the relationship betweenthe ender of the adolescent and

frequency of conflicts with parents

parent-adolescent conflict on the family.

• To identify strategies used by parents

conflicts

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Literature Review

 of transformation and reorganization

1991)• rom nen among ese c anges s

the shift that occurs when teenagec ren eg n o exerc se

increasing amounts of personalur s c on over e r ownbehaviour.

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• N au & Meme 1997 in a stud on needs

assessment for mother and daughter communication, re orted that the conflicts

mentioned by daughters were mainly due to

arental restrictions on datin , socializinand dressing habits.

•of communication between parents and the

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found that conflict between

parents and adolescent’s is

increases early and middle

a o escence.

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Nairobi- Public Secondar Schools

• 150 Adolescents ( Forms1-3 i.e 14-7 years

• 5 G & C teachers as key informants• 1 Education Officer as a key

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• Stratified sampling of schools

• ne sc oo p c e rom eaccategory.

• Simple Random sampling of 

• Sampling Frame for PTA List for parents

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Sources of conflict with parents according to adolescents

ource o con c w aren s requency ercen

School Performance 26 17.3

Friends 24 16.0

Household Chores 21 14.0

Going out & Coming Late 15 10.0

Watching TV & Loud Music 11 7.3un s men sc p ne .

Manner of Dressing 10 6.7

Career Choices 6 4.0

No Response 4 2.7

Total 150 100.0

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Often 18 12.0

Sometimes 58 38.7

Very Often 17 11.3

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Total 150 100.0

P t ith h th d l t h

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Parent with whom the adolescent has

frequent conflicts

Parent with frequency of conflicts70

60

50

40

30

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     e     r     c     e     n      t

20

10

0

parent with frequency of conflicts

None of themStep Father Step mother Father Mother 

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Reasons for conflicting with mother 

- .

Adolescent interacts more frequently with

with her 17.3%e oes no un ers an e a o escen -

10.0%

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Adolescents’ rating of Conflicts with Parents

rate conflict

50

40

20

      P     e     r     c     e     n      t 10

0

rate conflict

SeriousVery SeriousA little SeriousNot serious at all

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Consequences of :Parent-Adolescent Conflict Frequency Percent

Family Unity is disrupted 36 24.0

They blame the adolescent & take sides with

the parent

35 23.3

The blame the arent & take sides with the 18 12.0

adolescent

They do not get involved in the conflict 13 8.7

Other family members are not affected 48 32.0

Total 150 100.0

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Adolescents who have contemplated

runn ng away rom omeContemplated running away from home Frequency Percent

Rarely 78 52.0

Sometimes 59 39.3

Often 6 4.0

All the time 7 4.7

Total 150 100.0

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Consequences of parent adolescent conflict

on sc oo per ormanceSchool Performance Frequency Percent

Rarely 56 37.3

Sometimes 55 36.7

Often 19 12.7

All the time 20 13.3

Total 150 100.0

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Strategies used by adolescents to deal with

Strategies Frequency Percent

Dialogue 49 32.7

Take responsibility & do not 20 13.3

blame parents

Avoid talkin to arents about 53 35.3the issue

Post one talkin until later 16 10.7Seek help of a 3rd party 7 4.7

ve n o paren s w s es .Total 150 100.0

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The most difficult parenting period

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Source of conflicts with adolescents according to

Sources of Conflict with adolescents Frequency PercentFriends 9 30.0

Watching T.V and loud music 8 26.7

School performance 1 3.3ouse o c ores .

Going out and coming late 3 10.0

Financial demands 3 10.0Dressing 1 3.3

Total 30 100.0

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frequent conflicts

Boys 15 15.0

Girls 15 15.0

Total 30 100.0

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Consequences of parent adolescent conflict

on e am y

 

Yes- 66.7%o- .

On other family membersYes - 70.0%

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Consequences of parent adolescent conflict

on e am yHow other famil members are affected b the

conflicts

• Communication breakdown in the family-33.3%

• They avoid being drawn into the conflicts-30.0%

• They blame the parent & take sides with thea o escen - .

 performance -100.0%

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Parents Strategies for managing conflict

1. Parent makes sure that they have the final word -

.2. Postpone talking about the issue to a later time

pre err ng o ocus on some ng e se ns ea -

23.3%3. Parent explains their position on the matter as

clearly as possible as well as fully listening to the

adolescent’s point of view -7 .

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DISCUSSION/SUMMARY

Issues (Determinants) of Conflict

aren - o escen con c s mos yabout:

• The type of friends that the.

• School performance

• Going out & coming late

,e) Television viewing and loud music.

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the gender of the adolescent andfrequency of conflicts with

.

• Teens reported having frequent

disagreements with mothers than

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The Adolescent:

• onflict between parents and their adolescents is predictive of a variety of adolescent problems namely;

• Contem latin runnin awa from home

• Suicidal ideation

 

• Drug use

• Poor performance in school

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Consequences of conflict on the

whole family: 

harmony• Communication breakdown

• Marital disharmony ( stress in the

mar a re a ons p ence poor  parental wellbeing

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• Parents satisfaction with their 

their children are in their teenageyears . .

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ADOLESCENTS:

• Avoidance was the preferred strategy by

35.3% of the adolescents when faced with

conflicts

• This has im lications on effective resolvinand closure of these episodes.

•adolescent feeling distant hurt, angry,

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Strategies used to deal with

con licts

According to the study appeared to have

conflicts than their teenage children

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1. Counsellors should step in and give

2. Programmes for parents and adolescentss ou e se up soc a ns u ons e

churches, schools.3. Schools strengthen peer counselling clubs

4. Life skills trainin for the outh5. Government funded counselling services

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should be re-emphasised.

 

measures to curb influx of negative

from other sources.

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Ministry of Home Affairsro a on epar men

Prof. O. GakuruM/s Lillian Owiti

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