Post on 15-Dec-2014
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Movie Character Presentation
Away from Her
Overview of Presentation Away From Her documents the events that take place when
Alzheimer’s disease affects a spouse.
Alzheimer’s is the most common form of dementia. The late great medical essayist Lewis Thomas called Alzheimer’s “the disease of the century”. The worst of all diseases for both the person and the family (Brussat, M. 2007).
This presentation will review points of themovie, and an assessment of Fiona’s
husbands’ progress through this life-changing experience.
Nursing diagnosis and plan of care
Background of Movie and Character
Couple married for 44 years, enjoying their “golden years” in their tranquil rural home
Wife “Fiona” starts to show signs of Dementia; misplacing things, forgetting words, getting lost
Fiona, realizing her disability is proactive in moving into a 24 hour care facility
Grant has a very difficult time with the transition and questions the need for Fiona to leave.
Grant is left with feelings of past regrets and guilt as he watches his wife devote herself to another man in the home
Despite his wife’s loss of affection and memory he continues to support and encourage his wife’s happiness
Functional AssessmentsI selected to assess Grant from this movie to show his functional
health patterns with the dynamics of loss, regret, change, and restoration through out the movie. He must overcome the love
of his life while at the same time come to terms with past decisions.
Health Perception/Health Management Grant perceives his wife’s declining health as unpredictable (she a sudden
memory of a trip while on the way to the facility) which causes him to question what he is doing.
Grant maintains his own health management by continuing to exercise as a way to release stress.
Nutrition/Metabolic
No obvious change in nutrition, weight loss , weight gain during this process. Grooming and general presentation remain the same throughout.
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Pattern of Activity/Exercise Grant continues to cross-country ski during this stressful
time. His new hobby is visiting his wife daily – who remains
polite but distant. Grand also seems to enjoy observing the nursing home’s
clients, and the events that play out.
Pattern of Sleep and Rest There are no signs of sleep or lack of energy associated
with the situation Grant finds himself in.
Pattern of Self
Perception and Self
Concept It is made obvious that Grant has
doubts of his self worth to himself and also to his wife.
There is an underlining guilt brought on by Fiona’s memory of Grant’s affections toward his female students and possible infidelities.
Fiona brings this up as they are driving to the facility.
Acknowledging how he must have enjoyed the attention of his “pretty young students”, yet grateful that he never left
her.
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Role/Relationship Patterns
Grant has to remove himself as the husband and become an observer to stay involved in his wife’s life.
Grant continues to question if he is responsible for his wife’s transfer of affection to Aubrey.
Uncertainties remain if Fiona’s visual devotion to Aubrey is payback for Grant’s past transgressions.
Grant describes his continued affection and devotion often through out the movie.
“I never wanted to be away from her. She had the spirit of life”
Grant decides to meet Aubrey’s wife Mariam, who is unreceptive at his first approach.
As Grant begins to let go of his wife, he finds friendship in Mariam.
A scene is shown during a Christmas family gathering at the facility. Grant is watching his wife sit and share desert with Aubrey, her “new man”. A teenage girl joins him on the couch,
she questions what he is doing, “I’m watching that woman over there”, she hesitates and states “the one with her husband?”, Grand enlightens her that “no, I am her husband”.
Sexuality/Reproductive
Patterns It is obvious that Grant and Fiona have a “soul mate” bond, and a sexual chemistry that has lasted throughout their lives together.
Fiona’s last wish before being left at the facility is for Grant to make love to her, in her new bedroom – and then leave.
“If you don’t I may start crying and never stop”
As Grant’s need for companionship deepens his friendship in Mariam leads to sexual fulfillment and a laugh at their lives.
“It’s not bad luck – It’s just life”
Assessment Complete
Pattern of Coping and Stress Tolerance At one point Grant does show his anger over the situation while shoveling
snow and has a break-down. Also while visiting Fiona and again, observing her helping Aubrey, Grant
grabs Fiona by the hands “willing” her to acknowledge him has her husband.
Fiona’s way of coping and answer to Grant regarding Aubrey –
“He doesn’t confuse me!”
Pattern of Values and Beliefs Grant often verbalizes that “it’s life”. Despite the internal conflicts he seems to appear to have no regrets.
Analysis of Health Assessment
Normal assessment findings – Grant continues to care for himself despite losing his wife’s affection and
acknowledgement. Keeps open communication with care home staff, sharing his thoughts and
concerns.
Abnormal or risk-based findings – Guilt and regret from past misgivings. Risk for emotional difficulties and uncertainties.
Fiona, Grant and Aubrey
Additional Observations Cultural – It appears that no other family is involved or
important cultural rituals or activities.
Geographical – The movie is played out in the Canadian country, where cross country skiing is views often as a way to show the scenery.
Religious – no obvious religious activity is shown.
Ethnic – There is a reference that Fiona is from Iceland – but has never traveled there.
Spiritual – No spiritual activity or reference is offered.
Nursing ConsiderationsNursing Diagnosis
Ineffective Individual Coping related to illness of family member and
situational transition and/or crisis.Interventions
One – Provide information on community resources for support , counseling, and educational opportunities (Gulanick, M. G., Meyers, J., 2007).
Two – Provide opportunities to express concerns, fears, feelings and expectations (Gulanick, Meyers, 2007).
Three – Assist the patient to grieve and verbalize fear or regret (Edelman, C., Mandle, C, 2010).
Resources One - Alzheimer’s Foundation of America; http://www.alzfdn.org Two - Alzheimer’s Caregiver Center, Alzheimer’s Association;
http://www.alz.org/care/overview.asp
ConclusionThroughout the movie, Grant’s love and devotion to his wife of 44 years is a testament to marriage and a lifetime commitment to each other. Then watching her slowly disappear mentally and then to relinquish her to a “new friend” Aubrey tests that commitment. Grant identifies with his feelings of jealousy, as he realizes the pain his wife must have years ago due to his infidelities. He decides to befriend Aubrey’s wife Marian to share his feelings of loneliness and hurt. The ending is unexpected as Grant may have a second chance to repair his relationship with Fiona and continue their love affair.
References
Brussat, M.,, (2007) Away from her – review. Sprituality Practice, Resources for Spiritual Journeys
Edelman, C. L., Mandle, C. L., (2010), Health Promotion Throughout the Life Span, 7th Edition. Mosby.
Gulanick, M., Myers, J. (2007), Nursing Care Plans: Nursing Diagnosis and Intervention, 6th Edition. C.V. Mosby.