研習會 研習會 22

研習會 2

這真是愛嗎？7 種方法告知你

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未婚男女必需知道

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已婚夫婦也需知道已婚夫婦也需知道

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撒旦為愛愛造了仿製品：

情慾﹗情慾﹗

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「因為凡世界上的東西，好比肉體的情慾、眼目的情慾和今生的驕傲，都不是從父來的，而是

從世界來的。」約翰一書 2:16

「因為凡世界上的東西，好比肉體的情慾、眼目的情慾和今生的驕傲，都不是從父來的，而是

從世界來的。」約翰一書 2:16

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情慾是一種幻變的感受，愛是一種不變的原則。

對比 #1

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「愛是一種你想得到的感覺，而這種感覺是你從未有過的。」

這不是愛這不是愛 !!

「愛是一種你想得到的感覺，而這種感覺是你從未有過的。」

這不是愛這不是愛 !!

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愛是有感覺；愛是有感覺；但並不只是感覺而已但並不只是感覺而已﹗﹗

愛是一個原則愛是一個原則﹗﹗「愛是永不止息的」「愛是永不止息的」

林前林前 1313 ：： 88

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我們用心去愛；但更重要的是用理智去愛﹗我們用心去愛；但更重要的是用理智去愛﹗

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感情是盲目，愛卻是理智和經過考慮

對比 #2

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盲目的休比特：羅馬教的愛情之神！盲目的休比特：

羅馬教的愛情之神！

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愛不是盲目﹗愛是帶著眼睛﹗愛是理智和經過考慮﹗

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情慾是著迷於外表愛卻是關注於內在

對比 #3

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外表包括外型時式性吸引

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內在包括個性習慣品格

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「人是看外貌，耶和華是看內

心。」撒上 16 ： 7

「人是看外貌，耶和華是看內

心。」撒上 16 ： 7

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激情是濫交愛情卻是純潔

對比 #4

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約瑟對波提乏太太說：「我怎能作這大惡，得罪上帝呢？」創 39 ： 9

約瑟對波提乏太太說：「我怎能作這大惡，得罪

上帝呢？」創 39 ： 9

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當有婚前性行為引誘時，真愛就會說：稍等，等我們結了婚才行

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當有婚外情危機時，真愛會說：「不﹗我已經結了婚﹗」

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當有先性後婚的引誘時，真愛會說：「不﹗我們要先結婚才行﹗」

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讓我們一起結婚吧﹗

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情慾是以自我為中心；真愛是自我犧牲

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「愛是…不求自己的益處」林前 13 ：

4,5

「愛是…不求自己的益處」林前 13 ：

4,5

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情慾祇顧慮：我想要甚麼﹗

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真愛會顧慮：你想要甚麼﹗

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激情是靠碰運氣而得；真愛是由上天精心設計

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引領以撒和利百加的上帝，也會引導

你和我。創 24 ： 10-15

引領以撒和利百加的上帝，也會引導

你和我。創 24 ： 10-15

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情慾是來自撒旦，真愛是來自上帝

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情慾情慾的的創始人創始人情慾情慾的的創始人創始人

真愛真愛的的創始人創始人真愛真愛的的創始人創始人

真愛不是出真愛不是出自荷里活自荷里活﹗﹗

真愛是來自天國﹗真愛是來自天國﹗

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「上帝就「上帝就是愛」是愛」

約壹約壹 44 ：：88

一切真愛是一切真愛是來自上帝來自上帝﹗﹗

「上帝就「上帝就是愛」是愛」

約壹約壹 44 ：：88

一切真愛是一切真愛是來自上帝來自上帝﹗﹗

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根據以上根據以上七點標準，七點標準，我的愛情我的愛情觀有多少觀有多少分？分？

根據以上根據以上七點標準，七點標準，我的愛情我的愛情觀有多少觀有多少分？分？

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我怎樣改善我的我怎樣改善我的愛情生活？愛情生活？

我怎樣改善我的我怎樣改善我的愛情生活？愛情生活？

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第　 1　步

體驗主耶穌寶貴的大愛

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「人為朋友捨命，「人為朋友捨命，人的愛心沒有人的愛心沒有

比這個大的。」比這個大的。」約約 1515 ：： 1313

這是星期四晚上。

我們的救主在客西馬尼

園跪下禱告﹗

這是星期四晚上。

我們的救主在客西馬尼

園跪下禱告﹗

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「耶穌極其傷痛，禱告更加懇切，汗珠如大血點，滴在

地上。」路 22 ： 44

「耶穌極其傷痛，禱告更加懇切，汗珠如大血點，滴在

地上。」路 22 ： 44

撒旦細聲說：‧猶大出賣你﹗‧彼得不認你﹗‧所有人離棄你！‧人向你吐唾沬！‧返回天庭吧！祂大可以一走了之！祂跟這個決定搏鬥汗水如大血點！

但祂看到幾世紀後祂看到你和我！祂說：

「我決定走上髑髏地！」

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祂死在髑髏地

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「到了一個地方，名叫髑髏地，就在那裏把耶穌釘在十字架上。」路 23 ： 33

「到了一個地方，名叫髑髏地，就在那裏把耶穌釘在十字架上。」路 23 ： 33

• 看祂兩次受鞭打，看祂兩次受鞭打，每次每次 3939 下，血下，血流滿背！流滿背！

• 感受鐵釘釘破祂感受鐵釘釘破祂的手和腳的肉！的手和腳的肉！

• 聽祂呼喊：「我聽祂呼喊：「我的上帝啊！為甚的上帝啊！為甚麼離棄我？」麼離棄我？」

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髑髏地「看見祂的憂傷和愛從頭、手、腳夾雜流露出來；在哪兒有過愛和憂傷一起來的？又或者有過一個由荊棘織成的冠冕？」

祂理智和精神上的痛苦比肉體的痛苦更甚﹗

‧男女老幼的罪‧世上各國的罪‧各世代的罪

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‧謀殺者恐怖手法‧賊人的神出鬼沒‧犯姦淫者的罪！‧搶掠者的憤怒！衝擊著耶穌的思想！這種痛苦非言語可形容！

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之後耶穌覺得自己越漂越遠﹗越漂越遠﹗距離上帝很遠，很遠！

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因此祂大聲呼喊：「我的上帝，我的上帝，為甚麼離棄我？」

何等無比的大愛！

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降服在耶穌的愛

第　 2　步

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耶穌問彼得三次！

「你愛我麼？」

約 21 ： 15-17

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今天晚上，

耶穌向你們

發同樣的問

題：「你們

真的愛我

麼？」

今天晚上，

耶穌向你們

發同樣的問

題：「你們

真的愛我

麼？」

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耶穌因愛我，把祂的生命給我。

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我因愛耶穌，把自己的生命交給祂。

「我將所有獻給耶穌」「我將所有獻給耶穌」「我將所有獻給耶穌」「我將所有獻給耶穌」

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愛我的配偶就像基督愛我。

第　 3　步

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「你們要彼此相愛，像我愛你們一樣，這就是我

的命令。」約 15 ： 12

「你們要彼此相愛，像我愛你們一樣，這就是我

的命令。」約 15 ： 12

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愛我的配偶愛我的配偶

好像基督好像基督

愛我。愛我。

愛我的配偶愛我的配偶

好像基督好像基督

愛我。愛我。

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「我的耶穌，我愛你，我知你屬我。」